(05-21-2014 08:22 PM)Krusyos Wrote:  I posted some shit poem about not recycling that involved "If you tell me to recycle, I'll kick your ass." Hot girl commented telling me to recycle. I said I had to kick her ass, then. She pulled the "it'll be all over the news if you do =P" card and I failed the shit test by saying "the great conundrum.... follow through with what you said you will do or follow the code of chivalry.... I'll let you go.... once.... "

She had a very strange response (for me as a noob, anyway). She said "Haha. nahh. you'll be letting me go much more than once."

I said "what makes you think that?"

IDK where the hell to go from here.

Instead of "what makes you think that" I would just go for logistics. "Sounds good. meet @ xyz bar @ 8pm thursday. Wear heels."

(05-21-2014 08:12 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Got the following from an okc prospect (around 8:40) for a meet set for 9,9:30ish. She wanted to exchange pics today- sent her one and never got one back. Had a feeling she'd flake and double-booked.

Her: I have to work late my cover just called in sick

Wait a week game other girls in the meantime and try again for logistics, assuming you don't hear anything back from her. If you hear back from her and she says "hey when are we meeting up?" then respond.

I always get stuck when fishing girls to make plans and they toss out:

"And do what?"

I never know how to read it. In my head it seems like a coy shot to sniff for some D from the broad. But I've had it backfire on my in being to aggressive in a response. I don't like telling girls specifics of our plans to keep it spontaneous so I usually reply:
"Don't worry about what, I got tag covered, just be game for a good time"

I'll tr her to wear heels or some shit like that or a lipstick I seen on her and liked.

But lately. Especially with these younger broads it's been fizzling out. So in wondering what you guys find works and any patterns when hit with that test.

Does it differ from a girl I've banged to a fresh peruse?

I'm interested in how you guys think I've played this so far, and how you think I should continue the interaction.

Background summary:
I met an Australian girl at a bar, a 6.5 or 7, got the number. I called her and set up an evening coffee date because she doesn't like to drink. Date goes seemingly okay except in the beginning she asks how old I am, I truthfully say 23. Meanwhile, she's 26. This seemed to put her off but the date went forward anyway.

The date didn't even end in a kiss or make out. This is the first time a first date ended without a kiss or make out for me in years. I wrote it off as she's not interested. However, the day after she messages me, and then two days after that messages me again, so now I think that maybe she is interested.

However, the second time she messaged me was to invite me to the vacation city of Eilat, which is a 6 hour bus ride away. It wasn't clear if she meant alone with me or with her and her friends. Either way, it seemed like a shit test to see if I'd drop everything to go along with her last minute plans to go spend a few days with her, plus drop a ton of money on hotels. I pretended briefly like I was going along with it, but I never had any real intention of going with her. A 6 hour bus ride (each way), plus hotel expenses is not worth a notch for me, even if I somehow knew with 100% certainty that the bang is guaranteed. Here's how it went; sometimes I took my time getting back to her to make her sweat a little:

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Note: The Facebook picture she sent me is of a stupid post someone wrote. We were joking about how dumb people are on Facebook during the date.

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(05-23-2014 09:22 AM)RealityCheck Wrote:  Date goes seemingly okay except in the beginning she asks how old I am, I truthfully say 23

This likely killed a bunch of possibility here. You can usually get around it, but I VASTLY prefer answering this one with a question (and I do it to all women of all ages because I genuinely hearing such a broad spectrum of answers). I RARELY get any serious push back on it other than "Oh I'm not good at guessing" which I answer with "That's fine, so what do you think?"

If in your situation they guess same age as them or older than them (they usually will if they're on a date with you) just say something innocuous like "yeah, close enough" with a sly grin and move on to the next topic.

The key is you have to be confident in your age even if you eventually tell them the real number. It's completely out of your control, why would you care what your age is? Trust me she doesn't, she cares a lot more about your reaction.

(05-23-2014 03:18 AM)kosko Wrote:  I always get stuck when fishing girls to make plans and they toss out:

"And do what?"

I never know how to read it. In my head it seems like a coy shot to sniff for some D from the broad. But I've had it backfire on my in being to aggressive in a response. I don't like telling girls specifics of our plans to keep it spontaneous so I usually reply:
"Don't worry about what, I got tag covered, just be game for a good time"

I'll tr her to wear heels or some shit like that or a lipstick I seen on her and liked.

But lately. Especially with these younger broads it's been fizzling out. So in wondering what you guys find works and any patterns when hit with that test.

Does it differ from a girl I've banged to a fresh peruse?

Usually i come up with something sarcastic, like a girl whose into punk, nerdy stuff, "oh you know the usual, load up the rifles go hunting for zombies"

or if she's fit and lifts, "oh you know chug some pre workout, and watch you do some squats"

I keep it funny, light, and relate able. This puts them at ease, and they'll respond with the standard "k sounds good lol". THEN I'll tell them simple plans like grabbing drinks and after we do what we joked about.

