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Exactly man, which is why I'll squeeze all this is worth for now.

I'm always checking out other prospects.

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(06-13-2017 12:39 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If she was in her early twenties, I might of considered her a legit prospect for an LTR.

The "relationship" part in LTR could also mean a relationship of the with-benefits kind. Just because you see her often and feel good with her does not mean you cant fuck other girls or catch feelings for someone else at the same time. Relationships are not-mutually exclusive. (Unless you live with her, then it fuck up logistics)

Id say go for it. If she is going to move on eventually because of your desire to bang younger girls, what difference does it makes if she does it now or in 6 months? If she gets you hard, it would be a waste not to just because "she is aging".

Ride those 2 or 3 years she has left out.

Take attention away from attention whores and all that is left is whores.

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Just got out of a LTR. Getting back into the game. Here we go!

Do it for the notch.
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(06-14-2017 07:10 PM)littleG Wrote:  Just got out of a LTR. Getting back into the game. Here we go!

G! Long time no hear. Good to see you around here again!
Welcome back to the Game.

And +1 from me. Just realized I never repped you after the NYC meetup.

Be well.

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(06-14-2017 06:44 PM)germanico Wrote:  The "relationship" part in LTR could also mean a relationship of the with-benefits kind. Just because you see her often and feel good with her does not mean you cant fuck other girls or catch feelings for someone else at the same time. Relationships are not-mutually exclusive. (Unless you live with her, then it fuck up logistics)

Id say go for it. If she is going to move on eventually because of your desire to bang younger girls, what difference does it makes if she does it now or in 6 months? If she gets you hard, it would be a waste not to just because "she is aging".

Ride those 2 or 3 years she has left out.

Been doing this for years man, my last two relationships I was banging on the side consistently.

That's nothing new, I'm just talking about legitimate prospects.

Of course I'm pursuing her !

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I was thinking about a tweet Scott Adams sent out that read, "First rule of sales: Ask". The tweet was made in a political context, but I started thinking of how it applied in the context of my lady life because I see Game and sales as the same thing.

I started asking girls out to get the ball rolling rather than waiting for things to magically transpire and things have worked out in my favor a bit better than I thought it would.

I got one girl to leave the bar with me and I'm in the process of setting up a date with another. Have not hooked up with a girl yet, but I'm in a much better position now than I was last week.
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Girls will always use their ace card (i.e. pussy) in a last ditch effort to keep you around.

I banged this Bumble girl earlier this month and while the sex was good, she had some...mental hiccups and she sent me a barrage of texts last night which made my decision to drop her easy.

I have been playing the 2/3, aloof text game with her and apparently it was working because last night she sent me texts telling me that she didn't appreciate my short responses I have been giving her. She specifically referenced a response I gave her two days ago (gee, that hamster must have sore legs running that long). She then told me to delete all her pictures (these include your standard fingers-in-the-vagina, tits, legs pics). Of course I ignored all of these childish outburst and surprise, surprise! This morning I wake up to another barrage but this time it's her apologizing for her behavior and she didn't mean what she was saying last night. She blamed alcohol. She asked me if she could call me and explain herself. My response? "Nah".

So now she is playing her Ace. She asked me about 20 minutes ago if she can come over tonight and "get physical". I ignore her. Then she says she was really looking forward to the rough sex I intended to give her. I admit that I almost did crack...I would like to really fucking give it to her with authority, BUT NO! I must remain steadfast. It's hard to turn down pussy but you just gotta laugh when they are so desperate they are using their only play left against you.

Women have been controlling Men since the beginning of time with their pussy. They know it. We know it. The problem is most men are weak willed and cave in to it. The woman is in control from that moment forward. Fuck that shit.

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(06-15-2017 09:16 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  Girls will always use their ace card (i.e. pussy) in a last ditch effort to keep you around.

I banged this Bumble girl earlier this month and while the sex was good, she had some...mental hiccups and she sent me a barrage of texts last night which made my decision to drop her easy.

I have been playing the 2/3, aloof text game with her and apparently it was working because last night she sent me texts telling me that she didn't appreciate my short responses I have been giving her. She specifically referenced a response I gave her two days ago (gee, that hamster must have sore legs running that long). She then told me to delete all her pictures (these include your standard fingers-in-the-vagina, tits, legs pics). Of course I ignored all of these childish outburst and surprise, surprise! This morning I wake up to another barrage but this time it's her apologizing for her behavior and she didn't mean what she was saying last night. She blamed alcohol. She asked me if she could call me and explain herself. My response? "Nah".

