Post: #3551

^Take a train to Newcastle !

Post: #3552

Was kicking around the city for about 4 hours yesterday, for a grand total of two so so approachs. Despite it being a decent autumn day.

Post: #3553

(05-27-2018 04:30 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  ^Take a train to Newcastle !

Newcastle even smaller. But then what, even if I get the numbers and get replies, it will create a logistical nightmare with me living in Auld Reekie, a girl in Newcastle.

Post: #3554

Guys, so more often these days I spot many girls (6s and above) wearing earplugs and seemingly completely taken by music, they don’t even take em off when they have to pay after shopping etc, many do give a very rude look if I do eye contact, like dont disturb!
So what are the experts’ advice on this? Try to talk to her in spite of the bitchy shield?

Post: #3555

(05-28-2018 03:03 PM)LuckyBird Wrote:  Guys, so more often these days I spot many girls (6s and above) wearing earplugs and seemingly completely taken by music, they don’t even take em off when they have to pay after shopping etc, many do give a very rude look if I do eye contact, like dont disturb!
So what are the experts’ advice on this? Try to talk to her in spite of the bitchy shield?

Work on your mindset. You need to develop entitlement and conviction. if you don't have them, you'll need to grind them out. Literally. A first year student at a drama school has neither conviction he can captivate his audience and get a standing ovation nor expects the audience to pay attention.

An old pro takes it for granted. He knows he earned his entitlement to have his audience follow each and every facial expression of his due to his greatness as well as a conviction his audience will absorb every uttered word from his mouth.

You still don't feel, list most men, to be in a position of (perceived) superiority and being a prize. You have a dick, you were designed by evolution to be a fucking machine. You have something that girls can't give to themselves - masculinity, live dick, and romance. Re-masculinise yourself. First step, start to look at girls as if you saw them naked and never, NEVER break eye contact from girls you deem worthy of having sex with. Do it enough and you'll see amazing reactions. Add dominant, lazy lion's body movement, posture and language, speak low and slow, dress like a powerful man and someone who expects people would listen to him. Take drama and improv classes if you must. Join debating society or Toastmasters . Be generally successful and contented in who you are. Exude unshakable confidence. Free weights and heavy full body resistance training helps too. Eat healthily. Be groomed. Be well-read. Become a master in your chosen profession or other activity. Do something unique in your life you can talk about with pride. All of these help but the fastest route is just to approach hot girls and have sex with ever so slightly more attractive ones - it will create an ascending, positive feedback loop.

Post: #3556

Finally a few approach-worthy quality university-aged girls before getting a haircut.

Approach #1
I saw a chick lying down on the grass on the park.
Thank goodness she didn't have her earphones in.
I chatted her up about whether she went to a beach.
I guessed if she was German but she was actually American and is on exchange for six weeks.
We talked about different potential areas to go in the US and places to go in my city.
I couldn't help but tease her about her state of Texas being a place of unapologetic gun toting.
Eventually I suggested we meet for coffee.
She gave me one number then I called.
It didn't go through.
"She gives her numbers all the time"
Then she had to show me her actual number from her registration of her Australian mobile number and the missed call went through.
Then we went out separate ways.

As usual I'll have low expectations if she doesn't respond since I had to probe for her actual mobile number.


Approach #2
I saw a girl in a fitness outfit and as she walked but I did the turn around and approach since she had her earphones in.
She looked Indian but I suspected she was a Latina.
She was a Latina but refused to say which country she was from and she was only here for a few days.
I talked a little while about my city and got her to chat about her time a little before she wanted to move on.

Post: #3557

^ She actually responded. Game on.
It's gym day and I hoped there's a girl worth approaching.

Approach #1
She's walking in the same direction until I did the smile and raised hand of Jesus since she had her earphones on.
I asked if she was Turkish but she said she was actually Brazilian.
At that point I wish I could understand Portugese and maybe Spanish.
She came to Australia to enjoy the weather and learn English. She wasn’t fond of the weather since she arrived not far from winter.
She also talked about Brazil, her time visiting Koh Phi Phi Island and her intention to do a tour around Australia.
Brazilians are far more warm in personality compared to the cold, run-of-the-mill German.
Then I suggested we get a coffee.
She showed me her number on her phone and away we went.

