Post: #3576

Approach #1
I forgot the details.
This is why I should just take 10 seconds to note down 'German girl' on my phone for approaches.
It went nowhere

Saturday nightgame
I drove to a beach side hotel/club and see how it was in winter.
The usual shit-test with bouncers to talk with a straight face and "yeah I met up with a couple of mates" and all that bullshit.
Better turnout than I expected and talent is better than what I approach during the day. Competition is quite stiff too. Definitely a few PUAs present too. So they come out at night.
Random dude talks to me because I am the only Asian dude there. Surfer looking dude who seems weird but I give him a benefit of a doubt.
We chat up a few girls but it goes nowhere.
He buys me the first round of beers, he still kept buying me beers but I watch the whole purchasing process so it doesn't get spiked just as a usual precaution.
The longest interaction I had was with a Polish girl with dreadlocks and surfer vibe who wants to move up Central-East Australia. Talks about how UK was much more vibrant as people go to pubs even on a Monday night. In Australia they'd all rather rot on a couch watching TV. She eventually goes off to get drinks. Runs home with her friend eventually as my impromptu wingman and I go talk to more girls.

My impromptu wingman touches some dude's abs thinking it was funny.
BIG. RED. FLAG.
Dude who got touched obviously responds with "Are you a faggot?" and the surfer looking dude looks aimlessly and just crashes on some couches eventually. I move away and on to approach more girls.

Lots of attention seeking girls. No matter how many other guys also approach them or how much fun they have playing with my hair they leave with their friends.

Today I had to head off to sports training.

I saw a tanned European looking girl
Approach #2
She had earphones on and I still did the hand of Jesus opener.
"Hello are you French?"
"No Italian"
My eyes lit up. I have Italian girls on my list of nationalities I give higher priority to pursue for a bang. (I'm all ears on how to more easily score Italian girls)
She said her English wasn't very good. She has to go to work.
I momentarily thought about how Italian dudes try and game girls or so long as she is a female and has a pulse in poor or broken English back in Europe and how I used to laugh with them.
I lost most of my Italian language skills since not practising it in high school.
"You here for volare (holiday)?"
She nodded yes. The language barrier is strong here.
She was still on a video call with some dude and he must have been looking lost.
"I have to go to work now" she said.
"You have Instagram?"
She gave me her Instagram. Probably in a relationship but I've been quite interested in Italian girls.
"Arrivederci" which I remembered as goodbye in Italian.

In the entitlement culture of Australia here's what I say about what you call 'daygame':
I am entitled to talk to your girlfriend.
She is entitled to say no.
So it works either way.

(06-17-2018 01:23 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  Was in a tech meetup.
70% guys, and most of the girls were ugly.

Approach #1
Went to the hostess. A slim 5"6, black dress and high heals.
Engaged her for a minute, but she was busy arranging stuff. So it fell.

Approach #2
Saw a cute slim girl, 5"8, plain clothes with the look of "I'm not sure what I'm doing here, can someone please rescue me?"
CHALLENGE ACCEPTED
Went up and introduced myself (we wore name tags).
Opened with my version of "Cows and Bulls" (She had one identical letter in her given name).
She was hooked and I started my usual engagement. We talked about her (She's in UX) and I moved to light touching and gentle strokes.
I was able to lead the conversation, but she was not giving me any positive indications. Told her to connect with me on LinkedIN.
I'll have to see if I can move forward from there.

Approach #3
After the meetup, I notice a 2-set of 5s. I know, I know.
Went in, waited for a pause and then went with a situational. The conversation was going well, but they were both married. Told them to connect with me on LinkedIN (I collect people) and moved on.

All in all, the meetup was interesting. I was not eager, as I banged one of my harem earlier. Maybe I should come more horny.

A hole is a goal.

Post: #3577

I decided to kill time walking through a major retail complex on a typical afternoon right before the evening. It's definitely getting cool now as almost everyone is wearing coats. Only a few months ago there were plenty of Western European chicks on their Aussie holiday here.

I wanted to see if there were any chicks worth approaching in the bookstore.

Approach #1
I overheard what seems to be an American accent when I looked to the woman and said:
"Are you American?"
"No I'm Canadian", she said.
Eventually I talked about needing to go to Canada for personal reasons.
She was from Alberta.
I told her why I went and how long is she in Australia for.
By this point I would start going direct but she has been living in Australia for 5 years.
"I'm married she said" and she even showed me her ring to prove it which I didn't notice earlier.
I continued to ask her a few more questions about where I plan to go in Canada anyway before heading off.

Approach #2
I went upstairs above a food court when I saw a brunette in a beanie and coat.
She looked good enough to approach at least from a distance.
"Hi do you know any good restaurants here?"
Boy oh boy the features on her face didn't align very well she was a 5 at best.
I continued to let her talk aimlessly about her limited knowledge of food choices.
Then I left her on her way.

