(11-02-2013 11:58 AM)RougeNoir Wrote: Can you give an example? You are at a bar..., You are at the grocery store..., You are with a mixed group at a restaurant..., etc
You're anywhere. You genuinely believe to be THE shit. How do you behave?
Recent example at a house party. Half the people know me, some of the rest know of me, and the rest, I have no idea. I walk in. My assumption is that everybody here loves me. I say hi to a few friends, chest bump another friend as I shout out "Daddy's home!", talk to the host for a bit, get a beer, and start talking to a girl.
I say hey to her friend. She starts saying something to me. I'm already bored. I'd fuck her, but god, I don't want to *listen* to her. I turn to face a classmate I bumped into the night before. He talked about an audition he had to go to. I start talking to him about that. There's a cute girl (3) next to him. He seems to have been working hard to talk to her. We all "toasted" with our beers.
I'm back to girl 1. I sit beside her, pull her close, and whisper into her ear, as I look at girl 3: "Is that a penis or is her phone just really big?" 3 knows I'm talking about her, and she comes towards me, and asks what I said. "I said you were cute!", and it's said loud enough for everybody around to hear, which sends them laughing. "Liar!!" Some back and forth and teasing.
In the meantime, I'm working the room.
I'm with girl 1. 3 comes to me, opening a beer. "Go get me one." She goes and gets me one. I make her find an opener. I don't know if I said something, or if I just looked at her again and she did it. She went from getting shit loads of attention from betas, to qualifying herself to me. She tries to toast again.
Just because I can, I say no. We did that once already. You're not getting any. Throughout the night, she tries to get that "toast" out of me and I never let her get it.
This didn't lead anywhere, as I got too involved in my foosball game at the bar later on, and she and another girl who was into me left. But it's a small town, and we have some mutual friends. We'll see each other again, and I know she'll still be into me. If she's not, it doesn't matter.
Every time I interact with a girl, I know there's a strong chance she'll want it. Like in the lab the other day. Random girl I don't know. I just casually say hi, high five her after she tells me that this experiment didn't really need a table, she's all giddy. Every other time I'm talking to my friends, she looks in my direction. As if she'd feel lucky if she were to be included. When I look like I'm about to leave, she looks at me expectantly. I take my time, and eventually, I walk towards her, touch her on the shoulder and say see ya 'round before I leave.
But again, this works just because it's congruent with my personality. The main premise of this is simply: you need to be more important than she is. Exaggerated narcissism simply takes that and overpowers it!