Post: #3451

If you're gonna stay for 1 year plus become a "socialite". Instead of going where girls go, make girls come to you - begin throwing house parties, become a community leader, start a club (sports club, travel club, whatever seems most viable in where you live and is at an intersection of your interest and people who live there). Become well-connected to local politicians and mayor. I know, it's a big ask but then I guess you need to answer yourself - do you want to slay lotsa pussy or date long-term? Each comes with its opportunity cost, I guess...

Post: #3452

What do you mean stay for 1 year plus? I live here, although technically I live in a village near that town. No ability to move in the near future, which is common thing in Balkan countries. I could possibly follow your plan, but that is some long term thinking and frankly I am not sure from where I could start.

Post: #3453

Good learning exp today. Approached a cute 7 in the gym after asking when she would be done. She apologized and whiped the machine down for me. When she was done I asked her if she thought it was a good machine for training legs. She opened very well and went into some ramble about how she used to work in a gym and the common mistakes people make with this machine.

I concurred and I told her how I was just returning from bad injuries. She took the bait and asked me what the injuries were. I told her the hurt bodyparts and that they happened during two different competitions. She nodded but did not take that juicier bait. *She did smile, extend her hand and introduce herself though.* We chatted some more, I asked about her working in a gym experience. She also mentioned that she is a nurse so she knows a lot about the human body.

After a little more chatting and rambling she started turning and walking away, which I took as a cue that she wanted to leave the friendly convo and continue her workout.

I’m thinking that I should have plowed forward and either rambled some more, dropped some juicier bait or started GALNUC. A girl introducing herself mid-convo in a day game approach is pretty major, and I folded a little too easily.

Post: #3454

Yep. Keep plowing on until the field is bare. If you were rambling all the way up till she turned, she'd probably had her fill of ya by that point. Either way, take the interaction as far as you can reckon. Go for the digits or set up a date, whatever, let her think whatever she wants of it.

Post: #3455

You are right. Funny thing is, she was rambling before and while she started walking away. So who knows. I got the feeling she was crunched for time. Going for digits probably would have worked.

Post: #3456

For sure. Nothing to have lost there, if you'd gone for that. She knows why you came up to her, so finish the job. The next worst thing to not having made the play is making the play, but not seeing it through.

Post: #3457

This should go in the "The Non-Approach Thread". I was out with a friendly couple yesterday. Got eye contact with a very cute tall girl. She and her friend came and sat at a table right opposite us while the bar was still pretty much empty. They sat next to each other so we were face-to-face but from a distance. I got eye contact with both of them in glimpses a few times.

I did not approach however. It's ridiculous but I still have a bit of a problem when I'm out with a group of people who are not into game, or who can't do it that night for whatever reason. I should have just excused myself for a moment and go chat them up for a few minutes, ask for a number to meet up later. I'm not generally shy, but I have that sticking point. I guess I get the spotlight effect sometimes. It's easier if there's at least another person in the group who can act as a wing.

Just felt like sharing this here.

Post: #3458

Call Me Maybe

To me, unless a girl absolutely blows me away in terms of attractiveness or bringing something truly of value to the table, I am not going to put a whole lot of effort into her. That doesn’t mean that I don’t like to get laid though! It’s more of a ‘return on investment’ calculation for me that starts and ends with valuing my time greatly. Look up the phrase, ‘Mental Point of Origin’ and over time, learn to internalize that mindset.

If you are looking for a same day / night pull, this is probably not an approach to use.

I jokingly started calling this way of pick-up, ‘Call Me Maybe,’ the underlying principle here being, ‘I am the prize,’ and ‘Sure sweetheart, you are sexy and pass the boner test, but you at least require investment of time, so let's cut the bullshit and see if you are DTF.' Have fun with it though… Pick-up is meant to be a ‘bit light-hearted!

Generally speaking, I meet women while I am in the midst of doing my own thing. Going for a walk, grabbing lunch, drinks or dinner… As many who know me will attest, I am usually my own favorite company. Why? Because I know that I will meet interesting people while I am out doing things. I will talk to and engage with just about anyone. I don’t do much on apps, but that is simply a personal preference. Personally, I dislike pulling out my phone for a dopamine hit, so I have disciplined myself to not constantly look at it, even if there is nobody around to talk to. Take an interest in what is going on… People are damn fascinating!

