So on friday I set up a Tinderdate with drinks at a bar with this italian chick (~7-8).
She was a bit nervous and uncomfortable until I kissed her about 30min in. We then went to another bar and then to a hotel and banged.
But I think I got two kinda interesting things out of this one...
Thing is, after the sex, we were about to sleep and she asked if I thought we should see each other again.
I said that I would like to but that I can't be arsed with Tinder girls.
So basically she had to delete her Tinder or it was gonna end there. She thought we should delete ours together, but I told her calmly that was not going to happen. She went back and forth about it, and said she couldn't believe how she had to delete her Tinder while I would get to keep mine.
I spoke with calm all the time and just told her that I already had enough options so I wouldn't have to see a chick who's on Tinder - why would I? If she wasn't willing to do it, there are others that would.
Then I just turned a bit cold on her and layed in the bed playing with my phone while she tried to cuddle. Then I turned my phone around to her so she could see my home screen, which basically looked like this:
Btw. Thing is, I use my iPad most of the time when I'm on Tinder so the notifications on my phone can build up for a few days before they reset themselves to zero. So it's not like I have 120 notifications every night. It's a lil fake it til you make it-thing.
Then I kinda smirked like an asshole and did a face like this...
Few minutes later I got to see when she went inside the app and deleted her account with 820-something matches and the app itself. She said I was "fucking crazy" and an "asshole" for doing this. But when we went home together the morning after (we almost live in the same part of the city) and talked about it, she also said that she liked me for it. That I was crazy in a good way and yadayada.
And that was that, basically...
But I just think all this with sort of holding the frame, then give the chick the choice to delete the app is something I will do every time now I meet a girl from Tinder.
It seemed like a big deal for her to delete it all. She might be back on the shit as I write this now (haha), but at least it was some kind of display of loyalty there. And I personally get a massive turn-off whenever a girl indicates she's seeing others, so this was nice.
The other thing was just that I asked when she decided she wanted to get fucked by me. She said she had fantasised about it when we matched and saw my pictures and then she kinda decided it after I kissed her because I did it so firm and she thought it was very hot (she was the kind of type that wanted me to have a hand on her throat while drilling her).
Tbh, I've never been a huge believer in
game, per se, but in some aspects like this I guess it's quite applicable hehe.
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