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MrXY 路 2013-08-28 12:44:00 路 #626
Had a date with OF chick last night. Redheaded nurse.We hit it off ok and pretty quick she was giving me the doggy dinner bowl eyes
She ordered a martini, the another, then a beer. We went a couple more places and I got her to eat some food but she kept drinking and soon was beyond salvaging. She stumbled and fell over the threshold of the last place as we were leaving. I thought about bringing her to my place to sleep it off but decided that taking home a very drunk woman that I barely knew and who gave off that crazy vibe was a bad idea. So I let her leave and was worried she would get in an accident or arrested until she texted me a couple of hours later (she lived an hour away) to say she had a great time. Then she asked me why I hadn't kissed her. I texted back that I had- several times. Wow-she was drunk-I'm amazed she made it home.She did drink quite a bit in two and a half hours but I think she was probably drinking before she met me. Heavy drinker are common on POF. I think next time I'll drive to her town and bang her there to avoid complications.
Have a drink meeting today with a POFer and talking to another about a meeting in case the first falls through. The Craiglist chick is texting me frequently-I think she wants to sext but I'm making her wait
I was thinking this morning about how often I've gotten SNLs either from cold approach or dates on Thursdays and Sundays. It's counterintuitive because not as as many girls are out then and most of them have to work the next day but those are excellent nights. I guess it's because the Thursday girls are horny and don't want to wait for the weekend and the Sunday girls didn't get any on Fri and Sat so they're still horny. I think Soup has mentioned this before. Plus on Fri and Sat they're going out with their friends in large groups for the girl's night out so there's attention whoring and cockblocking, and the competition from guys is much worse. Wednesdays at the right venues aren't bad either-if my POF dates don't work out i'm going to hit a couple of popular Ladies Nights.
Quote:It's like going on a date without having the intention of fucking a girl.
She will sense that you don't have motivation. Or if you are too normal and nice.
Unacceptable. She has to know from the get go that you are, unambiguously, a beast.
I co-sign this 100%. They just know subconsciously the level of your sexual energy. Not just the girl you're meeting, I think girls can often tell by looking across a room.
For some time now I've taken to watching a little porn on my phone in my truck just before I go into the venue. Just for 2 or 3 minutes, but it's compilations of the rougher, nastier stuff. I do it to get my sexual energy up and and to remind myself
this is what it's all about . That regardless of how nicely dressed and sweet seeming the girls inside may be, they are sexual animals who want to be penetrated by a man who's wiling to initiate it.
Fingered a chick on the dance floor. She got weirded out right after and left. She had a boyfriend, I'm guessing that was problem.
Regardless, I got the stinky fingers and have to catch a flight in an hour. Murica!
Was out with a POF girl and was vibin. Towards the end of the night she had put my hands on her chest to rub her nipples. She lived behind the bar where we were at so it was going to be on and poppin. I say lets go because her friend was busy with a poker buddy of mines. She said wait twenty minutes for the bar to close. I say lets go.
She is fuckin stubborn so I went home. Was it worth it for me to stand my ground? Who knows but she texted me right now to stop by her job. It would be a 3 am lay so I doubt I will stop by. Unless I am drunk and horny.
I wondered if I would have waited if she was an 8. The answer is probably not haha.
Has anybody bar hopped happy hour restaurants? Thinkng about doing it now. One drink per spot and scan the scene. Shit like this sucks solo. I dont mind doing most think solo but bar hopping restaurants doesnt sound fun solo. One quality wingman is all I need. Till then solo baby.
On the menu is Longhouse Steakhouse, Chillis, Applebees, Joes crabstack, and Bufflos Wildwings. Corpus has a shitty drinking scene. I need to do a datasheet soon.
Gemini 路 2013-08-31 07:23:00 路 #630
This is brutal. I just started to calm myself down after coming back home. I got played REAL bad and i didn't even know it.
Basically, a girl that I met maybe 6 months started texting me that she is moving from the Island (Vancouver Is.) to the Mainland (Vancouver). Ok a few back and forth msg and she is eager to meet up.
She texted me Friday night that she is at a game and conveniently that her car is parked close to my place. I invite her over for a drink and some smokes, she accepts shows up and we have the time of our lives, joking around, good conversations, flirting around. She calls me "cute", and 'handsome" a few times throughout the evening. We go downstairs to play some billiards and she mentions that she had a "date" tonight with some guy that took her to the game but she didn't dig him so she left.
We go up to my place, have some drinks from the vodka she brought over. Then she is insistent on going out to dance. I should mention that by this time I am aware that she is a single mom with a daughter and responsibilities. She is 32 years old, but looking rather good, with a body of 8 and tight bum and small but perky nipples. She says it's her only time off away from duties in a long time, so she wants to dance, and have a good time. Ok, I agree (first mistake) cause I think it can't be that harmful to get a girl out to the dance club and then bring her back to my place to fuck, right). WRONG. It turned out horribly wrong.
