Mindanao, I'm worried for you man. You said you are looking to meet someone and then marry her all within 6 months and then relocate her to Canada. Finding a great girl could take 6 minutes or 6 years, I am a little worried you are forcing things to meet your time table.

(02-23-2015 07:56 PM)mindanao Wrote:  She said that after her kids' school is done she can come.

I think I read in another post you are 25. I assume kids means her own kids that she gave birth to. There is no reason for any guy under 40 to have a long term relationship/marriage with a woman with kid(s). Why? Because there are so many great girls without kids that there is no reason to be stuck with sloppy seconds. You also have to remember that any good mom will put her kids first, if she doesn't then she probably isn't a good woman. If the kids stay in the Philippines, she is going to be sending them thousands of loonies, money you probably exclusively earned because it is too difficult for her to get a job. Wouldn't you rather spend your money on your own kids?

If I was you, I would date like normal and not worry about meeting your time schedule. When you are with them, test them.. ask them about family, money, career, life, etc and don't stop until you find one that check all your boxes. Then, time test her... does what she tell you change after 1 month, 2 months, 6 months, 1 year? Is her personality not as sweet as before? Is there any secrets she was hiding? Does anything slip out that raises red flags? This will take longer than 6 months. Remember, marriage is life changing and a legally binding contract, it is not something you jump into. If I was you I would wait 2 years between meeting her and finally marrying her.

(02-23-2015 09:56 PM)mindanao Wrote:  hmmm I got a job offer in Canada for September. I have 6 months to find a pinay I like and bring her back to Toronto. This time fraim works good for me cuz the lease in Manila is also 6 months. But I also have to get to know her well before the 6 months is up. I need to get stable and set up in Canada before the next winter comes so I don't really want to delay longer than 6 months.

You don't have to do this dude.

You're a young guy with options in life. I don't get the rush to lock yourself down with some random filipina, just because you are going back to Canada. Do you have a reason to get married now? Maybe I'm wrong, but it sounds like you are acting on emotion rather than logic.

I'm wondering if this has anything to do with Toronto. That place may suck for women (according to the forum) but girls aren't everything. Focus on improving yourself and later getting back to Asia!

You have plenty of time. Shit, you are younger than me. I've been back to England countless times since I first visited Asia and yes it sucked to have to leave. But you know what? After a while, it didn't bother me anymore.

Don't marry some random bitch just because. ESPECIALLY if you are under 30 and have barely scratched the surface of what life has to offer.

I hate to divert the conversation too much, and in a country of 90 million plus, there are sure to be some finds, but why go to the Phils to find a wife. I take you 100 percent at your word about wanting to do that and who am I to tell you not to get married (I'd certainly, as an attorney, suggest some financial controls, e.g. prenup etc. if you're going down that road with someone with a huge disparity of earnings or net worth). I can say its early in life to double down, but really, that's up to you, and not all men and all marriages are the same.

You seem like you're already accommodating the situation and making the best of whats available, but I think many here might agree that wifing up a Pina for a foreigner without connections and resources in the PI is a real crap shoot. And then trying to do it on a time frame that has no real relationship to anything but an extraneous factor makes that crap shoot time pressured.

If you've read here outside the PI threads, you've seen guys talk about various countries in Asia as a place to find an LTR. I think both Vietnam and China would be far better to find this type of girl in the manner in which you're searching. Cambodia as well. I'm certainly not saying it wouldn't be possible in the PI, but its far more risky for someone who isn't a super-experienced traveller.

Any warning signs your getting from Davao girl need to be paid attention to very strongly. I'd also really understand the situation with her kid - some of these absent fathers can also cause a huge problem and some would undoubtedly see you as a target. In some cases, she and her purported-ex might together see you as a target. Its unfortunate how many of these stories there are in the PI, and a lot them do originate out of the low end westerners who also end up there, but it cannot just be ignored.

I guess if I was going to try to find a wife in the Philippines, I'd do something crazy like join a church. I'd find a quite conservative girl and pursue that angle. An old fashioned one who certainly wasn't dating on any website. Or I'd try to find a nurse or a teacher or someone similar, but again, not one dating online. Online was all good and fun, but its fast food. Its not a place to find someone you're going to trust the way you would need to. You can take your time, find such a girl, and satisfy your needs on the side if you need to as you develop this primary relationship, gain the trust of her family, etc.

