Had a shitty nonproductive weekend-spent more money than I intended and didn't get anything

Looking to redeem myself this weekend

(09-09-2013 03:40 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Had a shitty nonproductive weekend-spent more money than I intended and didn't get anything

Looking to redeem myself this weekend

Organized a few of my guy friends and one girl friend to head a ways down south to play on a couple teams in a volleyball tournament. Both teams played the coed division and placed third when each team really should've won their divisions. It was sort of a drinking tournament so we might not have paced ourselves that well. My girl friend played killer but unfortunately she had to drive back up north that same night. I may have to go for the bang with that one, she's pretty damn cute. I talked to some girls but didn't really socialize with women all that much at the tournament. Kind of botched that part.

The guy whose house we were supposed to crash at had to go out of state (instead of play the tournament with us) and he fucked up getting us the key so we ended up being invited to some girl's place that had a hot tub after the tournament. We went there, pre-partied some, then went walked over and partied at one of the local watering holes before closing it down and then heading back to the hot tub place.

I got pretty hammered and had a girl acquaintance try to hook me up with her friend (but she ended up not really being my type), and then had one of the girls with the ABSOLUTE hottest ass in the entire tournament (she was dressed as a slutty pocahantas....it was also a costume contest) into me but I somehow fucked that up and just said fuck it and danced my ass off on the dance floor while my buddies danced with whatever girls (one slumming the other impressively not).

Back at the hot tub place I couldn't hang late into the night and fell asleep somehow on an ottoman, my buddy on the floor in one room, my other buddy on the porch swing, and I moved to the carpet in the one chick's huge master bedroom (with the full size hot tub). In the morning the girl that lived there made tasty pancakes, handed out phone chargers (she had a million extras to use for our dead phones) and the rest of the passed out group of volleyball people slowly woke up and we recounted stories from the night over fresh coffee.

Our other friend made it back despite his dead phone since his slumming girl knew people at the house we stayed and in the end there's a very cute girl with a damn nice body whose number I ended up getting in the morning so that she can come by a bbq/party after her and her girl friends play in a tournament that'll be in my town coming up.

Overall even though I fucked up most of the girl interactions and got a little too drunk, I had a fucking great time and it all worked out beautifully. I spent zero dollars other than the tournament entry fee and our 3rd place prizes were bottles of alcohol so we drank those and our buddy lost a bet so he had to buy the few rounds we had at the bar.

Been keeping low activity on game lately.

Turning over new leaf- I erased a bunch of numbers in my phone and have been inspired by Good Looking Looser to not pussy foot around and to be more direct with girls.

I'm paying more attention to how girls are not paying attention to me.

I need to be the focus- like an other worldy creature that is not the run-of-the-mill guy they usually meet.

Also have a couple of girlfriends now that are skinny, but the both have small tits. I do have another fuck buddy, but she's crazy and I'm not so into her body.

I bored of lower quality girls- I think I'm out growing that shit.

Got banned from my usual spot. Stupid story. Suffices to say that I think the owner is jealous of me and scared about his business as well. I used to throw parties at this place and it's turned to shit recently anyway. Lot's of boring people and the girls are meh.

I have to get surgery soon, and I'm trying not to let that get into my game.

Sent out a bunch OKC today, got a couple new numbers.

Got to strike while the iron is hot.

I've got some older woman coming over now.

Girl I met in town and had drinks with a few times - didn't bang - then froze out for a few weeks is now furiously texting me to meet up tomorrow night.

'Give her the gift of missing you.'

went out to joe's on chalk rd, london. hipster soul/jazz night. saw guy with thick rim black glasses and black jeans swing a girl around, grab her ass and mack. strong hispter game, probably bi.

feeling shitty due to lack of approaching. i feel like i use wings as a crux. when i go out solo i suck. with wings i'm awesome. why?

am i performing in front of men? do i seek external validation? why would i be able to perform like a champ if a camera was turned on me but when no one is watching i do jack shit?

why do i need "momentum" before i feel extroverted and super confident? why can't i just be like that straight off the bat? in that case, what is my true personality?

powerful questions. i will ponder them and sleep.

game is so deep, so philosophical. one moment you think you suck, then you're a champ, then you suck again, then you're the champ. but all the time still the same person. difference between my best and worst is akin to the difference between a car that has an engine and one that doesn't.

