Post: #1

I recently got out of a longish relationship and I want things to stay in the casual zone with new girls. Im not sure what the best move is when parting ways. Whether to kiss them on the lips or just give them a hug. I'm talking about a scenario in which I hit it and then we chill around the crib for a bit doing whatever, watch TV smoke etc. and then she leaves after a while. Rather than one when she's a ho and I smash bust in her mouth then hit the door as I zip up my fly.

I guess it's a situation to situation thing. Girls I've been with that are clearly sluts give off the vibe that they would find it offputting if I tried to kiss them on the lips when we aren't in the act, so it's easy to skip it.

I've also had girls turn away because I tried to play the hit it, hop out of bed and leave and not really show any affection when we aren't in the moment. Some of them still have their fraudulent 'good girl’ identities intact so you need to make them feel like they are worth more than their pussy.

Basically I am trying to toe the line by not setting some catch-feelings relationship type precedent but also not bruise her ego. How do you guys play it?

Post: #2

Dude you're over thinking this.

Just play it out how it feels, go with your gut.

The majority of the time as I walk them out of my garage I'll give them a hug, make out with them, smack them on their ass and tell them to text me when they got home safe.

Your main concern is making sure a girl is comfortable around you so she'll stick around and keep getting fucked by you.

You MADE those girls feel like a hit it or quit it after the quick bang, that's where you should've ran more comfort game.

This doesn't mean LTR, mini LTR, or dating - this just means keeping the lines open to rebang.

Hell sometimes I'll start making out with them as they put their clothes on, then take them all off again to fuck them again.


I don't give a shit if it's a girl I bang once, a fuck buddy, a girl I like, or a girl I'm dating. I make them feel welcome, satisfied, and keep them laughing.


Dudes try too hard to be paper "alphas" when around girls.

It's not "beta" to kiss a girl goodbye or hug close her after you fucked her, most won't talk about this.

Post: #3

(07-18-2017 03:39 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Dude you're over thinking this.

Just play it out how it feels, go with your gut.

The majority of the time as I walk them out of my garage I'll give them a hug, make out with them, smack them on their ass and tell them to text me when they got home safe.

Your main concern is making sure a girl is comfortable around you so she'll stick around and keep getting fucked by you.

You MADE those girls feel like a hit it or quit it after the quick bang, that's where you should've ran more comfort game.

This doesn't mean LTR, mini LTR, or dating - this just means keeping the lines open to rebang.

Hell sometimes I'll start making out with them as they put their clothes on, then take them all off again to fuck them again.


I don't give a shit if it's a girl I bang once, a fuck buddy, a girl I like, or a girl I'm dating. I make them feel welcome, satisfied, and keep them laughing.


Dudes try too hard to be paper "alphas" when around girls.

It's not "beta" to kiss a girl goodbye or hug close her after you fucked her, most won't talk about this.

Your question has been answered

Post: #4

Sluts aren't whores; I've never met a slutty girl who was against kissing out of bed.

Post: #5

Internalize everything that kaotic said.

Female receptiveness is just a thermometer to your fluidity and ability.

If you want to keep things light you better get good at negotiating ambiguity and rolling with it. Casa Nova, Don Juan, etc all the best seducers embraced emotions and let them ripple thru their interactions.

You should be more focused on bruising her cervix and less focused about her ego.

Post: #6

Couldn't agree more with Kaotic.

If you don't want to ever see her again and you "came to your senses" after you came, you can do whatever you want. However, if you want to potentially keep her around in the rotation, you don't want to make her feel like she's a slut who was just used for the quick bang, even if she fucked you the first night. You want her to think that it meant at least something to you, even if it is purely in the moment. Nothing wrong with expressing some basic affection after the bang, especially if you can tell that she's the sweeter type.

Every now and then I hear guys online talking about girls who don't want to kiss, but are willing to fuck. I have a lot of trouble believing that, given that I have never fucked a girl without kissing them, nor has anybody else that I know personally. If its a chick who is that slutty that she doesn't enjoy kissing, or she has the deadly thousand cock stare, then don't push it, but I personally wouldn't really want to keep a girl like that around anyway.

Post: #7

Didn't read the OP.

Walk her to her car, the train, her cab, whatever and kiss her passionately and smack her on the ass and mouth off the first thing that comes to your mind

"text me when you get home safe"

"I enjoyed spending time with you"

"Be safe out there"

and walk away. No need to make it complicated. I've done this to girls I have fucked, not fucked, broken up with as a goodbye, doesn't matter. It feels good to me so I do it, that's what matters.

Post: #8

Depends if she took a load in her mouth or not.

Post: #9

Some girls kiss better than they fuck. So yes.

Also, listen to Kaotic. There is a reason that man swims in pussy. He's the "Pussy Whisperer".

Post: #10

(07-19-2017 12:42 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  Depends if she took a load in her mouth or not.

LOL. This is highly logical. Good one!

Post: #11

(07-19-2017 12:42 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  Depends if she took a load in her mouth or not.

Word. There's some gifts I dont ever want back.

Post: #12

What LOL.
Just kiss her if you want, don't kiss her if you don't want.
Calibrate bro, if she doesn't want to be kissed, don't kiss her, if she drags your neck to her, then kiss her.

Post: #13

That's beta. Only alphas hug close after a fuck.

Post: #14

(07-18-2017 08:54 PM)RDF Wrote:  Every now and then I hear guys online talking about girls who don't want to kiss, but are willing to fuck. I have a lot of trouble believing that, given that I have never fucked a girl without kissing them, nor has anybody else that I know personally. If its a chick who is that slutty that she doesn't enjoy kissing, or she has the deadly thousand cock stare, then don't push it, but I personally wouldn't really want to keep a girl like that around anyway.

Men need to remember that most of a woman's body is, in some shape or form, an erogenous zone. Kissing, close hugging, snuggling, gentle caresses, they are a form of foreplay to them. Even if they aren't that serious about the relationship they can still want those milder physical sensations.