However, returning to the earlier point, if you want to get married, China, Vietnam and Cambodia, outside the nightlife scene, are all full of hard-working, conservative-minded, old fashioned girls, plenty of whom are attractive (and you've stated your standards aren't even that high in that regard). So many of these girls would just take it for granted that in addition to working, they're responsible for taking care of you, cooking and cleaning.

I'll differ with IKE on one element of his post, because most girls in East and SE Asia feel a filial responsibility to give to their families. This is overwhelmingly common. I don't complain about it with mine - I'd be complaining about what shows her to be so unselfish by doing so, that she thinks of her parents welfare each and every day (and well before padding her wardrobe or even eating in a nicer restaurant). You can set limits for lazy brothers perhaps, but I am not about to discourage that kind of general behavior. The girls in Asia you have to watch out for are the ones who don't send money home or who aren't concerned with their's parents well-being. Most of these countries have minimal or no pension benefits for the elderly - the children are the retirement plan. This is a very old tradition, and I would (within reason) not discourage that behavior at all.

EDIT: Scott, are there professional matchmakers in the PI? There are in China. If there are, do they take responsibility (financial, or reputation) for the matches they make. I know it seems archaic, but what the hell - I'd feel more confident on your behalf in those circumstances - other Pinoy's won't be fooled so easily by a bad girl acting like a nice girl.

(02-22-2015 12:02 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  Hey guys, for a tourist visa, for staying longer than 30 days, do I need to get it outside of the PI? Or can I get it in Manila once I'm there? I hold a US passport if that matters.

Rio, Yarddog is correct, the process is very simple.

Also, the immigration office in Makati is easy to get to and the line is very small, so you don't have to wait too long.

Alternatively, some companies will pick up your passport at your place and have someone wait in line and get the stamp for you. I never used those services, but earlier in the thread (I believe), some of the guys mentioned using them.

(02-22-2015 09:15 PM)mindanao Wrote:  I was wondering about logistics for place of residence, DHV and likeliness of girls' enthusiasm for going right to my place of residence instead of demanding to go only somewhere else. I will be living at Azure Resort Residences, now awarded best condo develoment in the Philippines. it is located 8 minutes south of Makati in Paranque. Anyone think that this is going to raise my value and interest by girls by them seeing I live here? vs say just staying at a plain boring condo or boring hotel in Makati?

(02-22-2015 09:15 PM)mindanao Wrote:  I am using this place to live in and hopefully pull easily from Malate, Pasay, Taguig, Makati, Pas Pinas, paranque, Muntinlupa, parts of Cavite and Pasig. :

It doesn't really matter.

I've stayed at $150 plus a night places in Makati, and at places that were more humble (but still orderly, clean, and safe).

It's just not much of a factor, if she's attracted to you, she'll be into you, not your place. Granted, if you live in a slum, that's another thing entirely, but if the place is clean, orderly, and in a safe location, it just will not be much of factor to most girls.

(02-23-2015 09:56 PM)mindanao Wrote:  I also got this honest vibe fro the regular girls in Cotabato city. they seemed solid in their good personalities so I think going to Cotabato city might be a good option if you have a time limit for finding a girl you know you can trust.

Cotabato has been a literal war zone for the past month.

I've met a few filipinas who have had or were in long "courtship" processess with various foreign men overseas. To say it's risky for your average clueless newbie is an understatement.

Filipinas (and Thais) are very impulsive in general. Those fresh faced innocent looking girls are not what they appear to be without a deeper understanding of what's going on. Even those in "legit" occupations and family backgrounds need to be vetted hard if you plan on going the wife route.

If you don't understand how fast those panties drop then you are in for a world of hurt. It's good for guys like us messing around in SEA but it's _extremely_ bad for guys looking for instant wives.

I have to go back to Canada very soon now though to take care of some issues back in Toronto starting in March. But I already have some pinays I can stay in contact with in the Philippines so at least I have some I can get to know and hopefully have one there with me in Canada some time soon. Maybe a good option is not to marry her for a long time but just have her there a while first. My excuse for that delay would be I don't have time to get to know her IN the Philippines.

Agreed.

One chick deliberately stopped taking birth control without my concent so her family would be forced to be more accepting of our relationship and lock me down.

Another fled to a European country in an instant for an all expenses paid trip. Probably for pregnancy and a passport too.

