(07-28-2014 08:58 AM)Jukes Wrote: Nice dicussion guys. I know you' re not suppose to make a generalization, but I will. Every black dude at one point had a girl who was a pest to them. I mean daily trash talking and play fighting to the point of a serious agruement that leads into serious threats. The point where classmates or fellow witnesses just say " Y'all should fuck already. " So all the bickering eventually ends either two ways. The last dispute almost led into a fight making both of you sulk off and keep your distance like a bad marriage couple. Or shockingly when the man gets the attention of another girl. That when she decides to be friendly while undermining the relationships. So years later, the two of you meetup and she have a confession. " You know something name? I always thought you were cute. " And you are shocked because you are having flashbacks of her calling you ugly, gay, challenging your manhood, and threaten to get you jump by friends or family,etc.,. What part of the game is that? This black girl method cause a lose-lose situation. At this point, even if you knew the girl like you, you don' t escalate because of the unnecessary drama.
I haven't had one of those since Junior Highschool honestly. Lost quite a few bangs and LTRs that way, but I was hopelessly beta, virgin, and probably too obsessed with sports (basketball and baseball), books, pokemon and games, and martial arts. When I got to high school I quickly tried to correct that mess with all those girls, I was way too late. Other dudes had corrupted them big time. Pregnancy, drugs, etc. All of them were good girls too. 2 of those, still bother me inside, a little bit even though I have no real reason to care about that anymore. I guess me treating them like that and ignoring them was part of why they wanted me so badly. I had game before I knew what game was.
This style of conflict used to seem to me like something only black people did, but I bet it isn't due to stories shared with others I met years later, like with my old college classmate from South London. He isn't black, but Indian-white mixed. He had similar experiences.
True, it happen consistently in school, but it happen if you still live in urban areas. Reason why is because the same group of people hang out at the same corners or porches. This mean even the oldhead are repeating the same mistake over and over.
07-31-2014 07:44 PM
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(07-28-2014 08:58 AM)Jukes Wrote: Nice dicussion guys. I know you' re not suppose to make a generalization, but I will. Every black dude at one point had a girl who was a pest to them. I mean daily trash talking and play fighting to the point of a serious agruement that leads into serious threats. The point where classmates or fellow witnesses just say " Y'all should fuck already. " So all the bickering eventually ends either two ways. The last dispute almost led into a fight making both of you sulk off and keep your distance like a bad marriage couple. Or shockingly when the man gets the attention of another girl. That when she decides to be friendly while undermining the relationships. So years later, the two of you meetup and she have a confession. " You know something name? I always thought you were cute. " And you are shocked because you are having flashbacks of her calling you ugly, gay, challenging your manhood, and threaten to get you jump by friends or family,etc.,. What part of the game is that? This black girl method cause a lose-lose situation. At this point, even if you knew the girl like you, you don' t escalate because of the unnecessary drama.
I haven't had one of those since Junior Highschool honestly. Lost quite a few bangs and LTRs that way, but I was hopelessly beta, virgin, and probably too obsessed with sports (basketball and baseball), books, pokemon and games, and martial arts. When I got to high school I quickly tried to correct that mess with all those girls, I was way too late. Other dudes had corrupted them big time. Pregnancy, drugs, etc. All of them were good girls too. 2 of those, still bother me inside, a little bit even though I have no real reason to care about that anymore. I guess me treating them like that and ignoring them was part of why they wanted me so badly. I had game before I knew what game was.
This style of conflict used to seem to me like something only black people did, but I bet it isn't due to stories shared with others I met years later, like with my old college classmate from South London. He isn't black, but Indian-white mixed. He had similar experiences.
True, it happen consistently in school, but it happen if you still live in urban areas. Reason why is because the same group of people hang out at the same corners or porches. This mean even the oldhead are repeating the same mistake over and over.