Post: #3578

Yesterday after buying stuff I approached a girl playing with her phone outside since the talent around wasn’t the greatest. A 5.5 perhaps.
Approach A1:
I decided to use an indirect opener about phone reception.
Gave a sarcastic “No” as a response. Ok fuck that I should never stoop that low and just went the other way.


Today I was temporarily located in a different area for work so did my few approaches and errands accordingly.

Approach B1:
I saw a girl who had her luggage and seemed to be texting away on her phone. Her texting ceased shortly and asked if she just arrived in my city. She sure did and decided to go direct with “I wanted to talk to you because I thought you were cute”.
A smile ensued and after she told me she was French we talked about why she was here and she wasn’t going to be around for very long at a few weeks as she only wants to took advantage of the purchasing power because of our strong currency.
(1 AUD = 1.33 USD as of now come on it isn’t that strong)
I asked what she was up to and she was looking for her hotel as she just arrived from the airport today.
I suggested we go get some drinks sometime. She declined but had one more go but hinting at a little adventure if you catch my drift.
She said she was previously in a relationship with an Australian guy and it did not go well and said she was not here to look for boys.
Moving along.

Approach B2:
I saw two chicks with giant backpacks that are probably taller than they are.
They look like they're strong enough to do squats with barbells and as I’m a boobs man I’m glad the other one has larger boobs.
I approached them and asked them if they were from the United Kingdom.
They said they are actually from Germany. We talked about travels and I found out where Germans like to holiday and it seems Western Europe is their preferred place to go.
They were only in my city for two days but the more talkative one said she’ll come back later in the year as she is one of many Germans who love coming to Australia. (Yes please the more girls that come to my city the better).
Very good to hear but shame they weren’t sticking around for now.
I suggested she give me her Instagram and left them on their way to go get their bus.

Post: #3579

There's a young girl (21-22) that works at a bar near me and we hit it off around a year ago when i used to watch sport there with an attractive blonde friend of mine. We had a bit of banter and I would talk to her when i was there on my own and talk about her studies as we are both studying at uni (different universities and courses) So she thinks I am much younger than I am.

I headed out alone tonight and dropped into the bar where she works.
Walked in, she acknowledges me asks what I want?
Instead of replying I say Hi and ask her how she's going? I get a flat response I try to plow through and ask her about how she likes the changes they've made to the bar, added pool tables, gambling and more screens from the high end bar it used to be. She doesn't seem to remember or doesn't care. No problem I take it in my stride and remain friendly and unaffected. Maybe she's having a bad night.
I walk around a bit and then pul up a spot. I overheard her talking to other patrons and she's flat with everyone.

After I finish my first drink she comes over and ask if I want another? I ask her if they serve real pints? She says no they don't any more and I feign outrage and play with her a bit and make her laugh. It's still a bit transactional but she is nicer when returning change. (I'm aware she's probably playing for a tip but it's not customary here).

I finish my drink and the game I was watching ends. So I take my empty glass further up the bar to near her where she's talking to another customer. I interrupt them and with direct eye contact I wish goodnight and say thanks very much and see you later with a warm smile. She seems genuinely happy so maybe I startled her when I came in out of the blue. I'm going to have to go back next weekend and build up some rapport again through repeat visits.

I live nearby so will play a longer game to try get her out for a drink after she finishes work one time. I need to go in when it's quieter so I can chat to her about her studies and build up the comfort I had last year but didn't do anything and let die.
I'm going to ask for her number and ask her out. Need to have a crack rather than let it fizzle.


On the way back I drop into a bottle shop to see a younger woman I have had a casual thing with before. She's been overseas and then housesitting and making excuses and delaying seeing me. I went in to make my intent clear. Dressed well, playful and holding frame.
We talk, and keep having stilted conversation between customers dropping into her store.
Halfway through one of our conversations where we're having a bit of banter describing different types of Gin and the botanicals and flavours among the things I cook she interrupts and says, "fuck it Mig. Talk dirty to me."
I tell her that we need to go for that drink we've been talking about so we can have a less dry conversation that's not interrupted by customers continuously. The good thing is she mentioned she's housesitting a place in the same suburb now rather than the other side of the city. I tell her that cause we're both busy we should meet up during the day as I;m busy during the evenings with study and volunteering and she usually has work.
I've been too nice in the past and she's giving me green lights to get nasty. No dates required. I need to keep the pressure up and meet her during the day, at my place.

Post: #3580

I went outside a retail complex and saw a chick playing with her phone while sitting.

Approach #1
"Are you Norweigan?"
"Noooo.."
She said she was from Germany and I kept guessing where she was from.
She refused to give an answer and I hoped no more shit tests will come.
A few more came along.
"Do you like asking people where they're from?"
It went nowhere eventually.
Ok have a good day.

And back into the retail complex I go

Approach #2
I saw a girl with red hair.
"You look like someone I met in Czech Republic", another completely random opener as usual.
She said she had to leave tomorrow.
Would not look or at least face towards me throughout the interaction.
She said she was going back to a different city tomorrow.
Whether that was true or not she didn't seem interested.



