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So my gf said that her friend from college and her bf just broke up and she needs to go see her. So she bought a 26 of rum (she gets puking drunk off a pint) and a slooty halloween costume and is driving 4 hours to go a house party in her college town to go help her get over it.

During home coming weekend she said her girlfriend broke up with her bf and she has to go support her so she went and they got drunk at a bar together and her friend started making out with a guy and left her there by herself.

I told her that its not good for our relationship to be doing this and she said "I can't believe you don't want me to hang out with my friends" - I was like "I don't want you dressing like that and getting drunk with a bunch of dudes I don't know in another city, its not like you can't see your girlfriends, this is way different" and she's like "well I'm going anyway. I'm not a cheater, you're my life, don't worry" but this is her college town and her friends are 99% sloots, like take a guy home and do anal while on molly.

I'm here by myself now - I could see my old fwb's or something, and if I wasn't in a relationship I'd be like 'you do whatever the fuk you want" but since we're in a relationship I'm just here like "tf bish?"

I dunno boyos. She was in an open relationship the whole time she was there, but she was exclusive to the dude and he wasn't exclusive to her. Great arrangement for the other guy.. anyway, if he's there that will be a fukked up situation.

Fuark fellas. I dunno I just have a bad gut feeling about this. Might be the end of my tour.
10-29-2016 04:28 PM
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The pickings have been pretty slim as of late.

Even with nofap I've been assessing the options of the girls I meet very indecisively. Not sure if they're WB or WNB.

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Spring and Summer were so much better.

Maybe I'll bump into some cuties at the gym today.

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(10-29-2016 04:28 PM)Beijong Wrote:  So my gf said that her friend from college and her bf just broke up and she needs to go see her. So she bought a 26 of rum (she gets puking drunk off a pint) and a slooty halloween costume and is driving 4 hours to go a house party in her college town to go help her get over it.

This doesn't smell right to me either. She's taking off for long party weekends with friends that are party girls. You know as well as I do that your girl has a thousand cocks coming at her when she's going out. Slooty friends, lots of liquor, and the temptation of being out of town.

Why isn't she spending the weekend with you if your 'her life'?
10-29-2016 05:24 PM
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Dude I know
She texted me after she left "I wish I could have stayed with you"

Dumb bish COULD have stayed with me, she left on her own as if some force beyond the grave was calling her to slut it up

Hamster logic

considering ending it. I'm in the gym doing deadlifts and she's dressed like a slut getting drunk at a college frat party out of town, and somehow I'm her life. Hamster logic never ceases to underwhelm me.

She said I couldn't come cause "you wouldn't think it was fun". I am a little too old to be surrounded by college students on MDMA with my gf
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(10-29-2016 06:21 PM)Beijong Wrote:  Dude I know
She texted me after she left "I wish I could have stayed with you"

So what's your next move with this?
10-29-2016 07:14 PM
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Trying to figure that out
Playing it cool tonight because if we fight she might be more inclined to slut it up

But I will tell her she wants to live like this then I'm out.
10-29-2016 07:21 PM
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Three girls this week, and several others on deck. A nice little harem has started again, but I am not crazy about any of the girls. I realize I can do so much better if I slow down and focus on high quality. I did this to get over my break up, but while I enjoy hanging out with a lot of these girls, none of them have wowed me.
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having a harem is making me lazy. I got back from work on Saturday morning, and just before I got on the bus back, I texted one of my girls who I hadn't seen for a couple of weeks "what are you up to today". I get off the bus, which is 10 minutes walk from my place, since I wanted to stop to walk past the beach, and she sends me a picture of the front of my house... she's waiting for me to get back home. I get back promptly and we get it on.

it's just too easy. at least I've got a few girls, to shake things up a bit. I need to get out again.

last time I went out to find someone new a couple of weeks ago I saw one of my other girls there! and we went home together early (10pm) after dancing with each other. early night at least. It's great to have sex on tap, but I need to get some new pussy asap.
10-30-2016 06:42 AM
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1-2 of the girls I had on tap seem to be dropping out this week - looking for another guy to cuff since I won't - and I checked my msgs this am and had 5 diff girls contacting me including one hot freshman I forgot because I was too busy. So, net-net I guess cuffing season is good for us single guys!

