Post: #9901

(05-31-2017 12:24 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Back to square 1.

- I fucking hate what I'm doing when I go out. I feel like I have to put on some kind of persona so that I can get any results.

- I stop all the bullshit and wipe my memory clean of these autistic strategies of picking up women, and I think to myself "I'm a cool person, I'm going to be myself, people can take it or leave it."

- My new goal when going out. Have fun. Get out of your head and HAVE FUN.

- BOOM! Results explode like a volcano.

- I'm now naturally not giving a fuck what people think about me. I go up to girls and open with ridiculous lines, or absolutely nothing at all. I spin girls around like a top, get them making out with their girl friends, grab their drinks, etc. I do anything I want to do. I'm the party, be apart of it or not, that's your choice.

- I'm now incredibly silly with girls. I make weird faces to girls, I stick out my tounge at them, I make animal noises, all of it makes them laugh their asses off.

This is right but only because you managed to internalize the other stuff. Even the part of your rant where you start talking about what you do now is actually text book game/alpha male behavior when you take a step back from it all and analyze it.

Congrats tho

Post: #9902

Kicking myself. Rarely game at clubs, but was bouncing between two hotties all night. The second was hotter, maybe an 8 – but I didn't want to stick on her the whole time.

When I get back, another dude cuts in, saying "we're having a private conversation". I'm so taken aback, I just sit there amused. Then he changes tack: "we can just get out of here, if you like". I remain passive and let the girl decide. But he's pressuring her, so she goes with him.

It all happened so quick, and I wasn't sharp due to drinking. But she was hesitant, I had a clear opening. Afterwards I realised what happened. I was amog'd. Have to adjust to these cutthroat club environments. Am used to daygame.

Post: #9903

(05-30-2017 05:28 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:  2 teenagers on the street in 3 days telling me I look too old, target's friend today used the word "dad". I thought my ego was pretty dead but...fucking ouch! I don't look that much older than last year, do I?

I'm not your Dad, but I'll fuck you like you were back in middle school.

Post: #9904

Girls give no fucks about other girls if they want to fuck you. One recently told me she didn't care how many other girls I invited over to fuck with us as long as she got my come.

Post: #9905

6 that I thought I was done with for sure hit me up today. Last time we kicked it I got pretty drunk fucked her pretty rough and degraded her a little bit too much pre sex. Fucked her once that night and again in the morning after she did my dishes.

Next day she sends me a wall of text saying how I went too far and thanks for showing her how shitty people can be (me). I just replied with "ok" and not a peep since.

And today it's her birthday, she offered to take me out (lol), and sex is 95% certain. Fucking women man.


It's so hard to be a nice dude when shit like this happens. I wasn't even trying to be that mean before I was just drunk with no filter. Whatever, free food, young pussy, doing what the fuck I want. I haven't had sex in a week due to dropping online shit almost entirely and focusing on work. So tonight will be sweet. Maybe she'll do my dishes again

Post: #9906

(06-01-2017 08:51 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  And today it's her birthday, she offered to take me out (lol), and sex is 95% certain. Fucking women man.

That fucking hamster is something else. I met a girl from Bumble last week for a drink and a few days later she sends me pics of her fingers in her pussy. Mind you I didn't ask but I was happy to receive them. Her very next text was telling me she wasn't sure if I was just looking for sex and she was doubting I was really interested in her.

I haven't banged her yet, but I invited her over for a movie tonight. I told her to wear a skirt. Usually it's a 99% sure thing when a girl agrees to come over to my place and "watch a movie" but with this one I'm waiting for her to hamster an excuse. We'll see what happens.

Post: #9907

(05-31-2017 12:24 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  I can just make faces, make noises, grab the girl and pick her up, spin her around, anything. That shit is far more effective than having witty lines to use when you talk.

I'm starting to realize that there's certain types of game better suited to people's personalities. Some guys are really busy and can only do online game. Others are unafraid to approach during the day, and so they'll do good at daygame. Others still are more crazy, fun, high-energy guys who will do good at bars and clubs at night. Finally others will have a large social circle, so all their game is just through friends.

From Day 1 of game, it was obvious, I was doing better in daygame. Still I forced myself to go out, weekend and after weekend for about 24 months.