Well what a terrible day. Next time.
So much for the hook, vibe and close terminology.

Post: #3581

Did some daygame in Amsterdam yesterday

1) '
Girl ioi'd me on a bike, ran after her for like 30 meters. She saw i was coming, and put up a huge smile, she stopped and we tried chatting, but she only spoke portuguese, i tried mixing some spanish with english and got her number.

2)
Small girl with a big suitcase, approached her, she looked baffled at me, then a large polish guy with a suitcase appeared next to her lol.

got some glances here, its when i open too weak and they keep walking away slowly

3) Tiny asian girl, was very open and smiley, talked for a few minutes and then got her #, tried to schedule the same night but she was tired. i think it was nonsexual, cause she wanted to go for coffee during the day

4) Girl in the train station
Approached her, she startled, i calmed her down and we talked a bit, she was standing like 1 meter away from me so it was pretty weird. i was awkward af and tried mentioning it to calm the tension. this didnt really seem to work. then i randomly tried to numbr close her, but she said she had a boyfriend. she kept standing in the same spot and kept giving me those big eyes. after like 5 seconds i asked her if she was sure (lol), then she ejected.

5) last approach of the night, arab looking girl

she was talking with someone on the phone,

i approached her, she immediately stepped one step closer, this surprised me, i asked her if thats her bf on the phone, she says yes, i ask her if he gonna kill me. then i ejected

not terrible, since i havent approached in a while, but definitely a lot to work on

Post: #3582

It was end of the year school event for one of my girls.
I swear I did not intend to approach.

Sat before the event on the seats at the gym. Ex wife next to me, and her friend (mother of my daughter's friend) on the other side. A conversation about university started one row above. It was a mother and a daughter.
Daughter was hot, a hard 8, cute, semi-shy (half nerd, half extrovert) in plain but flattering clothes. The other daughter was in another class (not that of my daughter) so I did not know them. Mom was also good looking.

Interrupted the conversation and told them that there are many things to consider. Started engaging the daughter (21) and led the conversation so that she can tell me about her character. Did "cold reading" on her and she started asking me "Are you a psychologist?" . Good. That is a show of interest.
Could not number close it, due to noise and that the play was starting. Also, the Ex was looking at me in an "obscure" manor (indirect form of "WTF are you doing?").

I swear I did not intend to open anyone
Honest.

Post: #3583

A few days ago I started chatting up a girl at a fast food place I chatted her up about her studying.
Not long after she mentioned her boyfriend she was dating of 7 years.
Eventually I made a few more approaches with the specific details I forget that went nowhere prior to the weekend.
I need to improve my mood it's not as good as it was when there were more better looking chicks.

Nightgame

Chatted up a Japanese girl.
I have very little experience gaming Japanese girls but I heard it is best to go indirect. I was reluctant but had to get her Facebook. Has worked into a bang in the past but like many things there are no guarantees.

Many dudes started approaching girls all over the place and almost everyone did not go further than a makeout.

It was at a bar with a club and it isn't an optimum venue for game. Still on the hunt for better nightgame venues.

Post: #3584

Things have been going slow lately. However a funny thing happened - I was approached.
Was coming to the barber for a hair cut. It was just before afternoon hours.
A slim HB5 was waiting as well.
5"5, 135 pounds. Plain face, semi-short hair. Math teacher.
She started chatting me.
We talked, on and off, and you could see that she is attracted to me.

Eventually she asked (in front of the barber) if I wanted her phone number. Gave her my business card and she imminently texted me on Whatsapp (while I was there).
Made plans with her for coffee 2 days later.
She was not sure if it was a date or just 2 people meeting. I escalated and within the hour we were kissing and making out. I kept being amused by her, but she is not hot enough to hold my interest for long. Will probably bang her and move on.

Post: #3585

I saw a chick with long hair and a baseball cap having a sandwich while sitting on some stairs right outside of a major centre.
I asked where the nearest hair salon is.

I immediately heard a North American accent and guessed if she was Murican or Canadian.
She is from down south of the good ol' USA.
I chatted her up about life in the States and if she went to New York and what she was doing in my city.

Then she said she is in my city for a year with her boyfriend.
There's the boyfriend bomb.

I asked where they met and she said on a dating app. I didn't ask any further.
"Sorry" as she apologised that she declared she wasn't single.
Not often I get this and American women have been awfully polite with their rejections or their like.

(07-06-2018 12:37 AM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  Things have been going slow lately. However a funny thing happened - I was approached.
Was coming to the barber for a hair cut. It was just before afternoon hours.
A slim HB5 was waiting as well.
5"5, 135 pounds. Plain face, semi-short hair. Math teacher.
She started chatting me.
We talked, on and off, and you could see that she is attracted to me.