Spent the weekend with a plate, sex was amazing. Definitely some upside to having a LTR FWB. Especially when they want to 'explore their sexuality.'
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(10-30-2016 02:58 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  1-2 of the girls I had on tap seem to be dropping out this week - looking for another guy to cuff since I won't - and I checked my msgs this am and had 5 diff girls contacting me including one hot freshman I forgot because I was too busy. So, net-net I guess cuffing season is good for us single guys!

Spent the weekend with a plate, sex was amazing. Definitely some upside to having a LTR FWB. Especially when they want to 'explore their sexuality.'

Why not cuff them all? Sometimes I like it when they all think they're a special snowflake and I'm only theirs.....surprise surprise biatch!

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(10-30-2016 03:02 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 02:58 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  1-2 of the girls I had on tap seem to be dropping out this week - looking for another guy to cuff since I won't - and I checked my msgs this am and had 5 diff girls contacting me including one hot freshman I forgot because I was too busy. So, net-net I guess cuffing season is good for us single guys!

Spent the weekend with a plate, sex was amazing. Definitely some upside to having a LTR FWB. Especially when they want to 'explore their sexuality.'

Why not cuff them all? Sometimes I like it when they all think they're a special snowflake and I'm only theirs.....surprise surprise biatch!

Because they'd expect to see me at least one of Fri or Sat night each week. Plus time at holidays, etc. It's a thing for me to not tell girls I'm serious about them if I just see them as pure fun. The ones I like most do get the weekend dates/bangs. All the rest get a Tue or Wed nite or every other week or 3.

Now, if a girl says she's gonna be exclusive and I don't have to be, that's a diff story. If I like her a lot I'll tell her that but never promise exclusivity.
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(10-29-2016 04:28 PM)Beijong Wrote:  So my gf said that her friend from college and her bf just broke up and she needs to go see her. So she bought a 26 of rum (she gets puking drunk off a pint) and a slooty halloween costume and is driving 4 hours to go a house party in her college town to go help her get over it.

That's the fucking lamest excuse I've ever heard from a girl to escape her man and go slut it up.

Girls use that shit all the time, "oh my girl is having guy issues so we're gonna hangout"

Hands down if a girl uses that you should ABSOLUTELY be aware that is a red flag.

Girls ALWAYS use this shit to cover for their friends or for their activities. They even do it to eachother.


Quote:During home coming weekend she said her girlfriend broke up with her bf and she has to go support her so she went and they got drunk at a bar together and her friend started making out with a guy and left her there by herself.

So she's used that excuse before, at this point I wouldn't trust this chick AT ALL.

Quote:I told her that its not good for our relationship to be doing this and she said "I can't believe you don't want me to hang out with my friends" - I was like "I don't want you dressing like that and getting drunk with a bunch of dudes I don't know in another city, its not like you can't see your girlfriends, this is way different" and she's like "well I'm going anyway. I'm not a cheater, you're my life, don't worry" but this is her college town and her friends are 99% sloots, like take a guy home and do anal while on molly.

She's emotionally blackmailing you about supposedly being "controlling".

You countered with an honest and straight forward answer - problem is - bitches hamster this away or don't see the logic.

The she drops comfort lines about not being a cheater, "you're my life" etc.


Quote:I'm here by myself now - I could see my old fwb's or something, and if I wasn't in a relationship I'd be like 'you do whatever the fuk you want" but since we're in a relationship I'm just here like "tf bish?"

You should be doing your own thing and going out - secondly you never put your eggs into one basket, especially some college girl. Abundance mentality man !

Quote:I dunno boyos. She was in an open relationship the whole time she was there, but she was exclusive to the dude and he wasn't exclusive to her. Great arrangement for the other guy.. anyway, if he's there that will be a fukked up situation.

Correct me if I'm wrong, your girl was in an open relationship ? I don't believe for a minute she was exclusive.

See man you're worried about one bitch when she should be texting you and blowing your phone up AND not going.

Quote:Fuark fellas. I dunno I just have a bad gut feeling about this. Might be the end of my tour.

ALWAYS trust your gut - go radio silent on this chick.

Before you do, drop hints you're out partying and doing your own thing. Then go silent.

Personally this chick would've never been my girlfriend in the first place.

(10-29-2016 06:21 PM)Beijong Wrote:  Dude I know
She texted me after she left "I wish I could have stayed with you"

Dumb bish COULD have stayed with me, she left on her own as if some force beyond the grave was calling her to slut it up

I'm hoping you didn't respond and went silent on her.