Where to use this? On American and westernized girls almost anywhere. I have used it successfully on mass transit, walking down the street, the grocery store, and at bars.

Caution: Traditional women from say, Eastern Europe or who have lived an appropriately sheltered life (new to the big City for example) will take this approach as being rude and will not respond well. If you get a response of something along the lines of, ‘Does that work?’ or That’s rude,’ you’ve blown it and used this on the wrong girl. You are unlikely to see this girl again.

HOW TO:
(1) You need to build rapport. This is not for a cold approach and then 30-seconds in spit this out… You have to have had a good conversation with this woman. It can be all of 3 to 5 minutes long, but you better have warmed her up to you a ‘bit.
(2) Be the one to break rapport. Don't be subtle about it either. 'Hey, you seem nice.. I have an important presentation to get to that I need to rehearse a few more times,’ works great for me. **Pro-tip: Touch her the entire time you are saying this to her, and the moment you get to the end of the sentence, let go of her. It’s an anchor (more on this later)
(3) The very next words that come out of your mouth are as follows: 'Let me give you my number, you seem fun to hang out with!'

You will get one of two responses: (a) 'Great, what is it' or 'here is my phone put it in,' or 'give me a business card;' (b) 'Wait, the guy is supposed to call the girl' or some derivative thereof. Your response is, 'Sure, ok... Like that song, ‘Here’s my number, call me maybe?' smile and start to walk away, but don’t be cold about it. For extra credit, laugh at her (it knock’s her off her pedestal a ‘bit). 7 out of 10 times she will acquiesce and now ask you for your number.

I’d give it about a 50/50 success rate. But the women who reach out after running this script? 90% close (you get laid)... The ones that did not? I royally screwed something up on the meet. Nothing is 100%.

Let’s break this down a little and share why I think it works.

American (and overly-westernized women) are used to being chased. It is what they have been told from day 1 the fairytale princess bullshit. This goes against all of that and gets their attention.

The importance of having Presence and a strong frame. I have cultivated a look, a manner, a way of speaking my mind, walking, and acting the moment I step outside. In my mind, I really don’t give a fuck anymore about things that I used to obsess over. Do I have off days? You bet your ass I do. Have I always been this way? Absolutely not, and there are guys on this forum who know that. Hell, this forum and more importantly, the in-person friendships I have made through it, has done wonders for me over the time I have been around.

I also talked about making sure you touch them as you deliver your line, ‘Hey you seem nice, let me give you my number.’ This anchors the experience of you being different to your touch. Fast forward to the next time you see her, touch her in the exact same way and it brings back a flood of endorphins she felt the first time you did this (‘He is different!’).

Once things in your life are set, (lifestyle, finances going in the right direction, a few notches under your belt regardless of whether they are pay-for-play or not… for some guys it takes 5 and for others it will take 50). My point is that women are drawn to that. Just like they can smell fear and uncertainty, quality women can sniff out confidence and masculinity.

In closing, I really encourage you guys to go meet each other and learn. Keyboard warriors are not a whole lot of fun to be around, and they sure as hell don’t get laid much! Hope this helps a few of you out.

Post: #3459

What is the record for the longest approach?

Sitting in the office at week 7 of a three month contract and there is a nice looking Russian (Ukrainian?) at the end of the hall. There are several here, probably H1Bs. Long red hair, very feminine, very traditional Russian looking. I'm going to wait until the last week here to approach. No need to jeopardize this revenue stream.

Any Russia experts out there have any ideas? I am not. I'd love to throw down some perfectly pronounced smartass Russian phrase to really mess with her.

Post: #3460

I've been approaching pretty regular lately (daygame) for the obvious reason of hooking up/finding a quality girl but also doing a bit of a social experiment. I'm approaching the most difficult female creatures on the planet. In case you're wondering, that would be American white women in their late teens or their 20s who are rated 8+ on the SMV scale ( in other words, they're young, fit, slim (or athletic) and hot....AND they're Western ...i.e. American) To boot, this is being done in a fairly large American city.