So now she is playing her Ace. She asked me about 20 minutes ago if she can come over tonight and "get physical". I ignore her. Then she says she was really looking forward to the rough sex I intended to give her. I admit that I almost did crack...I would like to really fucking give it to her with authority, BUT NO! I must remain steadfast. It's hard to turn down pussy but you just gotta laugh when they are so desperate they are using their only play left against you.

Women have been controlling Men since the beginning of time with their pussy. They know it. We know it. The problem is most men are weak willed and cave in to it. The woman is in control from that moment forward. Fuck that shit.

Masterful.

I think Roissy would be proud ("XV. Maintain your state control / You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. [...] When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.")

I wish I would be as strong-willed as you. Instead, I'm getting flashbacks over my ex met through day game which makes me both angry/sad. Jesus.

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I've been doing an exercise in discipline for the past few weeks.

If I get the urge to look at my cellphone, I make myself wait a few minutes before I look at it.

If I get the urge to smoke a joint after work, I make it a point not to.

Yesterday I saw this beautiful brunette who I knew I had to approach but I started making excuses to myself. After much hesitation, my friends decided to leave the bar we were at. I leave with them, but 50ft away I decide to come back.

Approached her and she lit up. Got her number and she just replied to my text.

Regardless of the outcome, TRY.

Damn, this is a rewarding feeling.

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Got the bang from an OKC chick back earlier this week. She was about 5'10, cute face, perky tits. Ex volley ball player.

She came over to my apt when I got off work and we both hung out and watched a movie. Got her to my room after about 15 minutes in and went a couple rounds.

That was my second new notch after splitting with my LTR a short time ago.

Going to see a baseball game this weekend with another girl, she wants to spend the night so that will be another.

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(06-15-2017 10:09 AM)ksbms Wrote:  How did you develop this capacity?

Honestly? Abundance Mentality.

We really don't need them, we just want them.

Seriously, what does a woman bring into your life that you can't get elsewhere?

- Good company? I have my guy friends for that. And I have WAY more fun hanging out with them and doing shit with them.

- Cooking? I can cook myself or go out to eat. I don't need a woman for that.

- Something pretty to look at? I can turn on the TV or just go look at porn on the internet if I wanted to look at some eye candy.

- Vagina. And here it is. This is the only thing a woman has that I desire. And like I said, we both know it. But I don't NEED this to survive. I just want to stick my dick in it for pleasure. However women use this 'power' to control men and get what they want. The only way to disable this 'power' of theirs is to deny it.

I'm starting to sound like MGTOW-ish and I'm not advocating that. It's the chase that excites me and makes me feel alive. And of course I have already fucked this girl so it was easier to deny her. I know there is plenty of more pussy out there for me to chase so when they give me the smallest reason to drop them (and let's be honest, I'm going to drop them at some point anyway) they are gone. A new chase begins.

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[email protected] it's not MGTOW to think lizards are secondary in life.

We need to take care of ourselves first, females are cool, but needed 24/7.

If you find one that complements your life (which you should be ALWAYS doing) then awesome !

You SHOULD have options and ALWAYS be on the hunt !

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(06-14-2017 10:48 AM)nomadbrah Wrote:  
(06-14-2017 10:36 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Main girl was trying to argue.....so I replied to shut her up, and called her kid's boyfriend a "walking manlet".

She didn't say anything about that, further confirming he's a manlet. He's not "definition" manlet, but rather tall and skinny AF.

The manlet is going to post the other side of that story on Misc soon.

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(06-15-2017 09:16 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  Girls will always use their ace card (i.e. pussy) in a last ditch effort to keep you around.

I banged this Bumble girl earlier this month and while the sex was good, she had some...mental hiccups and she sent me a barrage of texts last night which made my decision to drop her easy.

I have been playing the 2/3, aloof text game with her and apparently it was working because last night she sent me texts telling me that she didn't appreciate my short responses I have been giving her. She specifically referenced a response I gave her two days ago (gee, that hamster must have sore legs running that long). She then told me to delete all her pictures (these include your standard fingers-in-the-vagina, tits, legs pics). Of course I ignored all of these childish outburst and surprise, surprise! This morning I wake up to another barrage but this time it's her apologizing for her behavior and she didn't mean what she was saying last night. She blamed alcohol. She asked me if she could call me and explain herself. My response? "Nah".

So now she is playing her Ace. She asked me about 20 minutes ago if she can come over tonight and "get physical". I ignore her. Then she says she was really looking forward to the rough sex I intended to give her. I admit that I almost did crack...I would like to really fucking give it to her with authority, BUT NO! I must remain steadfast. It's hard to turn down pussy but you just gotta laugh when they are so desperate they are using their only play left against you.

