(06-09-2014 11:17 PM)soup Wrote:  Is it alpha or beta to have a hard on when a hot girl hugs you? I know it's alpha to not care but I'm talking about the intrinsic of just having a boner at the moment.

We've all been there. How about with holding hands?...even more beta?

I also have a theory of attractiveness this boils down to droopy vs. perky.

People associate droopy with sad, depressed, old, etc.

The associate perky with happy, confident, young, strong.

I think this has to do with fight or flight. There are times when it's evolutionarily advantages to fight, and times when it's better to hide or run/flight.

Someone who is more droopy in general than perky is giving off signs that they are not the alpha predators.. they are the ones who get by by hiding. The reverse is true.

I think that this goes for both men and women.

A non-"sexist" measure of attractiveness from the manosphere: guys like younger women becauese them seem less droopy than most older women.

Girls tend to like older/mature guys because they are more confident/perky than a lot of younger guys who have the cards stacked against them biologically.

(06-09-2014 11:17 PM)soup Wrote:  Is it alpha or beta to have a hard on when a hot girl hugs you? I know it's alpha to not care but I'm talking about the intrinsic of just having a boner at the moment.

I don't know which way to call it.

You would have to be alpha as fuck to not care.

Imagine hugging a girl in a coffee shop, and proudly standing there with a hard on watching her leave.

Then when you turn back around to sit down you notice everyone staring at your dick. The alpha thing to do would be to look the hottest girl in the eye and smirk. Can't say I'm on that level though.

This begs the question, is tucking it into your waistband beta?

If a girl refuses to give you her number, even a fake one what does that mean?

Valhalla, it means that you should next her and keep your eye on the big picture. Dealing with large amounts and types of rejection is like half the game. Especially when you are first starting out.

For every one rejection you get, go approach five more girls.

(06-09-2014 11:17 PM)soup Wrote:  Is it alpha or beta to have a hard on when a hot girl hugs you? I know it's alpha to not care but I'm talking about the intrinsic of just having a boner at the moment.

Alpha all the way.
The boner marks the territory. The boner tells you there's chemistry between both of you. The boner is wiser than you because it knows what it wants. I believe it's very alpha because when that happens, I happen to find girls who are very down, the ones I click the most and the ones I sometimes actually date. Listen to the wisdom of your body, always.

(06-10-2014 10:36 AM)simondice Wrote:  

(06-09-2014 11:17 PM)soup Wrote:  Is it alpha or beta to have a hard on when a hot girl hugs you? I know it's alpha to not care but I'm talking about the intrinsic of just having a boner at the moment.

Alpha all the way.
The boner marks the territory. The boner tells you there's chemistry between both of you. The boner is wiser than you because it knows what it wants. I believe it's very alpha because when that happens, I happen to find girls who are very down, the ones I click the most and the ones I sometimes actually date. Listen to the wisdom of your body, always.

I've always wondered about this, what do you guys do if you all of a sudden get a boner during an approach/date?

I ask because at my age I literally am pitching a tent ~10% of the time when I'm out haha.

You can flex your bicep to make the boner go down but I prefer channeling that energy through my eyes, imagining what's it like to fuck her raw, rough and bust inside of her. This will send her a powerful vibe when I look at her body and then her eyes. This works well especially close space-wise, like a foot away from her.

(06-10-2014 12:08 PM)simondice Wrote:  You can flex your bicep to make the boner go down

...What?!

Some lizards see a boner as a lack of control..especially if you just got it on a hug..

I'm sure some chicas would want to jump you right then and there.

(06-10-2014 12:23 PM)Moma Wrote:  Some lizards see a boner as a lack of control..especially if you just got it on a hug..

It's all about frame though. Most girls are turned on by it, if you're an alpha guy or she likes you. One time I was popping one with one girl when teaching her how to dance and she just kept smiling like an idiot. I fucked her and she told me she was turned on by it when she first saw it.