Post: #3558

Story: me and my bros booked a seat at this high-rise party place. Party doesn't start till 2 hours later so I was stuck on my own at a mall looking for some ways to kill time.

Head over to the "bars" section of the mall. Lights are yellow and more cozy, walked into this bar place and taken a set at the bar. Saw a cute Asian girl who dyed her hair bright orange/yellow but she was out of range. Ask the waiter (boy) for a menu so I have a reason to stick around without ordering anything. They done so, gave me the menu. I sat myself pretty close to the cashier so I can chat her up when she comes closer. Talking was not really ideal because the bar width was like 1 meter apart and I'm already having some trouble hearing people over that distance.

I opened up to her with very simple and harmless subject: "Hey, so would you recommend that's strong here?" then go about how most of the drinks I've had around here aren't strong. There she smiled, answers enthusiastically because I asked her about a topic she definitely knows about (she's the bartender -- of course she knows about her drinks) and from there I can also judge her IOI and receptiveness. Seems to be very strong, she gave a whole minute of talking and smiling. I went on teasing about "Oh really? Maybe you can make me something stronger, with more alcohol %. Cause I look small but I never blacked out in my life". She goes about how she can make the fire on the drink stuff and I approved of her, making it seem like she's the one trying to game me and invest in me. Then I dropped in my "I love your hair btw, very stylish", she smiles and blushes with her "oh, thank you". Then I go back into my menu reading as to avoid awkwardness of not following that up. She knows what's up after I dropped that compliment line.

She went away and I asked the waiter (boy) for the wifi password. And it was super hard and loud, so I was like, "uh, you can just take my phone lol" and I noticed her on the side looking at me and laughing as well -- that's it, she's definitely down and into me. I get my drink played with my phone a little bit and before I left for my party. I made a few more conversation with her, more into the intro phase like: are you from around here? I just got here from US, looking to party with friends. So what are the cool party places around here. Then I n-closed her with "do you have Whatsapp or Line? We should go for a drink" and she yes enthusiastically. Goes to the cashier writes her name, number and line in a piece of paper with her feminine handwriting and hands it over to me. I was like this is your name? Oh unique. A last bit of compliment and left. Totally classic.

Fast forward. Invited her to my party. No resistance at all. Hugged, pulled her hand. Meet my friends. Give her a few shots. Made out like 2 teenagers in love. Sealed the deal.

Post: #3559

Yesterday after a bit of walking around I saw a girl who was looking for sushi.

Approach A1:
I asked if she was Norweigan but she was actually Polish-German.
“I came to Germany when I was 5”
She is here working for a short time and I talked about my time in Warsaw.
We talked about living in Australia for a bit and she liked living in my city.
After a bit of small talk I suggested getting a drink.
She responded with a lot of “don’t know” and more of “don’t know”.
Eventually I just gave up and moved on.


Today I was in a bit of a hurry but as I was walking I saw a girl next to a door under the sheltered section of a building on a smoko break. She is one of the better looking ones and dyed her hair blue.
I looked, walked over and chatted her up right away.

Approach B1:
I guessed if she was a cosplayer type.
“Nooo I’m just a hairdresser.”
I was wondering if she was the type who went to music festivals.
She used to work at Stereosonic, the so called music festival which is a haven for bimbos and dudebros. Groovin the Moo. Splendour in the grass. The lot.
Eventually I suggested that we should go get a drink sometime.
She said she has a boyfriend but we can be friends
I quickly changed the topic to how they met
“We met on a big night out”
“Alright I gotta go now”

Then as I went off I regretted not getting her number for potential social circle game.

Post: #3560

Just realized I haven't posted in weeks from my diary on my "100 approaches on American girls" experiment. My last post ( a few pages back here) stopped at approach number 23. So here's 23 - 43:


24. Girl doing pharmacy school work upstairs at whole food while I was eating lunch. Opened her about her laptop. She asked you a few questions including your name. She was moving out west in 30 days. I asked her out and she said she had a boyfriend.
25. Saw a cute young tall fit girl in yoga pants and t shirt waiting on food at grocery. After she got a drink from the cooler, I asked her if she did yoga. She said no, she didn’t like it. Chatted for a few minutes and told her you’d recently relocated to the area. She asked where you worked but didn’t really seem interested. She was polite and smiling a bit with on and off eye contact but seemed distracted. You asked her name and she didn’t ask yours so you let her go.
26. Caroline…5/12: tall hot blonde sorority looking girl in yoga pants in the bulk food section at whole foods. You opened her asking if bulk food was a good way to save money. It lead to friendly conversation. At the end you told her she seemed cool and was cute and asked to meet out. She said okay and you swapped numbers. She did not return your initial text. You called a few days later and she did not answer. The next day she did send me a text though. I texted the following Friday about going out and she texted she was baby sitting. I called her later that evening and talked for about 7 or 8 minutes. she was laughing a bit on the phone. I asked her out on the next evening or two and she said she’d “let me know” I never heard from her and it’s been 3 days so probably ain’t happening. still, a mid 40s guy chatting with a top sorority girl at a local college is something. she gave me her full name so I saw this on her FB page.
27. 5/14….Maddy at the gym….opened her with telling her she wasn’t doing her workout right as she was too focused and needed to be snapchatting. She thought it was funny. I used playful arrogant humor. We chatted for 7 minutes. I suggested to get together sometime and got her number. She texted back and we set a date for a few days ahead. I've been on 2 good dates with her. Got her back to my place but not sealed the deal yet. She's out of town this week but we're supposed to get together again after the weekend.
28. 5/12….Approached girl at whole foods. She was wearing a Johnny Cash shirt. As we talked, I noticed she wasn’t as cute as I thought so I bailed.
29. 5.13…Approached a white girl with decent body at whole foods.. she had too many piercings and wasn’t that great in the face so I bailed.
30. 5.17 : Jaclyn: sitting at merit coffee. Cute mid to late 20s brunette sits next to me with her coffee. I do my work for 10 more minutes then start to pack to leave. “Excuse me, is that a good laptop?” it’s a beat up HP. I tell her my friend has one just like that he’s going to sell me for peanuts. We talk about it for a few minutes. I comment on her accent. Shes originally from Ohio. She asks where I’m from and my name after I ask hers. About 6 minute conversation. As I leave I tell her she’s cool and cute and does she want to get together again. Her eyes light up and she gushes when I say this. “well, I actually have a boyfriend” “oh..sounds serious” I say. She says it “kind of is” but is like “ we could still …” I say I don’t really want to be her boyfriend and we could do coffee sometime. She agrees. I get the number and text an hour later. She texted back within 20 minutes. I’ll ping her next week and probe.
31. 5.18…Ashley..Saw a young fit latina girl at the coffee shop. I waited for her to walk and and followed her. I asked her if the iced coffee was good here. we chatted about her coffee and drinking tea too. She worked at the local café. Strong eye contact and some cocky joking on my part. When I suggested a meetup..she said ‘okay but as friends’ I didn’t force the issue. You texted her and she texted back after work (about 4 hours later that day) I’ll call her Sunday evening for a date…will update.
32. 5.19 - walking through Trader Joes on a Saturday. Saw a stunning tall athletic brunette. I think she saw me walking to her as she kind of smirked then looked away. I opened her asking if she did yoga. She said she worked in a local place and we talked about that. She was very alpha and fast talking and I tried to keep the conversation going but think I may have lost frame a little bit. She started walking off with her grocery cart and you just let her go. In retrospect you probably could have opened direct and had a better chance of holding frame and assuming attraction. You got a little nervous at the end because she was very alpha and assertive and hot.