Women have been controlling Men since the beginning of time with their pussy. They know it. We know it. The problem is most men are weak willed and cave in to it. The woman is in control from that moment forward. Fuck that shit.

Masterful.

I think Roissy would be proud ("XV. Maintain your state control / You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. [...] When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.")

I wish I would be as strong-willed as you. Instead, I'm getting flashbacks over my ex met through day game which makes me both angry/sad. Jesus.

How did you develop this capacity?

What about fucking her then continuing being cold/nonchalant?

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(06-01-2017 12:13 PM)KrisGLWorldwide Wrote:  I'm gonna get on Snapchat anyway, fuck this I want dem hoes
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(06-15-2017 02:16 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  What about fucking her then continuing being cold/nonchalant?

Not worth the annoying texts and her need for meaningful banter. I just have no patience for that.

My main plate that I have been seeing since February doesn't do this. It's simply come over to my place, bang, then she leaves. Nothing more. I've got another girl coming over tomorrow and so far she isn't annoyed by my aloofness. And if she ever gets to that point....bye bitch.

There is just too much pussy out there to put up with petty bullshit.

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(06-15-2017 12:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  [email protected] it's not MGTOW to think lizards are secondary in life.

We need to take care of ourselves first, females are cool, but NOT needed 24/7.

If you find one that complements your life (which you should be ALWAYS doing) then awesome !

You SHOULD have options and ALWAYS be on the hunt !

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Alright, which one of you boys was daygaming in NYC yesterday? I stopped a chick who had just been hit on. The guy opened with "do you find me attractive?" If she answers affirmative, he follows up with "do you want to kiss me?" This dude must be good looking, and is pushing it to the limit, getting away with shit like that!

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(05-25-2017 06:22 PM)BetaNoMore Wrote:  Well she told me that she loved me last night and that she never stopped even when she was in her last LTR. I told her I'm open to seeing where this goes but don't want to rush anything. She is pretending that she's okay with this being "casual."

Here's what I see happening over the next few weeks/months:

1. She will continue to pretend to respect my autonomy and me banging other chicks.
2. She will start to try to hang out/bang more on the regular.
3. She will start to try to make me jealous. On this note, things are slightly different now because she has at least 1 if not 2 orbiters now and she's already planting seeds of jealousy.
4. Finally, I'll get an ultimatum.

I am playing with fire but I never really got over this chick and our chemistry is amazing so I'll try to proceed without being too invested for now. Her girl game is steps ahead of mine but what I have now are options and I can't forget this.

Owe you guys an update. I cut things off with her a few days ago.

I wanted to do things right with her and the only reason I considered being with her again was for marriage because I thought she was the one who got away because of the circumstances of the relationship and my previous poor behaviour.

The chemistry was awesome in the beginning when we first reconnected again. But then the same bad, unacceptable habits she did to me during the latter half of our relationship started popping up and they popped up fast. She did not change one bit and this time around, I've improved and grown as a person so I wasn't going to take the same crap that she did to me.

There was the final straw that happened that was all too familiar with everything she did in the past and I just said enough is enough. I sent her a nice text telling her that I'll always remember the good times and the connection we had but we're just not right for each other and that I wish her well but my decision to end it is final. Have not heard from her since.

I was in a conundrum because I got a sweet place downtown and my game was improving and I was getting so much regular pussy. I gave it all up because I thought she was someone special but I'm really lucky. I feel extremely blessed because I got this chance to give it a shot and now I realize that all that time where she blamed me and I blamed myself, was not all me, but it was because she's fucking nuts. I can now move on with a clear conscious, no more "what ifs" and closure.

this time I'll be looking to bang hotter chicks but at the same time, I'm still hoping to find someone who isn't completely into the current degen lifestyle and wants to build someone more long-lasting. We'll see what happens but man am I glad I got this chance with this ex.

So for all you guys out there if you want to get back with your ex, chances are, even if you did change for the better, they won't have. Most people don't change.
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(06-16-2017 09:30 PM)churros Wrote:  Alright, which one of you boys was daygaming in NYC yesterday? I stopped a chick who had just been hit on. The guy opened with "do you find me attractive?" If she answers affirmative, he follows up with "do you want to kiss me?" This dude must be good looking, and is pushing it to the limit, getting away with shit like that!

That is some uncalibrated, antique shit. I'm pretty sure that's from The Game and they were using it in night game.
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Girl that spent the night just left. She loves her squats and it shows. Overall, pleasant to be around. Pretty exhausted since she has a high sex drive. Hope we woke the guy up above me who likes to stomp around at 4:30am during the week.

