Thanks. I also noticed girls will sometimes laugh if the joke is really bad/stupid. Sometimes I make intentionally bad jokes because I know a girl will laugh. Thinking of something lame like -- "If loving you is wrong, I don't want to swipe right."

I've noticed that my Tinder game goes more successfully when I don't act like a nice guy, per se; but after I get the number, I have a more-extensive-than-usual conversation with the girl. These girls are flakes and they die out.

I'm going to experiment with GETTING THE NUMBER QUICKLY and then BUILDING RAPPORT as to ease comfort in hopes of getting a first-date close.

Not to be one of those guys who wines about height, but fuck, the amount of women who blatantly ask for tall dudes is out of control. If I said explicitly "C cups only" or "150 lbs or less" in my profile I would get zero matches. Doesn't stop me from trolling them. The more of them I see, the more I want to match with them and tell them I'm 5'4 or something just to see their reaction.

(06-12-2014 02:00 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  I've found that the one we laughed at earlier " I made a graph of how well this conversation is going: /---- \___ " works well. It's gotten me laughs and restarted interest several times now, and has never failed to get at least a reaction.

Just used that on a chick and she did not respond.

My condolences

This may have already been asked on this post...but my search turned up nothing.

Does there seem to be an age cutoff for tinder? I'm 34 ( on tinder at least ) and never EVER get any matches except the 3 or so I got within the first few days.

Now, I've been doing it for weeks and none of the girls EVER match with me. Albeit the profiles I swipe to the right are always like 19-28 years old....but damn.....no freaking matches in weeks? thing is...I'm a decent looking guy and tall...about 6'3. My pics show me with other people having fun, etc.

In 'real life' I will get interest and numbers from younger women 25 +

I guess I need to go get some tats, ear rings and have pictures of me bungee jumping from a bridge alongside victorias secret models to get friggin responses.....either that....or lower my age 7 years....lol.

(06-14-2014 08:11 AM)robreke Wrote:  This may have already been asked on this post...but my search turned up nothing.

Does there seem to be an age cutoff for tinder? I'm 34 ( on tinder at least ) and never EVER get any matches except the 3 or so I got within the first few days.

Now, I've been doing it for weeks and none of the girls EVER match with me. Albeit the profiles I swipe to the right are always like 19-28 years old....but damn.....no freaking matches in weeks? thing is...I'm a decent looking guy and tall...about 6'3. My pics show me with other people having fun, etc.

In 'real life' I will get interest and numbers from younger women 25 +

I guess I need to go get some tats, ear rings and have pictures of me bungee jumping from a bridge alongside victorias secret models to get friggin responses.....either that....or lower my age 7 years....lol.

Two things you can do to change this:

1. Lower your age on Facebook
2. Post your height in your bio

(06-14-2014 08:11 AM)robreke Wrote:  This may have already been asked on this post...but my search turned up nothing.

Does there seem to be an age cutoff for tinder? I'm 34 ( on tinder at least ) and never EVER get any matches except the 3 or so I got within the first few days.

Now, I've been doing it for weeks and none of the girls EVER match with me. Albeit the profiles I swipe to the right are always like 19-28 years old....but damn.....no freaking matches in weeks? thing is...I'm a decent looking guy and tall...about 6'3. My pics show me with other people having fun, etc.

In 'real life' I will get interest and numbers from younger women 25 +

I guess I need to go get some tats, ear rings and have pictures of me bungee jumping from a bridge alongside victorias secret models to get friggin responses.....either that....or lower my age 7 years....lol.

Problem with Tinder(and other dating sites to an extent) is that you are at the mercy of their matching algorithm. You can have the best photos in the world on Tinder, but if girls aren't actually seeing it because Tinder's algorithm isn't pushing you into rotation it won't make any difference. And you never really know whether it's you or it's Tinder. I might suggest deleting your profile and then starting fresh. I think Tinder is biased toward new sign ups in getting their profile priority display in the rotation.

Had at least 11 matches today but distance is becoming main issue because i am close to London by miles not by time they keep popping up always the nice girls aswell? never get a girl 10 or 15 miles down the road who wants to chat does my head in.

Got one girl number and had quite few long chats so not been a bad day i changed my picture to one i am fooling around in a nightclub and seemed to work weird.

Question and idea

I want to try this but I don't have a facebook account, so I guess I have to join 2007 and get on board.

I don't care if my friends know I'm on tinder, quite the opposite really.

What keywords, people, etc would be good ?

If the model uses facebook to get matches, why not build the facebook to optimize the model.

Especially if you are starting from scratch.

Thinking of (especially since the letters B and H are so close together on a keyboard) ending my bio with "Let's bang sometime. Whoops. Hang*"

Hmmm.

(06-14-2014 06:40 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Thinking of (especially since the letters B and H are so close together on a keyboard) ending my bio with "Let's bang sometime. Whoops. Hang*"

Hmmm.