33. 5.19…about 6:30 pm at whole foods. I saw a hot tall blonde in tight yoga pants. I was thinking about approaching her when I noticed a hot tall brunette with slightly more athletic, svelte muscular body…which I like better. So, I approached her. “excuse me, do you do yoga by chance” she said no. she had just been riding her bike. We chatted about places to ride around town. I threw in some cocky humor about how I was in such perfect physical condition I didn’t need to go to the gym but only go there to look at myself in the mirror. She laughed. She asked where I was from. At the end I suggested to get together again and she seemed cool. She said “I can’t, I’m sorry I have a boyfriend” I’m inclined to believe her as these 8s and 9s (she was a high 8 or 9 in my book) are usually locked down. It turns out the hot blonde was her good friend she was there with. No surprise. Birds of a feather. I think if her friend hadn’t been lurking close I may could have got her IG and swapped mine just to remain on the “slow burn” she was warm, friendly and the eye contact was strong even when we said goodbye.
• So far…32 approaches - 7 numbers. 1 linkedin. 1 IG swap (she blocked you right after) 0 dates, 0 bangs. Will be trying to line up dates with Maddy and Ashley in the next few days. All other girls I tried to line up dates with(who I got numbers from) ended up ghosting.
34. 5.20: Molly : walking through grocery and saw attractive mid 20s blonde in yoga pants down one aisle. I walked down and picked up a candle. I said”I don’t guess you can smell these” as the tops seem sealed on them. She said “no you can” and showed me how. I engaged for a minute or so about candles and why I was looking for one ( which I wasn’t) I switched to my usual comment about her accent and if she was from this area, which she was. She was very cute…green eyes, great face, lips and teeth and body. She asked where I was from. When we shook hands she asked my name. I suggested us to get together and she said “I have a pretty serious boyfriend…we live together” I got her instagram anyway and she said “okay see you on the internet”
35. 5.20.18 - Was sitting with my friend at whole foods and saw tall brunette with yoga pants walk by. I tracked her down to the produce section and opened “excuse me, do you do yoga.” I think she said she did and we talked about that a few minutes. I used some playfully arrogant humor. Good eye contact and energy. She asked me about myself. I asked her what she liked to do for fun in the city. When I asked her name she asked mine back. I suggested we talk about and she said “ I have a boyfriend” I pushed a little saying “hmm sounds serious. Is the wedding anytime soon” she laughed a little and said they hadn’t scheduled that yet. When I persisted she started to avert eye contact and pretend to go back to shopping. I took the hint and departed with “nice to chat with you.”
36. 5.21.18: Walking through the produce section you saw a decent looking brunette with (of freaking course) yoga pants. You asked her about yoga…initiated a conversation. You ran through your usual routine with accent/ fun things to do in town, etc. She seemed a little in a hurry to get back to shopping and you felt no strong chemistry like with your last several approaches so you let her go.
*** was up to about 41 approaches but my piece of shit computer lost the last ones I saved. None of them amounted to anything.
42. 5.30.18 – Christina : was at the library and saw a cute latina girl with cut off jeans and nice muscular legs looking at the computer. I hovered then approached from the side “Excuse me miss, can you tell me where the reference books are?” her: I’m not sure…do you need to use the computer? Me: “ don’t you work here? you’re standing next to the computer like you work here.” Her: No, ha I’m just looking for books. Me. I’m just kidding, I actually saw you while I was walking by and thought you looked nice” She kind of smiled. We chatted for about 5 minutes. Strong eye contact. She asked me several questions. I got the digits and she texted me back pretty quickly. I will ask her out later today.
43. 5.31. – Andi - I was walking down the sidewalk to my apartment and a young cute white girl with thick muscular thighs/nice legs and short pants was walking past. We made eye contact and smiled some. “Excuse me” she stopped. “How are you?” she says “good”. “this is super random but I just saw you and thought you looked nice and I wanted to say hello” she just stands there looking and listening. I told her she looked like she was on a mission then also some dumb shit about how she reminded me of some of the ladies I saw in Europe blah blah. We chatted a few minutes. When I held eye contact she looked away as if she didn’t really want it to get “too serious” after 4 or so minutes she said she needed to go because she was a nanny and the kids were up in the apartment and she just came out to move her car. I said “okay, would you like to talk again sometime?” she said okay and I got the number. She did not text me back.
** So far – 43 approaches: 9 numbers , 2 to 4 instagrams, 2 dates (with the same girl) 0 bangs. Things are in the works with some of the girls: “works in progress”

