Post: #126

^^^^ That's not all, there was another similar instance also with another friend last week.

We both went out to a local bar. We started checking out the scene when my friend decided to go out for a smoke. I accompanied him outside to the smoking area, when I saw a cute blonde girl standing there by herself texting. I told my friend "i'll be back, im going to talk to that chick" he responded with "hold on, not yet, we have to get the feel of things first" (he's scared of approaching girls himself). I said "nah im going in" so I went. I started talking to her and we had a good convo and a good vibe. I bounced her to the bar area and proceeded with kino. (my friend was standing watching the whole thing unfold) then I decided to leave again, sometimes I think that by leaving I keep the girl wanting more, so my strategy is to excuse myself and come back later after a half an hour, as to plant my seed sort of speak, not sure if this is a good strategy since I've been noticing that I butter them up for dudes that take advantage when I leave.

I went to the bathroom and as I walk out I see another girl with a huge ass and started to game her. I didn't get anything from the girl after maybe a 10 minute interaction except a number which was cool. When I came back I saw my friend talking to the blonde I was with earlier, he then saw me coming and came up to me and said "Im going to fuck her, so don't look at her" WTF!!!!!!!! I then said "dude, not cool" and then he told me "relax, im trying to get you laid" I don't know he was acting really crackish the whole night. So I left and started to approach more girls and charged the cute blonde girl to the game. I actually approached the bartender later and told me "I want to see you after I get off work" it was set. After the bar closed I go back to my friend and I didn't see him with the cute blonde anymore and told him, im waiting for the bartender to get off and he then told me "shes, a bartender, they are stuck up, you aint getting anything, trust me dude, I know what im talking about". Bartender comes and tells me if I wanted a ride, but I couldn't just leave my boy, I asked her if he could ride with us and take him home, but she said she couldn't because she wanted to spend time with me. No more than two minutes when my boy waved a cab and yelled "Dude, lets go NOW!!!!" Damn, I was visiting his town and he was a long time friend so I figured "bros before hoes" and kissed the bartender good night and told her I couldn't and just got her number.

When we got back to the house empty handed, he told me that the blonde chick was asking for me the whole night after he started to talk to her and will tell him "where's you're friend, he's so cute and hes so nice" and told me that she was waiting for me to go back to her and that he then recalled her saying "you know what, screw your friend, I can get any guy here I want because im unique" and I then asked him "well why didn't you tell me?" he then said "well for what? There was more girls you know" I was pissed. He also knew I had the bartender chick as well, and the asshole got a cab on purpose because he was pissed and yelled to leave.

Before this forum I was very beta and couldn't approach girls and he was my "wingman" at bars and he was always the guy in command when me and my buddies all went out, or was the leader sort of speak. I always relied on him to get laid because he's a good looking guy. He never knew me as a guy with game. He's a good looking guy and that alone gets him girls every now and then but he has no game. Me being average I started learning game and last week was the first time I applied my skills with that friend in particular since he invited me to his town. It didn't end up so well. I feel like this is going to ruin our friendship. Not sure what to do about this.

Post: #127

(02-16-2014 01:17 PM)MidWest Wrote:  ^^^^ That's not all, there was another similar instance also with another friend last week.

We both went out to a local bar. We started checking out the scene when my friend decided to go out for a smoke. I accompanied him outside to the smoking area, when I saw a cute blonde girl standing there by herself texting. I told my friend "i'll be back, im going to talk to that chick" he responded with "hold on, not yet, we have to get the feel of things first" (he's scared of approaching girls himself). I said "nah im going in" so I went. I started talking to her and we had a good convo and a good vibe. I bounced her to the bar area and proceeded with kino. (my friend was standing watching the whole thing unfold) then I decided to leave again, sometimes I think that by leaving I keep the girl wanting more, so my strategy is to excuse myself and come back later after a half an hour, as to plant my seed sort of speak, not sure if this is a good strategy since I've been noticing that I butter them up for dudes that take advantage when I leave.