Personally, I believe that would be a better kind of message to individually write to girls as your opener to that specific girl rather than your advertisement to every girl on Tinder. Then she will believe that she is special and the target of your erection, rather than thinking that you are a creep...

That's my sense.. but of course I could be wrong... b/c I am NOT so bold as to post dick pics, even though that kind of technique supposedly works for some guys.

Interesting. Did you do this? Did it work?

(06-14-2014 07:09 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  Personally, I believe that would be a better kind of message to individually write to girls as your opener to that specific girl rather than your advertisement to every girl on Tinder. Then she will believe that she is special and the target of your erection, rather than thinking that you are a creep...

That's my sense.. but of course I could be wrong... b/c I am NOT so bold as to post dick pics, even though that kind of technique supposedly works for some guys.

Right. I was thinking about leaving it just for girls I matched with. After I number close. Something like cool, let's bang sometime. Oops. Hang*

I don't know.

I also just the other day dropped my age parameter one year and increased it one year on the other end. And increased my mile radius from 15 miles to 20. Wow. So many more girls to choose from. I don't know why I was limiting myself to such a small distance. I've heard guys match with girls 40+ minutes away. I mean, it's not ideal, but if I really dig the girl, I don't see why we can't meet up somewhere halfway if the distance is too long. And lowering and raising your age by one single year opens you up to an entirely new audience.

I had been messaging with this girl from tinder for about 3 weeks and we were sending nude pics back and forth and she was definitely dtf. She sent me pictures of her with a spatula in her asshole and tons of other interesting pics.
Long story short she just wanted to be fucking dominated.

I was a little frightened about how open about sex she was and I like rawdogging a lot and add the fact that she was a 6 at best I decided to I needed to sit this one out.

I decided to pull the old switcheroo with a buddy of mine who is about 5'6" and 280lbs but he does lift a lot so he doesn't look quite as bad as it sounds.

I told her to meet me at a bar where my two buddies and I were watching the ufc fights. Then after a few hours of building comfort between the group I pretended to get sick and told her I was going to run to the store real quick to get some medicine but I really had a Tinder date with this girl that was a solid 8 to go to.

During the first hour or so my buddies kept texting me to come back because they didn't think it was working and that the girl seemed nervous yadda yadda. I kept saying I was actually sick because I didn't want to go back now. I text the girl that she should get to know my friends and they are cool guys.

Not only was this chick dtf. My two buddies tag teamed the fuck out of her. They are early 40's and said they did things to her that hadn't done since they were 20. They dped her. They both came in her mouth and they tied her up and fucked her like a hog.


To be honest even though she was a borderline 5/6 I'm a little jealous. My tinder date ended ok even though I wasn't able to secure the bang but for not getting laid this was a great night listening to them tell me this shit. The best part is both of them are living at home right now so they had to do this at another buddies house that has a wife and kids.

(06-14-2014 02:31 PM)ms224 Wrote:  Question and idea

I want to try this but I don't have a facebook account, so I guess I have to join 2007 and get on board.

I don't care if my friends know I'm on tinder, quite the opposite really.

What keywords, people, etc would be good ?

If the model uses facebook to get matches, why not build the facebook to optimize the model.

Especially if you are starting from scratch.

This is a good fucking point. And the word "model" gave me an idea.

How if you befriend tons of hotties (semi-professional models, etc.) on Facebook? Then Tinder will match you up with her equally hot friends. Or as Vince Vaughn would call them, "her beautiful baby friends" (Swingers).

Got a girl that's only answering questions and not asking any. Not doing anything to further the conversation, although she answers me a lot faster than I answer her. If there was low interest, couldn't she just ignore me/unmatch me?

How long do you guys typically let something like this go on before you eject? Do you try to step your game up and get her to open up? Maybe she's shy? I just hate having to do all the work.

Not sure if I should consider it a dead end or keep pushing. I guess I stand to lose nothing either way.

(06-15-2014 08:33 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Got a girl that's only answering questions and not asking any. Not doing anything to further the conversation, although she answers me a lot faster than I answer her. If there was low interest, couldn't she just ignore me/unmatch me?

How long do you guys typically let something like this go on before you eject? Do you try to step your game up and get her to open up? Maybe she's shy? I just hate having to do all the work.

Not sure if I should consider it a dead end or keep pushing. I guess I stand to lose nothing either way.

Troll the fuck out of her.

Tinder is not the place to spend your energy working on one chick. If she is boring then next her ass. There are plenty girls on there who will help move the conversation along.

I know bitches in real life that have told me they go on tinder just to troll guys. Don't get sucked into that.

(06-15-2014 09:41 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  Troll the fuck out of her.

Tinder is not the place to spend your energy working on one chick. If she is boring then next her ass. There are plenty girls on there who will help move the conversation along.