First she started buying fancy shots, then she wanted me to reciprocate, so I did by buying a round or two. Then we switched venues. I was getting more tipsy and not paying attention to what she was doing (mistake number two). The we go to another club and some dude appears that she supposedly knows from way back. I chat the guy up, turns out she invited him out to meet her at that specific club and he doesn't know her from before. They leave together (after a while) and she apologizes to me for leaving me (fucking stranded by myself).
Fuck, I was furious beyond belief; first at her (fucking cock playing cunt of a whore slut bag BITCH) then at me (for missing the red flags, for getting too tipsy and confident), then at the whole fucking system that let's bitches get away with this.
Anyways it took a while to calm myself down and now I am browsing the web and typing this up.
She is obviously a major whore, and I didn't waste much resources except my time (about 5 hrs or so at night hanging out and drinking) and some money on drinks. I would NEVER in my life consider dating that whore of a bitch (mom, slut, tattoos all over her arms and back), and so I missed out on either what was promising to be some good sex (we had some great kino and kissing before) or a potential nice booty call.
I doubt that I will see her again after this event.
I mean, good on that dude on securing the bang, even though he came in a lot later in the night and just scooped her up literary in front of me. It was the humiliation in my inner self that I still have a tough time getting rid off.
Ok, I am gonna hit the sack now. fuck that bitch, again!!!
Menace 路 2013-08-31 07:51:00 路 #631
Gemini, that was shitty, but don't get angry. We all play the game, guys and girls. There were many red flags, and sometimes in our hunt for pussy, we just ignore them. Girls have been trying to get as much time, attention, and money from guys since the dawn of time; that's just what they do. We've all been there.
Damn dude, I had something similar happen once. Go to the bathroom on a first date, come back and she's grinding with some dude. I just walked right out the door.
Think about it this way: be glad you're ay the point in your life where you realize she is not worth your time and even if she was she would be a late night fuck buddy. Some dude out there is probably trying to wife her.
soup 路 2013-08-31 13:43:00 路 #633
Something clicked for me yesterday, and I'm trying to figure out what it is.
I been going through a period of acceptance lately. I'm in the midst of fazing out one of my bands- a project that I've been working of for a few years, because I'm not inspired by it anymore. It took a while for me to realize this.
Also, I'm dealing with a back problem that has prompted me prioritize my time.
I was watching more of that good looking loser guy's videos. At first I was skeptical about what he was doing, but now I realize that he put so much effort into getting his look and vibe together, that his front end game is so strong, that all he has to do is hang babble with the girls for a bit so they know he's not a psycho. He's already taken care of the attraction side of the equation.
I've realized that I can go up to any girl on the street and ask her a simple low-investment question just to get a conversation going, and then lay in with focussed dialogue that I've honed over the past couple of years. I can get numbers within five minutes because, even though I'm not a body-builder, I've been optimizing my look and how I carry myself so that the girl will be attracted to me visually.
I went out last night and instead of having the "I need to get laid" intense, somewhat desperate high energy that I usually have, I was completely relaxed and really didn't give a crap if a girl didn't reciprocate.
I had a whole new perspective. Very little desire to drink- I didn't even want to go the usual clubs and wanted to walk around on the street at night opening girls.
I bumped into my regular ginger and declined to hang with her because I wanted new pussy. Met up with a girl from online who I realized I wasn't into at all, but I invited her to my show and left. My friend who I do music with is an older natural player, and he saw her and said that I should that I should use my time to work on our music more instead of going after all these girls. He said I just need one right now. From his perspective, he thinks it's more efficient to have one main girl and occasional sides, but thinks I'm wasting energy by throwing myself into the game like I have.
This was definitely a new leaf for me. I was able to see the game for what it really is: bars trying to make a buck, girls wanting attention.. and I was able to float through all that unaffected.
I even got attacked by some jealous asshole at one of the bars because I blocked him out while I was talking to a girl. He soccer kicked me in the back of the leg.
This was at one my regular venues and I didn't want any drama, so I grabbed him by the wrist and dragged him over to my friend who is a bouncer and let him take care of it.
Bars closed, and me and my friend hit the streets, where I got a couple more numbers. 6am rolls by and I responded to an earlier booty call from a stage 5 clinger polish girl that I had banged a few times.
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I realize that my desire to drink is mostly because anxiety, but all the anxiety seems to have been released. I think I've had an epiphany. I wonder how long I will feel this way.
horn 路 2013-09-01 00:12:00 路 #634
'I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that is the best they will feel all day.' ~ the Chairman.