Another chick I'm banging is working some guy they met online. They are getting married. Only after a couple months. Lol.

Serious vetting is definitely an understatement! Funny how they all say one of their best qualities is "loyal" on Filipino Cupid.

(02-24-2015 08:21 PM)UberBicep Wrote:  Agreed.

One chick deliberately stopped taking birth control without my concent so her family would be forced to be more accepting of our relationship and lock me down.

Another fled to a European country in an instant for an all expenses paid trip. Probably for pregnancy and a passport too.

Another chick I'm banging is working some guy they met online. They are getting married. Only after a couple months. Lol.

Serious vetting is definitely an understatement! Funny how they all say one of their best qualities is "loyal" on Filipino Cupid.

Crazy. Slight tangent but this Poland post http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-4184-p...#pid965184

just makes it seem like these girls do a lot of stuff that they won't admit to. Makes you have to be really careful if you ever wife up a woman, with all that dick being offered to her regularly I bet 95% of chicks have a questionable past, which may continue while with you (the general you - not UberBicep specific).

(02-24-2015 08:13 PM)mindanao Wrote:  I have to go back to Canada very soon now though to take care of some issues back in Toronto starting in March. But I already have some pinays I can stay in contact with in the Philippines so at least I have some I can get to know and hopefully have one there with me in Canada some time soon. Maybe a good option is not to marry her for a long time but just have her there a while first. My excuse for that delay would be I don't have time to get to know her IN the Philippines.

For some strange reason, I get the sense that Mindanao is NOT really taking serious accounting of the large number of suggestions and precautions that various guys have been pointing out for him; however, granted it seems to be one step in a decent direction NOT to jump straight into marriage - even though getting too involved with any one girl as a bang partner that may have a considerable different socializing experience can rise to a similar level as a wife in a variety of ways when the chick starts clinging to his assets and/or playing goodie goodie, until she gets various levels of securities and things that she wants....

You are insane if you are thinking about getting invested in a Pinay without monitoring her for multiple years first (true for girls anywhere, but especially Pinays). Preferably you also have a time machine to do due diligence on her past.

Philippine girls, on average, are just way too easy. You don't want to wife up some girl who would otherwise continue to serve as zero-date lay-ups for any semi-cool and/or good-looking foreigners.

Within a week of getting back to the States after Manila, I saw via Facebook that one of the chicks I smashed got engaged to some older European guy, maybe in his mid-30s/40s. Given the timing, I initially thought it might be a joke, but she later confirmed with me its veracity.

This was a girl that rimmed me and took two facials a few hours after showing up at my apartment.

Don't let the innocent veneers fool you.

Don't be that foreign guy proudly kissing his Pinay fiancee's mouth that's still tainted with some other foreigner's ass.

EDIT: I wrote the above with a childless Pinay in mind. It didn't even occur to me that a girl who's already been soiled by bastard spawn would be under consideration here.

Mindanao,
The only way you can get a pinay to come to canada is if you sponsor her through a spousal visa. And that shit is a very lengthy process. Think at the very least a year. Minimum!

Why are you n such a hurry to settle down and bring a pinay to Canada?

You're still very young man. Work on yourself first, build a solid foundation for yourself financially and career wise. And enjoy your youth!

Say you find a gem and brought her to Toronto. Your sweet and loyal pretty pinay,after a few months d being shared by attention by the endless hordes of thirsty betas who are more successful and wealthier than you, it won't take long for your girl to upgrade and leave you in an earth beat. While breaking your heart. And if you did bring her on a spousal visa, guess who will be responsible for her and her expenses? You my friend!

In other words, after going through all the hassle that bringing a foreign spouse into Canada, all the efforts and money you would have spent to bring her here, within a few weeks or months, she'll upgrade to a more successful and richer guy while you would still be responsible financially for her!

Think long and hard about that man! I'm not trying to be a dick here. I'm on,y trying to make you realize all the risks involved in something like that.

As mentioned before, you're still young, so if you have to return to Canada, do so and focus on yourself, your career. Build a skill, and a solid capital, then go back to the Phils, take your sweet time while banging a shit ton of sweet sexy girls and in the process If you do find a keepe, all the better. But for the love of God, keep her there! Do not bring her to Canada! Or the US or any of the other Anglosphere countries. That's the surest way to disaster!