I know bitches in real life that have told me they go on tinder just to troll guys. Don't get sucked into that.

Considering it.

I've actually read profiles where girls say "just looking for friends" -- I know that may just be their shield, and we all know what happens when you penetrate said shield -- but shit like that is disturbing.

If you're looking for orbiters, use real life, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, pretty much every other fucking social media outlet, not apps specifically designed to set people up on dates. Fuck.

I will say though that tinder is great for building an abundance mentality. You don't even need to bang most of your matches, or any for that matter. The fact that you match with x amount of women who swiped you because they found you physically attractive is enough for me to go out with more confidence in my cold approaches.

I'm not gonna tolerate friend zone garbage on a dating app.

(06-14-2014 01:44 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(06-14-2014 08:11 AM)robreke Wrote:  This may have already been asked on this post...but my search turned up nothing.

Does there seem to be an age cutoff for tinder? I'm 34 ( on tinder at least ) and never EVER get any matches except the 3 or so I got within the first few days.

Now, I've been doing it for weeks and none of the girls EVER match with me. Albeit the profiles I swipe to the right are always like 19-28 years old....but damn.....no freaking matches in weeks? thing is...I'm a decent looking guy and tall...about 6'3. My pics show me with other people having fun, etc.

In 'real life' I will get interest and numbers from younger women 25 +

I guess I need to go get some tats, ear rings and have pictures of me bungee jumping from a bridge alongside victorias secret models to get friggin responses.....either that....or lower my age 7 years....lol.

Problem with Tinder(and other dating sites to an extent) is that you are at the mercy of their matching algorithm. You can have the best photos in the world on Tinder, but if girls aren't actually seeing it because Tinder's algorithm isn't pushing you into rotation it won't make any difference. And you never really know whether it's you or it's Tinder. I might suggest deleting your profile and then starting fresh. I think Tinder is biased toward new sign ups in getting their profile priority display in the rotation.

Have you...or anyone else here....done this^ for that matter? That is...in a sense "renewing" your tinder profile by deleting it and re creating it?

I know on match everytime you add info to your profile...it sends your profile back to the front of the queue....I'm wondering if Tinder works this way....would like comments on this as I only got responses within the first 24 hours of posting my tinder profile.

(06-15-2014 10:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  Have you...or anyone else here....done this^ for that matter? That is...in a sense "renewing" your tinder profile by deleting it and re creating it?

I know on match everytime you add info to your profile...it sends your profile back to the front of the queue....I'm wondering if Tinder works this way....would like comments on this as I only got responses within the first 24 hours of posting my tinder profile.

I delete my profile weekly. Most matches are on that first day I make a new profile. You don't really lose much by deleting/creating your profile. Either it will have a positive difference if it is in fact true new profiles get more views early on, or it won't have any effect at all. It's a no lose situation. The only thing you lose are matches, but the girls you really want to talk to, you should already have their numbers anyway.

(06-15-2014 08:12 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(06-14-2014 02:31 PM)ms224 Wrote:  Question and idea

I want to try this but I don't have a facebook account, so I guess I have to join 2007 and get on board.

I don't care if my friends know I'm on tinder, quite the opposite really.

What keywords, people, etc would be good ?

If the model uses facebook to get matches, why not build the facebook to optimize the model.

Especially if you are starting from scratch.

This is a good fucking point. And the word "model" gave me an idea.

How if you befriend tons of hotties (semi-professional models, etc.) on Facebook? Then Tinder will match you up with her equally hot friends. Or as Vince Vaughn would call them, "her beautiful baby friends" (Swingers).

This worked when Tinder was new last year for me for sure... so many mutual friend hotties from the models and club girls i'm friends on facebook with. It was amazing.. but that tailed off after 3 months or so. I'm going to delete and start a new Tinder profile to see if it works again or whether the Tinder model has changed and it no longer weighs mutual friends so heavily.

Put all the useful info from this thread including openers, shit tests and random findings into a text file
https://www.dropbox.com/s/avrzomtzfn6rqv...20Game.txt

Deleted my old profile, this update has killed the rate of matches/per day I get. Is anyone getting less and less matches ?

NOTE: I'm experimenting, I have me suited with a unicorn mask on in my default pic. (I'm sure it's a major factor)

But I feel like regardless if I had my best pic the matches are coming in slower and lesser.

I seriously think the new feel and update has killed it.

There are either super hot girls who have it for validation and attention or the 5/6's that are whatever and possibly dtf.

(04-01-2014 12:47 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  http://www.triplem.com.au/sydney/whats-h...at-tinder/



Some of them are hilarious!

What keyboard is he using that has the graph icon?

And also how is the "you look like the girl next door type but would love a hard fuck" line working for you guys? I keep getting blocked after I use that. Does this only work on certain types of girls?