Edit: Wanted to add that things have changed a lot since I was last single. Using a couple online dating sites. Girls are giving me their numbers more often than when I ask. Actually having some trouble keeping up with all the girls who have given me their info. Not used to it. Wonder what has changed...

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Had a girl just leave. Very tall, great ass. Spitting a dip and watching tv. Solid night. Little loose in the legs.

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Is it just me or do all girls like being choked? Brought a tinder chick back to my place yesterday and even though she wasn't down for sex (I didn't push because I could tell she wouldn't have sex the first night and I'd be better off waiting for the 2nd or 3 date), we had our tops off and were making out etc. She then puts my hand around her neck and tells me to choke her lol. Now many girls I've been with like being choked but this one wanted an air choke rather than a blood choke too.

Just cracks me up.
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(06-17-2017 01:22 AM)BetaNoMore Wrote:  I wanted to do things right with her and the only reason I considered being with her again was for marriage because I thought she was the one who got away because of the circumstances of the relationship and my previous poor behaviour.

...

So for all you guys out there if you want to get back with your ex, chances are, even if you did change for the better, they won't have. Most people don't change.

Amen brother. Difficult to accept but true.
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Something interesting happened yesterday besides my regular approaching. I was at college and there are all these random, abandoned cats around campus. They don't have any owners. I was walking to a class and saw one of those cats lying down and decided to go pet it. At the same time, a girl that was at the spot decided to go pet the cat too. So we bumped into each other, and i said "you were going to pet the cat, too?", smiling.

She was far from attractive, i'm just nice and kind by default. The thing is that, in that context, showing even that little bit of simpathy felt like i was doing it because i wanted to get to know her as if in an "accidental indirect approach". All she did was say "yeah" meekly and then she petted the cat just a little and went off with the impression i would use the excuse to try to talk to her, even though that wasn't the case.

To me that just proved to myself how trying to meet girls "naturally", or going indirect, can more commonly be more difficult and even worse than just going for a direct approach on a girl you're attracted to, because when women feel you're using an excuse to get to know them, it comes across as shady and suspícious.
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(06-15-2017 02:16 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  What about fucking her then continuing being cold/nonchalant?

What about, "don't dip your dick in crazy?" They are fun and all, right up until they decide you "raped" them.

I think it was played just right. That chick is one dicking away from cooking his rabbit.
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(06-13-2017 12:39 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Went on a date with a Christian Syrian girl last night, she was born in the ME, but not in actual Syria.

She's got her shit together and sells stuff in the medical industry.

She's pretty smart and easy going.

We texted for over a month (I kept in touch because she seemed like a good prospect). We were both busy and couldn't meet.

We even had a long call, basically vetting me to see if she wanted to hangout, I flipped the script on that, seeing what she was about and what she wanted.

We had a long convo together at the bar, she had coffee, odd, but she wasn't feeling too hot, all good.

She's definitely red pilled, hates feminism, cultural marxism, likes traditional gender roles.

It's very clear that she wants to have kids and get married.

Overall we talked about live music, how people need to stop comparing themselves to people.

The reality of dating and our hookup culture nowadays - how's it's hard for her to find someone legitimate (I got her to admit she was probably too picky).

We also talked about how roles have reversed. She told me she can't date white dudes because of them are betas with no spine.

She liked cultured men who came from traditional background, basically men who are natural leaders and have their masculinity intact along with their machismo.

When she told me feminism has ruined things I jokingly told her we should run off to vegas to get married (a previous joke we had).

It was fun talking to her, it was refreshing to be blunt and not have to have the same ol' convos I have like usual.

Even more hilarious is she asked me if I take all the girls to this certain venue, I laugh and said usually the 2nd and 3rd dates jokingly.

She invited me to come hang with her in her hood, which is my former residence by the beach.

Told her that's cool and all but if we're drinking I need a place to crash, told me I can crash at her place, I said couch is cool (I said this for a reason), she laughed and said I can share her bed and we can be cuddle buddies. (Always a good sign)


The problem is, she's 33, and most Arab girls don't age well, I can already see a bit of it on her face.

If she was in her early twenties, I might of considered her a legit prospect for an LTR.


She drove me to my car and we got out, I kissed her, she was SUPER shy about that, I played it cool.


She texted me and thanked me for the night, I hit her up this morning and call her out teasingly about being shy about kissing. She "was kind of oblivious to whether someone likes me or not" which is some hamstering.

Had a good text exhange this morning, I'm still going to see where this goes, so we'll see what happens.

Ended up banging this chick second date, pierced tits, smooth pussy (lasered or waxed), zero LMR.

So much for the good christian girl theme, AWALT Laugh

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