Eventually she asked (in front of the barber) if I wanted her phone number. Gave her my business card and she imminently texted me on Whatsapp (while I was there).
Made plans with her for coffee 2 days later.
She was not sure if it was a date or just 2 people meeting. I escalated and within the hour we were kissing and making out. I kept being amused by her, but she is not hot enough to hold my interest for long. Will probably bang her and move on.

I'm sure there's enough of us who have actually been approached and could start an Approached Thread if there isn't one already and the followup to a date/bang.

Post: #3586

Open a girl with an opinion opener. I think it was ''Does this jacket make me look like a drug dealer'' from cajun PUA. Rooted it and told her that a few girls had asked me for weed that night. She is looking very serious but does answer the question and says 'no. I don't think so'. I'm like ''cool! now I cna relax''. It didn't engage her like I hoped it would or get a laugh or anything and I temporarily am stifled thinking 'shit - what do I say nowo' lol. I quickly ask her what she's up too tonight. She tells me. I ask her how old she is and then I go into a cold read and tell her that looks like she does yoga (canned cold read). She's like nah'. I ask her show she's with. I'm Running out of things to say here and she really doesn't seem interested in me. We go quiet for like 10 seconds and she kind of walks away.

Open a girl on the dancefloor who seems to be dancing fairly close to me which I interpret as an IOI and I and just offer my hand and smile with a smirk but she shakes her head and carries on dancing with her friend. I give her the pretend sad face and carry on dancing.


Open a girl and tell her that i like her shirt and tell her that I have one like it at home. She laughs and asks me if i'm being serious. Then she starts asking me stuff like my name and who i'm with etc. First bit of possible 'interest' of the night. She invites me out to the beer garden/smoking area to carry on chatting where I meet her friends and stuff. We are talking about this and that. I'm trying to remember to touch her to emphasise points etc. However, Wasn't able to work in a way to escalate much more than that without just grabbing her out of the blue and kissing her lol, and I didn't really sense much actual attraction from her and I think she was just a friendly social girl. It kind of fizzled out shortly after.

Made a few more dancefloor approaches by just basically dancing near girls and maybe extending my hand or making little hand gestures or just smiling etc to test for interest, but got not joy.


DIRECT OPEN: Open a girl at teh bar seemingly by herself. Tell her ''I know this is a bit forward, but I just saw you a thought you looked hot and thought i'd say hi''. She's looking a bit freaked out and doesn't reply. I try another statement of empathy and am like ''I know it's a bit weird!, but you caught my eye and I couldn't help myself''. She's still kind of frozen. She says ''oh. Ok'' and kind of looks away and turns her back partially away from me. I think about asking her name, but shes made it clear she's not into me and I bail

DIRECT OPEN: I am in a bar that has a dancefloor, and as i'm walking towards it, 2 gorgeous girls are walking towards me. I put my arm out to slow them down and they comply, and then I tell the hot one that I think she's gorgeous and I wanted to talk to her. She just grabs her friend and they both basically run away lol

DIRECT OPEN: I open a girl on the dancefloor who is dancing near me. I'm trying to kind of force an IOI by dancing and gesturing with my hands etc, and after a few seconds she looks at me and we make eye contact. I move in like I just noticed her and I tell her she's sexy. She just looks at me with a completely neutral expression (better than angry I guess!). I ask her name and she just spins around and dances away lol.

This isn't going well tonight lol. My brother tells me to stop with the direct stuff since i'm not handsome. (thanks, bro!! haha)

INDIRECT OPEN: I open 2 girls at the bar and rock an old school opinion opener. One of them laughs and the other is just passive. I ask them how they know each other and we do the usual names, ages stuff. I try to cram in a cold read based on her tattoos. I'm not sensing any attraction, and they just seem like social/friendly girls. I decide to test the waters and throw a statement of intent of sorts and tell her she's kinda cute and ask her friend if we make a hot couple. They laugh. We chat a bit more and I bring in a few of my friends to try to wing me, but within like 1 minute, they girls both say they gotta go. I could tell mine wasn't actually attracted to me and so didn't bother going for the number or whatever.

INDIRECT/DIRECT: It's late and bars have just closed. I decide to try 'indirect/direct' opener that some PUA's use. I see a hot girl on a bench sitting by herself. I open her and tease her massive handbag or something, and I just sit next to her. I ask how her night was, and then I tell her 'Actually, I just wanted to talk to you because I thought you looked Hot AF!''. She laughed and said 'That's cute, but you're not

Post: #3587

Had a fantastic winter day here so I went into the city for a wander around.

Opened a scottish girl on the train in, asked about why I don't seem to meet any scots here, and made fluff talk about the city until she got to her station. She didn't seem interested and just made small talk to be polite. On the plus side, apparently not too many people get the difference between scottish and irish accents.

Just quietly ignore my opening a old lady in the gardens sitting by a pond. Didn't really look before I opened, just saw an easy situational open.