There was this milf on the level below me at the gym today. Her tits were unbelievable so as I was walking I stared down her shirt from the balcony. Then I ran into a treadmill.

Does that count as a player's log entry?

Someone said in the forum, maybe under quotations, something to the effect of "talk to her, because you'll likely never see her again." I've really taken that to heart, and have been approaching like mad.

Approached not one, but two girls at my gym the other day. First time ever. One was giving me the eyes because I was looking like Arnold in Pumping Iron while doing shrugs. Went to do planks later, and she was on a mat nearby. Started asking about how busy the gym gets, blah, blah, etc.
One question for you guys: How do you get a girls number at the gym? Just ask to meet them outside later? I had to bail as neither of us had phones on us, but I left on a good note. Maybe I'll run into her again.

Side bar: Left my one regulars apartment this morning, and 10 steps later, was at the elevator and a tall good looking blonde was waiting too. Opened her immediately (something about the weather). Very receptive, might run into her again in the lobby sometime.

Again, I'll probably never see her again, so why not take a shot?

Man today was a wash. You ever had one of those days were absolutely nothing went right? That was me, pretty much all damn day. I was so pissed off by 10am that I didn't even want to chat up some cuties I ran into.

Took a nap and then had a biz meeting that went awesome. Then got home and found a way to stream all my music videos to my flatscreen. It looks sick and well give some awesome bang background music. Got a chick coming over to test it on, the way she is texting I'm assuming the bang is in the bag.

The pregnancy test came back negative!

(09-11-2013 10:27 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  The pregnancy test came back negative!

Last night I"m out at the bar and I'm more focussed on promoting my party than any one particular girl. I get the numbers of three dancers simultaneously, and a bunch of other people.

I leave with the some dude I don't know and he's down to wing.

We get in his SUV and are driving around North Brooklyn.

We spot some girls walking.

I tell him to loop around the next avenue and pull up and park three blocks forward in the direction they are walking.

We do it.

The girls approach.

Cigarette opener.

They are French.

Bars are closed, and I bounce them to a park.

The hang is going well, but we were holding back (the guy and me).
I grab the cuter one by the waist while she is dancing on a rock and pull her in for a kiss. She tells me "maybe we can do that later".

We leave the park and I tell them we are going to an afterparty at my house. The new guy doesn't know where it is and wants to drive. The girls start saying they are afraid to go in a stranger's car and want to take a cab. New guy doesn't want to. Girls walk ahead of us and get a cab...

New guy drives me back to my house and realizes it wasn't that far.

C'est la vie.

He mentioned that he usually doesn't get that much resistance.

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I've been thinking about how in comedy, there's often a "straight" man paired with a "wild card" guy (think Seinfeld and Kramer).

I think this dynamic can be useful when you are winging. The contrast can be good.

Got a drink meeting tonight with a POF chick who just moved to town this week from California. We were messaging as she was driving across the country. Obviously she doesn't like to waste time.

Date tomorrow with a girl I banged a few times and then blew off a couple of weeks ago, telling her we aren't compatible. I like her in some ways, and she loves to fuck, but she has an annoying personality. Of course, since I dumped her, that made her want me even more, and she's been texting me since, inviting me places. She offered to make me drinks and dinner and I accepted, figuring it would be be a cheap evening

Date next night with another POF chick , this one quite good looking if she looks like her pics. She messaged me first

Working my CL and SA game pretty hard-going to set up some meetings in the next week

The girl from last weekend texted me and asked me about the BBQ we'd talked about. She said 4 of her girl friends would grab food after the vball tournament and join in. My buddy who's hosting the BBQ at his condo said he invited his best Tinder leads too.