(02-24-2015 10:37 AM)Global Entry Wrote:  EDIT: Scott, are there professional matchmakers in the PI? There are in China. If there are, do they take responsibility (financial, or reputation) for the matches they make. I know it seems archaic, but what the hell - I'd feel more confident on your behalf in those circumstances - other Pinoy's won't be fooled so easily by a bad girl acting like a nice girl.

It occurred to me that I didn't know of any professional matchmakers in the Philippines, GE. So I've asked around. None of my friends over there knew of any either. I mean, sure there must be a few matchmaking companies of some decent repute... but we all drew a blank. I've just never come across anyone who has had the need for it... Now, suppose even if we were to find a pretty reliable professional matchmaker, I would not hold my breath that they would take responsibility for assuring a good/successful match. The Philippines is not nearly as litigating a society as the West. Laws bend to big money like a palm tree bends to a tropical storm. Which means being able to pursue a company for a failed match is probably laughed at. Then again, I could be wrong... But yeah, I know of no such company to rely on.

(02-24-2015 08:13 PM)mindanao Wrote:  I have to go back to Canada very soon now though to take care of some issues back in Toronto starting in March. But I already have some pinays I can stay in contact with in the Philippines so at least I have some I can get to know and hopefully have one there with me in Canada some time soon. Maybe a good option is not to marry her for a long time but just have her there a while first. My excuse for that delay would be I don't have time to get to know her IN the Philippines.

What's the hurry anyways? The Philippines won't go anywhere, man. How long are you expecting to stay in Canada? Do you plan to return to the Philippines afterwards?

Personally, I find that a little time spent in solitude helps me meditate. It drowns out the noise and gets my head on straight so I can regain my focus on the things that really matter in my life. There's nothing like delaying my gratification in low fem-quality America and going all out crazy when I return to the Philippines. (I'm so excited, I've all my girls lined up!) Work hard, play hard, right?

Thanks for the visa info guys. Appreciate it.

(02-22-2015 11:21 AM)dreambig Wrote:  ^^ Yeah the scammer thing crossed my mind. Even a couple of seemingly nice girls have asked me for money before. These seem legit though. One in particular is honestly quite stunning, but very feminine. I've talked to her on Skype and she has a sweet persona. The whole time I had to bite my tongue not to complement her looks...haha.

Think I've got a decent radar for the bad girls these days...while I won't rule it out just yet, she just seems like a normal college girl. Her FB is really detailed, lists her school etc and it's 99% filipino friends. A handful of old foreign guys, which I assume are from FC. She hasn't pushed to meet or for money.

Filipino girls who may turn out to be parasitic may not present like Western parasites because they lack malice.

Because, in psychological terms, it's called being "concrete". There's things she wants, and you are connected to those things-- you are good!

They are like children who just "want stuff", and don't like or dislike you.

A party girl from LA who is using you for your money has to bad-mouth you behind your back to show she does not really like this old uncool guy, to show she has better taste than THAT.
Your cultural background will allow you to sense that disdain, when you are being used.

But with Filipinos ( or any concrete culture) it's much different. There's much less persistent internal image of you. People are good if they come with good things, as long as they continue to come with good things.

(02-24-2015 10:37 AM)Global Entry Wrote:  .....

.....(smart stuff by a lawyer GE... deleted but you should read it!)...

I'll differ with IKE on one element of his post, because most girls in East and SE Asia feel a filial responsibility to give to their families. This is overwhelmingly common. I don't complain about it with mine - I'd be complaining about what shows her to be so unselfish by doing so, that she thinks of her parents welfare each and every day (and well before padding her wardrobe or even eating in a nicer restaurant). You can set limits for lazy brothers perhaps, but I am not about to discourage that kind of general behavior. The girls in Asia you have to watch out for are the ones who don't send money home or who aren't concerned with their's parents well-being.

I think GE's viewpoint is very valid, and more nuanced and accurate than my strident warning rant..It's a question of degree and class.

--The more upper-middle class girls I've dealt with have parents who are subsisting well economically; and don't need routine survival help from kids, but that is a minority--maybe a small minority.

--Then there's the middle middle class, about whom GE is right-- the kids, if they are prosocial and loyal will want to watch out for parent's welfare, are going to keep them in mind. a hundred a month extra can get people to the dentist, get better quality food...

If you've got a couple hundred a month to throw the parents, I think this gets you access to a higher grade of good middle class girl.

