This is a girl I had made out with before who I randomly saw last night. I delete my texts, but after this I told her to holler at me when she's single, because it appears that she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend, at least sober. She said she would let me know when they break up. Planting long term seeds that there are better guys out there for her (aka me).
For what it's worth, I couldn't taste the alcohol when we kissed (I thought she didn't drink) and she was wearing a showy top. While I don't want to think she is lying, the signs are there that she was at the venue to cheat.
Her friends were also not at all surprised to see us grinding. This has sketchiness written all over.
(This post was last modified: 10-08-2012 05:19 PM by Sleek.)
10-08-2012 04:40 PM
Hotwheels
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I hate it when I leave with a plan B, and then Plan A comes through. This is all happening Fri night in NYC around 3am. This girl is a blonde brazilian with a smile and ass that could cure cancer. Here's the exchange, I've tried to hit her up since this to no avail. This was my chance and I blew it. I swear the window with really hot girls closes so quickly its unreal.
Me: I'm in NYC (2am)
Her: I'm in NYC too (3:15am)
Me: Cool, leaving lavo now. We should grab a reunion drink soon. (I just swooped plan B)
Her: I'm in Lavo
Her: Now
Her: By the dj to the left (FUCK FUCK FUCK)
Me: Blah why didnt you say sooner, my appt is 2 blocks away just got back. Raincheck? Unless you're feeling champagne...( i know too lengthy here)
Her: Haha I'm having champagne
Her: Where are you?
Tried to restart, radio silence. What should I have done here? Tell the girl I'm walking back to my appt to get lost and go back to Lavo and try to close? There was no way she was coming to my place without me meeting her first. Bad luck, I cockblocked myself.
(This post was last modified: 10-09-2012 02:01 PM by rationalize_this.)
10-09-2012 02:01 PM
Sleek
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(10-09-2012 01:25 AM)Hotwheels Wrote: Better response- "So what are you trying to say?"
Yeah, you're right. I still got to work on my text game to appear more mysterious and charismatic.
I think this girl would take a lot of work, but I'm going to try to hit her up once a week and drop some DHVs. A girl cheating on her boyfriend drunk says she really doesn't care about him (at least subconsciously), no?
(This post was last modified: 10-09-2012 04:40 PM by Sleek.)
10-09-2012 04:38 PM
R Smoov
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Texts sent to the girl I met at the gym. Watching El Mech's texts are very helpful guys no lie.
Me: Wats good
Her: Hey is this rich?
Me: Of course
Her: Haha ok cool whatsup?
Me: Just playing I beat up rich and took his phone lol
Her: haha poor rich u should give him his phone back
Me: *radio silence*
I called her 10 minutes later to see if she wanted to go out and party with me. She said on Friday she'd be down.
Lessons Learned:
.Having no periods at text = new playa style cool text gramma
.The "i beat *this guy* up and took his phone" joke still goes strong.
-I need to respond slower than her. Although I sent less texts than her, I was texting her the minute after she replied. NOT GOOD.
You guys think I should hit her up today and workout with her so she'd be more comfortable around me? Or should I just wait until Friday, get her drunk then hit it?
10-11-2012 07:07 AM
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(10-09-2012 01:25 AM)Hotwheels Wrote: Better response- "So what are you trying to say?"
Yeah, you're right. I still got to work on my text game to appear more mysterious and charismatic.
I think this girl would take a lot of work, but I'm going to try to hit her up once a week and drop some DHVs. A girl cheating on her boyfriend drunk says she really doesn't care about him (at least subconsciously), no?
Once a week is too much. Once every other week, max.
I'm assuming this girl is in the same age bracket as you (teens?)
When you do send her texts, keep them mysterious or indirect or aloof
"I had the weirdest dream about you."
"This weather is awesome"
"Hey whats up"
Sounds like you're on the right track though. You are correct that she showed up not giving a fuck about her bf. That doesn't change the fact that she feels remorse, and you have to take that into account. That's where deniability plausability comes in. You play along, "You're right, that won't ever happen again" and then when you see her in person again you game as before.
"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."
(10-09-2012 01:25 AM)Hotwheels Wrote: Better response- "So what are you trying to say?"
Yeah, you're right. I still got to work on my text game to appear more mysterious and charismatic.
I think this girl would take a lot of work, but I'm going to try to hit her up once a week and drop some DHVs. A girl cheating on her boyfriend drunk says she really doesn't care about him (at least subconsciously), no?
Once a week is too much. Once every other week, max.
I'm assuming this girl is in the same age bracket as you (teens?)
When you do send her texts, keep them mysterious or indirect or aloof
"I had the weirdest dream about you."
"This weather is awesome"
"Hey whats up"
Sounds like you're on the right track though. You are correct that she showed up not giving a fuck about her bf. That doesn't change the fact that she feels remorse, and you have to take that into account. That's where deniability plausability comes in. You play along, "You're right, that won't ever happen again" and then when you see her in person again you game as before.
Good suggestions. Will be sure to use those in the future.
It's funny that you mention agreeing with her that it will never happen again because that's exactly what I did a few days ago.
I texted her last night because her friend, who I've never met, friended me on Facebook. Basically tells me that she was talking about me. When we texted, I would change up my response time, sometimes 30 minutes, sometimes five minutes. She copied my times. I don't know if that means anything, but I took it as a good sign.
For some context, replace "one" with "a fake ID". Here's some more positive signs from this girl:
(This post was last modified: 10-11-2012 03:24 PM by Sleek.)