Almost no results at night, I think I banged a girl I met at a bar/club on a Friday or Saturday night ONS maybe 3 times out of 100 nights going out. And I'd go out consistently every weekend for about 24 months (Other nights - Sundays, Wednesdays, Thursdays - much better chances). I've more or less stopped doing this, it consumes too much time. However, I don't regret it.

Obviously Captain Shane seems like a guy suited to nightgame and it's working for him. But adding other types of game in forces you to refine your skills in something foreign because they're going to be harder for you, and you'll end up with better game overall.

Post: #9908

So the guy who had a problem with me is in fact someone who could boot me from the venue. Damn shame.

Post: #9909

Banged a sure thing last night instead of going out with a girl and her girl friends. Kind of mad cuz it seemed like a pretty good opportunity to network with young college hoes and probably get the bang with this titty monster hoe I met from OKC a few months ago.

I remembered all the people always saying "always go with the sure thing" and have since taken it to heart. This titty monster hoe is bad as fuck though, she's actually been really uncooperative when trying to schedule a time to meet up for drinks. Last night she was fucking on one though and begging and pleading for me to come meet her at a hot college bar. I counter offered with "meet me at x, tomorrow at 7 for a drink, wear a dress". She then drunken called me from the club and begged and begged for me to come out. I don't know this bitch lol. Pretty sure I lost her after I refused and tried to do shit on my own terms. I was also really weary of falling into this bitches frame. College bar/club, her and her friends, is an equation for her having all the control so I just said fuck it and hit up this bitch i know who's DTF.

On the bright side I banged this other girl out around 8 times and had a fucking fantastic day today after she bought me lunch, my homie and his girl bought me 2nd lunch, and my bosses took me out shooting some pretty neat guns. I think I made the right choice, I'll try to reel titty monster hoe in later in the week. It's times like these where having snapchat and IG would be the fucking tits (literally). Just like "aye girl here's what you're missing out on, i'm the fucking shit come into my orbit". I think I'll work on getting a good IG going this summer, I know I'm missing some bangs because i'm being stubborn.

Post: #9910

Just pondering lately, I'm a little drunk. I've been dealing with hardened sluts running asshole game like crazy. I don't even like it that much. I've always wanted just to be real with people and be nice to them. I give a fuck, it's a weakness of mine. Every time I get real close to a girl up close and personal and let them see me for what I am and let them peer into my soul they fuck off. Like clockwork, every goddamn time. Now game-wise I know why it is. It's a combination of things.

Vulnerability, lack of assets, complete unwillingness to submit. There are not attractive traits; or at least not traits worth staying with. Women just want to secure a mate just like the rest of us are programmed to do. The more I learn the more I think they're not so much different from us men. Yeah they have their own ways about them, they work with what they have.

Men have a high propensity for logic and the willpower and brawn to make it happen. Through coercion, wit, long term thinking, or whatever means. There is nothing that can stop a man with complete discipline and dedication to his goals. Nothing but death.

Women are forced to achieve their goals through more subtle but still effective means. High social intelligence is forced upon them at a young age. Guys trynna fuck them left and right. They have a weird advantage of rationalizing anything they do. Anything. It's fucking crazy. They learn to use their emotions to their advantage to a point where it defies logic - and men. Fuck, it defies them but they rationalize it away.

I've read a lot. A lot of philosophy. Platonic, nihilist, stoic, eastern, western, zen, Christianity. Though nothing quite strikes me like the great pimps of the 20th century. Iceburg slim and the like. The more I read about pimp ideals the more I think we're just trying to beat women at their own game but still maintaining masculinity. Iceburg's Slims PIMP - " Believe me, Slim, a pimp is really a whore who's reversed the game on whores". And I'll be fucked if that isn't the truth.

I've had girls offer to give me every dollar they owned - or close to it. 3 different occasions in the last year, all through game. I never took it. I don't have the heart of a pimp. And I start to wonder if I really have the heart of a player either. At the end of the day - and even sometimes hours after some stupid slut leaves my house and goes home; I still find myself wanting more. More sex, more emotion, more companionship. A girl to come home to, and a girl to introduce to my parents. It's weakness, weakness that I can't navigate around.