Quote:Hamster logic

considering ending it. I'm in the gym doing deadlifts and she's dressed like a slut getting drunk at a college frat party out of town, and somehow I'm her life. Hamster logic never ceases to underwhelm me.

She said I couldn't come cause "you wouldn't think it was fun". I am a little too old to be surrounded by college students on MDMA with my gf

Indeed it's hamster logic.

Thing is you AREN'T her life for the most (more on that in a minute).

You're never too old - I would've gone and rolled with her, hell maybe find a cutie rolling and lock down a threesome (mdma is a hell of a drug).



Now back to you and your girl:

You're WAY too invested in this bitch - why ?

Because you're online and complaining about her actions.

What does this mean ?

You're losing or lost your frame and this girl is doing what she wants.

It seems this college girls might be too much for you to handle.


She doesn't value your relationship as much as you think she does.

Actions speak louder than words.

EDIT: Did you have plans for you two on halloween ? It doesn't sound like you guys did. If not, that's another loss on your side, college age girls want to go out and do shit with their man, you can't be that guy who sleeps on halloween.


If you had frame and her locked down this chick wouldn't have a second thought about getting slutty on Halloween in a college town AND BAILING ON YOU.


Her texting you "I wish I could of stayed with you" ? Is absolute BULLSHIT.

Why ? It's a text girls send to CHECK IN ON YOU - they're keeping tabs.

The typical standard dude is waiting on his girls text late night worry about her.

Then BOOM - he gets that "miss you" text and all is right in the world while she's getting dicked down by some college dude.

So the regular guy responds asap a quick i miss you convo is made and she "goes to bed" or "my phone is dying" a goodnight text is sent - while she's out still partying till the wee early of the mornings.

BUT let's say you don't respond ?

Hamster full speed away, now she's worried about YOU.

He didn't respond ? I'm gonna send him a few texts. He hasn't replied ? What's wrong ? Is he out ? Is he cheating on me ?

He'll answer when I call him. He didn't answer ? OMG something must be going wrong, let me call him a few times.

Now at this point she'll get super upset/angry and start balling OR she'll get an angry fuck in.


This shit happens all-the-fucking-time in college and on college campuses.



Now I may sound harsh and rough - but these are the ugly truths if you're the guy who has a chick whose in college or goes away to college.


I'd downgrade this chick to fuck buddy status for being disrespectful.

Hell maybe even be harsh and next her.


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I was reminded of a conversation I had this week.

Bumped into a married gal that has stated in no uncertain terms that she would like to fuck me. I have not pushed the subject, but let's just say she's rather open to me. Especially after I found out that she dated older men when she was younger and I told her that I nearly exclusively date younger girls.

She told me how somehow, a 40-50ish salt and peppered man made out with her at work. Knowing her, she was flirting like crazy. She told me how turned on she was and how much she fantasized about characteristics reminding her of him. Like another language he speaks (which I happen to know some of). etc. etc.

She also told me: "My husband doesn't like that."

And recently had dropped some weight by working out more.

She's been wanting to branch swing on this guy since before they got married.

Verdict: WB but would definitely wear/flush the condom.

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Talking to a girl about prior sexual experience. She said she has messed with a few girls before, but they have to have more tits and ass than her, or be butch, otherwise it feels like she is the dude. Maybe this is why lesbians fuck with butches? Makes sense I guess.
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Kaotic's analysis is spot on for Beijong's scenario. In my opinion Beijong you probably cuffed her either:

-too early

or

-it was your idea and not hers


Never try to lock a chick down, that's her job. Everything you described is symptomatic of a guy more invested than the chick.

Plus, she sounds like a total and complete ho.


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The second costume party i went to was decent, not too much talent and I pretty much just spent that time catching up with my buddies who I hadn't seen in over a year. So no pussy there.

Last night a half asian half white 7 I had on the bumble feed came over with a bottle of wine. Decent body, nice rack, nice hair, only problem was the grill. She also talked way to goddamn much. I could tell she was doing this because she was nervous. So we're sitting there on my living room couch watching Netflix, I subtlety turned the conversation towards the topic of sex (something I've gotten a lot better at doing thanks to the rvf) and within about 5 minutes from there we're making out.