TLDR version : most girls aren't interested, a few are with some signs of attraction but tell me at the end they have boyfriends. Out of 15 approaches, i've received one phone number and good text exchange, 0 dates and 0 bangs. 85 more approaches to go.

Thankfully, I've been supplementing bangs with online game, albeit, most of these girls are 6-7 range though once in a blue moon, I'll pull an 8.

I'm keeping a log. So far, I've done 15 approaches since I started my quest for 100. ( I've been approaching for years and done many hundreds of approaches and have secured bangs from day game in the US and other countries. However, this is a new campaign that I recently started, exclusively focusing on the demographic I mentioned) Bottom line is, it's not going well. I've only got one number out of 15 approaches. A few of the other girls seemed a little attracted but had boyfriends (which isn't hard to believe) Also, I'm in my 40s so that adds another factor. (most girls guess about 35 for what it's worth) The following are my copied notes. it's a little cryptic as notes in a log will be. As you can see, alot of my approaches are at the grocery or whole foods. Feel free to throw out any observations if you see obvious flaws as I'm sure there are some to be seen:

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100 Approaches on American Girls: Approach Log II

1. young blonde short athletic girl at whole foods on 3.17. she’d just been at Zilker and was wearing a backpack and getting food at salad bar. She made eye contact briefly but you waited 5 minutes or so and approached her . Should have done it immediately. You went direct. She didn’t look at you after the direct opener and said she had to get to work.
2. Amanda- whole foods. Was getting energy bars. You asked about the bar. Then after banter said “can I tell you something real quick” went direct. She was attracted…there was a pulling kind of energy but she was holding back because you found out later she had a bf. She seemed reluctant to let you go. You should have done IG and message you in 90 days close. 3.21.18
3. Karla – mid to late 20s. she was waiting on a smoothie . You asked her opinon about the smoothies here and developed banter. She was in town on a business trip. After some IOIs from her you suggested a drink next time she’s in town (she was flying out that afternoon back to North Dakota) She agreed. You texted her later a few times back and forth and she said she’d let you know when she’s in town again.
4. Mid to late 20s woman in wfs shopping with yoga pants looked at you and briefly smiled. You opened her and she took out headphones. Asked her if she did yoga because you just moved here. she said she didn’t laughed a few times at your banter and walked away. You should have gone direct because of eye contact. 3.22.18
5. Walking on sidewalk back to apartment. a fast walking well built blonde woman but with only an average face. Stopped her. Went direct. Commented on her business attire and her serious look on face and how she reminded you of European women. She thanked you, smiled and laughed a bit but started to walk off. You tried to continue but she walked away saying she had to meet friends.
6. ZTA girl at M's coffee shop on Sat. 3.30.18 asked if she did yoga. She stopped and talked and said no offered one idea then walked off.
7. Ashley at WFs..3.30..was wearing a Texas greek shirt. Nice legs. Okay face. Young. Asked about her kumbucha in her cart. Then flitted off to other areas. You used FTC good and got a little banter. Should have done more rapport. She flicked her hair a time or two so you could have done more attraction too. She didn’t ask you any questions nor your name so you let her go.
8. Jenna – blonde firefighter at Mozarts. Asked you questions and your name. she was kind of mannish. You asked to go out and she said she was seeing someone.
9. Amanda – blonde blue eyed from whole foods. You asked her about if she did yoga. She told you a few places. She was from another town. She seemed very slightly tense but you FTC’ed and she eased a little. She did ask you your name when you asked her hers. Asked her out and she said she wasn’t looking to date now but ‘maybe we’ll see each other again’
10. 4.3.18 - blond Polish Canadian girl at whole foods she was sitting down. Kickboxer instructor. You walked to her table and opened her direct. After a minute, you sat down to chat giving a false time constraint She seemed a little intrigued at first but then appeared to make excuses as to why she had to leave. She wouldn’t give number but deflected saying ‘just come visit me in class. You didn’t accept that and parted.
11. Same day….tall brunette white girl near food buffet at whole foods. Approached direct from side. 8 body…6 face but bangable. She said thank you and acted like she wanted to walk off. You kept talking. She did ask your name. when you went for number she said she had a boyfriend.
12. Ava – 4.4.18…tall green eyed at coffee line at whole foods. From Vermont. Pleasant conversation. She asked where you were from. Said she had a boyfriend but was flattered. You asked to do the 90 day deal (I’ll call text you in 90 days to see if you’re still together) and she passed. Indirect…said you recently moved here…then told her she was cute at the end before asking.
13. Lauren – selling water in whole foods behind display stand. In yoga pants and wearing a blue baseball cap. Chatted for a few minutes She had a boy friend after you told her she was super cute and asked her out. She asked what you did and your name…seemed a little interested but no go.
14. Kaylin – stopped her as she walked by. Asked her if she knew a good gym in town(since she was dressed in workout clothes) She’d just ran a 10K race. She asked you numerous questions. Chatted for 5 minutes and then told her she seemed cool and was cute and we should get a drink sometime. She said she had a boyfriend. You said “sounds serious, when’s the wedding” to which she laughed. She said she’d add you to Linked In but you didn’t get the number.
15. Tall blue eyed girl getting produce with a shopping cart. Walked past and did yoga opener. She gave a few ideas on yoga places. She seemed a bit wary at first but warmed up a little. After she told you about yoga places, she turned back to shopping facing away from you. You kept talking, trying to stay in set and mentioned her accent and she said she was from Dallas but made it clear she wasn’t interested so you bowed out.