I'm going to be hitting hard for the next couple years and seeing if I can find that girl but I'm gonna need some help along the way. I hope I find it here. Ya'll are great. If anyone is ever in Oregon in the US I'd like to kick it and chop some shit up

Post: #9911

Made a pretty good play today, or at least I thought it was. Titty monster hoe I mentioned earlier has been pretty difficult to set up meetings with. Haven't even met this girl in real life yet. She went cold after I didn't come out with her Saturday so I texted this to her. Just gonna copy the text log. Damn I thought this was slick, but it did not work. My timing is off. I should've waited longer and chose my words a bit better but I'll be trying this shit again because I think it's so goddamn slick, just needs some tuning.

Me: Hey [name], I have something weird to ask you
her: What?
[hours pass]
her: What's your question?
Me: Oh hey my bad I sent that pretty early, lost track of time.
Me: Do you like girls at all?
her: It's all good, like am I attracted to girls?
Me: Yeah =]
her:Not that I know of, why?
Me: Haha girls are bomb you're missing out [tongue out XD emoji]. I have a girl who likes guys and stuff for sure but she mentioned she was looking for a nice girl to hang out with. Thought I'd give it a shot, she's a really sweet nice more submissive 19 year old scholorship student, pretty cute. Thought I'd put in a word cuz you seem cool
Me: That's weird huh [crying with tears emoji]
[20m pass]
her:Haha no not weird! But girls have never been my thing, i'm definitely into guys [winking tongue out emoji], sorry I'm driving right now
[20m pass]
Me: That's what's up though. You gotta clear out some time so we can hang out babygirl [winkie emoji]

No reply.

My last text was way too strong and poorly worded, I should've probably just kept on going with some of the momentum of the previous conversation and I clearly fucked it up a little bit.

Here's what I was trying to do though. Restart the conversation, let the girl know I got hoes, try to solidify secret society status, if she does like girls introduce the 19 year old (she's real and will do just about whatever I want her to) and go for a 3some later on. As you can see I crashed and burned at the end but I think conceptually it's strong. Will have to try again, helluva restart text.

Also a girl flaked on me today pretty hard. Hardest flake to date. Banging ass 8 I met on CL was suppose to meet me outside of some big chain store across town and just didn't show up. I was pretty excited to fuck this bitch cuz she was hot as hell. Oh well, tomorrow is another days, lotta hoes out there. Online shit sucks. I've been opening and flirting with girls like a crazy motherfucker. Everyone that is in my presence that knows me is always astonished and asks why I didn't get the number but fuck I just do not see the opening.

There was one today where I thought of the line and every goddamn thing but I just pussied out like a bitch, no fucking clue why. So much ???. Was at the UPS store, flirting with this girl and I was buying a PO box. We got to talking and she said she 'rescued' a baby possum (wtf?). I demanded she showed me pictures and she grabbed her phone and starting showing me. The line could've been "Since you got your phone out why don't you put my number in there and we'll grab drinks some time". Instead it was "that thing is ugly *laughs*. Fuck. God dammit. I thought of it in the moment too, not after. I was on my shit too I had 2 random bitches orbiting me at the UPS store trying to talk to me, everyone was complete strangers. Some days my vibe kills it and I need to start taking advantage of it better.

On a side note the girl that's 19 years old is so much easier to deal with than all these fucking turbo sluts. She said I'm the 2nd person she's ever had sex with and I believe her, and homies I'm a human lie detector at this point. She's a little awkward and socially undeveloped, and that's a bit weird for me but I can just be like "hey what you doing, wanna hang out". Yes, every time. She does absolutely everything I tell her to do. She's one of the ones that has offered me every single dollar she owns just because I spun some half-assed sob story. I dick her down right bros, she's a good girl. No future in it though, sad shit. She has a fat ass, some meh titties and face is 6/10. She is "betroved" to some random dude back in her hometown or something I don't really know what's going on with that. She says he cheated on her and pushed the open relationship thing because of the distance. Not sure of how much of all that I buy but you know whatever. She takes dick pretty well and buys me food so it's all good, we watch anime together sometimes lol. Otaku game strong as fuck

Post: #9912

Took a girl out last night and during our conversation it was hard to hold back my laughter. These fucking women man...I'm telling you. Anyway this chick is currently going through a divorce and her soon-to-be ex husband has no idea the amount of dick she is riding. They are currently going through counseling and she was telling me about one of her sessions with her doctor. She said her marriage started to go downhill last year when they bought a new house together. She started to get depressed and her doctor told her: "A lot of the times for a stay at home wife, moving into a new house can be as traumatic as a death in the family." I'm paraphrasing here, but seriously?!? Moving into a new house for a female can be as traumatic as a death in the family? Are you fucking kidding me? A professional doctor is feeding into her ego just by telling her this absolute bullshit. Even the medical field is against us gentlemen.