R Smoov 路 2013-09-01 07:49:00 路 #635
I don't know if telling Pokemon how I got suspended would help me ease into their drawers.
Sorority Pokemon sees me at a party. We kick it a bit, and like I tell her I got suspended. She looked a bit interested and was like "Tell me drama queen".
Some other dude next to us who seemed to be a fan of me (saying shit about me and the Pokemon hat and how it's cool) says he got suspended so I say "white guy tells story first".
My roommate said that I shouldn't tell chicks the story on how I got suspended. Helps keep the mystery.
What do you guys think? I feel like there's a way I can DHV leak this into some pussy.
Kickb 路 2013-09-01 11:57:00 路 #636
You could mention it and then when they ask you what you did say it's complicated. Then when they dig more say you don't want to get into that right now.
You have a pokemon hat? Nice haha
Caught a nasty cold on Tuesday so I couldn't really game for the rest of my Minneapolis trip. I did get a bang after a date on Monday from a chick that I day gamed last week. I'd like to visit out there again, since I didn't get to hit as many areas as I wanted to.
Picked up the keys to my new place yesterday which has way better logistics.
I finally feel like I'm over my cold too. I'm going to hit up some spots by the new place tonight.
Kickb 路 2013-09-01 13:22:00 路 #638
Went to the pool yesterday and approached a group.
I was sitting in the water catching sun, biding my time. I heard the fat girl say she's going to swim some laps.
(They were all in the water in a circle formation, there was a spot on the edge where the fat girl was sitting.)
I opened my eyes and watched the fatty lower herself into the pool. I waited for a few seseconds then I got up and sat in her spot and started talking.
I went for the Mexican chick in the sexy yellow and black bikini.
They fed me drinks and I started ramping up the kino. At first it was light foot touches, then I poked her on her rib cage and asked what her tattoo was about. Eventually we were brushing arms and feet more often.
I got her number but I think I might have already blown myself out
Stupid mistakes. Drunk texts/incongruence
I'll give it a few days and then try to restart.
Also, I'm talking to a girl who is a blogger. I must tread lightly with this one..
Spider 路 2013-09-01 13:26:00 路 #639
Been back to college for 2 days, and haven't gotten laid...It's stressing me out...been hitting on a lot of freshman though during the day and collecting #'s.
Pulled a girl back the 1st night and went real aggressive on her, was maybe a little too eager to get into the 'college flow'.
She all of a sudden freaked out, grabbed her high heals and bolted out of my place...never had that happen before, it was pretty funny.
I'm starting to think college isn't necessarily better for getting laid when you live in NYC, which is an incredible city.
Need to give it some more time obviously, but coming off a 5 girl hot-streak the last month or so being home is frustrating me right now.
Anybody else think some cities may be as easy/or easier to get laid? (I haven't come to this consensus yet..just curious)
MrXY 路 2013-09-01 14:43:00 路 #640
It's Labor Day weekend with a lot of tourists in town for the last beach trip of the years. Going out tonight to cold approach to scoop up some tourist chick who didn't get laid on Friday and Saturday and wants some stranger dick before she goes back to her mundane life
Have a drink meeting this afternoon with an SA girl. I rejoined SA a few days ago- school is back is session at Big State U and oh lawd there are a bunch of smoking hot co-ed golddiggers on the site now. Getting a high response rate. I learned form my last venture there that despite their golddiggerish ways, these girls are the same as other girls in that you have to work to keep their buying temperature up and meet them quickly. If you delay they will go cold and you've lost them. I missed out on some really high quality pussy last go-round by not scheduling a meeting fast enough. The one today though is a 30's chick; I'm not putting too much effort into her just stopping by for a drink to see how it goes
Got two good leads on Craigslist I'm trying to set up a meeting with this week-one is a married chick who's husband is away working and the other told me upfront she is looking for rough sex
soup 路 2013-09-01 22:06:00 路 #641
Made out with some chick off okcupid today.
R Smoov 路 2013-09-01 23:27:00 路 #642
I used to have it before suspension.
Perfect peacock move.
Funny thing is that people I know on campus want to know why I haven't been wearing it.
I'm just building some G manifesto mystery in this bitch.
Kickb 路 2013-09-02 15:09:00 路 #643
I hate country accents on girls. Especially when they have a deeper voice. Combine all that with that stink face and you have yourself a bitch. I did this girl a favor by walking allthe way aroundthe ppool to open up the gate for her and she responded with the coldest thanks I've ever heard in my life.
@Gemini: Don't sweat it. I haven't done this in a bit but I've swooped multiple girls who were on a 'date'.
Me: That's not your guy is it? (Arrogant tone/dismissive attitude)
Her: Umm well we're kind of on a date, but I'm not feeling him. Rescue me?!
