Post: #1

Most of the other assholes on this forum guard their formula for sending messages like it was the Colonels Secret Recipe! If I hadn’t been given specific, actionable intelligence by men more successful than I was, I wouldn’t be the asshole knee-deep in pussy that I am today. Take what I share and let me know how it works for you, and if you improved anything. More importantly, post the formula(s) that you have used successfully so that we can all benefit.

I modified and use a hack I read about HERE, and I do pinging to draw traffic. I deleted all my answers and only answered questions that were sexual, and only in the most extreme form. Women that match me at 80% or higher get messaged. What they don’t know, and what I will never tell them is that the reason I knew they were good prospects is because the only thing we had high matches on were sexual. Knowing that, I was able to move in specific directions with things I knew they preferred.

This is the EXACT message I sent to each and every woman I drop a line to on any dating site, I get 4 out of 10 to reply within 24 hours, and another 1-2 within the week, consistently. One or two become part of my team in one way or another. Some preferably for the long haul, others for quick fun.

"How’s it going? It’s fascinating to see a woman into (INSERT VERB / SPECIFIC INTEREST TAKEN FROM HER PROFILE) here. Profiles aren’t much to go on but from what I just read, I’m sure we have more than a few awesome things in common. However/Remember/You Know (Insert clever twist of phrase taken from the last 1-2 parts of her profile, so she thinks I read it all)

Example, for a girl into the arts/theater I’d say:

"How’s it going? It’s fascinating to see another film geek here. Profiles aren’t much to go on but from what I just read, I’m sure we have more than a few awesome things in common. Remember, sane is a relative term!"

All I need is to set the hook with my hello. My only goal is to get them to look at my profile, either she bites and replies, or she doesn’t. I don’t care. Once a week I send out 30 messages. This should take you no more than 15 minutes, max.

When they reply, I just say something fun and relevant, then I close with my (Google Voice) phone number and say “Call me tomorrow morning, we’ll get together for a snack sometime soon”. I DO NOT have long, drawn out message threads online, and while my primary goal is to get her interested enough to message me, I want to talk to her as soon as possible. Even then, I will only engage in banter for a few minutes before I say that I have a call from my office on the other line, and give her two times/dates as options to meet up at a café.

Dating sites are only to be used as a passive income stream. This is in no way to ever replace face-to-face grinding talking to women every day.

Reference: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/online...t-message/

BONUS:
I made the Hot List on OKC a long time ago.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/06/16...14149.html

http://mashable.com/2010/05/25/okcupid-dating/

http://www.blackdragon-blog.com/2011/11/...ks-im-hot/

https://onloveonline.wordpress.com/tag/you-are-hot/

Post: #2

This sounds about right.

I was banging an OkC girl on and off for a year (before I quit) - a really solid connection. I don't even remember what bullshit I spit at her in my first message.

From my experience, online bangs don't result necessarily from what you say, but merely that you say something to grab her attention. If she is interested from what she sees of your profile, she will bite. Drawn-out colloquys are a waste of time mostly.

Post: #3

Been using a form of the following for minute now with great success:

Key phrases
* Normally I just skim through but...
* If they have a kid/MILF I hit them with a commonality like - 'being a parent myself....'
* "Your profile left me with a few questions" - most effective by far because now her curiousity takes over and she needs to know

Just opened my account up a few minutes ago and saw this response:

Hi (MY NAME), my names Jeanne. Thanks for the message. What kind of questions could I have possibly left you with? Lol it's hard to write about yourself. I know who I am, and trying to fit it into a paragraph that some one would read is difficult.
I would like to meet for drinks of any kind. Would be nice to get to know you. You have me intrigued. (And that's a good thing....)

I'm going to give you my cell, that way the balls in your court and when your free for a drink or two, you can let me know. XXX-777-XXX

Glad you said hello, hope to talk again soon.

Post: #4

I describe my current formula in the big OK Cupid thread.

Right now, I'm using more cookie cutter emails and sending more of them. I started emailing on Wednesday, and had dates set up for Thur, Fri, and Sat within 24 hours.

I don't screen for sexual aggression or sluttiness. I don't there are enough women in my metro area for that. I screen mostly for thinness (and race).

I have not been selected for the OKC hot list, but I know some friends who have.

Post: #5

Thanks. Clear, actionable intelligence. This is what we need more of. The Abundance Mentality at work! I’m going to use "Your profile left me with a few questions” a few times and see how it works out.

(06-13-2014 10:51 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Been using a form of the following for minute now with great success:

Key phrases
* Normally I just skim through but...
* If they have a kid/MILF I hit them with a commonality like - 'being a parent myself....'
* "Your profile left me with a few questions" - most effective by far because now her curiousity takes over and she needs to know

Post: #6

My city doesn't have the volume for shotgun messaging, have been using "you didn't say hi when you checked me out" for anyone decent who views my profile.

Any who responded yesterday got the Kwisatz message as a reply unless they gave me an easy topic. Went over really well, now have a couple of dates arranged off the back of it.

Solid info!

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold

Post: #7

Pictures go well with this.

I have a suit, casual and a near-close up of my face. Thinking of a casual topless shot because I want to experiment with it.

How about you?

Post: #8

I have two pictures up. One of me looking off into the diastase with a sunny day behind me, and the other of me fixing something with a wrench. Not a staged pic. A pic my buddy took while I was working on a project.