Post: #3461

(04-08-2018 03:57 PM)robreke Wrote:  I've been approaching pretty regular lately (daygame) for the obvious reason of hooking up/finding a quality girl but also doing a bit of a social experiment. I'm approaching the most difficult female creatures on the planet. In case you're wondering, that would be American white women in their late teens or their 20s who are rated 8+ on the SMV scale ( in other words, they're young, fit, slim (or athletic) and hot....AND they're Western ...i.e. American) To boot, this is being done in a fairly large American city.

TLDR version : most girls aren't interested, a few are with some signs of attraction but tell me at the end they have boyfriends. Out of 15 approaches, i've received one phone number and good text exchange, 0 dates and 0 bangs. 85 more approaches to go.

What's your game model? How do you position yourself? Meaning, what is your image that you try to project with your behaviour and outfit?

Also, to be honest, if you want a really good feedback, you need someone experienced next to you or, at the very least, recorded audio. Preferably, audio and first person view video.

Post: #3462

Game model depends on situation. For really young women, I usually go indirect, build rapport, tease to get attraction then , if she stays in set, go direct telling her she's cute and we should get a drink sometime then go for the close. Some older women (24 and up) I may go direct. I'm usually projecting professional in the city but dressed casually. I was thinking about recording some of these.

Honestly, I'm pretty experienced myself as I've probably between 500 to 1000 approaches in my life. I'm open to suggestions but I've only approached 15 girls so far on this campaign and that's kind of a small sample size. Also, given the demographic of women I'm approaching, it's really not surprising that I haven't had luck yet. Even guys more experienced than me may not have done much better or better at all on just 15 so far, unless they were maybe much closer to the girls age/ better looking/etc.

So, I'm not really disappointed at this stage per se. I was just putting my approaches out there at this point for forum consumption.

Post: #3463

Truly alpha game, learn from the best!

Post: #3464

(04-06-2018 01:36 PM)SiverFox Wrote:  What is the record for the longest approach?

Sitting in the office at week 7 of a three month contract and there is a nice looking Russian (Ukrainian?) at the end of the hall. There are several here, probably H1Bs. Long red hair, very feminine, very traditional Russian looking. I'm going to wait until the last week here to approach. No need to jeopardize this revenue stream.

Any Russia experts out there have any ideas? I am not. I'd love to throw down some perfectly pronounced smartass Russian phrase to really mess with her.

"Ya khochu yebat tebya" should work wonders

Post: #3465

Don't be a spastic and spam approach girls.