10-11-2012 03:16 PM
Duke Castile
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I hooked up with this girl at a house party Wed night. I probably fucked her 8-9 times before she left. She's smoking. Wrote about it in the Just got laid thread. Anyway when she was leaving my house I got her number and she told me to text her so I did. She's a freak, and a little crazy first exchange is already good.
me-
her- y sadface?
me- cuz
her- im sorry
me: u can make up for it
her: how
me: think of something
her: a kiss
me: see u when ur free
her: im free tonight
me: ok ill be over
her: just call when ur on ur way
me: ok
her: :-p
*got the notch and rawdogged for the first time this was thursday
10-13-2012 10:45 PM
blackglasses
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This is the same chick from the gym I met.
Me: Hey whats up
Her: Super super drunk last night. Hbu?
Me: My night was better
Her: I bet it was lol i got so sick. Whatd u do?
Me: Cant tell u cuz u wasn't wit me
Her: Wait what? Lol
Me: I was drunk and did so much other shit
Me: You wanna chill sometime today?
Her: I'm pretty busy today but tmw works
Me: Hey do you have Netflix?
Her: Na why?
I think I can bag this shit tomorrow. I just dont know what to say to her question.
(10-09-2012 02:01 PM)rationalize_this Wrote: I hate it when I leave with a plan B, and then Plan A comes through. This is all happening Fri night in NYC around 3am. This girl is a blonde brazilian with a smile and ass that could cure cancer. Here's the exchange, I've tried to hit her up since this to no avail. This was my chance and I blew it. I swear the window with really hot girls closes so quickly its unreal.
Me: I'm in NYC (2am)
Her: I'm in NYC too (3:15am)
Me: Cool, leaving lavo now. We should grab a reunion drink soon. (I just swooped plan B)
Her: I'm in Lavo
Her: Now
Her: By the dj to the left (FUCK FUCK FUCK)
Me: Blah why didnt you say sooner, my appt is 2 blocks away just got back. Raincheck? Unless you're feeling champagne...( i know too lengthy here)
Her: Haha I'm having champagne
Her: Where are you?
Tried to restart, radio silence. What should I have done here? Tell the girl I'm walking back to my appt to get lost and go back to Lavo and try to close? There was no way she was coming to my place without me meeting her first. Bad luck, I cockblocked myself.
if you already have a girl coming back to your appt then that is an easy lay right there. why go through more work and gamble on another target
10-14-2012 08:41 PM
MidniteSpecial
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(10-14-2012 07:27 PM)cat_a_clysm Wrote: See this thread for background: /thread-16794.html
I just got a text from that girl that says: Do you have AIDS?
a good response would be, "no, but my cat does."
I don't get it
feline aids bro.
I admit I'm new to this but somehow I don't think that's gonna work for me.
O.k. basically what I am saying here is that the question she asked you does not warrant a serious answer from you. She could be serious but it could also be a shit test. Either way you can't win here. Say no, and its just weird after that, say yes, and well, you have aids and that sucks and unless she has aids you're done. So you come back with a witty smart ass come back that basically says, "fuck you bitch this is my city."
A lot of girls like or have cats and this would probably make them laugh. If she doesn't laugh about your cat having feline aids than shes a whore and she can't be trusted.
Or Maybe a safer route for you would be to flip it on her and get defensive and weird and say something like this in response to her asking if you have aids, "no, what the fuck!? who has aids? ewww, I gotta go. You're weird."
(This post was last modified: 10-14-2012 09:07 PM by MidniteSpecial.)
(10-14-2012 08:31 PM)MidniteSpecial Wrote: a good response would be, "no, but my cat does."
I don't get it
feline aids bro.
I admit I'm new to this but somehow I don't think that's gonna work for me.
O.k. basically what I am saying here is that [undefined=undefined]the question she asked you does not warrant a serious answer from you[/undefined]. She could be serious but it could also be a shit test. Either way you can't win here. Say no, and its just weird after that, say yes, and well, you have aids and that sucks and unless she has aids you're done. So you come back with a witty smart ass come back that basically says, "fuck you bitch this is my city."
A lot of girls like or have cats and this would probably make them laugh. If she doesn't laugh about your cat having feline aids than shes a whore and she can't be trusted.
Or Maybe a safer route for you would be to flip it on her and get defensive and weird and say something like this in response to her asking if you have aids, "no, what the fuck!? who has aids? ewww, I gotta go. You're weird."
I knew that much. It's def a shit test and/or her and her friends fucking around for fun
10-14-2012 09:18 PM
Duke Castile
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(10-09-2012 02:01 PM)rationalize_this Wrote: I hate it when I leave with a plan B, and then Plan A comes through. This is all happening Fri night in NYC around 3am. This girl is a blonde brazilian with a smile and ass that could cure cancer. Here's the exchange, I've tried to hit her up since this to no avail. This was my chance and I blew it. I swear the window with really hot girls closes so quickly its unreal.
Me: I'm in NYC (2am)
Her: I'm in NYC too (3:15am)
Me: Cool, leaving lavo now. We should grab a reunion drink soon. (I just swooped plan B)
Her: I'm in Lavo
Her: Now
Her: By the dj to the left (FUCK FUCK FUCK)
Me: Blah why didnt you say sooner, my appt is 2 blocks away just got back. Raincheck? Unless you're feeling champagne...( i know too lengthy here)
Her: Haha I'm having champagne
Her: Where are you?
Tried to restart, radio silence. What should I have done here? Tell the girl I'm walking back to my appt to get lost and go back to Lavo and try to close? There was no way she was coming to my place without me meeting her first. Bad luck, I cockblocked myself.
if you already have a girl coming back to your appt then that is an easy lay right there. why go through more work and gamble on another target
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