I think it's funny that these women expect their men to be able to take care of them if they were to lose their jobs. We all know that they would never do the same if their husbands couldn't make any money. This career woman fad needs to go the way of the Dodo, but I don't see it happening any time soon. At least not in our lifetime.
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(09-26-2014 10:46 AM)Avon Barksdale Wrote: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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Alot of single moms know they can't raise boys, funny how that never stops them from becoming single moms. They don't seem to be that great at raising girls either unless you consider raising a young single mother a success.
Depends. I don't think they're nearly as bad as I make them out to be, but as a black man I don't feel much of a connection to most black girls I meet. I don't thnk they're necessarily more difficult than any other race, they're just more overt (in my experience) which lends to the myth that they're some how argumentative and aggressive. That said, I will admit that black and latino women are more given to high testosterone (unfeminine) behaviour that can make them unattractive to the average man (who lacks in testosterone).
Despite all of this, I think that if you find a black girl who has been raised in a traditional household, they're usually very feminine and easy-going. But these are the ones who usually get snapped up by some beta guy early on, so good luck finding these types.
(09-26-2014 07:50 PM)Fortis Wrote: Depends. I don't think they're nearly as bad as I make them out to be, but as a black man I don't feel much of a connection to most black girls I meet. I don't thnk they're necessarily more difficult than any other race, they're just more overt (in my experience) which lends to the myth that they're some how argumentative and aggressive. That said, I will admit that black and latino women are more given to high testosterone (unfeminine) behaviour that can make them unattractive to the average man (who lacks in testosterone).
Despite all of this, I think that if you find a black girl who has been raised in a traditional household, they're usually very feminine and easy-going. But these are the ones who usually get snapped up by some beta guy early on, so good luck finding these types.
I agree. I think black women as a whole tend to be given a bad rap by some prominent rachets from the hood. Like any women, they vary a lot from individual to individual. I can go on worldstar and see the worst of the worst, but some I encounter are very friendly and down to earth.
The main problem I have with black women(American in particular here) is the same problem I have with American women in general, but in more concentrated form. More obesity, lack of cultural refinement, loud and brash, lack of a certain softness of personality that makes a woman feel like a woman.
(09-26-2014 07:50 PM)Fortis Wrote: Despite all of this, I think that if you find a black girl who has been raised in a traditional household, they're usually very feminine and easy-going. But these are the ones who usually get snapped up by some beta guy early on, so good luck finding these types.
Sorry, but black women and beta go together like peanut butter and Ketchup. Many of the 'betas' they do date are white men (when they do date them). I rarely, almost never, see the studious black male type with these women.
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(09-26-2014 07:50 PM)Fortis Wrote: Despite all of this, I think that if you find a black girl who has been raised in a traditional household, they're usually very feminine and easy-going. But these are the ones who usually get snapped up by some beta guy early on, so good luck finding these types.
Sorry, but black women and beta go together like peanut butter and Ketchup.
You're forgetting that I said black woman raised by an actual family and not be an extended family unit because dad (or mom) decided they didn't want to deal with their kid. I find that black women from the Caribbean are VERY family oriented and friendly, but they're usually not in great shape because of their dietary habits. But I guess that just brings us back to the one of the major talking points of this forum: american girls be cray.
09-28-2014 09:49 AM
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(10-01-2014 01:48 AM)puckerman Wrote: I've found African American women to be better than their white counterparts. I'm white myself.
Of course you are.
It's funny, this past weekend I went to the market in the city to pick up a few things, and I almost bumped into a 30/40 something yr old black woman. I ALMOST bump into her, I don't actually touch her. I say, "excuse me." What response do I get? "Watch where you going MOTHER FUCKER!"
I just LOL at the hood rat and keep walking.
A few minutes later I almost bump into a brother (it's a crowded market), he just moves aside and says excuse me.
Then later that day I'm at a festival with a wide range of people. Couple of times I move past white women cause the crowd is so slow. They say, "Oh, sorry, excuse me."