That means we can lay logic bombs on these females all damn day and they will just run to a "professional" in the medical profession and he'll feed that hamster amphetamines. Woman can literally do no wrong, as a 3rd party opinion will always be in her favor.

Post: #9913

(06-11-2017 09:27 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  I opened two groups of 3-girls on friday, when they asked what I do I told them that I'm a male escort.

I immediately take the conversation to three points:

1. the poor state of men in austin, they behave like bitches, are pussies, etc.

2. how sad, frustrated, and lonely women are these days despite the constant barrage of male thirstiness via social media.

3. The last point that I make is that its not about the sex. It is a plus but t its about the connection and me as a man treating her like a woman.

The chicks were extremely receptive and agreed with me on almost every topic. I feel like I need to be more covert about revealing the male escort thing out the gate. The moment I said that I completely had their attention--body language and everything square on me.

I feel like they gave me more engagement thinking I was a sex worker than I typically get as myself. Gunna see how far I can take this.

Post: #9914

TL;DR – Broke up with LTR. Made life changes leading up to it, feel great. Optimistic about the future.

Broke it off with the LTR this weekend. Together for a year and a half. Mutual split. Both agreed the relationship ran its course. Still sucked but such is life.

This was by far the longest LTR I’ve had. During that time, I didn’t sleep with other girls because it didn’t feel like the right thing to do. In hindsight, I don’t regret it, even though my notch count would be much, much higher.

She was only my second LTR so I learned a lot about the time and financial commitment, along with things I did right and other things that in retrospect were stupid.

Few things I learned:
- No matter how good/bad something is, it will always be perceived differently by friends and family. An outside perspective was definitely a thing I needed.

- Shit changes a ton over the course of a year and a half. Didn’t think it would because I didn’t know better, but there was a sense of complacency that began to evolve.

- Forcing something to work sucks. I put in a lot more effort than I should have.

The past month, I started having my doubts about wanting to stay in the LTR. A little while before that, I started making some life changes that have worked out tremendously. I got self-motivated after waking up one day and not liking what I saw in the mirror.

- I started going back to the gym and now I look bigger and better than I ever have in my life. Been getting a lot of people asking me if I played professional sports or if I was a PT. Random people at my gym have been asking me for tips and advice. Girls have taken a notice as I have been catching them look over when I lift.

- People I haven’t seen in a while didn’t recognize me when I showed up to a buddy’s bachelor party. Some were saying to stop lifting because I was getting “too big.” We were at the beach and I was getting eye balled by a lot women when I walked around in a pair of board shorts. We left a bar one night and right before I stepped out to the street, the waitress came by and grabbed my ass on the way out.

- Started eating clean. Eat 5 meals a day and have put on 15 lbs of muscle in 3 months. My body fat is decreasing every month because of it. I allow one cheat meal a week which is usually Saturday evenings where I normally order a pizza.
- Going to bed earlier. Used to get maybe 5-6 hours of sleep a night. Now, getting at least 6-8. That extra sleep leaves me more energized in the morning to make a good breakfast and out the door faster for work.

Before the changes, I was weighing in around 250lbs with my gut sticking through my shirt. Now, I’m at 265lbs with my abs back, bigger and more defined arms and shoulders, and I finally have slightly bigger legs and ass.

I’m optimistic to see what the future holds in regards to the summer and how a single social life will be in the area I currently reside.
I’ll try to post more often in the forum regarding progress in the gym as well as women. Cheers fellas.

Post: #9915

Well played remmington. Thanks for posting, it was a good read. I'm married in a 5 year LTR but game on the side. Game tells me she cheats (even though I doubt she does). I find the self improvement posts are very inspirational. My hats off to ya for trying to "make it work". Doesn't sound like you were on some beta shit neither. I keep mine busy, we have a lot of kids. Try and keep her home as much as possible to tend to house duties, children etc.. Enjoy the single life.