(06-10-2014 12:19 PM)Renberg Wrote:  

(06-10-2014 12:08 PM)simondice Wrote:  You can flex your bicep to make the boner go down

...What?!

Old trick I learned in highschool. I would fall asleep in class, and the teacher would wake me up, usually in a hilarious way, and she would ask me to come to the board. Usually I would wake up pitching a tent, so I used to tense my bicep as a way to relieve stress in this awkward situation, and I noticed the boner went down fast.

Another good unnoticeable way to keep your mind occupied when youre nervous or embarrassed is to wiggle your toes... heard about it from some random sketchbag but it definitely has helped me quite a few times. Better then flexing because its unnoticeable with shoes on..


Edit ** on my way out the door to chill with a 90lb 18 year old. little hottie, parents are gone for the week and i gotta go to the rig in the morning. gonna break this bitch in two

(06-10-2014 10:32 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Another good unnoticeable way to keep your mind occupied when youre nervous or embarrassed is to wiggle your toes... heard about it from some random sketchbag but it definitely has helped me quite a few times. Better then flexing because its unnoticeable with shoes on..

What if you dont have shoes on?

Reminds me of the beginning of Die Hard...

(06-10-2014 10:37 PM)cooledcannon Wrote:  

(06-10-2014 10:32 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Another good unnoticeable way to keep your mind occupied when youre nervous or embarrassed is to wiggle your toes... heard about it from some random sketchbag but it definitely has helped me quite a few times. Better then flexing because its unnoticeable with shoes on..

What if you dont have shoes on?

So I was just browsing my FB news feed and saw one of the girls from my school change her profile pic to her and her orbiter. Top shelf lol

Not only did I take this girl to pound town back in March but this dude was DDing that night and DROVE US TO HER PLACE. He still sticks to her side even though I'm pretty sure he's been orbiting for almost two years.

Girl's a solid 8 too, porn star tits and my kind of body (short, tan, blonde, fat ass). Ain't a doubt in my mind I'll be back at it in August either, she loves herself some Hans Dix atomic spunk cannon.

I had chick say "what the actual fuck" to me about something. I tried not laugh.. I pretended to agree with her and said "yeah- what the actual fuck?" And she said it again. Got to love hippie chicks.. She was even in the OWS movement. She wants to cook me a vegan dinner. She's an 8

@soup i was referring to her partner number my bad

New Girl said to me, 'I love that we have rough sex!'

I replied, 'Oh, you mean regular sex?'

How do you guys get rid of the girls' hair in your bed before your main comes over? I don't want to wash my sheets everytime. I'm thinking of getting a dustbuster, is that ridiculous?

Slubu you could try a sticky lint roller? I've personally had more problems with smell than hair. Girl shampoo and perfume tend to leave a lingering scent which my main knows isn't her.

Moving to a new area. Having a venue or area on lock is ideal, but if you're new to the area, should you try to hide this or pretend you're a local? Or share from the start that you're new to the area?

Will a girl subconsciously or consciously devalue a guy for being new?

Saying you're new could trigger her instinct to help someone, and perhaps allow you to seem vulnerable but in fact fully capable of taking control.

Just got out of a sex shop at the mall. People couldn't stop looking at me while reading 50 shades of Grey. Main girl kisses me on the cheek, and goes to the bathroom. Day-gamed a couple of girls there and they threw their number at me. One even offered a movie that I should totally watch at her house.

@ Slubu: Maaaan I have the same fucking problem. these chicks shead like crazy. my main chick even pulled a stran of hair from the blanket one morning after having sex. she said "my hair isn't this long" (lucky she had just so happen to have died her hair the same color as the other chick that was there the other night).... to which I replied "it's gotta be, unless chicks have been breaking into my home plane ting random hairs everywhere"...

I'm also having a problem getting their cum/pussy juice stains out. I suppose I should be manuelly scrubbing those out. also, like an idiot I've got black sheets.. everything appears on that shit