It's my _personal_ financial situation that makes me warn these girls as a matter of personal honesty-- I just don't have a couple hundred extra every month in my passive income stream to reliably send money home. My view is our marriage and our kids come first-- kids are the future of her parents' family as well.

--Then there's the desperate and/or lazy ones which I think GE and I are on the same page about-- there's significant risk here. Desperation and laziness go hand in hand because laziness leads to desperation, although random misfortune in the Phils is real and frequent. When 80% of the family is out of work ( I've been in contact with cute girls who are supporting their whole family including drunk father.) guess who becomes the one most able to support... them ALL.....

(02-24-2015 11:36 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  Mindanao,
The only way you can get a pinay to come to canada is if you sponsor her through a spousal visa. And that shit is a very lengthy process. Think at the very least a year. Minimum!

Why are you n such a hurry to settle down and bring a pinay to Canada?

You're still very young man. Work on yourself first, build a solid foundation for yourself financially and career wise. And enjoy your youth!

Say you find a gem and brought her to Toronto. Your sweet and loyal pretty pinay,after a few months d being shared by attention by the endless hordes of thirsty betas who are more successful and wealthier than you, it won't take long for your girl to upgrade and leave you in an earth beat. While breaking your heart. And if you did bring her on a spousal visa, guess who will be responsible for her and her expenses? You my friend!

In other words, after going through all the hassle that bringing a foreign spouse into Canada, all the efforts and money you would have spent to bring her here, within a few weeks or months, she'll upgrade to a more successful and richer guy while you would still be responsible financially for her!

Think long and hard about that man! I'm not trying to be a dick here. I'm on,y trying to make you realize all the risks involved in something like that.

As mentioned before, you're still young, so if you have to return to Canada, do so and focus on yourself, your career. Build a skill, and a solid capital, then go back to the Phils, take your sweet time while banging a shit ton of sweet sexy girls and in the process If you do find a keepe, all the better. But for the love of God, keep her there! Do not bring her to Canada! Or the US or any of the other Anglosphere countries. That's the surest way to disaster!

I see what you mean. Maybe bringin her to Canada is not the best plan. Especially sinc eI am not good with planing my own life lol

One thing I noticed in the short time I been in Azure resort I find odd and I don't know if anyone can relate. But I am having this unusually strong feeling of homesickness for Davao and not happy at Azure resort like I thought I would be. I feel attached to the things I have come so accustomed to having in my daily life in Davao (examples like feeling so at home at hotel Uno, their Christmas tree they still have up, the market and carenderia at Bankerohan where I know so many friendly people, San Pedro church where I can go pray when I am feeling down, Gaisano Grande Ilustre mall) and actually feel even more attached to the city than the pinay experience. I don't know why. I feel my life is actually complete in Davao without much luxury. I don't need what Azure offers. I never realized while I was there. I was used to life there. Then, being outside of there a few days, I realize now that is how I really feel about Davao and my attachment to that city. I think if I can find a better long term career that lets me stay in Davao in a good stable way, I will feel better. There are no risks involved with bringing pinays anywhere. I have lived in many cities in the world. Toronto, plus another small city near it, Georgtown Guyana, Paramaribo (near Georgetown) and of course Manila, and many more cities. But none have made me attached or have a feeling of homesick almost immediately upon departure. So I have this gut feeling Davao might be a good place to settle down in the future and again no risk with bringing pinay to Canada. I really hope that I can come back soon to Philippines and find a true way to stay there and support myself long term to enjoy living in Davao. I started feeling attached to a woman above my age so I tried to stop so I don't get attached to the wrong one. I just wait till I can confirm the right one comes along. Davao is there waiting for the day I return.

If you are 25 you shouldn't marry anyone, your personality isn't even fully formed yet, if so only a stunning 18 YO virgin. Marrying someone with a kid is really poor strategy.

--Tends to indicate she like "bad boys"-- where is the guy now?

--DIVIDED LOYALTIES - women are loyal to their kids above all, including you. You see this with "after the kid finishes highs school"

--She's like 32 at least,
---- in 6 years you'll be paying for kid's college,
---- in 8 her looks will be gone
---- you will want to divorce her and be screwed if you do, she'll get half your shit from your next ten years of earning.

Insane.

(02-24-2015 11:31 PM)Kabal Wrote:  Don't be that foreign guy proudly kissing his Pinay fiancee's mouth that's still tainted with some other foreigner's ass.