Post: #3561

(06-01-2018 12:01 PM)robreke Wrote:  Just realized I haven't posted in weeks from my diary on my "100 approaches on American girls" experiment. My last post ( a few pages back here) stopped at approach number 23.

[...]

So far – 43 approaches: 9 numbers , 2 to 4 instagrams, 2 dates (with the same girl) 0 bangs. Things are in the works with some of the girls: “works in progress”

I like that experiment. The 0 bangs is really the only thing that doesn't "sit well". The number closing ratio seems normal for a guy who approaches much younger women.

Post: #3562

(06-02-2018 06:56 AM)Trent W. Wrote:  

(06-01-2018 12:01 PM)robreke Wrote:  Just realized I haven't posted in weeks from my diary on my "100 approaches on American girls" experiment. My last post ( a few pages back here) stopped at approach number 23.

[...]

So far – 43 approaches: 9 numbers , 2 to 4 instagrams, 2 dates (with the same girl) 0 bangs. Things are in the works with some of the girls: “works in progress”

I like that experiment. The 0 bangs is really the only thing that doesn't "sit well". The number closing ratio seems normal for a guy who approaches much younger women.

That's day game in metro US cities (or any Westernized ) city for you. Watch Tom Torero's video on "day game statistics". He says anywhere from 1 in 30 to 1 in 100 approaches for a bang. By the way, he's approaching in many non- Western countries where bangs are, arguably, easier. It maybe skewed a little for me due to my age. I'm confident I'll get one or more by 100 or before. Night game rates would be better.

In addition, I did day game in Colombia last year a few times. I had two bangs within 20 approaches and a few more dates that might have lead to bangs eventually had I lived there long term.

At least as far as cold approach day game goes, US women value themselves more highly and sell themselves more dearly.

Post: #3563

(06-02-2018 07:23 AM)robreke Wrote:  

(06-02-2018 06:56 AM)Trent W. Wrote:  

(06-01-2018 12:01 PM)robreke Wrote:  Just realized I haven't posted in weeks from my diary on my "100 approaches on American girls" experiment. My last post ( a few pages back here) stopped at approach number 23.

[...]

So far – 43 approaches: 9 numbers , 2 to 4 instagrams, 2 dates (with the same girl) 0 bangs. Things are in the works with some of the girls: “works in progress”

I like that experiment. The 0 bangs is really the only thing that doesn't "sit well". The number closing ratio seems normal for a guy who approaches much younger women.

That's day game in metro US cities (or any Westernized ) city for you. Watch Tom Torero's video on "day game statistics". He says anywhere from 1 in 30 to 1 in 100 approaches for a bang. By the way, he's approaching in many non- Western countries where bangs are, arguably, easier. It maybe skewed a little for me due to my age. I'm confident I'll get one or more by 100 or before. Night game rates would be better.

In addition, I did day game in Colombia last year a few times. I had two bangs within 20 approaches and a few more dates that might have lead to bangs eventually had I lived there long term.

At least as far as cold approach day game goes, US women value themselves more highly and sell themselves more dearly.

I agree. Your closes would be higher in EE and I assume SA countries.

Post: #3564

(06-01-2018 12:01 PM)robreke Wrote:  Just realized I haven't posted in weeks from my diary on my "100 approaches on American girls" experiment. My last post ( a few pages back here) stopped at approach number 23. So here's 23 - 43:

Thx for these. Very helpful/ encouraging. nice quote too. Maybe play the daddy role a little bit, and be more direct- "Do you like older men?"/ "Do you like silver foxes?" before you grab the #.

Post: #3565

(06-02-2018 07:23 AM)robreke Wrote:  

(06-02-2018 06:56 AM)Trent W. Wrote:  

(06-01-2018 12:01 PM)robreke Wrote:  Just realized I haven't posted in weeks from my diary on my "100 approaches on American girls" experiment. My last post ( a few pages back here) stopped at approach number 23.

[...]

So far – 43 approaches: 9 numbers , 2 to 4 instagrams, 2 dates (with the same girl) 0 bangs. Things are in the works with some of the girls: “works in progress”

I like that experiment. The 0 bangs is really the only thing that doesn't "sit well". The number closing ratio seems normal for a guy who approaches much younger women.

That's day game in metro US cities (or any Westernized ) city for you. Watch Tom Torero's video on "day game statistics". He says anywhere from 1 in 30 to 1 in 100 approaches for a bang. By the way, he's approaching in many non- Western countries where bangs are, arguably, easier. It maybe skewed a little for me due to my age. I'm confident I'll get one or more by 100 or before. Night game rates would be better.

Intermediate should be reaching batt(l)ing average 1/50 with the assumption the girl is: younger, hotter, tighter than the player

Post: #3566

If I could guess, since I got to Belgrade I've done 50 approaches, maybe more. This past week I've been trying to do 5 a day, so there is a lot of ground to catch up in coming days.

