(08-26-2016 06:16 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote:  What preparations do you guys make when you know you're having a chick over?

Wash balls, throw dirty clothes under bed or in closet. Check sheets for any "visible" cum stains. Have some cheap drinks on the ice. Double check for cum stains then gargle some listerine before she comes up.

-CD

On top topic of soaps....

I find that Ivory dries out the skin. Ivory for those who wonder is very basic formula that uses largely unadulterated base ingrediants and pulls more moisture out of the skin then most other soaps. The trade off is that it is a mild formula versus regular soaps but if you have jungle skin like me it will leave it very dry after a shower.

The most mild soaps you can get are simple glycerin bars. Glycerin soap maintains natural oils which many regular style soaps will eat away at and strip away.

Black soap is superior if you can find it. Make sure that it is legit and natural. It should look like a mound of shit in all honesty.

It is unrefined soap fragments or it is pressed into a bar or ball:



This version is a blend and isn't 100% pure:



That black soap with a glycerin bar should be to go to for each day. Hemp based soaps are very good as well.

For lotion...

Shea Butter is the best. But.... it has a "woodsy" smell to white girls.

I don't mind it as that is what my mother would put in her hair and my sisters hair growing up so I am used to the raw smell of it and I find it quite soothing. But I have had a few bumpkin white girls comment on it. City girls know about Shea Butter but they get the blended stuff that has lavender or some shit in it (easy scam that all those Rasta dudes do is take a little nugget of shea butter and cross it with base lotion, glycerin, and essential oil and mark it up x100 in price.).

Shea is not easy for each day as it is stable and not soft or liquid so you have to cut it with a carrier oil. I would use liquid coconut oil, castor oil, and then add murh and peppermint to it. It is easy to make a big batch of it but once I run out of that I just use regular coconut oil.

For cologne I don't wear it all the time. But I recommend just looking for the source oils of your favorite kind. Cologne is just water down source oil and they mark it up x100% to make profits. You can find the base and source oil of the fragrance which is very strong and you just add a pinky dab on your neck and arms and it will last all day.

eBay should have most mainstream company fragrances. If Sephora has a very close copy of the Tom Ford then the formula has gotten out and you will find hybrids or exact remakes online for sale.

(08-26-2016 06:29 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  What preparations do you guys make when you know you're having a chick over?

In the short time frame when I had my pad ready to go for bangs I would have a very orderly system.

I had a bottle of Vodka in my freezer with mixes of Cranberry and diet coke, sprite, etc in my fridge.

I always had a backup pair of clean sheets under my bed that I would swap quickly.

I would have ready youtube videos or music ready to go on my iPod doc

I would throw any dirty laundry in my dryer and close it.

I would bring out a spare toothbrush still in its wrapper and I would crack a fresh bottle of Listerine and swap out my own down below.

This whole process would take less then 45mins to put into place. The next day you work to re-load your stash and the system for the next time.

My place would look the exact same for any new girl coming through. It became like clockwork the script I would run that would lead to the bang.

My man Kosko, keeping it real as always.

So I am assuming white girls don't like the woodsy smell, I thought some colognes have a woodsy smell? Dsquared makes a nice woodsy smelling cologne, I believe.
It is funny you say that, most white girls I meet smell like that horrible Herbal Essence cheap body wash.

To be honest, I hardly use cologne. I have a few bottles lying around that were gifts, but most colognes bother my skin when applied directly.

Colognes don't seem as popular today as when I was growing up. Back in the day it was all about Polo cologne in the green bottle, that shit was strong as fcuk. I had another favourite cologne that did me well, called Drakkar Noir. I still smell that stuff in the discount perfume shops and I am tempted to buy a bottle. There is also a brand that smells dope, but it is hard to find. It comes in a round small bottle with a rubber ring around it. Anyone know what I am talking about?

Nowadays, I smell more weed and body odor on guys more than anything else.

For me the combination of coconut oil and black soap does the trick. The black bookshop I buy them from ran out for awhile, so I experimented with Coconut/Papaya, Raw shea butter soap and some olive oil combination. I have always received compliments on my soft skin.

(08-26-2016 06:16 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote:  What preparations do you guys make when you know you're having a chick over?

There's a few schools of thought on this

1) tidy up, keep it stocked with girl friendly stuff

2) make it a pig's sty, so she doesn't want to be your GF, she just wants to bang

3) make it low key for the bang - so bed style couch, low lights, incense, no clocks.

Now if this is a club pull
- clean bathroom, clean sheets
- libations.

If it's a date that's going to end in sex most likely - you take her out, but end up at your place
- see above
- need a reason for her to come - plausible deniability - I just bought a puppy, or I make a mean mojito.

If it's a "house date"
- you need more things to make her trust you
- you need things to make her physically comfortable
- you need a plausible deniability draw
- clean bathroom, sheets, libations

It's really just thinking about what's going on in her head, and the overall social context.

But if you know you're gonna bang, clean sheets and a clean bathroom are important in all situations.

WIA

(08-25-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 05:43 PM)Chowder Head Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 11:01 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I haven't even gotten into what to say yet.

Let me know if you're following me.

