Just finished a date with a sexy little 21 y/o 8 I found on Tinder, turns out she's in the lingerie football league. We had a couple drinks at a bar, bounced back to my place for hookah and we made out a bit before she left. I must have this bang and I'm wondering if my inner game is strong enough to play it cool with her and close the deal.

I just kicked a girl out of my house because I didn't she was attractive enough to put in effort.

I did the other day when she came over here and sucked me off.

Just goes to show that when I'm thirsty, my standards dip.

I need to be more consistent. I think this wishy washy shit is actually cockblocking me with more attractive girls.

On one of the best dates I've been on in a long time with an 8. It's as if she's taking me out. I haven't this much fun in a long time on a date.

what did you guys do?

what was she like?

sounds like girl's got game or was charming. i wanna know what she did

few women are good at seducing.

the best girl w/game i've met was good at playing with her sexuality in a very subtle feminine way, while seemingly acting innocent, and teasing/push/pulling.

(02-25-2014 11:40 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  what did you guys do?

what was she like?

sounds like girl's got game or was charming. i wanna know what she did

few women are good at seducing.

the best girl w/game i've met was good at playing with her sexuality in a very subtle feminine way, while seemingly acting innocent, and teasing/push/pulling.

There are some girls who are in the more attractive range that just don't put up any bitch tests.

I met her off OKC. I dropped my Fresh Direct thing on her, she seemed game, but she lives in NJ. She agreed to come to meet me on my turf in Brooklyn, but she suggested we meet somewhere aside from my house first.

I agreed, and we went out and got a couple of drinks.

What made the date so good was that didn't seem on guard at all. I ended up talking about myself some much- it was like a damn busted open, and even got some ideas for future projects.

She was a great listener, and was encouraging and just seemed to hang on to everything I said.

There were no awkward moments. I could just relax with this chick who I put somewhere in 7.4-8 range depending on how she presents herself. She was in good shape, but if she lost a little more weight, she could be modeling.

It's strange, because I was seeing another NJ girl a couple of years ago who also had this sweet demeanor.

I called her out on her game!

I told her that I don't usually open up to people like this, and that she was a good listener, and that I was getting ideas from talking to her about my projects.

All good stuff.

All that neurotic shit testing that other girls do is bad for spiritual liver..

I actually wanted to hang out with this chick and parade her around for a bit.

The problem with these girls is that they need as much game as their slutty/neurotic counterparts, so when you start fantasizing about her attractive personality she gets turned off and goes to hang out with someone who didn't appreciate it so much and thus remained colder.

NAWALT, of course; that's just been my experience. Stay sharp.

I'm still sharp and self centered, but I liked her because she seemed to like to game at me talk about myself.

I think the idea of arm candy gets a bad rap in our culture. To me, arm candy is a girl thatcyou want to show off. Obviously she has to look good, but she should also has the right feminine attitude.

(02-25-2014 12:25 AM)Blackmagic Wrote:  Just finished a date with a sexy little 21 y/o 8 I found on Tinder, turns out she's in the lingerie football league. We had a couple drinks at a bar, bounced back to my place for hookah and we made out a bit before she left. I must have this bang and I'm wondering if my inner game is strong enough to play it cool with her and close the deal.

"play it cool" are the key words there!

Don't be overly eager. Don't be in a huge rush. don't act overly excited.

If your inner game is not strong enough, you better act like it is! Even if you feel nervous, just breathe, try to relax, enjoy the moment and pretend to be "cool'.

Sometimes, our inner game is stronger than we think, but we don't know it until we get tested.

Stay strong and ENJOY THE ENTIRE PROCESS OF BEDDING A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!

I realize that my life now boils down to a few activities:

Guitar
Girls/partying
Family

I don't do anything that isn't related to these things.

Also my father is the man. We were driving in my hood and a spotted that gothy hipster girl I was raw dogging. He took one glance at her and read her like a book- she's skinny neurotic and crazy. I was like " but she's got a nice ass" he said that didn't matter.