Openers: 50 percent of the time it's asking for a lighter. Other 50 percent of the time is improvised--usually something about what she's wearing, asking if they speak serbian, asking for crazy simple directions, etc. (I ask for a lighter if I see one, the chick smoking or a pack of cigs within her reach). I've also done some approaches with my wing's dog (which helps).

So far: 3 numbers. 1st number is ghosting. 2nd didn't pick up the one time I called her. 3rd number says she'll text me today. So there you have it, 3 number for 50 or so approaches in Belgrade.

If the approach isn't an immediate blowout, the sets can go well. Had one really good set but the wing I was with was being too aggressive.

As soon as we start talking about art, culture, music, or the girl's studies, I feel a lot more at ease. I try to remain mysterious and flippant about why I am in Belgrade (I have no fucking clue honestly why I'm in Belgrade to begin with). Sometimes i find it helps to tell the girls the neighborhood I live in (because it's nice, and maybe they can get a better idea about the type of expat I am in Belgrade). I also like to ask the girls if they're "really" from Belgrade, and make them qualify themselves to me. I try to keep talking generally, and make jokes about being from the US, and make jokes about trying to become a "real" Belgrader.

Girls that are 18-20 I vibe really well with, despite being closer to 25. I will not give out IG or Facebook, it's basically useless.

My sets with wings have been much better than my sets without. Plus, they can translate if the girl's english is basic.

I think serbians are natural gamers, it's just that they don't seem to consciously make approaches, rather, they meet a lot of girls through social circles.

I would welcome comments, criticism, analysis from anyone in the Balkans, or who knows a bit about EE girls.

Stopped jerking off and porn about 10 days ago, and now I'm approaching more than I ever have in my life. If I don't manage 5 approaches a day, I feel unaccomplished. I have no plans at all to revert back to these toxic habits.

I am rotating my gaming spots out of paranoia, and to avoid being in the same exact environment daily.

Post: #3567

Pretty terrible talent lately with the weather getting colder.

Approach #1
I saw a brunette on the street standing there.
Just as I asked her if she was in my city, no more than 10 seconds in she had to leave because her bus came right there and she had to leave.

Going indoors and as I walked I spotted a fine blonde that stood out.
Approach #2
"Hello are you Finnish?"
"Whoa how did you know?"
"You have that Scandinavian look I have seen across Europe"
So I kept telling her how I met many Swedish, Norweigan and Finnish people in Europe.
I was guessing she parties in Tallinn and how they come by the ferryload from Helsinki to Tallinn and talked about where the Finnish go and party.
"We go to Tallinn, Canary Islands, Spain, Portugal. I'm very jealous you have Bali!"
I continued joking about how Bali is the 2nd Australia and imitated the British accent about how they've overrun Prague when I went there.
Then I went on about Finnish culture and she explained how many Finnish households have their own sauna and it's OK to go walk around full frontal in them.
"So saunas, vodka, sex?"
"Pretty much we're open minded people."
She still went on how I managed to correctly guess on the first go she was Finnish and I kept justifying how I've seen a few Scandinavian people here and abroad.
Then she had to check her phone and said "Sorry I have to go I have to meet a friend"
I suggested we go get a drink and promptly introduced herself to me with her characteristic Finnish/Estonian name and gave me her number without hesitation before shaking my hand and walking off.

Post: #3568

(06-05-2018 05:14 AM)JekyllAndHyde Wrote:  Pretty terrible talent lately with the weather getting colder.

Approach #1
I saw a brunette on the street standing there.
Just as I asked her if she was in my city, no more than 10 seconds in she had to leave because her bus came right there and she had to leave.