I went to the bathroom and as I walk out I see another girl with a huge ass and started to game her. I didn't get anything from the girl after maybe a 10 minute interaction except a number which was cool. When I came back I saw my friend talking to the blonde I was with earlier, he then saw me coming and came up to me and said "Im going to fuck her, so don't look at her" WTF!!!!!!!! I then said "dude, not cool" and then he told me "relax, im trying to get you laid" I don't know he was acting really crackish the whole night. So I left and started to approach more girls and charged the cute blonde girl to the game. I actually approached the bartender later and told me "I want to see you after I get off work" it was set. After the bar closed I go back to my friend and I didn't see him with the cute blonde anymore and told him, im waiting for the bartender to get off and he then told me "shes, a bartender, they are stuck up, you aint getting anything, trust me dude, I know what im talking about". Bartender comes and tells me if I wanted a ride, but I couldn't just leave my boy, I asked her if he could ride with us and take him home, but she said she couldn't because she wanted to spend time with me. No more than two minutes when my boy waved a cab and yelled "Dude, lets go NOW!!!!" Damn, I was visiting his town and he was a long time friend so I figured "bros before hoes" and kissed the bartender good night and told her I couldn't and just got her number.

When we got back to the house empty handed, he told me that the blonde chick was asking for me the whole night after he started to talk to her and will tell him "where's you're friend, he's so cute and hes so nice" and told me that she was waiting for me to go back to her and that he then recalled her saying "you know what, screw your friend, I can get any guy here I want because im unique" and I then asked him "well why didn't you tell me?" he then said "well for what? There was more girls you know" I was pissed. He also knew I had the bartender chick as well, and the asshole got a cab on purpose because he was pissed and yelled to leave.

Before this forum I was very beta and couldn't approach girls and he was my "wingman" at bars and he was always the guy in command when me and my buddies all went out, or was the leader sort of speak. I always relied on him to get laid because he's a good looking guy. He never knew me as a guy with game. He's a good looking guy and that alone gets him girls every now and then but he has no game. Me being average I started learning game and last week was the first time I applied my skills with that friend in particular since he invited me to his town. It didn't end up so well. I feel like this is going to ruin our friendship. Not sure what to do about this.

Post: #128

Got accidentally cockblocked by a grandpa last weekend.

I went out doing partner dancing and got the attention of this tiny pretty brunette MILF with big tits who used to be a ballet dancer. She really dug my style, was laughing at everything I said and always touched me on the chest while laughing. At one point when the tension was high enough, I suggested we bounce to a nearby watering hole for a couple of drinks and she agreed, only for this grandpa asking her for one dance. Couldn't exactly say no, and what's the harm, right? Well, grandpa wasn't exactly an elegant dancer, and during the dance, he twisted my tiny sure-thing so hard, she threw her back out! Apparently he also swiped her boobs in the process too, she told me.

Sexytime ruined!

Post: #129

This happened a few years ago. I approached a very young girl standing around with her female friends. She politely told me she had a boyfriend but I insisted, telling me she could give me a call after she'd broken up with him, with a smirky smile.

She became hesitant but I still was getting ready to walk away when the ugliest and mannish-looking of her friends said in a bitchy manner:

- Aren't you a little too old for her?

There was a moment of suspense within the group. I replied:

- So you're the cock-blocker of the group, huh? All the girls burst out laughing at her. But the stupid bitch didn't have the tact to realize she had been put in her place and insisted on continuing the back-forth. I told her:

- You're just jealous I didn't approached you instead.

- No I'm not. I have a boyfriend.

- If you have a boyfriend why can't you just be happy and shut the fuck up? Why do you have to meddle in other people's affairs?

That finally shut her up. I feel pretty good about myself thinking back on this. It's always good to call out cock-blockers.

From living in Sweden for most of my life I have learned that any interaction with girls here requires one to have pre-established come-backs like I had this time. It's energy-draining to always have to be prepared for being attacked. I've lost count how many times I've been verbally attacked by girls here who try to make fun of me. It's very common for girls to be mean and make demeaning comments like that. It's always the same type of girls who do it too, just like it's always them who cock-block.

Post: #130

Chinese dude getting cockblocked by a white guy in Hong Kong caught on tape.

Post: #131

I approached a cute girl sitting on a bench with "do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?" An older woman came up from behind and told me exactly where it was.

Post: #132

That was painful to watch.

I'm really hoping that chick was just his date that night and not his actual girlfriend.

Post: #133

(06-01-2014 05:38 PM)AfgScarface Wrote:  That was painful to watch.

I'm really hoping that chick was just his date that night and not his actual girlfriend.

Either way (just turrible - Charles Barkley voice)

Even watched it with the sound off - ouch!!!

Post: #134

He should have just punched the white guy out to save face, lose the girl and got kicked out of the club/bar.

That seemed like a suicide-inducing level of shame. Normally I'd side with the guys that say 'fuck her he should have just bounced and started hitting on other women' but the way the white dude was entering (penetrating?) his space like that.. it was a direct affront to him as a man, forget the girl for a second.

Post: #135

This was a new one for me.