Post: #9

I've probably banged close to 100 chicks from OKC (you can see some of my exploits in the OKC thread) and I'll give you a piece of actionable intelligence:

When you get past the opener and maybe one or two messages, say this to get the number or for her to agree to a meetup:

Quote:You know, this OKC messaging system is a really inefficient way to get to know someone. So, how about drinks soon? If we don't like one another, whomever is more attractive can totally flake on the next date!

Sound like a deal?

I've gotten a positive response almost every time I have used that. But I have really tight opening and message game.

By far the most important lesson in all of online dating is: GET THE PROSPECT OFFLINE AND ON A REAL LIFE DATE AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. Go for the number and meetup as fast as possible.

Post: #10

I don't mind sharing my openers with the forum, but there are lot of lurkers who come and use our openers. Just look at Delicious Taco's openers.

Post: #11

(06-17-2014 09:19 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I don't mind sharing my openers with the forum, but there are lot of lurkers who come and use our openers. Just look at Delicious Taco's openers.

I've had success recently using generic openers that have been on this forum for years, I think a solid profile and great pics are way more important for getting a response.

Saturation doesn't seem to be too much of a problem for me, but I'm not in a top-tier city.

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold

Post: #12

Bacchus just posted "OKC Founder Says Copy-Pasting Is Most Efficient Strategy”, /thread-41297.html . A good read. It’s based on the article “Why You Should Put Less Effort Into Your Online-Dating Messages" at http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2014/10/put...sages.html

Post: #13

I remember a few years back I had found some peoples examples of messages. I actually had a lot of luck with just random off the wall shit. Everyone sends the same old emails/messages either A. trying to flatter the women or B. sellyourself. This template I found which I modified to fit myself a bit more was basically off the wall random shit and jokes. I had a lot of success with it, and its cool ifyour just looking for a bang but I found it kind of set the stage that I'mthis energetic class clown personality and in reality thats totally the opposite of me so it wasn't necessarily being real so if I did want anything ongoing probably wasn't the best messages but definately did grab attention.

On the flip side for craigslist game I saw a really funny post about I wanna fuck you doggystyle while you play super mario brothers. It was basically something like you'll come over and strip down and start playing level 1. When you get to the secret pipe and go throug the secret world I'll emerge from the bathroom and start fucking you doggy style, it went on with some witty clever stuff but thought that post was an attention grabber as well

Post: #14

(10-14-2014 10:36 AM)jamaicabound Wrote:  On the flip side for craigslist game I saw a really funny post about I wanna fuck you doggystyle while you play super mario brothers. It was basically something like you'll come over and strip down and start playing level 1. When you get to the secret pipe and go throug the secret world I'll emerge from the bathroom and start fucking you doggy style, it went on with some witty clever stuff but thought that post was an attention grabber as well

Yeah, a classic: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/orl/740493470.html

Quote:Do you love to play Super Mario Brothers on the Classic Nintendo System? Do you like to get tagged from behind while you do it? This is the post for you then.

You must know your way around the game before we meet, must be open to anal sex, also able to fake an orgasm is a plus.

I will send you the address to a hotel and a room number. When you arrive the door will be open. Please come in close and lock the door and close the shades if they are still open. I will be in the bathroom and the door will be closed. Turn on the TV and the Nintendo. Remove all of your clothing. Turn off all lights in the room and kneel down on the bed so you are directly in the light of the TV. You need to be facing the TV with your butt in the air pointed toward the pillows on the bed.

Press the start button on the controller when you are ready. I will hear the sound and turn the light off in the bathroom and come out. You will not look directly at me, only look at the TV. When the first level starts I will begin to finger you and lick you. I will be using lots of lube as well.

When you reach the end of level one, make sure to trigger the fireworks. This is vital to the entire experience. I must hear the fireworks. When level 2 begins and Mario walks into the pipe, I will penetrate you. You may say things like, "MORE", "HARDER", "YES", "FUCK ME", but nothing else. I will continue having sex until the level ends. DO NOT take the secret level skip. If you die I will pull out and spank you until the level restarts.

When you reach the flag you must again trigger the fireworks, and also orgasm. I will pull out. When the 1-3 starts I will penetrate your ass. You are allowed to say something like "OH GOD", "YES", OR "IT HURTS" no other conversation is allowed.

When level 1-4 starts I will alternate between holes as I see fit. You may beg me to cum inside or outside of you, depending on what you want. When boss falls and you reach the princess I will pull out and blow my load where you have convinced me I want too. You may then say something like "Thanks", "It was great", "I loved it", "Don't stop"

If I am impressed you may continue playing and I will continue to pleasure you. If I am not, I will turn the Nintendo Off and return to the bathroom. At this time you may clean your self with the towel that is beside the bed. Turn the lights on, redress yourself and leave.

I may come back out and talk to you as you dress but the conversation will most likely be short and revolve around scheduling another time to get together.

Post: #15

Check out "Game Tactics in the Post-Tinder Era", its a relevant thread with quality info: /thread-66713.html

Post: #16

Really good topic, some nice ideas in here.

Post: #17

Please, let us know what techniques worked out for you.

(02-12-2018 10:14 PM)CJ_W Wrote:  Really good topic, some nice ideas in here.