But if you are understanding what I'm saying, it should be clear to you how little the actual content of your words matter

WIA

This post is a good Aha moment for me. I need to work on this aspect of game more. I can't wait until you delve into what to say. I just order that vanilla cologne.

The homey Basket ain't even come back!

Shoulda saved that for the blog lol.

WIA

Gotta get those approaches if I'm gonna get better bruh!

Afropunk in BK NYC this weekend.



#afropunk on Insta/Twitter is looking mad nice.

We should have a meet up next year!

WIA

I have always wanted to go. You could call me a bit of a counter-cuture type dude so that scene would be fine for me.

My only issue is that with these big fests you really have to get to them in the first 4 years of them while they are are new and innovative. When they get overexposed they get to corporate and get filled with to much ego.

Oh I forgot to rate.

The two broads on the left and right end are perfection. WB day and night.

^I was gonna go but I'm moving into a new place this week and going on vacation in October.

I felt it would be a better idea to save cash wherever I can so I don't end up complaining to myself later lol

The second, and most important reason is because MdWanderer can't come with me!

(08-28-2016 10:06 AM)kosko Wrote:  I have always wanted to go. You could call me a bit of a counter-cuture type dude so that scene would be fine for me.

My only issue is that with these big fests you really have to get to them in the first 4 years of them while they are are new and innovative. When they get overexposed they get to corporate and get filled with to much ego.

Oh I forgot to rate.

The two broads on the left and right end are perfection. WB day and night.

Afropunk started a decade ago.
And it was not these type of chicks for sure.
The music and the vibe was way more punk than afro.

It's sad really. The chicks that are going to these things are Erykah Badu mainstream, but not Beyonce Mainstream.

WIA

Damn would have probably went this weekend if I had known. These black chicks are right up my alley and respond well to civilized black man game. Of course they are still sisters at the end of the day so will toss out some light shit test, but I just play the cocky game and ignore those test at this stage of my life. Good filter as well because the girls who are about something will stick around through the cockiness while the ones who think they are the second coming of Jesus will bail. Sometimes, if i'm bored, i'll have them qualify themselves by saying " wow surprised you are even talking with me, you look like one of those I don't need a man to breath air type sistas" They love it

-CD

New Podcast being recorded this week.

School is back in session.

Let us know if you have any questions.

Im late to your whole podcast thing... Where can I listen to them???

@Kirdiesel - check the first page of this thread.....

Looking for a decent source to create a logo with images of Rude and myself for the podcast. Not looking to break the bank on this either.

I really like this kind of theme in terms of images:



Help would be much appreciated.

I've had decent success with well rated graphic designers on Fivver.com. Just make sure you get one that speaks decent english if they're abroad.

(08-28-2016 11:38 AM)WalkingMan Wrote:  The second, and most important reason is because MdWanderer can't come with me!

Haha you know I wanted to come badly but my leave got rejected!

I googled to see if there was going to be one in Atlanta this year and go (like they were going to do last year but because of weather it got cancelled) but it will instead be in London. If I was still living on the East Coast I would've been there 100%.

Oh well, i'll be in NYC by the end of this year and we can definitely do it up!

I'm looking forward to the next podcast, lads. It's been too long!

Good shout on the black soap. I bought two bars. I think they're manufactured in Ghana. Very smooth.

(09-01-2016 12:24 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  I'm looking forward to the next podcast, lads. It's been too long!

Good shout on the black soap. I bought two bars. I think they're manufactured in Ghana. Very smooth.

Yes Ghana got the market cornered on that in terms of quality. The Dudu Osun from Lagos, I have to give a thumbs down to, I tried it personally and felt nothing. Once I went for the Nina, it was in a whole entire other league. Presentation is low but the effects are stunning.

(09-01-2016 04:03 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(09-01-2016 12:24 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  I'm looking forward to the next podcast, lads. It's been too long!

Good shout on the black soap. I bought two bars. I think they're manufactured in Ghana. Very smooth.

Yes Ghana got the market cornered on that in terms of quality. The Dudu Osun from Lagos, I have to give a thumbs down to, I tried it personally and felt nothing. Once I went for the Nina, it was in a whole entire other league. Presentation is low but the effects are stunning.

Moma, where do you buy Nina black soap? Amazon?

Chowder, I usually buy it from a local African store by me but you can just get the pure raw chunks from Amazon for sure.

I'll have to check out this black soap you gentlemen continuously speak of. I normally just use plain ivory soap because I have really oily skin and it seems to absorb some of it as someone pointed out earlier. I know the natural oils are good for skin health and longevity, however when you're wearing white and light colored dress shirts all day it does a number on the ring-around-the-collar.

So what exactly was/is the 30 day white lizard challenge?

(09-02-2016 04:10 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  So what exactly was/is the 30 day white lizard challenge?

dang, you calling me out on it lolll..let me run it back. I'm going to do a 30 day press on white lizards for the next 30 days. Let me get a yo if you lot still want me to do it.

I would never put Ivory soap on my skin, Ashes you right up.

Ivory is good for taking stains out of clothes. For you sports guys, wet some Ivory and rub it on the grass and dirt stains on your soccer, baseball uniforms. Throw the rubbed clothes in the wash and the stain is gone.