Asked a girl in a crowd about a performance that was just getting warmed up. She didn't know and her boyfriend gave the greasy.

And I randomly ran into a 40+ mum I see around, who invited me for dinner with her friends. Think I fucked up when I declined, they might have been younger and she's not in bad shape for her age.

EDIT: Also had a bunch of approches last night at a salsa event, but not going to do a blow by blow. Did run into the first Spanish chick I've met here though.

Post: #3588

Many blowouts and rejections the past several chilly days which made online apps more feasible but this isn't the thread about swipes and matches.

Earlier today I saw a Latina chick tapping away at her phone and bored at the same time in a large retail complex.

I started chatting her up and she is from Colombia who has been living in my city for 3 months.

I chatted her up about living here and back home and about I think about 20 or 30 minutes later give or take we were a little touchy touchy and thanks to some spare time the insta-date began and we went to a bar.

It was happy hour so we had a few drinks and more touchy touchy and some language and cultural exchange.

Smooch smooch off we go and she had to meet her friend she mentioned much earlier.

Hopefully some real bodily fluid exchange down the road but as always don't have unrealistic expectations.

Post: #3589

(07-19-2018 07:36 AM)JekyllAndHyde Wrote:  Many blowouts and rejections the past several chilly days which made online apps more feasible but this isn't the thread about swipes and matches.

Earlier today I saw a Latina chick tapping away at her phone and bored at the same time in a large retail complex.

I started chatting her up and she is from Colombia who has been living in my city for 3 months.

I chatted her up about living here and back home and about I think about 20 or 30 minutes later give or take we were a little touchy touchy and thanks to some spare time the insta-date began and we went to a bar.

It was happy hour so we had a few drinks and more touchy touchy and some language and cultural exchange.

Smooch smooch off we go and she had to meet her friend she mentioned much earlier.

Hopefully some real bodily fluid exchange down the road but as always don't have unrealistic expectations.

Nice to see daygame show the effects from the effort you put in, great stuff and I hope you meet her again and smash.

I am back from Mexico in the UK, no more pussy paradise. This is why yesterday I got back to approaching with a wingman, I was especially looking for latinas around town because my latina game is fresh right now after being in latin america for a month.

First approach 3 Italian girls, one was puking on the street. Talked to them for 20 minutes but they were not that receptive, got one of their ig's, she showed many IOI's but she was a bit chubby and older than me.

Second approach was at 3am, asked 3 girls on a bench if I can use their phone to call my friend because my phone was dead. One was Indian, one Chinese and one half Venezuelan half Portugese. We talked for 1 hour and they showed interest in me and my wing, I focused on the Venezuelan and she digged me but not anything spectacular. Went to the train with them, we tried to pull them home but it wasn't possible, so I number closed the latina. I will try my luck and message her.

Post: #3590

The last time I posted here regarding my "100 approaches on American women" project, I was at 43. Well, I lost the notes on 44-60. Nothing much other than a few numbers that went nowhere. Here is 61 -69.

A few quick notes - Thank God for online and apps as it's been my only source of reliable , quality bangs. 3 in the past 10 days. In addition, I did have one successful daygame that resulted in sex. Only, it happened in Mexico. I did two approaches in Mexico and one resulted in a great time with a 20 year old cutie. If only the USA was 1/10th as good as that ( 1 in 20 approaches results in a bang). But it isn't. Daygame in the US (for me) is very low low return. I suspect it is for most everyone else. Here's the latest:

61. July 15, 2018: tall blonde college girl at whole foods. Excuse me, are those hemp seeds good? “I haven’t tried them” she said. You talked about those for a minute. “Can I tell you something?” sure, she says. “I was interested in the hemp seeds, but I also noticed you looked nice and wanted to say hello. I noticed you look European….” I talked about visiting Europe and she looks like some of the girls there. She politely talked about this 30 seconds or so. She was from out of town just visiting. You tried to push it a little but she said ‘nice to talk to you’ (dismissal) next.

62. Becky at whole foods .. 6.15.18. You did the direct approach about her looking like she was from Europe. Good eye contact and smiling. She was an even taller volleyball looking girl. Chatted for a few minutes. She asked where you were from. You exchanged names. It was going well until she seemed to get something in her eye. She kept rubbing her eye and was having trouble with it. She seemed to get okay with it after a minute. She said she had to go. You asked her if she’d like to chat again and she gave her number. Then her phone was ringing and it seemed like she was ready to go. Not the ideal ending. She did not return the text you sent about an hour after meeting her.

63. 6.19.18.Approached a girl walking her dog over the walking bridge. She made eye contact with a slight smile. I said “what kind of dog is that?” her “it’s a golden retriever” she didn’t stop and kept walking by “I’m in the dog market so trying to educate myself” she looked back smiled slightly and kept walking off.