Sitting outside at McDonalds in Belgrade having a coffee and a kinda cute girl sits down next to me. 5 minutes later when I see she's about done I open her.

After about 2 minutes of talking this 5-6 year old Gypsy kid comes out of nowhere and starts stealing her fries and talking to her (!). He did it a couple times and then finally she gave him the rest and told him to shoo. Then the mother comes over and asks for the rest of her McNuggets! (which she gladly gave up)

Definitely disrupted my game & the chemistry and made things a bit akward for a bit, but I just stayed calm and laughed it off.

Got the number in any case but man sometimes I feel like the Gods are against me!

Post: #136

I opened two cute Latinas in a booth at a nice hipsterish bar last week. One was kinda closed off and bitchy but the other seemed interested and we were laughing having a good time. The bitchy one didn't seem like a blocker though. I motion my friend to come over to occupy the bitchy one and once I sit next to the one I'm going for my friend knocks his full beer over, breaking the glass and spilling beer on my target... Clock blocked

Post: #137

(06-18-2014 01:04 PM)SDGuerro Wrote:  I opened two cute Latinas in a booth at a nice hipsterish bar last week. One was kinda closed off and bitchy but the other seemed interested and we were laughing having a good time. The bitchy one didn't seem like a blocker though. I motion my friend to come over to occupy the bitchy one and once I sit next to the one I'm going for my friend knocks his full beer over, breaking the glass and spilling beer on my target... Clock blocked

man that really sucks. I hope your buddy bought you a few beers after that! Was there any way to recover and sort of help her clean herself up (& initiate kino by toweling her off?)

Post: #138

I didn't see the opening haha the bitchy one got bitchier and my skills weren't up for smoothing that one over... He did buy me some beers though. How would you've tried to smooth that over?

Post: #139

(06-01-2014 04:36 AM)MidWest Wrote:  Chinese dude getting cockblocked by a white guy in Hong Kong caught on tape.

So what could have the Chinese guy done in this situation? Just leave or box it out? I've had a dude like this come in and taken my girl a few years back and I snapped.

Post: #140

(06-21-2014 04:50 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

(06-01-2014 04:36 AM)MidWest Wrote:  Chinese dude getting cockblocked by a white guy in Hong Kong caught on tape.

So what could have the Chinese guy done in this situation? Just leave or box it out? I've had a dude like this come in and taken my girl a few years back and I snapped.

We already have a thread on this. I think the consensus was that the Chinese guy was just some weirdo who was holding her hand and that nobody, including the girl's friend, really knew who he was. I really don't know what the white guy did which was so great and allowed him to leave with the girl. The guy looks like an alien or something to me.

Post: #141

I had a dude roll up to my gf at the time and try something. I immediately looked him in the eyes and told him "I don't think so." He walked off looking down with zero eye contact.

I'm not sure what I would have done in those pre-game days if she wasn't my gf.

Post: #142

(06-19-2014 07:09 PM)SDGuerro Wrote:  I didn't see the opening haha the bitchy one got bitchier and my skills weren't up for smoothing that one over... He did buy me some beers though. How would you've tried to smooth that over?

Just hang around, maybe say "I can't take him anywhere, he always does this" or something like that. Or, alternatively you could invite her back to your place immediately for a hot shower and a drink (with a big smirk). Definitely would 'dry her off' as well

I just wouldn't give up since it seemed you'd done some good work and were making progress. But I wasn't there so maybe it was just a lost cause.

Post: #143

I don't normally think too much of cockblocking and charge it to Game but there's a trend going on that I'm still trying to figure out.

Last night I went out to the club for the first time in a few months. Dressed sharp as fuck - most stylish dude in the joint. Getting plenty of interests from girls. I'm dancing by myself and girls are coming up and dancing next to me. If I think they're cute I move a little closer and we start dancing together. I know what i'm doing and in the past once I'm dancing with a girl it's usually been game on.

This time though it seemed like every single girl who came up and danced with me had a pack of friends standing in the corner determined to make sure she wasn't having a good time. One girl seemed super into me, she'd dance with me, her friends would tear her away, then 5 minutes later she'd be back. We'd dance for a few minutes and they were tearing her away again. Rinse and repeat.

I'm guessing the best thing to do would be to give the girl a little shit about it - "You're friends don't seem like they want you to have fun" said with a smirk and see if she puts a stop to it.

Post: #144

Ensam, further to your post I was in a position to observe some brilliant game pulled of by a guy, who I didnt know btw.