Now this chick took LMR to a whole new level. She kept smacking my hand away from her pussy, she was not letting me get started down there. So I went to work on getting her top off which eventually I did. I did what I could to escalate aggressively, but she drew a line in the sand and stuck to it.

I busted out every dirty trick in the book.


"You haven't even seen my room yet"

"Just lay down on the bed for a minute with me"

Evil

I said a whole manner of other lies just to get what I wanted, no shame.


Eventually I got her on my bed, clothes off save her panties which unfortunately did not come off. She did however blow me till I busted on her tits.

So, no bang, but at least I got some release.

Cb

Afterwards she expressed gratitude that I didn't "get mad" about her not putting out, which I thought was funny.
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A bit of a different success story-

I went to get lunch with some colleagues and we were crossing the road and noticed two very young attractive girls checking us out, must have been around 19 or so.

My Belgian mate immediately noticed them and went along the usual 'damn those chicks are fine' and we kept walking.

Me: Bro, go talk to her. I'll hold your shit.
Him: You think?
Me: I don't wanna spend my lunch break with you talking shit about how you could have chatted her up
Colleague #2: Come on man be a beast and do it

At this point I stopped walking and told him "Every step we are taking is a step in the wrong direction. Go there."

He gave us his lunch and went to chat them up.

Both got excited and he spoke directly to the one, pulled out his phone and asked her to put her number in. Funny enough, her friend pulled off as she realized, no need to run interference.

He's got a date this week with her.

If she flakes or not, I am super proud of him as he also came right this weekend and he has been LISTENING to us (coworker 2 is a model looking natural dude but mindset game is on point).

28 year old got a date with a 19 year old hottie.

Over lunchtime we discussed the lessons learned.

- you don't need a wingman to approach
- 12.30pm is a perfect time to find some bishes
- if she looks at you and holds eye contact, your fault for not following up

and a whole bunch more he is discovering now.
10-31-2016 11:45 AM
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Had a first date from Match yesterday afternoon with a single mom around my age, suggested we meet late afternoon at my house then walk a couple blocks to the coffee shop and from there walk along the park/river near my house. I wasn't really into her but she seems like she'd be fun in bed. We took a long walk while talking, beautiful scenery, lots of social interaction with the baristas at the coffee shop and other people walking on the trail, several fairly risque jokes and sexual innuendoes that she ate up. Get back to my house and sit on the couch, she moved her purse and jacket from between us right after I sat down very close to her, turned her body and legs to me, lots of incidental touching on both our parts. I probably would have escalated with her but I'd fucked my main plate the night before and again in the morning so wasn't all that horny. I know I talked too much and allowed some conversations to occur that I probably shouldn't have (past relationship discussion mostly), but we had some really interesting discussions about dating and especially online dating.

She is clear in her profile and in our conversations that she's looking for a LTR, in our conversations she admitted to slutting it up for a while after her divorce but how she's "past that phase", said something about how society needs to keep evolving so women aren't taken as sluts for liking sex. I talked about how it's natural for men and women to both love sex, I don't judge, etc. When she was leaving she was hanging around and I was just holding strong eye contact letting tension build until she was almost squirming, then slowly walked up to her and put my hands on her and kissed her a bit then pulled away, she immediately commented about how it was a good kiss.

I probably could/should have gone for the bang, she's definitely into me, but I took her words at face value and don't want to mislead girls. I have no doubt I could meet up with her again and fuck her, just need to decide if I want to and how to be clear with my intentions with her.

Did I let her words be too much of a factor compared to her behavior? I wouldn't be surprised to find out she was wet for me most of the date, especially at the end. I have the impression a lot of you guys just brush the words off and go for the bang anyway.
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(10-31-2016 12:26 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  Had a first date from Match yesterday afternoon with a single mom around my age, suggested we meet late afternoon at my house then walk a couple blocks to the coffee shop and from there walk along the park/river near my house. I wasn't really into her but she seems like she'd be fun in bed. We took a long walk while talking, beautiful scenery, lots of social interaction with the baristas at the coffee shop and other people walking on the trail, several fairly risque jokes and sexual innuendoes that she ate up. Get back to my house and sit on the couch, she moved her purse and jacket from between us right after I sat down very close to her, turned her body and legs to me, lots of incidental touching on both our parts. I probably would have escalated with her but I'd fucked my main plate the night before and again in the morning so wasn't all that horny. I know I talked too much and allowed some conversations to occur that I probably shouldn't have (past relationship discussion mostly), but we had some really interesting discussions about dating and especially online dating.