I'm working a half day on Friday, then going to go play a drinking volleyball game in one of the nice beach towns up north with my buddy where there are hot chicks playing. The Russian wants to come up next weekend to see me, and I'm having lunch with Rose tomorrow. Outlook is looking better.

I am not having luck on Tinder so I must be doing something wrong. I get barely 1 response if anything. I think I need to be way faster on responding to girls on there as it is very much instant gratification and that way I have a chance to escalate right away.

Met some really cool English girls at my campus club night yesterday. A large group was doing an exchange at my school. I found them to be much more fun than the average Canadian girl. I exchanged conversation and some dancing with 2-3 of them throughout different moments, very cute girls and a bit shy to the whole dancing structure that occurs in NA clubs.

A guy friend of theirs interfered with my game a bit, in that he would keep talking and pulling in the girls to dance, and his focus was always on the one that I had been trying to build some attraction with. This is a situation where I had to at least acknowledge the guy in the group.

On the other hand, I probably got one of my fastest makeouts ever on the dance floor. Pulled a receptive girl in to dance, she grinds facing away from me, I turn her towards me in 10 seconds with a spin, and she looks up and moves real close and it was inevitable.

This campus bar I've been in 9 times and every single time I've had at least a kiss. I told myself I wasn't going to go for it this time because I wanted to see if I could break it for fun. The last time I went I tried the same thing and what happened was a scenario that's maybe happened once or twice in my life; some random girl comes out of nowhere and pulls my face in for a kiss.. Call it cavewoman.

Oddly enough, never had any pulls from this place. Maybe I need to work more on the persistant side of my game. Sometimes if the makeout happens too fast and I don't play with the tension she will kiss for a bit, despite me ending them, and then just leave to go back to dance with her friends.

Fun night regardless.

Tonight is going to be even better.

(09-11-2013 10:27 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  The pregnancy test came back negative!

This calls for a hi five from the former Pope!

Player question of the day: does bros before hoes even count if your bros are behaving just like hoes?


Last night I was planning on smoking with a group of friends so I texted two girls I met in class to join us later on. We had dinner and drank a bit then walked to a big square in my city were loads of college students and hipsters gather to drink and socialize and where I had told the girls to meet us up. As soon as they arrived my buddies started acting like such spineless betas it was straight painful. I therefore decided to ditch them and take the girls back to my crib on their own instead before they could completely fuck it up and I really felt like I was doing the right thing.

I invented some bullshit excuse that I wanted to stay out drinking with the whole group and was only going to bring the girls home for a quick smoke and then we were going to meet them up outside again in a few. While I was doing this one of my buddies started having the single most awkward conversation with one of the girls I have ever heard while the rest of them laughed hysterically. I was mentally picturing all of the facepalm gifs of the forum I know. It took all the cool and charisma I could muster to not let the situation fall apart and when I was finally walking away with the girls I felt a wave of relief wash over me.

At the crib we lit up and started bullshitting. I had one of the girls (21/yo gymnast with the tightest little body and roundest tush I have seen) change in my gym clothes to show me some splits and somersaults while I was trying to send home her not so hot friend. I was telling her stuff like "Geez, you look really tired. You sure you don't wanna head home?". No dice.
So we talked some more then sent them on their way, all of the while I couldn't help but think what would have happened if my friends had been winging me instead.

Ever since I moved into my buddy's house a couple months ago I've been experimenting with telling girls that he and I went in on the mortgage together so that we could fix it up and sell it in a couple years.

The overwhelmingly positive response amongst girls in their mid-20's means only 1 thing:

Bitches love real estate.

And when you can do manly things like tile and grout a kitchen floor.

(09-13-2013 01:36 PM)FourToTheFloor Wrote:  Ever since I moved into my buddy's house a couple months ago I've been experimenting with telling girls that he and I went in on the mortgage together so that we could fix it up and sell it in a couple years.

The overwhelmingly positive response amongst girls in their mid-20's means only 1 thing:

Bitches love real estate.

And when you can do manly things like tile and grout a kitchen floor.