Post: #3466

Was on the train this morning half asleep due to the night before going out and smashing a tinder honey. I look up and see a super cute slim 7.5 infront of me with the most gorgeous eyes i've ever seen. I contemplate not approaching because I just banged a hottie a few hours ago. I realize soon that his was just the approach anxiety in me rationalizing why I shouldn't, but by then it's too late and we exit the train to transfer stops.

I walk behind her but don't approach and realize I waited too long and the AA has had time to build. I say fuck it and the next train arrives, right before the door closes she hops on my train cart. I can't believe my fucking luck and realize this is a second chance most men don't get for random encounters. I think about my approach as the train is super packed. I look down and see she is listening to classical tango music from Argentina.

Luckly I have apple music so download the song and after about 2 minutes tap her and point to my phone and I say thanks for the music. She smiles and turns towards me. Ask standard questions and she tells me she is from Italy, here studying dance. (Just my type). I ask when her stop is approaching and she says now. She gives me her phone just as the doors open and I never put a number in so fast in my life. She bid me adieu and exits the train.

I second guess if I entered my number right when 2 hours later in class, I get a text from her and we've been chatting ever since.

Always be approaching!

-CD!

Post: #3467

(04-10-2018 05:33 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  Was on the train this morning half asleep due to the night before going out and smashing a tinder honey. I look up and see a super cute slim 7.5 infront of me with the most gorgeous eyes i've ever seen. I contemplate not approaching because I just banged a hottie a few hours ago. I realize soon that his was just the approach anxiety in me rationalizing why I shouldn't, but by then it's too late and we exit the train to transfer stops.

I walk behind her but don't approach and realize I waited too long and the AA has had time to build. I say fuck it and the next train arrives, right before the door closes she hops on my train cart. I can't believe my fucking luck and realize this is a second chance most men don't get for random encounters. I think about my approach as the train is super packed. I look down and see she is listening to classical tango music from Argentina.

Luckly I have apple music so download the song and after about 2 minutes tap her and point to my phone and I say thanks for the music. She smiles and turns towards me. Ask standard questions and she tells me she is from Italy, here studying dance. (Just my type). I ask when her stop is approaching and she says now. She gives me her phone just as the doors open and I never put a number in so fast in my life. She bid me adieu and exits the train.

I second guess if I entered my number right when 2 hours later in class, I get a text from her and we've been chatting ever since.

Always be approaching!

-CD!

Post: #3468

(04-08-2018 03:57 PM)robreke Wrote:  (daygame) my approaches are at the grocery or whole foods

most girls aren't interested

it's not going well.

I'm in my 40s

College girls at the grocery store!

- They are hungry.
- They are in a hurry.
- They are slightly on guard
- They are aware that people are watching
- They avoid creepers and weirdos
- They don't want to be seen exchanging contact info with an older man

These factors generally work AGAINST a man over 40.. A guy her own age, she can be more expressive, but, an older guy... It's a different dynamic.. She is more reserved. It's more of a mental pick up.

What you are doing is not easy. I respect your effort.

Approach 100 and I bet you will get one!!

(04-08-2018 08:07 PM)robreke Wrote:  I've only approached 15 girls so far

That's nothing! Literally, its nothing.

For me, that's about half of my warm up.

I really takes a few hours to get the vibe of it.

(04-08-2018 08:07 PM)robreke Wrote:  For really young women, I usually go indirect

Indirect is safe. It's often the correct thing to do..

But, direct is more fun. And, you learn faster!

You learn more about the sexual nature of young women.

They have fantasies, they get horny, they want to fuck!

The more you see and feel that, the better you will become at attracting them.

(04-08-2018 08:07 PM)robreke Wrote:  I'm usually projecting professional in the city but dressed casually.

Your look is very, very important.

Little things like hair, smell, grooming, etc., can make a difference.

You should look like a young girls fantasy.. Good looking man, well built, masculine, handsome, mysterious..

Honestly, your look is what gets them curious about you... They judge us at first glance.

You know you have a good look when girls are looking you.

So many subtle factors, all you can do is keep practicing.

