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I'm at 63 days now and the sad thing is. Although I feel all the positive effects of Nofap, The urges are still there. Recently It used to be about bust busting a nut now it seems I just want to search porn. The difference is I stopped strolling through Instagram and mainly spent my free time learning.
It hasn't been hard to stop my self from relapsing but the thought is always there. I think times like this make porn blockers their most effective.
Restart today made it to day 37. Will go two weeks maybe. Instead of focusing so much on nofap, I'm going to focus on other productive things I can do to improve my life.
Feyoder 路 2019-04-30 21:19:00 路 #4411
Lino 路 2019-05-01 07:53:00 路 #4412
(08-21-2012 02:52 PM)_DC_ Wrote: (08-19-2012 03:05 PM)HiFlo Wrote: Here's a toughie that I face:
Let's say I go for a week or so without nutting/jerking (I do like the psychological effects). Then I pull a SNL and I nut within 2 minutes of penetration from the lack of sexual stimulation during the preceding week. It's embarrassing.
Any solutions?
Solution to the early nut? No, impossible. Unless you want to rub a quick one off in the bathroom once she gets to your place.
For me, if its been 5+ days, I can nut and just keep going like nothing ever happened. If you can stay hard, or hard-ish, and bridge the refractory period gap, the girl won't be mad at all and you don't have to be embarrassed.
This crazy biological phenomenon is only possible when i practice no-fap.
Sorry if the problem has been covered already. I am facing the same problem, I normally last a long time but since I鈥檓 practicing no fap and get laid sporadically, I nut in 2 minuts and yeah, it鈥檚 embarrassing. I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I鈥檒l get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don鈥檛, in Brazil they can get me hard again with their warmth and hornyness).
I am using natural complements like horny goat weed but I feel it makes me nut even quicker.
How do you guys who are 38+ deal with this?
Edit: btw I stopped counting the days, I am at around 2,5 months with no fap, not hard at all, something must be wrong with my libido. I鈥檝e been through hard time a year ago and stopped working out, I gained around 7 kilos with the junk food and lack of exercise, that must be fucking up my desire for pussy.
(05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote: I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I鈥檒l get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don鈥檛
I'm 40. Do you have advice about decreasing the refractory period? It sucks putting in all that effort for one nut and then the girl leaves (frequently I never see them again). I'm still horny as ever, but my body just won't cooperate. It's frustrating having a woman naked next to me and having to wait 30-60 minutes.
Lino 路 2019-05-01 09:32:00 路 #4414
(05-01-2019 09:15 AM)Cavorite Wrote: (05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote: I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I鈥檒l get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don鈥檛
I'm 40. Do you have advice about decreasing the refractory period? It sucks putting in all that effort for one nut and then the girl leaves (frequently I never see them again). I'm still horny as ever, but my body just won't cooperate. It's frustrating having a woman naked next to me and having to wait 30-60 minutes.
That鈥檚 just nature, 30-60 minutes is not bad. Less than that at our age is difficult.
I've been doing NoFap for about a month. I am much quicker to lose my temper now. I'll blow up at a girl for flaking, or just annoying me in some way, which I never used to do. I've had words with guys over little stuff I would usually just ignore. I wonder if this is what steroids feel like. It's a pretty noticeable change in only a few weeks.
Restarting NoFap + NoPorn and now on Day 6.
I was on No Porn for ~ 35 days (a record for me) but I still fap every few days and am now on day 6.
I was almost gonna fap today but stopped after writing this post
Feyoder 路 2019-05-02 07:40:00 路 #4417
(05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote: Sorry if the problem has been covered already. I am facing the same problem, I normally last a long time but since I鈥檓 practicing no fap and get laid sporadically [...]
If this is truly a problem for you (I don't think it's an issue) there is a drug you can take:
Priligy (dapoxetine)
roberto 路 2019-05-02 12:40:00 路 #4418
(05-02-2019 06:28 AM)BalanceLife Wrote: Restarting NoFap + NoPorn and now on Day 6.
I was on No Porn for ~ 35 days (a record for me) but I still fap every few days and am now on day 6.
I was almost gonna fap today but stopped after writing this post
Well done mate. I hope you still haven't?
Zagor 路 2019-05-02 17:33:00 路 #4419
(05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote: (08-21-2012 02:52 PM)_DC_ Wrote: (08-19-2012 03:05 PM)HiFlo Wrote: Here's a toughie that I face:
Let's say I go for a week or so without nutting/jerking (I do like the psychological effects). Then I pull a SNL and I nut within 2 minutes of penetration from the lack of sexual stimulation during the preceding week. It's embarrassing.