Post: #9916

Took a FWB to a nude beach yesterday - first time either one of us had ever been on one or did anything similar.

I absolutely loved it, as did my girl. Definitely a liberal crowd, some fat old people, but all in all the crowd was young, attractive and fun. I felt like I was on a different planet.

What an insane confidence booster! Starting up a friendly conversation with a group of hot girls while you're completely fuckin' naked makes a direct street approach seem like a non-issue. Definitely recommended.

Post: #9917

Had a pretty fun weekend over all but 2 cute prospects turned out to be really bad duds.

Matched a hottie Mexi on bumble we were supposed to meet Thursday - call her up a bit before the date, this hyna with her bff getting good, she wants to meet up still, told her just hit me up, but she owes me drinks.

She hits me up later that night, but I'm already busy fucking a plate so I don't bother responding (you don't want to look too available, especially too a chick after 10). Who knows, it could've been a meet and fuck, that's the risk you take.

I hit her up at noon the next day, tell her to plan on meeting up, she's down, call her after work and right after I get ready, she's enthusiastic on the phone, she needs 10-15 to get ready, another 10-15 to get there, I tell her to hit me up when she's 5 mins away.

It's been about 40 mins and I get a gut feelings she's bailing, I rolled to the bar anyways, scope it, scenes kinda dead.

I get a call from another girl (cute glasses mexi) I don't answer, more on her later.

At this point I ask the boys in the group chat what I should do, I don't end up reaching out to her, I don't call her nor text her, at this point I'm not rewarding bad behavior.


I call back the other girl, the cute glasses mexi one.

Earlier in the week we had a great date very touchy feely, especially after our second drink and sitting on the bench in a park and closed it out.

Since the hottie ghosted on me, I told the glasses one to come over.

Turns out she doesn't get to my place until 11:30- we end up going out for 1 beer and things got weird.

We talked about a specific adult cartoon show and how she doesn't like rape jokes. She told that rape culture is a real thing, and rightfully call the out the fact that Dave Chappelle has a whole bit about bill cosby, and raping women to save lives. She tried hamstering it away and I switch subjects - then she talks about a hall of presidents and made fun of Trump, I change the subject again.

She's still touchy feely as we lay in bed - eventually I get her top off, unfortunately she's flat chest, sad !

After awhile of fooling around and sucking on her titties, she told me she wasn't feeling it, I pressed her a bit as we laid down about it, she said the same thing, I told her it's all good I just want her to be comfortable.

Eventually we start making out again and she tells me, "What you're thinking is going to happen isn't" as she laughs - I laugh also and with a smile say we aren't doing anything, idk what you're talking about.

After a little bit she gets dressed and bounces.

We text a bit then Sunday morning she sends me a text (thinking we're still hanging out later that day).

Basically summed up:

I'm not gonna make it tonight, you're funny and handsome, I don't see this going anywhere. I'm looking for something serious you aren't, not the only reason but the main one.

BUT we can friends

I'm reading this like I didn't even bother responding.



I ended up going out Sunday evening with a buddy of mine and ended up at the 3rd bar with a wingman of mine. Shot pool with 2 trashy cowgirls (country bar) flirted a bit, my buddy is a natural, gave one of the girls a twirl around and grabbed her ass (she was talking about her pants don't fit, she getting toned.

The other girl was skinny as a rail but had a nice medium sized pair of fake tits.

I ended up leaving early to go bang a plate, my buddy got their numbers, and I told him we should set something up soon as a double date.

I have a few leads for this week, but it's been a slow week, I won't have much time since I have a baseball game to go to this week, and I also have a bachelor party Friday/Saturday.

Post: #9918

(06-12-2017 01:26 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I'm not gonna make it tonight, you're funny and handsome, I don't see this going anywhere. I'm looking for something serious you aren't, not the only reason but the main one.

I ran into this same thing last week myself. Met a girl for a drink last weekend, I thought it went ok. Kissed her at her car. A few text messages after that and then she sent me a text saying she didn't think "we were a match". I wasn't really feeling her anyway so biggie.

Abundance Mentality eats rejection for breakfast.

But anyway, yeah...I think some girls can seriously pick up on if you're looking for fun or something serious. I always tell them I leave it open for whatever, but I think they know.