Post: #3469

I recently started day game cold approaching and i noticed a number of girls that reject you straight away either because they aren't interested, or they have a bf.

There was a girl earlier today that i approached, and she looked at me very confused, not sure what to say, she said "i don't know you, why did you approach me", i said, oh i just saw you looked cute and wanted to talk to you. She refused to tell me her name, and she was like "i have a boyfriend", i was like "i just asked for your name, not for you to undress haha". She said, "what are you trying to do?". And at this point i thought, man this girl is really boring and giving off a bitchy attitude. She doesn't even want to give her name, i will just move on. I said "oh come on, are you always this boring? i guess i will just give up then, have a nice day :)"

Did i handle the rejection well? How do you guys end a conversation with a girl blowing you off the water, or acting bitchy? Do you just walk away, or do you say something in return to her. Personally i just laugh it off and move on, if she's acting bitchy, she wasn't really worth my time anyway.

But could it be a shit test to see if i give up or i will do some fighting for her before i move on? Like she wants me to "prove myself" worthy. Let's say a situation where she doesn't actually have a bf, but she's just using it as an excuse. Do girls actually do shit like this. I think i read it somewhere here.

Post: #3470

(04-02-2018 11:45 AM)justforfun19713 Wrote:  Call Me Maybe

To me, unless a girl absolutely blows me away in terms of attractiveness or bringing something truly of value to the table, I am not going to put a whole lot of effort into her. That doesn’t mean that I don’t like to get laid though! It’s more of a ‘return on investment’ calculation for me that starts and ends with valuing my time greatly. Look up the phrase, ‘Mental Point of Origin’ and over time, learn to internalize that mindset.

If you are looking for a same day / night pull, this is probably not an approach to use.

I jokingly started calling this way of pick-up, ‘Call Me Maybe,’ the underlying principle here being, ‘I am the prize,’ and ‘Sure sweetheart, you are sexy and pass the boner test, but you at least require investment of time, so let's cut the bullshit and see if you are DTF.' Have fun with it though… Pick-up is meant to be a ‘bit light-hearted!

Generally speaking, I meet women while I am in the midst of doing my own thing. Going for a walk, grabbing lunch, drinks or dinner… As many who know me will attest, I am usually my own favorite company. Why? Because I know that I will meet interesting people while I am out doing things. I will talk to and engage with just about anyone. I don’t do much on apps, but that is simply a personal preference. Personally, I dislike pulling out my phone for a dopamine hit, so I have disciplined myself to not constantly look at it, even if there is nobody around to talk to. Take an interest in what is going on… People are damn fascinating!

Where to use this? On American and westernized girls almost anywhere. I have used it successfully on mass transit, walking down the street, the grocery store, and at bars.

Caution: Traditional women from say, Eastern Europe or who have lived an appropriately sheltered life (new to the big City for example) will take this approach as being rude and will not respond well. If you get a response of something along the lines of, ‘Does that work?’ or That’s rude,’ you’ve blown it and used this on the wrong girl. You are unlikely to see this girl again.

HOW TO:
(1) You need to build rapport. This is not for a cold approach and then 30-seconds in spit this out… You have to have had a good conversation with this woman. It can be all of 3 to 5 minutes long, but you better have warmed her up to you a ‘bit.
(2) Be the one to break rapport. Don't be subtle about it either. 'Hey, you seem nice.. I have an important presentation to get to that I need to rehearse a few more times,’ works great for me. **Pro-tip: Touch her the entire time you are saying this to her, and the moment you get to the end of the sentence, let go of her. It’s an anchor (more on this later)
(3) The very next words that come out of your mouth are as follows: 'Let me give you my number, you seem fun to hang out with!'

You will get one of two responses: (a) 'Great, what is it' or 'here is my phone put it in,' or 'give me a business card;' (b) 'Wait, the guy is supposed to call the girl' or some derivative thereof. Your response is, 'Sure, ok... Like that song, ‘Here’s my number, call me maybe?' smile and start to walk away, but don’t be cold about it. For extra credit, laugh at her (it knock’s her off her pedestal a ‘bit). 7 out of 10 times she will acquiesce and now ask you for your number.