Me: (grabbing her hand) Lets go. (Or: "Here", putting a VIP wristband on her wrist and taking her to a table)
It's shitty but that's the game. Note: these were NEVER guys that I knew; they were random cats I'd never seen before.
The flip side to having done that is I see how most women will bounce with the next best thing if it's convenient and if they're not 100% into the previous/current guy.
DVY 路 2013-09-02 15:36:00 路 #645
@Gemini- rookie mistake w/going to the club. But honestly, i wouldnt play her off so fast. She can be an easy bootycall.
Schedule her for a wine+weed+movie session on a weekday at your pad. If you can't bang then, id drop her.
MrXY 路 2013-09-02 16:40:00 路 #646
The SA chick I had a meeting with yesterday was giving me trouble, first she bitched about the location though it was easily accessible in her town, then about me pushing the time back an hour, so told her forget it. Then she texted me back whining and trying to suck up to me and i didn't bother to respond. I almost texted her back to point out that her competition is mostly pretty 18-25 years olds (she's 30+) and tell her she should consider being more nice and accommodating but I guess I wasn't feeling mean enough.
So went to the back up plan-cold approaching at my favorite bar. Opened a couple of chicks who were into me but they were marginal so I told them I was going to the bathroom and went out to the live music area. Saw a nice looking blonde and opened her-she was what I now think of as a Tenderman chick after his 40+ thread
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-9602.html-mid 40's blonde,tall, slender, big fake tits, classic Cali girl and in fact grew up in LA .
Her friend was an ugly Australian chick- one of those women you can tell looks exactly like her father except she had big tits. The Aussie was nice to me as long as I talked mostly to her, which I was doing hoping to defuse the cockblock, but it was to no avail. Once I started focusing on the blonde the blocking began and just got worse as time went on.
Some of the shit cockblockers will come up with to disrupt you is absurd:
"She has a flight tomorrow" ( The flight was at 4:30 pm and it wasn't even midnight)
When the blonde went to the bathroom the Aussie started in on her "She's a control freak" and so on.
"She drinks too much" (I wasn't buying her drinks)
And most ridiculous:
"She got a DUI a few months ago so she shouldn't be drinking tonight " (They had
walked to the bar from their condo just down the street)
The blonde was giving me sympathetic looks and when the Aussie went to the bathroom told me "She always acts like this when she doesn't get enough attention" We both just started ignoring her and were really getting into each other. then the Aussie started demanding that the blonde leave with her. The blonde refused several demands and eventually the Aussie left in a huff. The blonde and I started making out a bit at the bar and I number closed her. She did have to leave after a while and I drove her back to her condo. We made out in my truck for a while with my hand inside her shirt; when I took it away she grabbed my hand and put it back on her tit lol.She was biting her bottom lip which to me is a virtually foolproof sign of DTFness right then. I asked her if I could come up and she reluctantly said no-guess why. Yep the Aussie wouldn't like it. I expected that.Oh well. I was planning a trip to her city next month anyway so i'll try to see her then
PS- the two chicks I had abandoned originally both came up to me later separately and bitched at me about me never coming back. Women think it is their sole perogative to make sexual choices and rejection- they get very upset when a man rejects them
Met up with a girl that I used to mess around with yesterday at a bar. She was already shit faced, which was annoying. She kept drinking to the point that she couldn't stand up. I ended up calling her a cab.
I hung around for a bit to see if any other talent would stop in. Couldn't really get anything going though. I ran into a buddy of mine who told me about his chick issues since he can't close with her yet they'll talk for hours at a time. As I'm listening to the story, I realized I had a SNL with the chick earlier this year since we have a mutual friend.
I feel like I should introduce him to Roosh's blog.
Went for a stroll on the beach to check out the main strip here. Starting pissing rain halfway through so I dove into a bar. There were only a few people in there.
I realized my solo game is a bit rusty. It took me a bit to get in the chatty mood and there only people up at the bar was some super annoying 21 year old and an ancient couple that were staying at hotel rooms above the bar.
MrXY 路 2013-09-02 18:20:00 路 #649
(09-02-2013 05:21 PM)AntiTrace Wrote: Went for a stroll on the beach to check out the main strip here. Starting pissing rain halfway through so I dove into a bar. There were only a few people in there.
I realized my solo game is a bit rusty. It took me a bit to get in the chatty mood and there only people up at the bar was some super annoying 21 year old and an ancient couple that were staying at hotel rooms above the bar.
Some of my most memorable lays have been the unexpected ones-where I just ended up somewhere, not out hunting for pussy, and just stumbled into a good opportunity
You feel great afterwards- like you found a bag of money on the street
Messaged a girl on okcupid. We talked and bantered for a bit. She ended up giving me her number. Texted me how she was really bored and wished I would come over. So I did. Ended up getting a pretty subpar blowjob.