She is clear in her profile and in our conversations that she's looking for a LTR, in our conversations she admitted to slutting it up for a while after her divorce but how she's "past that phase", said something about how society needs to keep evolving so women aren't taken as sluts for liking sex. I talked about how it's natural for men and women to both love sex, I don't judge, etc. When she was leaving she was hanging around and I was just holding strong eye contact letting tension build until she was almost squirming, then slowly walked up to her and put my hands on her and kissed her a bit then pulled away, she immediately commented about how it was a good kiss.

I probably could/should have gone for the bang, she's definitely into me, but I took her words at face value and don't want to mislead girls. I have no doubt I could meet up with her again and fuck her, just need to decide if I want to and how to be clear with my intentions with her.

Did I let her words be too much of a factor compared to her behavior? I wouldn't be surprised to find out she was wet for me most of the date, especially at the end. I have the impression a lot of you guys just brush the words off and go for the bang anyway.


To answer your question, emphatically yes. Every single bit of info you included about her demeanor, the way she steered the conversation, her body language up to her final comment means she was dying to get laid.

From personal experience, this has been salvageable but it's a step back because you are affording her time apart from you to think about this evening.

There is the potential she may think you are weak for not following up but honestly, it sounds like you set it up for multiple bangs instead of one where you would be categorized as the other dudes she fucked on her sexual escapades post-divorce.

Ultimately this comes down to what she is looking for + her rationalization post-event + how into you she is (which seems very DTF) + her own morality (how she will judge this event in her mind).

As she is older, it will possibly be framed in a positive way and she might respect you for that. At the same time, this frames you in her mind as a potential LTR which might mean there's damage control further down the line.

Whatever happens, there will be a lot of sexual tension in the next date and because she is older, I think there will be a next date.

I haven't had as much experience as you have with older, 35+women (count the hookups on 2 hands, bangs on 1) but they usually know what they want and have little time to waste so if she wanted pure sex you may have disappointed her; jokes on her though, shes old and probably doesn't get as many opportunities to turn you down. IF she wanted an LTR, you probably just ticked quite a few boxes, provider ones etc.

Like I said though, a lot is subjective and the power is in your hands, if you think it is worth another meetup or not. If so, harness that sexual tension but make it clear that you are not in this for an LTR. My guess is that she will be disappointed but not surprised given she has a kid.

p.s. how did you resist?
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Yes Scissors, actions speak louder than words.

That's like hearing:
"We're not having sex"
"I don't fuck just anybody"
Bio says, "No hookups"

Yet you're balls deep in her the first night she meets up with you.

She can talk all she wants, you can smile and nod, yet here she was still hanging around, but her kissing you then immediately saying "that was a good kiss" - translated means "we should keep kissing and see where it goes"

I always go for the bang, regardless if she says she's a virgin, or she's had some wild sex stories.

She's in your house, she enjoys your kiss, the body language is reading good, it was yours for the taking.

You backed down because of her allegedly being "past that phase" slut life.


Sure you might have a chance to fuck her, OR maybe she'll next you because you didn't try and go for the bang when she put herself out there.

At this point you've got nothing to lose by hitting her up and planning the second date.

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10-31-2016 12:42 PM
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Met up with Red_Pillage, PapayaTrapper, AneroidOcean, SamuelBRoberts

Pregamed at a restaurant down the street, turns out our first waitress was my friends little sister, how fucking funny, she got a bit embarrassed. Even ran into a sheriff acquaintance of mine.

We wound up at the Adam Carolla live podcast with Milo - and finally met Travesty (sharp looking dude).

The podcast was hilarious - after the show everyone splintered, I ended up rolling to a beach city and caught up with some old music friends and watched 2 bands.

Went out Saturday with Biker girl and went to a show in her hood, she got us free tickets (her bro's gf works the venue), overall I had a blast and she did too.

She even came over last night, smashed her out this morning and sent her on here way.

It was definitely a good weekend !

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10-31-2016 12:58 PM
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Thanks Noir and Kaotic.

Noir Wrote:There is the potential she may think you are weak for not following up but honestly, it sounds like you set it up for multiple bangs instead of one where you would be categorized as the other dudes she fucked on her sexual escapades post-divorce.