Any solutions?
Solution to the early nut? No, impossible. Unless you want to rub a quick one off in the bathroom once she gets to your place.
For me, if its been 5+ days, I can nut and just keep going like nothing ever happened. If you can stay hard, or hard-ish, and bridge the refractory period gap, the girl won't be mad at all and you don't have to be embarrassed.
This crazy biological phenomenon is only possible when i practice no-fap.
Sorry if the problem has been covered already. I am facing the same problem, I normally last a long time but since I鈥檓 practicing no fap and get laid sporadically, I nut in 2 minuts and yeah, it鈥檚 embarrassing. I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I鈥檒l get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don鈥檛, in Brazil they can get me hard again with their warmth and hornyness).
I am using natural complements like horny goat weed but I feel it makes me nut even quicker.
How do you guys who are 38+ deal with this?
I think the main issue with nofap is actually not masturbation itself, but watching porn. So you can still masturbate, just don't watch porn, use your imagination.
I've done it for a couple weeks and yes you do get horny. The downside to this is that you tend to lower your standards just to get your release. Be aware of this and try to avoid women who are beneath you
Bizet 路 2019-05-04 21:50:00 路 #4421
Roosh's interview with Michael E Jones was a huge wake-up call for me and has made me re-evaluate my current lifestyle on a few different levels.
What if there's a higher purpose for me, and I can't see it because I'm being blinded by lust?
The most immediate step of action I plan on taking is giving up pornography and masturbation.
Today is Day 1.
God dam..
Keep slipping away...
Pretty hard. Day 2 in 30minutes.
Guys, do you not realize that the problem is not masturbation, but ejaculating? The whole point is to avoid ejaculation, porn is just leading you to it in an unnatural way. Porn is evil, but the point of no fap is not to ejaculate, which means, if you are cumming a lot with a girlfriend or some other woman, you will not fuck your brain up as much, but you will lose the vital energy anyway.
Those turbo-pua in this forum that only talk about how many hundreds of women they pull, now that they are in their 30s... or how they fuck 3 times a day with their girlfriends... well, if we assume that they cum at least everytime they have sex, they are just dying thru their penis. It is a slow, leaking suicide.
The most I have been without ejaculating are some months. I mean, the whole problem for a man is realizing that the sexuality for a man is not the same as the sexuality for a woman. A woman can have sex everyday without hurting herself. A man that after puberty keeps Cumming like more than a handfull times a year is just killing himself. I wish I stopped earlier, and I reduced the frequency a long time ago because I knew it instinctively.
I know this is a forum for inserting penis into vagina. But the reality is that ejaculating destroys the health of a man, his intelligence, his strength. No one is talking about this. Little seem to care.
I鈥檓 not sure about that. Are you speaking from actual experience or just rambling?
Everyone on the internet loves to talk about how cumming drains your sexual energy. Personally, I feel that when I masturbate to porn. It鈥檚 a significant energy drain.
However, that does not happen when I am having actual sex. There is nothing more energizing than fresh young pussy. It鈥檚 better than a strong cup of coffee, especially when with a woman I love.
Lino 路 2019-05-05 14:53:00 路 #4425
(05-05-2019 02:16 PM)Spaniard in Germany Wrote: Guys, do you not realize that the problem is not masturbation, but ejaculating? The whole point is to avoid ejaculation, porn is just leading you to it in an unnatural way. Porn is evil, but the point of no fap is not to ejaculate, which means, if you are cumming a lot with a girlfriend or some other woman, you will not fuck your brain up as much, but you will lose the vital energy anyway.
Those turbo-pua in this forum that only talk about how many hundreds of women they pull, now that they are in their 30s... or how they fuck 3 times a day with their girlfriends... well, if we assume that they cum at least everytime they have sex, they are just dying thru their penis. It is a slow, leaking suicide.
The most I have been without ejaculating are some months. I mean, the whole problem for a man is realizing that the sexuality for a man is not the same as the sexuality for a woman. A woman can have sex everyday without hurting herself. A man that after puberty keeps Cumming like more than a handfull times a year is just killing himself. I wish I stopped earlier, and I reduced the frequency a long time ago because I knew it instinctively.
I know this is a forum for inserting penis into vagina. But the reality is that ejaculating destroys the health of a man, his intelligence, his strength. No one is talking about this. Little seem to care.
So what鈥檚 your suggestion? Joining you in the church?