He's really good at reading people

There is this broad in one of my classes(PolySci), she is one of those opinionated, "progressive" types. Anyway she is actually hot. Usually sits in the front row, but came in late today and sat down in the back a chair away from me.

10 minutes into class she bends down (exposing thong) and I stare while she grabs a piece of gum out of her bag.

I waited until she put the gum away, then I reached over and grabbed her arm and asked her for a piece. She pops a huge grin and gleefully complies.

I left lecture 15 minutes early, on the way out I grabbed her arm again, nodded and said thanks.

Made my own day right there.

Well, sure enough I've put myself in a bad position yet again.

Met a decent girl on Valentine's Day, figured I'd go for the bang, but it became pretty clear that wasn't happening that night. No problem, # closed and moved on. Exchanged texts... blah blah,

Side note: I actually tried a different strategy with this one, and mentioned something cool we could do the next time we hung out, without saying when that would be or asking her to meet up. Sure enough, she quickly asked when we would hang out. Gonna try this move going forward.

I digress, met up, hung out, and while she was cool, I got this strange read from her. She was definitely into me, yet she seemed physically inexperienced. I thought this was a bit odd for a 25 year old, but I just figured her inexperience was on a count of her losing 60lbs. Good for her/me, right? I decided while I wanted to bang her, I wasn't going to push for it, as I'm by no means in a drought right now, and wanted to test the girl.

Well, we hung out again, kind of impromptu, and got slightly more intimate, but did not bang. That's when she told me she's a virgin. FUCK! Based on my experiences, I knew she was inexperienced, but wasn't ready for her number to be zero.

So, now what? I think I could mold her into just about anything I want, but I'm not sure I want to make that kind of commitment. I've always gone by the motto, "Let the virgins fuck themselves" but part of me could make an exception here. Maybe I still have somewhat of a conscious, or maybe it's just I don't feel it's fair to let myself loose on a girl that's actually waited this long.

She said to me yesterday, "There's got to be something wrong with you, what is it?" "Kids you're not telling me about? Wife? Are you a manwhore?" Ding, ding, ding! Oh if she only knew what a whore I am... maybe that's the best move to let her off gracefully, just tell her my number. She'll probably run after that, and if she doesn't, well she knows what she's getting into. Maybe she's just trying to finally lose her virginity, like that girl in Roosh's 30 Bangs.

Anyway, what would the other seasoned players do in this spot? I could do the usual fuck and run, or short term date and dump, but I feel like this one would somehow come back to bite me in the ass, like she'd somehow get pregnant or something. Thoughts?

Note: I haven't looked through the virgin threads yet, I'm sure they exist, but that's why I'm not making this a separate topic.

25 and still a virgin? Sounds fishy, but I'll run with it for the sake of the scenario. I would bang her. See her once a week between your regular girls. She'll give up the goods soon enough.

(02-27-2014 07:50 PM)CJ Wrote:  Well, we hung out again, kind of impromptu, and got slightly more intimate, but did not bang. That's when she told me she's a virgin. FUCK! Based on my experiences, I knew she was inexperienced, but wasn't ready for her number to be zero.

Had the same thing happen about 1.5 year ago. She wasn't even ugly, solid 7.5 - did have a bit of an annoying voice though.
She never said she was virgin, but you could tell (she wasn't a good kisser and got scared when I escalated) and I knew for sure because a mutual girlfriend told me.

Anyway, I ended up banging her and she became a regular for a few months. I did tell her I wasn't looking for a relationship at that time. She actually found a boyfriend afterwards, and is still thankful that I "helped" her with this, because it was an issue for her in her mind before.

i wonder if we're all over thinking this game stuff

my time on okc makes it seem like the only thing that matters is looks

(02-28-2014 05:35 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  i wonder if we're all over thinking this game stuff

my time on okc makes it seem like the only thing that matters is looks

It definitely matters more and more, but it's not the only thing that you'd need in order to get laid with high quality girls.

Women looking for a "good conversationalist" are a huge red flag for me.

No thanks. I've got shit to do.

(02-28-2014 12:42 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Women looking for a "good conversationalist" are a huge red flag for me.

