As a novice, mixing day game and night game can be frustrating.

I was at a concert the other night and chatted to a couple of girls. In Mystery Method terms I "started in the middle" or with comfort. Just getting to know you chit-chat, where you're from, what brings you to New York, blah blah blah. It was boring chat punctuated only by mild reaches into night game playfulness ("You look like a punk version of Britney Spears", some playful touching on the arm, hip check). Nothing really seemed to increase attraction although the girl did stay and talk with me for around 15-20 minutes, re-initiating the convo many times.

I don't want to ONLY game during the daytime but also when I am out at night. Need to work on switching gears dramatically and recognize just how much bolder you NEED TO BE at night.

Can anybody relate to having issues with this?

Been at the office since 10 this mornin! It's still cold here in NYC but I'm gonna go around and exercise the mouthpiece on these lizards before I go home!

Dickin around and trolling for kicks in Time Square

(03-01-2014 08:39 PM)PrettyBoy Wrote:  Dickin around and trolling for kicks in Time Square

Goldmine.

I knew I should have gotten an SUV bish scuffed my leather!!!

She was 5'4 and her head hit the roof straddling me. Got her titty out during a makeout, some dry humping and half a handjob. Probably could have banged if cars didn't keep rolling past. She kept looking around so I said "don't worry the Windows are tinted got steamy after that

She wants to get drunk next weekend but she lives with her parents and I'm too cheap to get a hotel.

Then I met up with some chick from tinder at the mall. Turns out she's still in highschool ...

She was dressed so sloppy, but if she put herself together she'd look a lot like Jennifer Lawrence.

is there anyway to subtly find out if a girl lives alone?

the weather is so bad and girls on okc are just waiting for someone to invite them to bang

(03-01-2014 09:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I knew I should have gotten an SUV bish scuffed my leather!!!

She was 5'4 and her head hit the roof straddling me. Got her titty out during a makeout, some dry humping and half a handjob. Probably could have banged if cars didn't keep rolling past. She kept looking around so I said "don't worry the Windows are tinted got steamy after that

She wants to get drunk next weekend but she lives with her parents and I'm too cheap to get a hotel.

Then I met up with some chick from tinder at the mall. Turns out she's still in highschool ...

She was dressed so sloppy, but if she put herself together she'd look a lot like Jennifer Lawrence.

what vehicle did you end up buying?

The desk girl at my hotel wants my cock. She is from Belize but is white. Cool as a fan. Would I smash? Meh. Nice ass but has a little gut. She could get it I guess.

Pulled a chick of an ad on CS. She isn't from the area either. Sent me a pic but I don't know. SIF?

(03-01-2014 09:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  She was dressed so sloppy, but if she put herself together she'd look a lot like Jennifer Lawrence.

Short hair dyke version or feminine long hair? Slim downed or fatter snacking version?

(03-02-2014 12:14 AM)Belize King Wrote:  The desk girl at my hotel wants my cock. She is from Belize but is white. Cool as a fan. Would I smash? Meh. Nice ass but has a little gut. She could get it I guess.

Pulled a chick of an ad on CS. She isn't from the area either. Sent me a pic but I don't know. SIF?

nothing secret about it

(03-01-2014 10:06 AM)Checkmat Wrote:  As a novice, mixing day game and night game can be frustrating.

I don't want to ONLY game during the daytime but also when I am out at night. Need to work on switching gears dramatically and recognize just how much bolder you NEED TO BE at night.

Can anybody relate to having issues with this?

Just go out more frequently and you'll get more experience and eventually you'll get over the hump and figure out how to get the results you want from women.

Those RSD instructor guys go out 6 nights a week when they're learning the game.

(03-02-2014 12:21 AM)samsamsam Wrote:  

(03-01-2014 09:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  She was dressed so sloppy, but if she put herself together she'd look a lot like Jennifer Lawrence.

Short hair dyke version or feminine long hair? Slim downed or fatter snacking version?

I found out shes 17 right now (legal here) but once she hits 20 and starts putting on makeup/wearing nice clothes she'd look very similar to this



So sad when girls hide big titties under a baggy t-shirt. Shes super tiny too, like 5 feet tall, little hands, very feminine looking. maybe I'll help her self-esteem out and get her into some nice clothes

Met a really fucked up chick last night. Probably better I didn't stick my dick in crazy. She was at the club dancing. Looked real nice and super slutty. Started dancing and fingering her on the dance floor, she's grabbing my dick and we haven't said one word to each other yet.
We go outside, talk for a bit, she seems alright if not kinda dumb and we decide to leave. I take a $25 cab ride home, get her upstairs and we start making out. I get some of her clothes off and she says "either we can just chill and not have sex or I'm going home." I'm super confused and push forward thinking its lmr. She starts grabbing my dick and starts blowing me saying that we can still have fun. Okay, that works. I start fingering her a little bit.
Suddenly she stops and says that she just wants to chill, no sex, blah blah, I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago.
At this point I'm baffled and say whatever, tell her to get in bra and panties to sleep in my bed.
She flips her shit, storms off screaming and pouting about respect and how it's always her fault.
Some girls are sick in the head.

