(03-08-2014 11:45 PM)WesternCancer Wrote: Things I've learned from getting my first car sex notch:
1. don't do it because it hurts like a motherfucker
2. if you do do it, tinted windows are a must.
3. remove just enough clothes so that you can stay free of pussy juice stains
3-6-14: Red hot milf moved in downstairs from me last weekend. Went downstairs afterwork tonight with a bottle of Pinot as a housewarming gift and just to say "hi" (I'm all class). Has a beta provider boyfriend-type dude who was over. Got to chatting - she's got 2 kids (8 yo son she takes on the weekends and daughter in college) recently divorced etc. Is really into weightlifting and staying in shape; real tight body for a woman in her 40's.
3-7-14: Came home from work and noticed a strange truck in the drive way. Parking and thought to myself "man, imagine if she came outside with her kid with some shit like 'he wants to meet you'" - sure as the sky is blue as I get out of my car and the door opens and her little brat scampers out. She's in tow wearing a tight white shirt and jeans hair all straightened looking hot total nipple action poking out of the shirt in the cold March air. Was magic. Met her ex. Seems like a "nice guy." Boyfriend came later and stayed the night. I recorded some music with a buddy of mine.
3-8-14: Beta boyfriend is showing his colors. She's be in and out all day running errands and he's been been camping in her apartment all day (FYI: he doesn't live with her). Caught him needlessly shoveling leftover snow and salting the steps ... on a warm sunny March day at a place he does not live. Also saw him tinkering with her car while I was in and out of the house. Caught her in the laundry room wearing tight workout pants. Ass is a sight to behold. Got to chatting down in the washroom a bit but couldn't isolate or flirt really because her kid was running in and out asking me questions and shit. Went out to a housewarming party for a friend of mine didn't get back until late - boyfriend staying over again. Need to get this broad on a day with her beta-boy is not around and her kid is back with the ex. This is on.
Just got flaked on for movie night at my place even though we just made the date 5 hours ago. She didn't even bother to tell me until I texted her 15 minutes after she was supposed to be here and when I asked if she was still coming by she responded "Probably not. I'm about to workout." Just put her in the not ready file to hit up in about 6 weeks.
I've been flaked on 3 times in the last 2 days by Tinder two white chicks and one black chick, at least one rescheduled. Do any of the other black guys on the board have a high percentage of black chicks flaking on them?
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Yep, I got flaked on Thursday, texted her the "I'm gonna be 15 minutes late" text to make sure we're still on and she send the "blah blah birthday party" text.
On Friday a girl canceled a date that was supposed to be on Monday beacouse "her life is so messed up".
And it's totally cool and acceptable because they are "free liberated strong empowered wymon"
3-10-2014: Made an OKCupid account to see what all the fuss is about with easy internet notches. If my past experiences with online dating serve me right, I imagine this project will bear basically zero fruit. I'm a good looking guy with an interesting life and whatnot, but I just suck at making good profiles and crafting good messages - and I get real bad "2/10 WNB" syndrome with online profiles because it's so easy to pass up the 5's and 6's when there are lots of 7's on there. Makes me aim too high. We'll see.
Seems like the best looking girls in my area (and who I match well with) are black. Interesting. Would love a black girl notch.
Stalin,there are whole write ups on here on constructing online profiles for dating sites.Pretty detailed,May take a little time.Just do a search on here ,you will find them
For me the idea is to keep a few in rotation where you bound with (ie, who would come to you whenever you would need them to do whatever you would like), while the others are there for the thrill/filling up empty days.
Well hung out with the 25 yo virgin again, waste of time. Not sure why I challenged my beliefs, maybe I just wanted to see what I was capable of in a totally different situation
I consider myself to be pretty strong at closing, especially when isolated, and she wasn't going for any of the things that have worked on so many other girls. I got her shirt off, but that was about it, I couldn't even get the hand to dick classic move to work, even with my dick in my pants!
I 100% believe she is a virgin, and quite frankly I think she's scared of dick, I don't know, but I'm calling this a sunk cost and have stopped returning her texts.
The lesson: don't ever ignore your instincts! Especially if you've been doing this awhile.
"I started having sex with a couple random women without any relationships coming out of it. I did not realize how incredibly lonely it was."
^If you're lonely, you're not doing it right.
Having sex with multiple women isn't lonely if you properly build a harem. It's quite satisfying because each girl brings something unique to the table.
(03-11-2014 07:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote: "I started having sex with a couple random women without any relationships coming out of it. I did not realize how incredibly lonely it was."
^If you're lonely, you're not doing it right.
Having sex with multiple women isn't lonely if you properly build a harem. It's quite satisfying because each girl brings something unique to the table.
Agreed. I think of the ones I keep around as my girlfriends.. I'm into all of them on different days of the week. I usually have them come over on nights when I'm not working or don't feel like going out.
This chick I banged is working for a few weeks with tons of models. How do I weasel my way towards some model-bangs without having to buy a kilo of coke and without pissing the girl off so that she badmouths me if I do get access to the models.
Got a lot of potential on my plate for today.. an afternoon girl and then an evening.
Last night, I chilled with my blondie 8 from NJ..
Update: this girl I've been talking to off okcupid, who initially balked at my direct request for sex, now wants to come over and pass out with me.. It's like 9am right now and I just had my other girl leave. My bed is turning into a bang factory.
(03-14-2014 11:01 AM)Valhalla Wrote: I got like 7 numbers in the past two days i don't even have enough time to go on dates. Wish i could do fresh direct.
What kind of problems are you having with fresh direct? Break it down for us - with 7 new numbers I bet you can convert one to a zero date bang.