We should go out and game together sometime, Soup. I'm in Brooklyn too.

(05-31-2014 09:05 PM)soup Wrote:  Fuck I realize they I'm getting either lazy, apathetic, or tired about going out to wrangle ass from the bars. I think it's because I have a long day ahead of me tomorrow, and need to get enough sleep.

I've got this thing about not going out unless I'm already out. I think it's because I've been doing so much online dating and I got banned from two of the local pulling spots.

That and I'm just not in the mood to listen to the crappy music that gets blasted at most bars and clubs in Brooklyn. It's Saturday night and I'm not in party mode right now.

Maybe I'm going to force my ass to get out of the house and go party.

That's it I'm going to do it.

It can't be all wushy washy. You have to want to go out with a mission in mind. I need to go out and just be soup tonight instead of game being tangential to whatever activity in doing. Those other activities can hold me back and dull my abilities.

I don't usually drink at home but I'm going to have some whiskey and then hit the bars. Wish me fuck-luck.

Soup you fucker, you better be out in Bushwick tonight. Easy pickings with the BOS crowd. Tons of Euro tourists waiting for a Brooklyn artist to come woo them...

Go out with goldmund, it would make things more fun.

(05-31-2014 09:10 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  

(05-31-2014 09:05 PM)soup Wrote:  Fuck I realize they I'm getting either lazy, apathetic, or tired about going out to wrangle ass from the bars. I think it's because I have a long day ahead of me tomorrow, and need to get enough sleep.

I've got this thing about not going out unless I'm already out. I think it's because I've been doing so much online dating and I got banned from two of the local pulling spots.

That and I'm just not in the mood to listen to the crappy music that gets blasted at most bars and clubs in Brooklyn. It's Saturday night and I'm not in party mode right now.

Maybe I'm going to force my ass to get out of the house and go party.

That's it I'm going to do it.

It can't be all wushy washy. You have to want to go out with a mission in mind. I need to go out and just be soup tonight instead of game being tangential to whatever activity in doing. Those other activities can hold me back and dull my abilities.

I don't usually drink at home but I'm going to have some whiskey and then hit the bars. Wish me fuck-luck.

Soup you fucker, you better be out in Bushwick tonight. Easy pickings with the BOS crowd. Tons of Euro tourists waiting for a Brooklyn artist to come woo them...

They come to NYC to meet guys exactly like me.. unless there on a fuck tour from Scandinavia looking darker dick.

hahahahaha

I went to bhixk and didn't see many girls that turned me on.

I went to bhixk and didn't see many girls that turned me on.

Banged an ex, then she reminded me why she was an ex. Immediately kicked her out. Normally, I feel a little regret or guilt for making choices like this, but I'm stone sober, and I feel great about this move. She just never learned, and will never learn, how to listen.

Met up with a girl from PoF at the bar last night. I'd say about a 6.5. Older with fake tits. She was all over me and it felt like the notch was in the bag. Drove her back to her place later that night to find her two kids awake playing video games. That alone was boner killing but not totally. I went to the bedroom while she did her single mom type yelling for them to go to bed. She came back in and got into a tshirt and shorts. After I turned out the lights I got in bed and we started making out and I started to make my normal moves. After about 30 seconds she tells me "You're gonna behave." I just shake it off and work through my normal LMR stuff. I've dealt with worse and have come out on top. She however, pulls out my LMR kryptonite. She rolls over and goes to sleep. I didn't not come over to fucking sleep and cuddle so I tell her I'm going home. She's a little irritated but fuck that shit.

MILF just invited me to Hawaii. I met her last week.

Fuck 'em good and you'll be the prize.

You are going to pay money to go fuck an old lady in Hawaii?

(06-01-2014 03:44 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  MILF just invited me to Hawaii. I met her last week.

Fuck 'em good and you'll be the prize.

If she pays for your flight and food...ideal vacation.

(06-01-2014 05:19 PM)soup Wrote:  You are going to pay money to go fuck an old lady in Hawaii?

Oh no, not at all. It's quite the other way around. I mentioned this lady in the Chatroom and approach thread.

We met last Thursday night at a casino. We drank, fucked, and gambled.
Friday day she signed her divorce.
Spent Friday through Monday/Tuesday going out and fucking around in different hotels around Dallas.

She texted me saying she wants to take a trip to hawaii (she usually takes a trip somewhere during the summer), then asked if I want to come along. She's paying for it.

(06-01-2014 05:25 PM)Renberg Wrote:  

(06-01-2014 03:44 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  MILF just invited me to Hawaii. I met her last week.

Fuck 'em good and you'll be the prize.

If she pays for your flight and food...ideal vacation.

She's paying for the trip. My summer couldn't get any better. Hawaii for free!

Say hi to kona.

sent out text to 12 broads. let's see how this will turn out

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got one reply and she just asked me who i am. wonder how i should troll her

wasnt going to go out last night.

Said fuck it and went.

City was pretty much dead. Found two cute chicks in a small pub. Only good looking girls in there. Dudes simping all over them. Had a drink or two, opened on my way out, brought them both back to my place for the after party.

No bang, the dd girl wanted to leave around 3am. Fun night regardless.

So far that new opener has been used twice. It worked beautifully both times. It's designed for day game but actually works just as great at night. Think I stumbled onto something good.

(06-05-2014 09:53 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  wasnt going to go out last night.

Said fuck it and went.

City was pretty much dead. Found two cute chicks in a small pub. Only good looking girls in there. Dudes simping all over them. Had a drink or two, opened on my way out, brought them both back to my place for the after party.