Women love HGTV. My mom has that shit on 24/7 when I'm not home. It seems like everyone has a show on real estate now a days. She also watches some show on Bravo that has some douches deal with high priced real estate.

Finally getting stricter abut online meetups. Had one last night, all of her pics were from a distance.....suspicious. Asked her to send one of her haircut which she had mentioned, so I knew it would be a new pic. She did. As I suspected, she was worse than her online pics. Cancelled an hour before with an excuse about family illness. I flaked on her! Feels good.

Went to a live music club and ran across some friends-a couple- and was just hanging with them. Kept seeing a really attractive tall blonde eyeing me hard but she was a group and I held off. Then a girl I've banged and another girl I've gone out on a couple dates with came in together-said hi to me (we're all friends) and they went over to talk to the blonde and her group. When they came back I asked them about the blonde "Oh, she's married.." She wants some side dick though-I could see it in her eyes.

Couldn't get anything going there so off to another bar, my favorite pickup venue. Saw a nice looking chick sitting at the bar. I could tell she knew the couple sitting next to her but they were into each other so I saw she was approachable. Tapped her and opened, talked for 3 or 4 minutes then went to a move I'm finding really effective in gauging whether I should continue an interaction- the back turn, or really what the PUAs call a "roll off". At a natural pause in the conversation I turned away from her a bit in my seat and started looking toward the other side of the bar, as if I wasn't invested in the conversation with her and was perhaps losing interest. If a girl reengages when you do this you know she's strongly attracted. After thirty seconds she was tapping me.......

Ten minutes later, I got the boyfriend bomb which I ignored. I disagree with giving any of the suggested smartass responses "Don't you want a manfriend?", "I don't care", or ""Don't tell me about your problems" etc- I think they're try hard and risk pissing her off. If you ignore it, don't back off and plow on that 's alpha enough - her subconscious is telling her "Wow I told this guy I had a boyfriend and he didn't even care!"

A little while later, she was pulling her pants down to show me her tattoos. Then she asked me how old I am -I told her 44, she refused to believe this and demanded to see my license-saying I must be about 38. I refused because she would have seen I'm actually 51 lol. She's 30ish I guess. Then she number closed me and kept saying I should come see her at work -she's a bartender. Then she put a kiss move on me and we started making out. After a while her friends- a stripper and the stripper's baby daddy, dragged her off.

I did have an interesting discussion with them while I was gaming their friend-including them telling me that they like to crush up Vicodins, rub the powder on dildos, and shove the dildos up their asses. "You'll feel so good , you won't even care you have a dildo up your ass!" Baby Daddy said

I was like

Ran into one of the English girls I met last night on campus and described a few posts ago.

I was surprised by how cute she still was despite all the lighting and make up that amplify her attractiveness in the bar.

Short conversation, I mentioned that we should hang out, I gave her my number and put my name in her phone and told her to text me. She did shortly after with her name.

This time, after having read up Bang and found ways to supplement my text game, I'm going to give it a couple days and follow some straight-forward stuff. I'm going to experiment with a more logistical approach to text game for once.

It's a Friday anyways, so I'll wait till Sunday.

Maybe an interesting Dutch research finding
source: http://www.nu.nl/lifestyle/3568751/deel-...bject.html

Concluding after interviewing 1250 women between 12-24 years old, the conclusion was:
"Een derde van de meiden en vrouwen tussen de 12 en 24 jaar die worden gezien of behandeld als lustobject, vindt dat vleiend."

Meaning: One third of the girls and women aged between 12 and 24 years that are seen or treated like a object of lust, feel flattered.


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Going to an electro show tonight. Fly girls on Molly and blackout caveman game should be a good mix. Going to do my best to pull despite massive logistical setbacks.

Anyone recommend good bars in bushwick to get girls?

Got a number from a set of three at four in the morning. They were walking and said hola. I let hem pass, thought about it, then made a move to chase them down. The one I got the number from lived in McAllen. Got the FB and just hit her up to go to a bar to watch the fight with us. If she comes through it is going down.