Going indoors and as I walked I spotted a fine blonde that stood out.
Approach #2
"Hello are you Finnish?"
"Whoa how did you know?"
"You have that Scandinavian look I have seen across Europe"
So I kept telling her how I met many Swedish, Norweigan and Finnish people in Europe.
I was guessing she parties in Tallinn and how they come by the ferryload from Helsinki to Tallinn and talked about where the Finnish go and party.
"We go to Tallinn, Canary Islands, Spain, Portugal. I'm very jealous you have Bali!"
I continued joking about how Bali is the 2nd Australia and imitated the British accent about how they've overrun Prague when I went there.
Then I went on about Finnish culture and she explained how many Finnish households have their own sauna and it's OK to go walk around full frontal in them.
"So saunas, vodka, sex?"
"Pretty much we're open minded people."
She still went on how I managed to correctly guess on the first go she was Finnish and I kept justifying how I've seen a few Scandinavian people here and abroad.
Then she had to check her phone and said "Sorry I have to go I have to meet a friend"
I suggested we go get a drink and promptly introduced herself to me with her characteristic Finnish/Estonian name and gave me her number without hesitation before shaking my hand and walking off.

I seem to run into quite a few Finns. For such a small country there seems to be a lot of them in Australia. Generally pretty cool people.

Post: #3569

After some errands looking for a different area to approach girls on the street I spotted a girl walking back and forth between two shops looking for someone.

Approach #1
I started with
"Do you speak German?" and was betting that she wasn't German.
She smiled for a bit
"Sorry I don't"
Her facial reaction returned to normal.
I told her about my visit to Germany and briefly the places she's been to.
Then I asked what she was doing in Australia and how long is she here for.

She was going to be here for one month and managed to double up on working holiday visas or something of the like to avoid working on a farm, I didn't get too many details.
Eventually she said she was waiting for a 'friend' then I suggested we get some drinks sometime.
She said she is dating someone already. Then I just went with the usual "it was nice talking to you" and moved on.

(06-05-2018 05:55 AM)Bluey Wrote:  

(06-05-2018 05:14 AM)JekyllAndHyde Wrote:  Pretty terrible talent lately with the weather getting colder.

Approach #1
I saw a brunette on the street standing there.
Just as I asked her if she was in my city, no more than 10 seconds in she had to leave because her bus came right there and she had to leave.

Going indoors and as I walked I spotted a fine blonde that stood out.
Approach #2
"Hello are you Finnish?"
"Whoa how did you know?"
"You have that Scandinavian look I have seen across Europe"
So I kept telling her how I met many Swedish, Norweigan and Finnish people in Europe.
I was guessing she parties in Tallinn and how they come by the ferryload from Helsinki to Tallinn and talked about where the Finnish go and party.
"We go to Tallinn, Canary Islands, Spain, Portugal. I'm very jealous you have Bali!"
I continued joking about how Bali is the 2nd Australia and imitated the British accent about how they've overrun Prague when I went there.
Then I went on about Finnish culture and she explained how many Finnish households have their own sauna and it's OK to go walk around full frontal in them.
"So saunas, vodka, sex?"
"Pretty much we're open minded people."
She still went on how I managed to correctly guess on the first go she was Finnish and I kept justifying how I've seen a few Scandinavian people here and abroad.
Then she had to check her phone and said "Sorry I have to go I have to meet a friend"
I suggested we go get a drink and promptly introduced herself to me with her characteristic Finnish/Estonian name and gave me her number without hesitation before shaking my hand and walking off.

I seem to run into quite a few Finns. For such a small country there seems to be a lot of them in Australia. Generally pretty cool people.

I can't exactly pinpoint where they concentrate otherwise I'd be hitting up where they are.

Post: #3570

I've been set up recently with a woman my own age by a mutual female friend.
Went out for breakfast and she is very feminine and conservative, I had a pretty good time but get the impression that she is a bit boring and older than I would usually consider for a relationship.

Messaged her once during the week about the coming weekend and said I'd call her tonight.
Called her tonight and she is at the movies and wants to call me back tomorrow.
It's Friday night. It's probably another guy.

Posting here for accountability recognizing I should back things right off.

Post: #3571

It's getting cooler and darker and the women that mainly meet my standards on the street are waiting at bus stops where their buses come at any time.
I can't wait for warmer weather to return and most likely the Western Europeans are going to come flooding back in.
Got to make do with what's around.

I don't set a hard and fast rule that I must start either indirectly or directly as it's entirely situationally dependent. Every interaction started indirectly this time.

Approach #1
I guessed if she was European.
Nope she is from Colombia.
I then asked about Bogota and Medellin.
"You been there?"
"No. But I am deciding between Europe, South-East Asia and Latin America"
Then her bus came.
Drats.