Girl's always want to know what you'll be doing with them, where are you taking them, what bar, what lounge, blah blah blah. I just troll them, deflect the questions and keep it simple.

Girl asks on OKC "are you always that confident?"

Stuck on good replies.

(05-25-2014 12:11 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  Girl asks on OKC "are you always that confident?"

Stuck on good replies.

no only on sundays

Met a girl last night at a bar, got the number and kiss close. Leaving town for a few weeks, today is my last day in town. Should I text her and try and make plans for today? It's a Sunday and I can see her being free but not sure if I should do it.

Backstory: Went to "On The Rocks" on Jasper in Edmonton, was full of 35-50 yr old's. Dance with a cougar and she told me I was too young so led me over to a 2 set (early-mid 20's) and introduced me. Isolated the one and pulled her away from her friend and on to the dance floor. She didn't like dancing too much and had a lot of kissing resistance. Finally got it when friends (a few forum members) pulled me away, kissed her a few times and left.

Help is appreciated, any questions I'll answer if it helps!

Talking with a girl I hooked up with about how her friend has a boyfriend (my friend is trying to get in her pants).

She says: "Yes, rumor has it you have a girlfriend too"

What to reply so as to deviate the answer and not actually reply to the question.

Talking to a hot Tinder girl:

I tell her that XYZ park would be a good place to drink (she's 20)
Her: That seems sketchy.
Me: How so?
Her: It just is
(I know, worst response plausible^)

I don't want to fall into her frame but I want to go out with her. What to text next...

(05-25-2014 12:11 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  Girl asks on OKC "are you always that confident?"

Stuck on good replies.

Defuse the accusation with humour.

"It's my cult followers, isn't it?"

That might be enough on it's own, or if she's bad at bantering, you could follow it up with:

"Look, they showed up outside my house the last couple of weeks, saying something about a 'prophecy' and how I'm 'the chosen one' and 'destined to save the world'. I'll admit it's going to my head a bit, but the songs of glory they keep singing in my name are total earworms."

(05-25-2014 12:52 PM)Renberg Wrote:  Talking to a hot Tinder girl:

I tell her that XYZ park would be a good place to drink (she's 20)
Her: That seems sketchy.
Me: How so?
Her: It just is
(I know, worst response plausible^)

I don't want to fall into her frame but I want to go out with her. What to text next...

She sounds either childish or uninterested. Why waste your time when she replies like that?

I tried coming up with a good answer but I'm not inspired, sorry

What do you do when a girl wants to meet, but there's no possibility of meeting until the week after (roughly 10 days)?

Do you just put the convo on ice and do a non-sequitur when the time comes? Since this is online I believe this particular correspondence climaxed too early and eight days from now she just won't be interested since 1000 other cocks will be blasting her in the meanwhile. Or is there an obvious way to keep the banter going?

(05-25-2014 07:37 PM)ElJefe Wrote:  What do you do when a girl wants to meet, but there's no possibility of meeting until the week after (roughly 10 days)?

Do you just put the convo on ice and do a non-sequitur when the time comes? Since this is online I believe this particular correspondence climaxed too early and eight days from now she just won't be interested since 1000 other cocks will be blasting her in the meanwhile. Or is there an obvious way to keep the banter going?

I would say try calling in 5 days. Just text at maybe 10pm, next thursday, "i will call you in half hour to touch base with you" or just "I'll call you in about a half hour" then ask her out for the next week in 5 days time. That is my suggestion.

Asked this Broad out on OKC and she told me she wants to know more about me before the meetup. Asked her what she wants to know and I get this reply:

"What are your characteristics aside from being tall? (I mentioned this to her) What do you do in your free time? Are you happy with your life so far?
And, extra question: what is one thing that you have done that you want me to do? I promise I'll try it, even if it takes me very long. "

"well, the first thing people usually notice is that I wear a colostomy bag, but that's only because I prefer to walk around shirtless. The worst is when it gets caught on a door knob. Messy. The doctor said I only had to wear it for five years, but this was in Bangladesh and his English wasn't too good. I spend my free time playing with the stoma - you'd think this would be depressing but it's actually very interesting albeit pungent. If you could learn to change the bag for me, I think we'd get along great. Just think of it as a diaper and me as a your baby"

(05-26-2014 07:20 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  "well, the first thing people usually notice is that I wear a colostomy bag, but that's only because I prefer to walk around shirtless. The worst is when it gets caught on a door knob. Messy. The doctor said I only had to wear it for five years, but this was in Bangladesh and his English wasn't too good. I spend my free time playing with the stoma - you'd think this would be depressing but it's actually very interesting albeit pungent. If you could learn to change the bag for me, I think we'd get along great. Just think of it as a diaper and me as a your baby"

everything except the last line is gold

Girl I'm dating wants to meet at a bar closer and more convenient for her. What are your standard replies to this? And in the cases you do approve, how do you go about writing it?

So I've met with this girl last Friday. This time I went all in and played my cards right. We went to my place after some beers and I got the bang.