No bang, the dd girl wanted to leave around 3am. Fun night regardless.

So far that new opener has been used twice. It worked beautifully both times. It's designed for day game but actually works just as great at night. Think I stumbled onto something good.

What's your opener?

(06-05-2014 12:19 PM)simondice Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 09:53 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  wasnt going to go out last night.

Said fuck it and went.

City was pretty much dead. Found two cute chicks in a small pub. Only good looking girls in there. Dudes simping all over them. Had a drink or two, opened on my way out, brought them both back to my place for the after party.

No bang, the dd girl wanted to leave around 3am. Fun night regardless.

So far that new opener has been used twice. It worked beautifully both times. It's designed for day game but actually works just as great at night. Think I stumbled onto something good.

What's your opener?

It an opener I read in a book that a salesperson used. I modified it a bit for the ladies. Works pretty good but you need a pen and paper. But it's real simple, makes you look smart, leads into a decent conversation, and gets you touching the girl.

I'll pm it if you want, but I'm not blasting it out to every unregistered lurker.

(06-05-2014 03:17 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  It an opener I read in a book that a salesperson used. I modified it a bit for the ladies. Works pretty good but you need a pen and paper. But it's real simple, makes you look smart, leads into a decent conversation, and gets you touching the girl.

I'll pm it if you want, but I'm not blasting it out to every unregistered lurker.

Yeah Pm it, sounds interesting.

I got cockblocked by my ID last night....

Just when I was about to get a room I realized that I didn't bring my ID with me and couldn't book a room.

(06-05-2014 03:24 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got cockblocked by my ID last night....

Just when I was about to get a room I realized that I didn't bring my ID with me and couldn't book a room.

hahhaaha my ID cockblocked me a bit back too!

In my case, I had given the girl a fake name. Way fake.

I was tabbing out after our last drink and we were on our way to my crib. Waiting to get my card back, I tossed my wallet on the bar top. I have a wallet that has a clear plastic screen on the front you put your ID in. Well that clear plastic thing was facing up.

All of a sudden she says "Well is that so *Real Name*"

I look down, realize my ID is showing, that she busted my lying to her. I of course tried to play it off, saying it was a joke and all in fun and she needs to lighten up and have some fun once in a while.

But hard to recover from that within a couple minutes. Paid for my drink, she didn't want to come to my place anymore, because she had no idea what I was even telling the truth about etc, etc, etc.

Given more time I could have (and have in the past) recovered, but the fact it happened right at the end of our last drink kinda fucked me.

(06-05-2014 03:32 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 03:24 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got cockblocked by my ID last night....

Just when I was about to get a room I realized that I didn't bring my ID with me and couldn't book a room.

hahhaaha my ID cockblocked me a bit back too!

In my case, I had given the girl a fake name. Way fake.

I was tabbing out after our last drink and we were on our way to my crib. Waiting to get my card back, I tossed my wallet on the bar top. I have a wallet that has a clear plastic screen on the front you put your ID in. Well that clear plastic thing was facing up.

All of a sudden she says "Well is that so *Real Name*"

I look down, realize my ID is showing, that she busted my lying to her. I of course tried to play it off, saying it was a joke and all in fun and she needs to lighten up and have some fun once in a while.

But hard to recover from that within a couple minutes. Paid for my drink, she didn't want to come to my place anymore, because she had no idea what I was even telling the truth about etc, etc, etc.

Given more time I could have (and have in the past) recovered, but the fact it happened right at the end of our last drink kinda fucked me.

Had something similar happen one stop before the hotel for an easy lay with this Guatemalan piece. Totally fucks up the vibe...

Now I mostly carry cash during meetups - that way your ID/Bank card never comes into play

One less notch, hard lesson learned

had a really weird day today



*I had purchased something already

(06-05-2014 03:32 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 03:24 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got cockblocked by my ID last night....

Just when I was about to get a room I realized that I didn't bring my ID with me and couldn't book a room.

hahhaaha my ID cockblocked me a bit back too!

In my case, I had given the girl a fake name. Way fake.

I was tabbing out after our last drink and we were on our way to my crib. Waiting to get my card back, I tossed my wallet on the bar top. I have a wallet that has a clear plastic screen on the front you put your ID in. Well that clear plastic thing was facing up.

All of a sudden she says "Well is that so *Real Name*"

I look down, realize my ID is showing, that she busted my lying to her. I of course tried to play it off, saying it was a joke and all in fun and she needs to lighten up and have some fun once in a while.

But hard to recover from that within a couple minutes. Paid for my drink, she didn't want to come to my place anymore, because she had no idea what I was even telling the truth about etc, etc, etc.

Given more time I could have (and have in the past) recovered, but the fact it happened right at the end of our last drink kinda fucked me.

I give my OKC dates a fake name and it adds a level of anxiety as I run into people I know IRL all the time.

How would one recover from giving a fake name if she finds out or how do you fess up yourself without making her think you're weird.

Went to a nightclub 20 minutes away from me to work on my approach anxiety and refine some methods.
Accumulated lessons thus far:
- Never ask for anything. Use phraseology to work around.
- Never go through friends. Direct to the source.
- Never open with "Were you planning on saying hello?"
- Never run aloof game during initial interaction in a crowded environment. Most likely she'll up'n leave or be engaged by another.
- Dancing is good for interaction. Obtain clear IOI's, engage & amplify physical contact.
- If asked "Are you guys together?" respond with "Why do you ask? Are you planning on having a ____some tonight? I have to warn you - the last guy who saw my dick started crying." (This one might need some refinement)