Here's a cautionary tale for guys reading this who are even thinking about the Philippines as a wife destination without doing their homework. I had a girl that had my cock in her mouth just about an hour before showing me pics of her holding hands with some "suitor" in Europe. This slightly older gentleman (40's) looked completely respectable too, suit and tie, and took her to a lot of interesting places in his home country.

Here she was 60ish minutes ago in my condo sucking me off and doing the piledriver on my floor now waxing poetic about her relationship. She wasn't some urchin either but middle class and otherwise "respectable" by filipino standards.

Just think about this for a minute. Think carefully.

(02-25-2015 03:11 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  If you are 25 you shouldn't marry anyone, your personality isn't even fully formed yet, if so only a stunning 18 YO virgin. Marrying someone with a kid is really poor strategy.

--Tends to indicate she like "bad boys"-- where is the guy now?

--DIVIDED LOYALTIES - women are loyal to their kids above all, including you. You see this with "after the kid finishes highs school"

--She's like 32 at least,
---- in 6 years you'll be paying for kid's college,
---- in 8 her looks will be gone
---- you will want to divorce her and be screwed if you do, she'll get half your shit from your next ten years of earning.

Insane.

Ok so I should choose a much younger pinay. Younger is also less likely to have kids so more choices with no kids. That makes a double advantage for 18 year old. Not only are they in their prime looks, but least likely to have kids yet. The ones in Santa Cruz seem decent. That is a coconut plantation town near Digos.

(02-25-2015 03:29 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(02-24-2015 11:31 PM)Kabal Wrote:  Don't be that foreign guy proudly kissing his Pinay fiancee's mouth that's still tainted with some other foreigner's ass.

Here's a cautionary tale for guys reading this who are even thinking about the Philippines as a wife destination without doing their homework. I had a girl that had my cock in her mouth just about an hour before showing me pics of her holding hands with some "suitor" in Europe. This slightly older gentleman (40's) looked completely respectable too, suit and tie, and took her to a lot of interesting places in his home country.

Here she was 60ish minutes ago in my condo sucking me off and doing the piledriver on my floor now waxing poetic about her relationship. She wasn't some urchin either but middle class and otherwise "respectable" by filipino standards.

Just think about this for a minute. Think carefully.

Ok. There was a woman already married that wanted me to do her in front of her husband. We were texting for a long time while I was right there in her city, Davao. But after all that I actually decided I did not want to do it. I was curious and interested to 'try something new and exotic' but the fear of going about doing it overtook my curiosity so I stopped texting her. I gave her an excuse I already had a girlfriend even though I had none, just so she would not be offended for me not wanting to do it anymore. I have already decided I don't want to even try that kind of set-up, doing a woman in front of her husband. I think it is actually too 'hard core' for me and I hought I was a more crazy person. I might be a wimp, but I withdrew my interest from it. There are things I could try in life, but this is not one of them. I message her occasionally on skype. She seems to not want to stop all contact. But I am not up for doing that thing with her now.

There was a girl same age as me that kept staring at me on the subway in Toronto like I have never seen a girl stare and I knew what she was thinking. I saw the expression on her face as she threw down a newspaper next to her. I think it was a bit of a cue. I should have gone for the contact, but I was totally new to the game so I did not understand. I only realized it some time later. My approach anxiety is too high in Toronto but this proves this kind of stuff exists with people in Toronto. If I had less anxiety and already had what I learned from social skills in the Philippines, I would have gone ahead with something.

(02-25-2015 03:11 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  If you are 25 you shouldn't marry anyone, your personality isn't even fully formed yet,

That is just what I have been thinking. I often go to the market to buy fruit and vegetables and people I meet there often ask me "do you have a wife?" I think "What in the world are you talking about? I am much too young for this!"
It feels the same like when I leave Davao to go on a farm and a friend staying back in Davao asks "Is that your own farm you are on? Do you own it?"

Many, especially in Mindanao are lead to think that a foreigner regardless of age, as long as they are a legal adult can be rich, married and own massive amounts of value in assets. Well of course it is not that way unless you are an actual business owner and usually much older. And being marriage minded is the same thing, reserved for later age.

(02-25-2015 04:21 AM)mindanao Wrote:  

(02-25-2015 03:29 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(02-24-2015 11:31 PM)Kabal Wrote:  Don't be that foreign guy proudly kissing his Pinay fiancee's mouth that's still tainted with some other foreigner's ass.