Lino 路 2019-05-05 15:00:00 路 #4426
Joke aside, I鈥檓 sure not ejaculating has benefits, there are tantric methods that reeducate the man and his sexuality in order to reach orgasm without ejaculation, I believe Sting was doing this and was claiming that he could make love for several hours to his wife without ejaculating. I鈥檓 afraid 99% of us here don鈥檛 have the patience/maturity to practice this. If some forum members are doing it I would be interested though, I think for older guys it can have benefits.
Zenta 路 2019-05-05 15:28:00 路 #4427
(05-05-2019 02:16 PM)Spaniard in Germany Wrote: A man that after puberty keeps Cumming like more than a handfull times a year is just killing himself.
Disappointed in myself because i cracked on 30th April after going no PMO for a month.
Going at it again since then. Today is Day 10 now and i'm pretty sure i'm doing much better now after having a few slightly tempting moments that i fought off.
This is pretty annoying though because you are literally fighting against the front lobe of your brain being physically weak and it needs time to strengthen and physically restructure away from being turned into mush.
I'm optimistic for at least 2 months no PMO and ideally more and never again in my life at all!
VNvet 路 2019-05-10 01:41:00 路 #4429
(05-05-2019 03:00 PM)Lino Wrote: Joke aside, I鈥檓 sure not ejaculating has benefits, there are tantric methods that reeducate the man and his sexuality in order to reach orgasm without ejaculation, I believe Sting was doing this and was claiming that he could make love for several hours to his wife without ejaculating. I鈥檓 afraid 99% of us here don鈥檛 have the patience/maturity to practice this. If some forum members are doing it I would be interested though, I think for older guys it can have benefits.
Sounds painful.
I once had sex for about an hour without ejaculating and had to stop because it got too painful for me. I didn't have post-sex exhaustion. I was on ~2 weeks of no fap/porn at the time.
First time with that girl too, which really freaked her out. It took a few more sessions before I came, and it felt like I lost some energy.
There's definitely some truth to the semen retention stuff. Just wouldn't recommend having sex for hours at a time.
Just wanted to stop by and give my experience with nofap so far this year.
I am starting to think that nofap/noporn is tough to sustain outside of a religious framework.
When I started nofap earlier this year it was all about me depriving myself of pleasure for personal betterment. Hard to maintain when it is all centered on yourself. I could get a good streak going but there was nothing stopping me once I got past a certain point. Not only that but nofap was a standalone deprivation of pleasure in my life.
Then I started moving more toward religion. Looking at it now it almost seems like nofap came first and pushed me towards faith. I then noticed I could actually stop and beat a strong urge. One difference was in a religious context, nofap was part of a bigger more from the physical to the spiritual.
It seems to me like having faith gives teeth to nofap similar to the way that it gives teeth to being against trannies and gay marriage. Without faith there is no basis for these things, just yourself. With religion your submission to god is your basis and it's not just you.
That also gets me thinking that any movement centered on the self is doomed to fail. Perhaps the reason that the degenerate leftists walk all over the conservatives is because they fervently believe in something bigger than themselves, as much as it doesn't seem that way. Even though it seems like the left is a mixed bag of crazies, they all believe in some sort of higher power, a greater good, a just cause.
Perhaps conservatives are the true mixed bag of individuals who have no agency or belief in anything greater than themselves. Even though the religious voting block tends to vote right, their beliefs aren't as tenacious as the beliefs of the left.
Feel free to hate if you want. This has just been my personal experience. I'm not trying to gain followers of the god pill. That's for each man to find for himself. It's been an interesting year for me. I wish all the atheist nofappers the best of luck.
(05-02-2019 06:28 AM)BalanceLife Wrote: Restarting NoFap + NoPorn and now on Day 6.
I was on No Porn for ~ 35 days (a record for me) but I still fap every few days and am now on day 6.
I was almost gonna fap today but stopped after writing this post
No porn and no fap on the ~15th day
No sex on the 9th day, I think I will get a bang in a week, the question is can I nofap till sex.
Day 2, I've been insanely addicted in the past week, I need to go out gaming to curb these cravings. I temporarily uninstalled facebook and instagram and it seems to be helping.
I'm not a big fan of NoFap but I agree with to fact that porn comsumption has big influence on how successful you are in general. I've been addicted to porn and wasted years of my life due to a lack of motivation. Why would I go out and date a girl if there's porn in just a second? To be honest I also used to be a virgin back then.
Then I started NoPorn. Now sex is my new drug.