Post: #9919

I straight told her I'm not ready for marriage or kids - she's 29 so there's that.

Besides she even admitted she has anxiety and depression she got it from her mom, obviously I just wanted to bang not an LTR.


Who knows what happened to the other one, the hottie, cold feet, wasting time, had other options, oh well.

Post: #9920

2 approaches today.

One approach was clumsy as fuck because i was walking looking at my phone, saw the girl and had like 2 seconds to decide to approach, and the girl was startled and overwhelmed by me. Then I said “how about I’ll walk with you to your classroom and then if you’re not interested I’ll disappear from your life forever?”

To which she replied “I’m not interested”, laughing. She was a 5 and the set started fucked up so I just let her go.

Second approach was a girl from my class with whom I’ve been making eye contact for quite some time already. Finally I got to approach her as I saw her alone. But I was on the fence about this chick and she realized it, so when I approached her, she wasn’t charmed, happy, etc. She just said “okay”, and then I felt compelled to just say it was nice to talk to her but I had to go catch my bus home - which truly was what i was going to do.

Recently I lost 2 bangs because I was on the fence about 2 different girls and they felt it and got bitter/uncharmed. Let that be a lesson for me that even if I’m not that interested in the girl, and I’m having doubts about my level of attraction for them, I can’t telegraph my doubt, I can’t let them know, I have to stick with it, pretend, otherwise I’ll lose the bang.

But in general, it just sucks when a girl isn’t attractive enough for you to feel that doubtless attraction, but not unattractive enough you wouldn’t like to bang. I’m a beginner in game anyway so I think I have to just bang everything that is reasonably decent-looking.

(06-12-2017 02:39 PM)[email protected] Wrote:  

(06-12-2017 01:26 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I'm not gonna make it tonight, you're funny and handsome, I don't see this going anywhere. I'm looking for something serious you aren't, not the only reason but the main one.

I ran into this same thing last week myself. Met a girl for a drink last weekend, I thought it went ok. Kissed her at her car. A few text messages after that and then she sent me a text saying she didn't think "we were a match". I wasn't really feeling her anyway so biggie.

Abundance Mentality eats rejection for breakfast.

But anyway, yeah...I think some girls can seriously pick up on if you're looking for fun or something serious. I always tell them I leave it open for whatever, but I think they know.

It's all about the implicit signals your behavior toward them sends.

Post: #9921

(06-12-2017 06:22 PM)jabberbabewocky Wrote:  

(06-12-2017 02:39 PM)[email protected] Wrote:  

(06-12-2017 01:26 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I'm not gonna make it tonight, you're funny and handsome, I don't see this going anywhere. I'm looking for something serious you aren't, not the only reason but the main one.

I ran into this same thing last week myself. Met a girl for a drink last weekend, I thought it went ok. Kissed her at her car. A few text messages after that and then she sent me a text saying she didn't think "we were a match". I wasn't really feeling her anyway so biggie.

Abundance Mentality eats rejection for breakfast.

But anyway, yeah...I think some girls can seriously pick up on if you're looking for fun or something serious. I always tell them I leave it open for whatever, but I think they know.

It's all about the implicit signals your behavior toward them sends.

I just realized [email protected] scenario happened to me last week.

I met a hippy chick at a bar - nice makeout session.

Apparently she didn't like the fact I was a bad texter (she made a point to tell me that in a joke)

Then she goes on to tell me, "you're a bit to sassy for me" whatever the hell that means.

I responded saying hey I tease alot and I'm a good time, I like sarcasm etc

She just told me that's now how she is, told her I appreciate her not wasting my time and that was that.

It's life, move onto the next girl.

Post: #9922

Haven't posted in here in a while. Here's a brief update in my current world with sex and women:

I've recently decided to start seeing a girl semi-seriously. Banging rando's gets a little old after a while and after plowing through enough of them I came across a girl I really enjoy spending my spare time with and is currently very fulfilling socially and sexually. These days I'm trying to focus more on my body and my finances and having a regular girl definitely makes it easier to focus on that when I'm not thinking about who I'm banging next, where I'm gonna go on a date this weekend, how I'm going to get in this girl's pants, how to keep this plate spinning, etc.