No thanks. I've got shit to do.

I just ignore that and plow through. They don't know what they are talking about or it's a shit test.

All the girls on there are out to get fucked.

(02-28-2014 12:49 PM)soup Wrote:  All the girls on there are out to get fucked.

That was cemented in my head only about 3 months ago.

It's absolute truth, though.

The transition of gaming new girls => relationship game is an interesting one I've been learning. Enjoying it. Other girls are tempting though. Even now, there's a girl standing up at this starbucks, getting her coffee, with a magnificent ass and I just want to approach her. Yet morals. That temptation goes away for about 6 hours after screwing my girl, but... outside of that time frame I've still got the hunter mentality. I'm scoping coffee shops while I'm with her, gauging the talent.

Does this mean the relationship won't last? Can't tell. I like her, she's feminine, fun, sexy, but... Guess I'm learning a lot about relationships. My last two were all in, we lived together, and then once a week dates. Now I've got the middle ground.

(02-28-2014 12:49 PM)soup Wrote:  

(02-28-2014 12:42 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Women looking for a "good conversationalist" are a huge red flag for me.

No thanks. I've got shit to do.

I just ignore that and plow through. They don't know what they are talking about or it's a shit test.

All the girls on there are out to get fucked.

Agreed.

After enjoying language barriers for so long I've just lost my patience with it even on bangs, but I was more referring it to being a red flag if looking for a girl to actually hang out with for a while rather than just bang.

It reveals her as the type of girl that likes to hear herself talk. One of my family members is like this and she and her boyfriends just sit there and fucking flap at each other all the time. She usually only dates guys who like to do the same thing (the ones who can stand it), but she'll blab my ear off if I let her.

And I've even seen her putting guys through the process that she's just hooking up with. Damn don't torture the kid.

I don't mind digging into an issue now and then if I'm feeling it but someone that invested in passing the time with conversation reveals to me a lot about her character. Finds herself intellectual and constantly trying to prove it.

Maybe just a stage of life I'm in, but as for now...

Hell. No.

I've got two dates tonight with two different Italian (from Italy, not NJ) girls.

Chillin in big spring west texas. First time at a restaurant. White girls everywhere. I need to latch on to one. Waitresses are cute. Might be game time.

(02-28-2014 02:09 AM)Mujeriego Wrote:  25 and still a virgin? Sounds fishy, but I'll run with it for the sake of the scenario. I would bang her. See her once a week between your regular girls. She'll give up the goods soon enough.

Not at all worried about her "giving up the goods" I know I can get her to do that willingly at this point. My concern is what happens after she does. Course, if she's not actually a virgin, but just inexperienced, I'm off the hook... I think.

(02-28-2014 04:15 AM)TimDV Wrote:  Had the same thing happen about 1.5 year ago. She wasn't even ugly, solid 7.5 - did have a bit of an annoying voice though.
She never said she was virgin, but you could tell (she wasn't a good kisser and got scared when I escalated) and I knew for sure because a mutual girlfriend told me.

Anyway, I ended up banging her and she became a regular for a few months. I did tell her I wasn't looking for a relationship at that time. She actually found a boyfriend afterwards, and is still thankful that I "helped" her with this, because it was an issue for her in her mind before.

This would be ideal, but I think this girl is already really into me. I have that effect on girls, which is why after things wind down, they either end up really hating me, or still texting me to try and hang out years later.

I think that's the smart thing though, I'll be my usual vague self, and let her know that "I'm not sure I'm looking for anything serious at this time." Some line like that, and go from there. Put the ball in her court, an offer I don't normally make, and if she wants to make a bad choice then she'll just have to deal with the consequences.

I actually thought for a minute, that maybe settling down wouldn't be so bad at some point, then I slapped myself, snapped out of it, and remembered I'm not even close to 40 yet.

Bad weather makes women horny

anyone have any data on boning in the backseat of a car?

Going to meet a chick tomorrow and theres not a whole lot of room in the back, should I just stick with some road-head?

just bend her over and do bent over doggy style

Drive her somewhere dark and quiet with the excuse to smoke or whatever