Variations of this, where black women treat me (a polite, respectful, well educated black man who doesn't start shit) and my black friends like shit, has happened so many times that I'm just kind of used to it. That's just how it is now. Even black women who claim to not like white/Asian men and want a brother still rarely treat brothers well. Not that white women are angels, they sure as hell aren't, but there's definitely a anger and lack of filter with a noticeable amount of black women more so than other women.
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(09-26-2014 07:50 PM)Fortis Wrote: Despite all of this, I think that if you find a black girl who has been raised in a traditional household, they're usually very feminine and easy-going. But these are the ones who usually get snapped up by some beta guy early on, so good luck finding these types.
Sorry, but black women and beta go together like peanut butter and Ketchup.
You're forgetting that I said black woman raised by an actual family and not be an extended family unit because dad (or mom) decided they didn't want to deal with their kid. I find that black women from the Caribbean are VERY family oriented and friendly, but they're usually not in great shape because of their dietary habits. But I guess that just brings us back to the one of the major talking points of this forum: american girls be cray.
My bad I thought you were referring to African American women. Yes if they aren't from this country then I do agree with you.
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(09-28-2014 09:49 AM)Fortis Wrote: You're forgetting that I said black woman raised by an actual family and not be an extended family unit because dad (or mom) decided they didn't want to deal with their kid. I find that black women from the Caribbean are VERY family oriented and friendly, but they're usually not in great shape because of their dietary habits. But I guess that just brings us back to the one of the major talking points of this forum: american girls be cray.
When you say black women from the Caribbean, do you mean those born in the Caribbean but moved to America as teens or young adults OR do you mean those with Caribbean parents?
(10-01-2014 03:44 AM)Sumanguru Wrote: Variations of this, where black women treat me (a polite, respectful, well educated black man who doesn't start shit) and my black friends like shit, has happened so many times that I'm just kind of used to it. That's just how it is now. Even black women who claim to not like white/Asian men and want a brother still rarely treat brothers well. Not that white women are angels, they sure as hell aren't, but there's definitely a anger and lack of filter with a noticeable amount of black women more so than other women.
White women treat their "good" white men better than black women treat their "good" black men.
Killing time between meeting up with another girl who was buying me a bday lunch
3 shit tests, discovery that she was 4 years older, a 10 minute animated diatribe about her independence, wealth and black male shaming later I was reminded why I rarely seek them out anymore
As we were leaving - she tells me that burden of earning her (wining and dining) was now on me.
(10-13-2014 05:58 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote: Met up with a black chick
Killing time between meeting up with another girl who was buying me a bday lunch
3 shit tests, discovery that she was 4 years older, a 10 minute animated diatribe about her independence, wealth and black male shaming later I was reminded why I rarely seek them out anymore
As we were leaving - she tells me that burden of earning her (wining and dining) was now on me.
The nerve of these delusional broads
Lemme guess. Was she under an 8? Like a 6 or a 5? Does she make like 65-75,000 a year, thinks she got "muney", and drives a slightly older BMW or Benz? Maybe an Acura or a Jaguar? Did she flash her keyfob at you? She flash her handbag around? Did she scratch at her hair with one finger out like Cruela Deville?
(09-28-2014 09:49 AM)Fortis Wrote: You're forgetting that I said black woman raised by an actual family and not be an extended family unit because dad (or mom) decided they didn't want to deal with their kid. I find that black women from the Caribbean are VERY family oriented and friendly, but they're usually not in great shape because of their dietary habits. But I guess that just brings us back to the one of the major talking points of this forum: american girls be cray.
When you say black women from the Caribbean, do you mean those born in the Caribbean but moved to America as teens or young adults OR do you mean those with Caribbean parents?
I'm thinking of the ones born and raised abroad who emigrate late teens, early 20s. They're usually really cool, down-to-earth women.
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Alot of single moms know they can't raise boys, funny how that never stops them from becoming single moms. They don't seem to be that great at raising girls either unless you consider raising a young single mother a success.