I wouldn't say I "resisted", I was positively engaged but aloof the whole time, teasing and playing with her but by no means chasing her. I imagine she had to pick up on the fact that I was deciding whether I wanted to pursue her or not. As she left she was talking about meeting up again, I don't think there will be any issues with a second date if I choose so.

Kaotic Wrote:She's in your house, she enjoys your kiss, the body language is reading good, it was yours for the taking.

You backed down because of her allegedly being "past that phase" slut life.

I agree it was almost certainly mine for the taking, we didn't even have any alcohol, if we did I'm 100% sure I'd have fucked her. As I've mentioned elsewhere a couple times I've been thinking a lot about quality over quantity and just wasn't inspired to make a go at her.
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Hey man that's fine, if you want quality, that's all you !

Your dick doesn't lie, if you weren't feeling it, then move on.

Thing is, you gotta be fast and swift about it, as Jariel would say - "Don't waste your time on loser females"

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10-31-2016 01:05 PM
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So I've got two girls in my phone I've been seeing (hooking up with) semi-regularly the past month or so.

One is named "Amanda."

The other is named...."Amanda."

Sort of cuts down on my intellectual effort. Just gotta be doubly sure I know what conversation I'm replying to.
10-31-2016 09:29 PM
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
First date bang this week. Online girl, sweet 19yo Latina/former cross country. My kinda legs.

First one in her family to go to college. A lot of pressure to excel from what she said. She's more of a 'good girl'.

A bit of LMR but there was great attraction so things went through after some easy back and forth. Afterwards, I could tell there was first date bang ASD regret on her part. she'd say things like "what do you think of me". I'd tell her. Then, she'd say "so you don't think Im a whore?" or "yeah, we should have just done dinner for the first date. I'm sorry." She'd also said " so, can I trust you?" I assured her and did my best to make her feel good while holding frame.

These things were said as we were laying together afterwards.

She agreed to get together this weekend, maybe over dinner somewhere though we didn't set a definite time.

She texts me when she gets home. I reply the next morning 'glad you made it, it was good hanging with you...blah blah" and haven't heard anything since. I'm thinking I may need to assuage her "guilt" or whatever it is more as I'd like some repeats from her. At this point I'm just waiting a few days.

Anyone here had who's had success dealing with girls having 'buyer's remorse' I'd like to hear thoughts.

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So i wen't to this big party saturday, when we get there the ratio was not too favorable but the talent was good.

The music playing was sertanejo (something like a "country" from brazil), I hate it. Decided to get to the bar with my wing and get some pure vodka. As I'm waiting for my drink a chubby 6 who's on my side starts giving me the eyes. I chat her up but decide i'm not that drunk yet.

Get to the dance floor and I run into a girl friend of mine, and her 8 friend whom I've hooked up before. They tell me where they are and I say we'll go there later..

At this point I'm getting hammered as fuck, and my wing set's me up with this slender, tall blonde. We make out for a good 15 minutes and I have to take a piss. As i'm on my way back to her from the bathroom, I run into my friend and the other girls. I don't remember how it started because i was too drunk and didn't plan to get the 8 again.

But when I realize, we're into second base, in the middle of the dance floor. We are talking naughty stuff and we both can't let it go of eachother. 2 hours later we're basically 3rd base and we're talking about getting out of there. Shit is, i was with my wing who's from another town and was going to sleep over.

Everyone gets out of the party, we're going home, in the bus there's still too much sexual tension between us. And she asks about something I said earlier about, LSD (a common interest of ours). I tell her we should get some, turn pink floyd on and smash, she agrees. As we get on the bus stop we kiss goodbye and I have the biggest blue balls ever.

We talked about the ONS but both our logistics were crap. ( I live with my mom + wing sleeping over) she shares a 1 room apartment with her friend. Somehow i manage to get a redhead at the bus stop after she leaves, but it goes nowhere, i'm wasted and the girl is almost black out drunk. Me and my wing go home..

I text her at the afternoon with a picture about something we were talking about at night, we have a light conversation. She says that the girls were talking about the times I grabed her up and made out holding her by the tights. She mentions how it was sooo good. I text back and forth a couple more times and after her last text I don't answer anymore..

Late night I get a text from her saying "Shit Mjolnir, we'll have to take that lsd".

This chick is trouble. I like it.
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