Approach #2
An Aussie 8 in office attire.
I asked about if she works here.
She doesn't but not long after talking about the place she says "my partner works in that building".
Yep I'm glad she mentioned that early so it doesn't waste out time.
Then I asked about the industries that work here to progressively end the conversation rather than end it abruptly.
Then it ended there.

Approach #3
At a major bus stop I saw a nicely dressed chick then I chatted her up about the university nearby and how the environment has changed.
It didn't take very long until her friend just rocked up and she said bye and all.

(06-08-2018 08:18 AM)Mig Picante Wrote:  I've been set up recently with a woman my own age by a mutual female friend.
Went out for breakfast and she is very feminine and conservative, I had a pretty good time but get the impression that she is a bit boring and older than I would usually consider for a relationship.

Messaged her once during the week about the coming weekend and said I'd call her tonight.
Called her tonight and she is at the movies and wants to call me back tomorrow.
It's Friday night. It's probably another guy.

Posting here for accountability recognizing I should back things right off.

If I could get a dollar by yelling "Man the harpoons!" everytime I saw a land whale I'd be rich.
I could make more approaches if I simply lowered my standards below say universal/RVF scale of 6.

Post: #3572

I've been out of game for a long time due to low libido and what not. But I'm making a comeback. Opened a girl in the supermarket.

Hey, I see you eat healthy foods (bullshit)
Yeah I do.

I noticed an identity card hanging from her pocket.

What is this?
I study medicine
So you wanna become a doctor
Yeah
What kind of doctor?
A vet
You seem to be new here
2 years
Pretty new


She was an 8 and was smiling. I was making strong eye contact and she even leaned towards me. I've had problems with low libido but now I was getting an erection from just talking to her.

She: where are you from?
This is a tricky question for me and from experience I'd better not to tell the truth.


I live here
what do you do?

Instead of telling her a straight answer I told her the motto of the university (applied to myself), which sounds funny. But I don't know why girls don't react to it well. Or maybe I seemed trying to be too mysterious.

I sometimes hang out around the pond near your department.
Ok it was nice to talk to you.
Wanna have a drink some time?
I have a boyfriend


I didn't vibe enough. I need to work on this. I could've said "so you'll be doing open heart surgeries on horses!"
But why girls are repulsed by fluff talk so much?

Post: #3573

Many girls are different just got to find the right one.

Just outside a variety shop I saw an Eastern European looking chick.

Approach #1
"Hi are you Lithuanian?"
"No I am from Slovakia" she said.
"You are the second person I met from Slovakia! Since Poland"
I lie. I've came across a few Slovakians home and abroad.
She told me she was on a working holiday for a few months and done farmwork.

Then she casually mentioned her boyfriend.
I asked her if she met him in my city through meetup.
"No I don't do those website things. Thank you for talking to me."

If she didn't mention her boyfriend I'd be more direct later.

Not even outside universities in the early evening can guarantee a good flow of university aged chicks at least approachable ones.
That's enough here I wouldn't want to turn this into a mental masturbation thread.

Post: #3574

My approach technique (works pretty well) :

"Hello, I just saw you and I found that you have gorgeous hips. Your legs look powerful and functional."

Post: #3575

Was in a tech meetup.
70% guys, and most of the girls were ugly.

Approach #1
Went to the hostess. A slim 5"6, black dress and high heals.
Engaged her for a minute, but she was busy arranging stuff. So it fell.

Approach #2
Saw a cute slim girl, 5"8, plain clothes with the look of "I'm not sure what I'm doing here, can someone please rescue me?"
CHALLENGE ACCEPTED
Went up and introduced myself (we wore name tags).
Opened with my version of "Cows and Bulls" (She had one identical letter in her given name).
She was hooked and I started my usual engagement. We talked about her (She's in UX) and I moved to light touching and gentle strokes.
I was able to lead the conversation, but she was not giving me any positive indications. Told her to connect with me on LinkedIN.
I'll have to see if I can move forward from there.

Approach #3
After the meetup, I notice a 2-set of 5s. I know, I know.
Went in, waited for a pause and then went with a situational. The conversation was going well, but they were both married. Told them to connect with me on LinkedIN (I collect people) and moved on.

All in all, the meetup was interesting. I was not eager, as I banged one of my harem earlier. Maybe I should come more horny.