64. 6.18.18 Lauren at Trader Joe’s. you walked in and saw her looking at flowers. She made eye contact and smiled briefly. You walked to her side and said “excuse me, do you do yoga by chance?” she said yes. “well, you look like you do and I’m looking for a good place.” She lit up a bit and started naming some local spots. She was preening her hair with on off eye contact. After a few minutes she was looking at the flowers then looking back to you. I told her which bouquet was best. I made her laugh a few times with some humor. I went through the ‘what do you do around town for fun’ bit. At the end you both started to walk away and I told her we should grab coffee or a drink. “I have a boyfriend” she said with a kind of pouty look on her face. I joked about that’s who the flowers were for but she said they were for a friend and I told her she was a bad girlfriend and she laughed. Next.

65. 6.19.18 Fit blonde lady (late 20s to early 30s ) at M Coffee shop was fixing her coffee. I grabbed some napkins and we made eye contact. She smiled slightly. I started to walk away and siddled up beside her other side. “Hi how are you today?” “Good how are you?” I did my direct approach and she lit up. About 30 seconds into the conversation she pretended to be distracted with setting up her table for drinking coffee. I just continued talking and ploughing. She averted her attention back to me. After that, our eyes were locked for the next 5 minutes of conversation. She told me she moved to the city for “a boy” meaning her boyfriend. At the end I said “look I know you’ve got a boyfriend but let’s exchange numbers. If anything changes, it’d be fun to grab a coffee or drink sometime. I told her to text me if she’d like to” She said sure. I texted her that it was nice to meet her(and so she’d have my number) and she texted back.

66. 6.22.18 Savannah - At coffee place on the lake - a cute girl waiting on coffee. As she walked by you, I walked by “excuse me, do you play soccer?” (she had soccer type shorts and tennis shoes on) “No” “Oh, you kind of look like you just came from the soccer field. I’m pretty new here and looking for some people to play with” She looked at me giving full eye contact. I maneuvered the conversation to other topics with cold reads. She said she wanted to go to law school and I pretended to end the conversation. She laughed a bit. She asked where I was from. The eye contact was good. After 5 minutes I asked if she might like coffee or a drink sometime. She looked to think/struggle with something for about a second then said “I can’t I’ve got a boyfriend” Next.

67. 6.22.18 At J.Crew. saw an athletic looking early 30s woman. “excuse me.” I said. “I know this is kind of random but I saw you and thought you looked nice and just wanted to say hello.” Oh thanks she says and smiles and stops. I tell her she reminds me of some of the ladies I saw when I visited Spain. She just smiles and says that’s nice. “so what are you up to today? Just browsing the clothing store for some summer threads?” She says”yes pretty much and just killing time. I’m about to pick up my daughter.” “I see. Are you married?” She grins and says yes. I say “good to meet you have a good day” Next.

6.25.18 Saw a cute mid 20s brunette getting salad at whole food buffet. I asked her if she could tell the difference between the organic food and regular salad, non organic bar. She expounded on it and told me how she likes to eat salads before regular food blah blah. I mentioned her accent and she said she was from this area. She started telling me about her work. I threw in a false time constraint. There was strong eye contact and a little hair flipping. I looked deep in her eyes the whole time. She asked where I was from and I made her guess. She was wrong. When I asked her name at the end, she asked mine too. I ended with “well I know this sounds random but you seem cool and you’re cute, would you like to grab a coffee or drink one day?” She said “I don’t think my boyfriend would like that. She then told me it was a coincidence that her boyfriend was from the same state as me and his dad had my name. Next.

6.25.18 around lunctime I was cruising home on a Lime bike. I saw an athletic brunette in tight jeans. I stopped the bike as she walked abreast and said “excuse me, hi how are you?” “good” “can I tell you something real quick? (not the best opener)” sure…(she looks skeptical) me: I just saw you walking by and thought you looked nice today. I was in Europe recently and you remind me of some of the ladies I saw around Spain and Italy.” “Oh , I’m Italian” she says. Talked for a few minutes. You joked with her about having to run to the pet food store for an emergency to feed her dog. Blah blah. When she brought up moving here, she said “me and my boyfriend decided to move to the city here to try it out.” A few more seconds of polite chat and you bowed out. Next ( side note – I swear if they’re a 7.5 or higher and between 20-30 , they have a boyfriend 99.999% of the time..or say they do)

Post: #3591

100 approaches. 1st round
Hi guys. Last week I completed the first round of the 100 approaches as explained by roosh.
There were a lot of lessons learned. All of the approaches were from solo day game. Like all things in life, there were many ups and downs.

Out of the 100 approaches, I was able to Fclose 3 girls or 1 bang every 30 approaches and day2 every 15 approaches. Most targets were, sorry to even say, 5s or 6s. There were a few 7. I'm being honest here since that is the only way to learn. I have decided to approach girls no less than 6 in the looks scale in this coming second round.