I’d give it about a 50/50 success rate. But the women who reach out after running this script? 90% close (you get laid)... The ones that did not? I royally screwed something up on the meet. Nothing is 100%.

Let’s break this down a little and share why I think it works.

American (and overly-westernized women) are used to being chased. It is what they have been told from day 1 the fairytale princess bullshit. This goes against all of that and gets their attention.

The importance of having Presence and a strong frame. I have cultivated a look, a manner, a way of speaking my mind, walking, and acting the moment I step outside. In my mind, I really don’t give a fuck anymore about things that I used to obsess over. Do I have off days? You bet your ass I do. Have I always been this way? Absolutely not, and there are guys on this forum who know that. Hell, this forum and more importantly, the in-person friendships I have made through it, has done wonders for me over the time I have been around.

I also talked about making sure you touch them as you deliver your line, ‘Hey you seem nice, let me give you my number.’ This anchors the experience of you being different to your touch. Fast forward to the next time you see her, touch her in the exact same way and it brings back a flood of endorphins she felt the first time you did this (‘He is different!’).

Once things in your life are set, (lifestyle, finances going in the right direction, a few notches under your belt regardless of whether they are pay-for-play or not… for some guys it takes 5 and for others it will take 50). My point is that women are drawn to that. Just like they can smell fear and uncertainty, quality women can sniff out confidence and masculinity.

In closing, I really encourage you guys to go meet each other and learn. Keyboard warriors are not a whole lot of fun to be around, and they sure as hell don’t get laid much! Hope this helps a few of you out.

This is beautiful. I will be trying this for the next couple weeks. Results pending. Thanks for sharing

Post: #3471

Super nice weather here today, everyone's in a good mood as it appears the weather is turning.

Stopped a taco cart with about 7 people around it; one of those was blonde white chick with a nice body, I'd say about 23 or 24. Face was about a 6 but she was pleasant enough and I was horny.

me: so what kind of meat are you gonna get?
her: um, I think chicken
me: hmm, kinda plain. no al pastor or even beef?
her: I guess I am kind boring haha
me: so definitely no tongue for you then
her: ewww no way. what are you getting?
me: al pastor, I like it spicy
*there was a lull in the convo here as she ordered, which continued as I couldn't think of anything to say; I turned and just pretended to people watch. She got her tacos and went and sat on the curb to eat. I said fuck it and re-engaged her after I got my food
me: you mind having some company for lunch? they say you're not supposed to eat alone
her: haha sure
me: see, you're adventurous you got the super hot sauce
her: yeah I'm muy caliente haha
me: *looking at her legs* I'll say
her: hahahahaha omg

I rambled about the different taco carts in my city, which ones were good, blahblahblah. She eventually asked my name and what I did for work. She ended up being a computer science student at the local CC and also worked at an auto body shop as a painter. Definitely interesting and out of the ordinary. I straight up let her know this and said I want to get to know you and I think you're cute, what's your number? She took my phone and put her number in it.

I'll text her tomorrow and see where it goes. I'm not too bad at approaching and rambling but I can't close for the fucking life of me, my text game has always sucked.

Post: #3472

Deuce, that is good stuff. I also get to this point sometimes and get the number close. Its what's after which is the hard part.

Best solution to avoid re-igniting things via texts is to make a plan right after number close. You have already told her she's cute. So, ask her what she's upto after having a Taco. This depends on whether you are free. If you are free and so is she then suggest something right then. Offer to go to a bar or dessert place that is good logistics wise. If she agrees then you just run date game on her depending on what you want.

If she is not free after or you are not then you'll have to switch tactics. I often times am not free, so what I do is suggest something based on her personality and culture. Tell her you know of this new place serving so and so food or drinks (which you think her type of chick might be interested in). Ask if she likes that kind of food. (I understand a guy should lead but girls in US have too many options and hate being under any pressure what so ever. So better to ask few things sometime.)