Here's a cautionary tale for guys reading this who are even thinking about the Philippines as a wife destination without doing their homework. I had a girl that had my cock in her mouth just about an hour before showing me pics of her holding hands with some "suitor" in Europe. This slightly older gentleman (40's) looked completely respectable too, suit and tie, and took her to a lot of interesting places in his home country.

Here she was 60ish minutes ago in my condo sucking me off and doing the piledriver on my floor now waxing poetic about her relationship. She wasn't some urchin either but middle class and otherwise "respectable" by filipino standards.

Just think about this for a minute. Think carefully.

Ok. There was a woman already married that wanted me to do her in front of her husband. We were texting for a long time while I was right there in her city, Davao. But after all that I actually decided I did not want to do it. I was curious and interested to 'try something new and exotic' but the fear of going about doing it overtook my curiosity so I stopped texting her. I gave her an excuse I already had a girlfriend even though I had none, just so she would not be offended for me not wanting to do it anymore. I have already decided I don't want to even try that kind of set-up, doing a woman in front of her husband. I think it is actually too 'hard core' for me and I hought I was a more crazy person. I might be a wimp, but I withdrew my interest from it. There are things I could try in life, but this is not one of them. I message her occasionally on skype. She seems to not want to stop all contact. But I am not up for doing that thing with her now.

There was a girl same age as me that kept staring at me on the subway in Toronto like I have never seen a girl stare and I knew what she was thinking. I saw the expression on her face as she threw down a newspaper next to her. I think it was a bit of a cue. I should have gone for the contact, but I was totally new to the game so I did not understand. I only realized it some time later. My approach anxiety is too high in Toronto but this proves this kind of stuff exists with people in Toronto. If I had less anxiety and already had what I learned from social skills in the Philippines, I would have gone ahead with something.

It seems like you only log in on during U.S. hours why is that??

Also, you don't seem to read and comprehend which is the standard characteristic of the borderline retarded western sow.

I wonder why ???

(02-25-2015 05:38 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(02-25-2015 04:21 AM)mindanao Wrote:  

(02-25-2015 03:29 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(02-24-2015 11:31 PM)Kabal Wrote:  Don't be that foreign guy proudly kissing his Pinay fiancee's mouth that's still tainted with some other foreigner's ass.

Here's a cautionary tale for guys reading this who are even thinking about the Philippines as a wife destination without doing their homework. I had a girl that had my cock in her mouth just about an hour before showing me pics of her holding hands with some "suitor" in Europe. This slightly older gentleman (40's) looked completely respectable too, suit and tie, and took her to a lot of interesting places in his home country.

Here she was 60ish minutes ago in my condo sucking me off and doing the piledriver on my floor now waxing poetic about her relationship. She wasn't some urchin either but middle class and otherwise "respectable" by filipino standards.

Just think about this for a minute. Think carefully.

Ok. There was a woman already married that wanted me to do her in front of her husband. We were texting for a long time while I was right there in her city, Davao. But after all that I actually decided I did not want to do it. I was curious and interested to 'try something new and exotic' but the fear of going about doing it overtook my curiosity so I stopped texting her. I gave her an excuse I already had a girlfriend even though I had none, just so she would not be offended for me not wanting to do it anymore. I have already decided I don't want to even try that kind of set-up, doing a woman in front of her husband. I think it is actually too 'hard core' for me and I hought I was a more crazy person. I might be a wimp, but I withdrew my interest from it. There are things I could try in life, but this is not one of them. I message her occasionally on skype. She seems to not want to stop all contact. But I am not up for doing that thing with her now.

There was a girl same age as me that kept staring at me on the subway in Toronto like I have never seen a girl stare and I knew what she was thinking. I saw the expression on her face as she threw down a newspaper next to her. I think it was a bit of a cue. I should have gone for the contact, but I was totally new to the game so I did not understand. I only realized it some time later. My approach anxiety is too high in Toronto but this proves this kind of stuff exists with people in Toronto. If I had less anxiety and already had what I learned from social skills in the Philippines, I would have gone ahead with something.

It seems like you only log in on during U.S. hours why is that??

Also, you don't seem to read and comprehend which is the standard characteristic of the borderline retarded western sow.

I wonder why ???

Some decent subjects to purse, yet seems that mindanao is taking us for a ride.