The number one lesson learned was that you should not give up and plow through even though some days are just dismal. One of my bangs and current plate was a girl I approached after being humiliated in a parking lot by the previous target. This girl in the parking lot made a huge scene because I tried to talk to her. People were staring and it was a very embarrassing situation. I was rattled and confused but I decided to go into the supermarket and continue approaching. The next target was my current plate. Had I given up and gone home, this couldn't have happened.

It's a tough thing to do, but the rewards and experiences more than make up for it. I rather walk aimlessly looking for targets than stay at home. When you approach you have nothing. If you get rejected, you will have experience. Plus you burn calories. Therefore, by approaching you win either way.

Post: #3592

I was invited to a "lecture" at a friend's house. It was about 30 people and the lecture was about "spirituality".
I could not care less about the topic, but I liked the idea of meeting other people.
There were very few targets, although 80% were new to me.

A slim, curly hair, 5"7, 110 Lb (told you she was slim), in her 40s girl came and sat next to me.
Opened with: "You have great taste"
She was puzzled.
I continued: "You sat next to me"
She responded well and we chatted a little till the lecture started.
Since they also asked comments I gave a few, and made some impression.

We swapped phone numbers later and texted on Whatsapp.
We set up date so I can explain science to her.

Brought a blanket and water, and we went to a public garden where we put our heads on the blanket, looked at the sky and talked. I teased her and she was teasing back.
Within 30 minutes we were kissing, and some make-out. I also tickled her and then went for deep comfort (back and fourth).
We went for ice cream, and she admitted that she felt very secure with me, a man she almost doesn't know. I got a lot of the "dear in the headlight" looks.

Will have to squeeze her in between my other harem girls to see what she is like in bed.

Post: #3593

Went out yesterday with the intent to day game at an outdoor mall in socal. Approach anxiety was through the fucking roof. I walked around under the hot sun for around an hour and didn't do any approaches. Bounced to Barnes and Noble but there were zero options. On a side note, Barnes and Noble is seriously depressing to go to now. The business is on it's last legs and it really shows.

Was out doing errands today and saw a couple of cute girls but still couldn't budge from my damn approach anxiety. I donated blood as well and found it difficult to even be cocky-funny with the obese nurse. Just feeling off my game.

My main chick is going on vacation with her family this week and I'm going to visit my son so I won't have easy pussy for 7 days. Going to abstain from porn for the duration and see if it lights a fire under my ass. I've been way too comfortable watching porn whenever I felt like it.

For now I refuse to go back into the swipe apps or online dating. I get way more of a rush and satisfaction from cold approach and I need to exercise that muscle more.

Post: #3594

A girl I knew from a decade ago was throwing a farewell party. She is going for a masters oversees.
The party was at a club, which is usually open on weekends, but opened specifically for that (that girl has connections).

It was a dark place, loud music, but plenty of room as we were ~40 people.

After greeting her, I went looking for targets.
She introduced to me to her cousin, HB6, 5"7, curvy blond with a good vibe and her (at best) HB4.5 fat but pleasant friend. I chatted them up, giving the uglier one also some attention, and using the "Is she always like that?" line. They responded well and I moved to light touching. Then HB6 (which leaves very far away from me) pulled out a cigarette. I was semi-disgusted. Went looking for other targets, but also hung with them sometimes.

Went and approached a 2-set of HB6 and HB5. Opened with "Did you guys matched clothes?" (they both came in black). The response was not that good, but I kept the set as much as I could. Didn't go anywhere. Afterwards it appeared that her BF came as well.

Next I noticed a hard HB8. She was in her early 20s, 5"9, slim and on high platform shoes. She had a short blond HB6 with her, and they both went from their phone to talking to each other, back and forth.
Approached her as she stood near the lockers/bathroom with: "I did not know there was another part here". She answered and sounded especially dumb. I also noticed she was pierced on multiple places on her face (eyebrows, nose). She did not want to engage, and then her blond HB6 friend returned. I opened her with "Did you just go to the men's room?". She laughed but did not stay and moved on.

This was my first attempt in a long time at night game. Would rather day game

Post: #3595

It has been a busy day (and week).
I was riding the train today, coming back from 2 business meetings. Got on board and looked for a place to sit.
Saw a cute HB6 soldier. Could not be over 19.
Sat across, and noticed a BIG book on the table between us.
"What's that?" I opened with her prop.
She showed me - it was Stephan King's "IT". A 1000 pages book (in English). She was 2/3 into it.
I started discussing the book, and she responded well.
Then I moved to "cold reading", and told her that she is probably an introverted good girl. She ate it up.
Then while moving to deep rapport, after some light touching, her phone rang.
IT WAS HER BOYFRIEND.
Let her talk with him, and got off at my station.

Tonight, after banging one of my regulars, I joined a friend for drinks.
We talked, and the place was almost empty.
The waitress was a mousy HB6, 5"7 dressed frumpy but with big boobs. If she dressed well she could pass for HB7.
She said (jokingly) that we are delaying the return to her bed. I asked what street she lives in, and she said "Love street" (It's an actual street in this town).
I laughed and told her she sounds dirty. She noticed that and blushed.
Talked with her briefly after she brought the check, but I was tired and not into it, and probably needed to plow more to get results.