If it matches up with her personality and since she has already given you her phone number, then most probably she will say yes. Then tell her you were planning to crash this place and would like her to join and immediately ask what her schedule is like. Here you have outmaneuvered her to say a direct no to joining you. She will in all likelihood tell her schedule. Then think what time works best for you as per her schedule and then tell her that you will see her at that place at so and so time. Say goodbye. And text her the day of meet.

If you aren't able to do this then run text game next day, directly asking whether she likes so and so dessert or food or drinks. Text the same lines as above and offer her to join you and ask her schedule. If she replies back positively , she's interested. Rest is managing date game and logistics.

Post: #3473

Came back from overseas, no luggage holding me down today and letting my jetlag wear off mostly.
Weather is really warm but the sun sets a little early since Daylight Savings is no longer in effect and I'm still kind of tired.

Approach #1

Saw two Latina-looking women at a park in the city.
Opened with whether they are Columbian.
Only the first one responded and replied that she was Chilean.
She was here for studying business and to work.
Unfortunately work and going to another city next week meant that I couldn't get her out on a Saturday and she wouldn't give her number.
She was the one doing the talking the entire time as her friend or whoever just remained silent the entire time.

Approach #2

A Middle-Eastern looking girl by herself sitting at a table outside Hungry Jacks (Aussie name for Burger King) drawing something resembling the foundation of a manga character.
She wore a nice all black outfit with skirt and pantyhose.
I like!



No I didn't say what Borat would say to her in person but in my mind that's what I thought.
She talked about how she enjoyed bush doofs, getting drunk, manga, anime and she admitted she liked Asian culture. .
Heck asked me to sit down and stay and get absolutely drunk later at some hipster area.
I politely declined the offer and asked for her number.
Gave me her Instagram and asked me to DM her later.
She revealed she was actually Turkish and Persian.

In fact why am I still here typing this?
If I wasn't that tired I would have made a few more approaches towards young women of reasonable quality and probably be out joining her now.

Good:
Not spam approaching despite the temptation to do so.
Rejections these days? Meh. Next.


Unsure about:
Approaching fast walking girls in the opposite direction.

Bad:
Have approach anxiety with groups of 3 girls or more or a so-called couple who don't seem to be into each other. I am willing to give it a go .


These Approach threads are mostly I presume is for daygame/evening game rather than night game.
I make heaps more approaches with increased aggression during night game which I prefer overwhelmingly over daygame but ratios are a problem these days.

Post: #3474

Approach a a 6.5 Asian girl at planet fitness she had a boyfriend. Then the next day I approached a 6.5 brown skin got her # and text her a day later "?hey it Darryl (the awesome guy) from planet fitness. Are you sore?" Is my text she did not reply. Not a big deal. This is my first post by the way hey homies what's up

Post: #3475

I got half-approached twice last night. Nothing really came out of it. Can't say I don't enjoy the confidence booster though.

First girl, towards the closing of an event was standing close and looking at me. Cute face, tall, somewhat chubby. I waved at her and she giggled, turned her head down. Her guy friend walked towards her, they said something and then walked a couple of steps over to me and my friend. Apparently she had seen me and told her friend about it but she was a bit shy. Anyway, he left us alone, we chatted a bit, she had to rush to meet her friends to go to a club. Asked me to go but I didn't want to commit to that. Got her number and texted a couple of hours later when everything else was closed in case I could get her to meet me out front. No reply.

Second girl, at a different bar. She was passing by as I was chatting to my buddy. She turned around and commented that I look like I come from a certain place. I asked how she knew and said she was together with a guy from there. She was following her friends, one guy and one girl, towards the bar. The guy acted as a cockblock, he got between us and told her something momentarily. Can't think it was intentional since he was making out with the other girl before, but it broke the flow. Anyway, I asked her if that guy she dated had been a good experience, I wanted to tease her on that. She answered smilingly and went to the bar.

One general thing I want to work on is to open or hook girls who are walking by. Often on the way in a place you see someone leaving and sometimes it's the best girl you'll see all night. So opening there on the move is both a good warm up and may lead to something. Hooking someone who you had a brief chat with can be done with something as simple as "One last thing before we go...". That most often gets them to give you full attention when they were ready to disengage.