I've texted her on Monday, suggested meeting on Friday.
She said she can't blah blah. Suggested next Monday to which she replayed with "Just got my schedule for next week and I'll be out of town"
The sad face was in her text.


My guess is ignoring and try to restart with simple "how was the trip?" somewhere next week.
What would you say?

(05-27-2014 08:04 PM)Staros Wrote:  Girl I'm dating wants to meet at a bar closer and more convenient for her. What are your standard replies to this? And in the cases you do approve, how do you go about writing it?

"Hmm... ok, but then you're buying!"

This should reset the frame.

(05-28-2014 12:08 AM)Rootless Wrote:  So I've met with this girl last Friday. This time I went all in and played my cards right. We went to my place after some beers and I got the bang.

I've texted her on Monday, suggested meeting on Friday.
She said she can't blah blah. Suggested next Monday to which she replayed with "Just got my schedule for next week and I'll be out of town"
The sad face was in her text.


My guess is ignoring and try to restart with simple "how was the trip?" somewhere next week.
What would you say?

"gay"

is a response you can send now. See what she says

Ok boys I would like a little bit of advice and what my next move should be.

Heres a small series of events leading up to the current "what the fuck do I do next" position:

1) Sit down at the bar of a restaurant, shortly after a cute girl sits down next to me. She initiates conversation, and in my peripheral vision, I can see her giving me a full up and down assessment. She likes what she sees, great. After I closed my bill, brief exchange of words and got the number.

2) Next day, she texts me first. After creating serious impatience on her part through time frame control in texting, we finally agree to meet up that night.

3) After a decent couple hours (and knowing this wouldn't end up in the bang that night), I walk her to her car and close the night off with a make out.

4) Except for a small friendly conversation I had with her the day after that first date, 3 days go by, in which I thought she would have texted by then, but I figured fuck it, Ill give her a ring and plan to meet up. No answer. I later find out she peaced out of the country that night for several days.

5) Several days after her return, knowing that she definitely saw my call before she left, I reluctantly send off a text. She immediately responds, and I later ask her if she wants to meet up that night. She says she will get speak to me when she gets out of class that evening. I figured 50/50 chance she gets ahold of me, and the evening goes by and I don't hear from her.

I currently find myself stuck on what to do next. To be honest, I feel like its probably a lost cause, but for what reason I am unsure, as Iv run good game on her up until now, with the addition of knowing she is very attracted to me. Unfortunately, she is definitely one of my hotter 'on the go' prospects, which is probably why I am writing this post, and already caring this much is a horrible habit, but it would be a nice notch to get.

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^I've noticed an uptick in women saying this.

Your line was fine, but drop the "hahahahas" so much.

(05-28-2014 08:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^I've noticed an uptick in women saying this.

Your line was fine, but drop the "hahahahas" so much.

what is a good line after she said that

(05-28-2014 10:06 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

(05-28-2014 08:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^I've noticed an uptick in women saying this.

Your line was fine, but drop the "hahahahas" so much.

what is a good line after she said that

This is how the rest of the convo went:
Kaotic: it's okay i understand, being a virgin must be hard haha
Britt: it can be sometimes
Kaotic: so making it clear means what to me, that you're prudish or something ? (showing i don't care)
Britty: no i'm not a virgin
kaotic: well then cut the BS and tell me why you're saying this. let me guess waiting game (showing i don't deal with bs, comes off a little afc)
britt: saying what? that i'm not sleeping with you? like i've said before i've been told that i'm bad about not making it clear that i'm not sleeping with someone before hanging out with them. So i was just saying it in general.
kaotic: i don't care, were just hanging out and seeing where it goes
britt: exactly the point i'm trying to make
kaotic:....good lord say that in the beginning woman, not at the end
britt: that's what i was trying to say!!! haha i guess i wasn't saying it in the right way
kaotic: you women make things so complicated that's why !
kaotic:it's simple, interested in me ? wanna see where it goes and hook up ? Great. You're not looking for that ? Don't wanna hook up? great, i'm not wasting any time on that
britt: oh my god...what's with all the questions..? i've you one time lol i was just making a simple statement..all i was saying is if we hang out tonight i'm not sleeping with you. That's all i was saying, it's not that complicated
kaotic:those weren't questions...those were rhetorical questions with simple answers
kaotic: ANYWAYS, just cruise on over around 8:30 and bring a good movie
britty: sounds good to me, what's the address again ?

TL;DR- put up with massive resistance, had to struggle and maintain frame, i'm never letting that happen with this girl ever again. She will be a 0 effort bang, i'm not going out anywhere with her, solely movie bang.

I also didn't help myself by writing to much, didn't keep things simple.

Summary of night: she came over, finally was warming to laying on me during monuments men, we laughed, i showed off my ar15 rifle i finished building, showed her pics from punk rock bowling this weekend. She was actually pretty pleasant being around. Got the kiss out of the way, things are more relaxed, a few more movie sessions and she should be mine.