Post: #3596

(08-02-2018 04:08 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  It has been a busy day (and week).
I was riding the train today, coming back from 2 business meetings. Got on board and looked for a place to sit.
Saw a cute HB6 soldier. Could not be over 19.
Sat across, and noticed a BIG book on the table between us.
"What's that?" I opened with her prop.
She showed me - it was Stephan King's "IT". A 1000 pages book (in English). She was 2/3 into it.
I started discussing the book, and she responded well.
Then I moved to "cold reading", and told her that she is probably an introverted good girl. She ate it up.
Then while moving to deep rapport, after some light touching, her phone rang.
IT WAS HER BOYFRIEND.
Let her talk with him, and got off at my station.

Tonight, after banging one of my regulars, I joined a friend for drinks.
We talked, and the place was almost empty.
The waitress was a mousy HB6, 5"7 dressed frumpy but with big boobs. If she dressed well she could pass for HB7.
She said (jokingly) that we are delaying the return to her bed. I asked what street she lives in, and she said "Love street" (It's an actual street in this town).
I laughed and told her she sounds dirty. She noticed that and blushed.
Talked with her briefly after she brought the check, but I was tired and not into it, and probably needed to plow more to get results.

When you do cold reading, do you just make gut-feeling guesses based on who you think she is?

Post: #3597

Went out around 7 pm looking for an insta-fuck, as I’m leaving town tomorrow. Saw that girl sitting in the park, cute, thin brunette (an 8 in my book), checking her phone on a chair. I sat in the chair next to her and started asking questions (Indirect approach). Peruvian student, 21, in Paris for one month. She looked happy to have company, and after 5 minutes was very open to my suggestion to have drinks. We walked to an hotel bar, had a Spritz, and then she accepted to come to my place (but she had to meet her friend one hour later). Unfortunately at my place, she displayed LMR (‘it’s too quick, not today!’) and soon enough she understood that I’m married, which made her laugh, but did not improve my case. She left after 40 minutes. Close but no cigar. I probably appeared too aggressive/hungry but no regret because I had only one hour to close and she will be leaving before I get back - so it was now or never. Shame though because I could do with that Peruvian flag.

Post: #3598

(08-02-2018 11:03 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  

(08-02-2018 04:08 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  It has been a busy day (and week).
I was riding the train today, coming back from 2 business meetings. Got on board and looked for a place to sit.
Saw a cute HB6 soldier. Could not be over 19.
Sat across, and noticed a BIG book on the table between us.
"What's that?" I opened with her prop.
She showed me - it was Stephan King's "IT". A 1000 pages book (in English). She was 2/3 into it.
I started discussing the book, and she responded well.
Then I moved to "cold reading", and told her that she is probably an introverted good girl. She ate it up.
Then while moving to deep rapport, after some light touching, her phone rang.
IT WAS HER BOYFRIEND.
Let her talk with him, and got off at my station.

Tonight, after banging one of my regulars, I joined a friend for drinks.
We talked, and the place was almost empty.
The waitress was a mousy HB6, 5"7 dressed frumpy but with big boobs. If she dressed well she could pass for HB7.
She said (jokingly) that we are delaying the return to her bed. I asked what street she lives in, and she said "Love street" (It's an actual street in this town).
I laughed and told her she sounds dirty. She noticed that and blushed.
Talked with her briefly after she brought the check, but I was tired and not into it, and probably needed to plow more to get results.

When you do cold reading, do you just make gut-feeling guesses based on who you think she is?

No
I base it on "circumstantial evidence". For example the 19 year old HB6 read a 1000 page book in English (I'm from Israel). You know that girls with books, and I mean LONG books, will most likely be introverted. As for the good girl, it was based on her appearance.
Gut feeling has a part of it, but you should start from evidence.

Post: #3599

Did cold approaching all day today with members Samo_ and thebone, it was the first time I approached girls properly in a while. It was tough but made my week.

Approach 1: Italian 6, good vibes, number close, will try to set up a date next week.

Approach 2: Ukrainian 8, was friendly but dropped the
boyfriend card

Approach 3: I really didn't feel like approaching but the guys motivated me, was worth it. Czech 6.5 with bright blue eyes, first day in the city and here for language school. She asked me for my number first, she was really into me and I ask for a date on friday. She first said yes and now she said she will think about it over text. Lets hope I meet her soon, that was a super solid approach.

Also approached more after but no good responses, it felt great to break away from approach anxiety, I feel way more confident after today, I need to do this more often especially with forum guys.

Post: #3600

Today I felt totally broken because of ex-gf, but decided to go a walk. I wanted to start approaching for longer time, but today I finally got rid of excuses.

So number one: Pretty long legs, excactly my type. She was just on her way to date in open-air cinema. Got her facebook.