On a more meta level I have been thinking more about my own desires and how a lot of them tend to be pretty fluid. The thing I want and what my tastes are seem to evolve every several years, and while for a long time I have been preaching I would not be having a "girlfriend" unless she is the mother-of-my-children type, I have since changed my tune. I have been telling myself for a couple years now that I see children in my future, but that is essentially a nebulous thought that I am currently not working towards as I have zero desire to have children right now. Who's to say I will want children 5 years from now? In the past I have worried too much about tomorrow in regards to women. Nowadays I'm trying to live more in the here and now. The girl I'm spending time with these days is great for me right here and right now. I am not concerned much with how and where it will end up as that is not something I can plan for. I may get tired of her, or she may get tired of me whatever. It's enjoyable and beneficial at the time being.

The things that concern me most at this point in time is paying off debt, putting money away, and investing in property in the near future. Another thing that concerns me right now is my strength and fitness goals, staying in shape and continually getting in better shape. Another thing that concerns me is having an enjoyable and relatively hassle-free sex life and quality company.

I hope everyone else here remembers to take some time here and there and really look at where they are, what they are doing, and where they are going. Every man owes it to himself to keep his goals in check and make sure things are going in the direction they need to be.

Post: #9923

Went on a date with a Christian Syrian girl last night, she was born in the ME, but not in actual Syria.

She's got her shit together and sells stuff in the medical industry.

She's pretty smart and easy going.

We texted for over a month (I kept in touch because she seemed like a good prospect). We were both busy and couldn't meet.

We even had a long call, basically vetting me to see if she wanted to hangout, I flipped the script on that, seeing what she was about and what she wanted.

We had a long convo together at the bar, she had coffee, odd, but she wasn't feeling too hot, all good.

She's definitely red pilled, hates feminism, cultural marxism, likes traditional gender roles.

It's very clear that she wants to have kids and get married.

Overall we talked about live music, how people need to stop comparing themselves to people.

The reality of dating and our hookup culture nowadays - how's it's hard for her to find someone legitimate (I got her to admit she was probably too picky).

We also talked about how roles have reversed. She told me she can't date white dudes because of them are betas with no spine.

She liked cultured men who came from traditional background, basically men who are natural leaders and have their masculinity intact along with their machismo.

When she told me feminism has ruined things I jokingly told her we should run off to vegas to get married (a previous joke we had).

It was fun talking to her, it was refreshing to be blunt and not have to have the same ol' convos I have like usual.

Even more hilarious is she asked me if I take all the girls to this certain venue, I laugh and said usually the 2nd and 3rd dates jokingly.

She invited me to come hang with her in her hood, which is my former residence by the beach.

Told her that's cool and all but if we're drinking I need a place to crash, told me I can crash at her place, I said couch is cool (I said this for a reason), she laughed and said I can share her bed and we can be cuddle buddies. (Always a good sign)


The problem is, she's 33, and most Arab girls don't age well, I can already see a bit of it on her face.

If she was in her early twenties, I might of considered her a legit prospect for an LTR.


She drove me to my car and we got out, I kissed her, she was SUPER shy about that, I played it cool.


She texted me and thanked me for the night, I hit her up this morning and call her out teasingly about being shy about kissing. She "was kind of oblivious to whether someone likes me or not" which is some hamstering.

Had a good text exhange this morning, I'm still going to see where this goes, so we'll see what happens.

Post: #9924

Went to Lisbon's traditional city party. 2 groups of girls meeting me and my buddies. Planned to flert with 1 of the 1st group for a while then 1 of the 2nd group. started to drink fast. got drunk. ended up alone, lost from the group. randomly met former girls and drink a bit with them. got home safe with one of the guys. woke up completely wasted and entered my mate's room and ruined his session with a brazilian girl.. Tomorrow is night game night again, not drinking this time x)

Post: #9925

Ah, isn't age a killer. I had a girl who was otherwise LTR material too but at four years older than me at the time (and a few more than your chick) I couldn't do it. It's funny that among society at large it isn't such a big deal. She was a head turner, I had guys I know asking me where I met her, other guys asking why I didn't just wife her up and looking at me sideways when I said cause she was older than I was. I regret many things with women but I don't regret going our separate ways. At 33 a girl still has some breeding years left but that biological clock is definitely ticking.