It was a group of 3 girls with one good looking mother hen who must have a BF somewhere because she had bitch shields set to stun.

Two-three guys make their way into the group and establish some vibes and one guy in particular gets going with a cute one.

He starts pulling her away from the group she is with with some smooth dancing and the hen realises this and then pulls her back. Not to be put off by this he starts moving her off again and makes her want him.

Some good intimacy going on between the two (yes I am perving ) and mother hen realises her friend is away from her for too long and decides to go grab her. The friend says to her "1 minute" and she stays with the guy.

I immediately knew this guy was going to pull off a hail mary to get rid of the cockblocker for good.

He then pulls the girl straight out of the dance floor and back to his I am sure. Mother hen fucking lost it and looked frantically for her.

I am pretty sure he was boning her within 15-20 minutes of doing that.

This gave me a key lesson. If you know a girl is into you and her friends are hating I say its the best time to do an apocalypse-style approach. Get her the fuck away from the cockblockers and into your bed ASAP.

Post: #145

Thanks Foolsgo1d, that's a good story.

I've gotten used to running bar/pub game which doesn't require the same level of maneuvering - I can usually win over any friends/mother hens enough by being charming that they'll relax their grip. One thing I realized about the club scene is that it requires much for decisive action.

Post: #146

My friend and I are studying abroad in Edinburgh and were making progress with the cutest girls we've ever attempted picking up. We survived multiple cockblocks, including a hobo with a dog named Rage Against the Machine and fat lesbians. We made out with the girls in the pub, felt them up on the street, and made it back to our flat, where they woke up our flat mates. Our flat mates raised hell so the girls freaked out and left. They were literally on my bed and this would have our first UK flag. I'm going to count this night as a victory though cause I got to at least squeeze the most perfect ass I've seen in this country so far. This is how I'm going to let myself sleep without weeping tonight

Post: #147

Hungarian guys are some of the biggest cockblocks in the world, yet they always seem to be unsuccessful. I was at Otkert in Budapest tonight for a internations event on the patio talking to two blondes having a nice conversation not even really trying to get at them. While I'm talking to them some guys say something in Hungarian to one of them. When she comes back she says the guy said that I'm gay because I was wearing a pink shirt and she starts to chuckles. To show her how gay I was I went in for the kiss although she objected. About 15mins later these guys finally make there way on the patio and try to talk to the blondes. They whisper something to them in hungarian and I asked her what it meant, The one I'm having a deeper conversation with keeps telling me "they're idiots dont listen to them they're idiots". So I continue to pressure her to find out what he said, turns out the guy told her I had fucking EBOLA! haha. Hungarian guys are fucking losers and even the women wont deny it.

Post: #148

I wanted to add a very interesting phenomenon to this thread. I call it piggy backed cock blocks.

I talk to women as much as I possibly can indirectly especially the ones that are working or seem grounded. I have a friendly maybe even worldly tone and aura.

As I do this, there may be a guy around that otherwise wouldn't have said shit join in on the conversation.

Recently a cute barista is sweeping the floor at a Starbucks. I use my standard opener in this situation "how often do you have to do this everyday." Followed by her irrelevant response followed by "at least you don't have to deal with picky customers." Guy next to me reopened her with something like "but not everyone is so picky."

He piggybacked onto my conversation and cockblocked me. Another indirect benefit of a direct approach is that these are probably less likely to occur.

Has this happened to you?

Post: #149

Yep

At a gas station some time back, spotted a cute girl pumping gas about 20 ft away. She stared and looked away, I just stared. It was one of those mutual admiration looks, when you just know the lust is mutual. Once we made eye contact again, I motioned her over and pulled the Elderly opener like I needed directions (I was running late to meet up with another new girl but sometimes you gotta say fuck it).

All of a sudden, out the clear blue some lady chubster damn near leaps into our conversation with turn by turn directions. We both looked at each other like wtf?!?

Long story short, after she finished her ramble I thanked her and # closed my target. Couple weeks later, while we were in bed she says 'Damn, that chick was trying to get her some dick. Almost stole you away'.

Random chicks cockblock too

Post: #150

Just got cockblocked by an RSD guy here in Hamburg, near Jungfernstieg. Was walking towards her acting lost, planning on opening her indirect ..... and this shorter, athletic guy blows past me, running in towards her. In the span of about a minute, I see him open her super-direct, ask personal question after personal question, and almost try to wrap her around himself with kino before she walks off. Talked to him afterwards and he confirmed he followed RSD's forum. Now I have to deal with the "approach monkeys" on top of everything else here in Hamburg. FML.