Had my first match.com date this morning. She had vocal fry and was not as pretty in real life. Maybe a 5 instead of a 7. She ended the date after about 10 seconds because I 'look nothing like my photo'.

I gave no objection.

I had a date set up for this afternoon with a 21 year old off of okc, but she cancelled because she had to work, but said she would let me know when she is done. Real potential there, she knows I am in my 30s and doesn't care. I don't think there is a write up of match.com on this site? there should be. I think it is a potential goldmine. It is a pay site, you can get a one month membership off of groupon. The women are prettier and more aggressive and often willing to meet up right away at least that is my first impression. ALL of them are saying they want relationships and not on there for a hook up etc, but many are good looking enough to be put on rotation.

Me and my buddy went downtown and ended up meeting 2 girls. One of them was a real hotty, great body, 21 year old. Her cousin a younger girl was average type but bangeable. I game the hot one and after a few venue changes we get really flirty and things are going well. We leave to hang out at my friends house at around 5am. As soon as we get there the girls are very cold and not as fun as they were earlier. I move in for the make out and get some resistance but I push through it. I start tossing her around and getting hot and heavy. Still resistance but no big deal. Then the friend comes and interrupts. "hey lets go home we have to wake up early..."
In less then 20 seconds they grab their coats and bags, they're leaving.

I was so close to closing the deal. I can't even sleep thinking about the hot 21 year old ass I just missed out on.
worse part is we didn't even exchange phone numbers.

(03-02-2014 07:28 PM)xxMarco Wrote:  Me and my buddy went downtown and ended up meeting 2 girls. One of them was a real hotty, great body, 21 year old. Her cousin a younger girl was average type but bangeable. I game the hot one and after a few venue changes we get really flirty and things are going well. We leave to hang out at my friends house at around 5am. As soon as we get there the girls are very cold and not as fun as they were earlier. I move in for the make out and get some resistance but I push through it. I start tossing her around and getting hot and heavy. Still resistance but no big deal. Then the friend comes and interrupts. "hey lets go home we have to wake up early..."
In less then 20 seconds they grab their coats and bags, they're leaving.

I was so close to closing the deal. I can't even sleep thinking about the hot 21 year old ass I just missed out on.
worse part is we didn't even exchange phone numbers.

It's your job to establish a plan with your wing early on; especially when one of the girl is clearly hotter than the other one.

Even though you said the cousin was bangable, this appears like a typical cockblocker "If I'm not getting laid, nobody is" type of girl. Someone's gotta keep 'em entertained otherwise the party is over.

Did your buddy atleast make a move??

If you are picking up a girl in your car, and she has never been to your house, your first stop MUST be your house.

"Did your buddy atleast make a move??"

I just kind of assumed he already knew the game plan going to his house, you take your girl i'll handle mine. He made a move but the girl wasn't really interested. I was able to talk them into playing pool as he has a pool table but she also cut that short.
He's also not the aggressive type of guy when it comes to women but he did get her number.

I feel like there is more I could of done and I let it slip out of my hands. I've been kicking myself all day thinking back on what I said what I did, coulda, shoulda.....

Strange coincidence? Last two days met two chicks from Winnipeg (of all places)

One daygame (8)

One from OKC (7.5)

Invasion of the Canadians

What is the best LMR book/resource out there?

Still reveling in the fact that I popped a chick's anal cherry last night. I'm also pretty stoked about the fact that she loved it and will want to do it all of the time.

(03-03-2014 05:49 PM)RougeNoir Wrote:  What is the best LMR book/resource out there?

The key is to not get frustrated. Just verbally agree with whatever she says, and physically keep groping away unless she gives a firm "No."

I've felt a little creepy only a few times, and lately I've mixed in shit like, "This is a bad idea" or "We shouldn't be doing this" before she can say them... kind of a reverse psychology/pre-emptive strike thing.

Trust me, she either wants to bang you or she doesn't. Chances are if you're hanging out one-on-one, she wants to bang you. Why not expedite this process, especially since your time is valuable, you've got other girls to see, and once you've banged you have all the power.

Oh, and a little booze never hurt to grease the wheels either. Also helps if you know how long she's gone without dick. Good luck and happy plowing!

4 girls lined up the next few days - all from OKC and tinder, coming over to my place. I hope to get 4/4, but it should be at least two that are certain.

I bet 3 of them will flake

(03-04-2014 06:33 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  I bet 3 of them will flake

I give you one, where I'm not certain of.