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TravelerKai 路 2016-08-01 17:42:00 路 #2851
(08-01-2016 08:18 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I think it was Traveler Kai that said the Southern Chinese chicks were darker and muscular legs, ass, and titties. But up north, they were taller, lighter skin, and skinny.

I've also read that Chengdu chicks were the most sought after.

I'm looking for a straight from China chick that could be in a Drake video. Most video vixens of Asian descent all seem to be from Cali.

Almost. Breast size is random across the board like I said yesterday in that other thread. Guangdong province women are known for ass as well as thicker legs. I've seen a few walking around Guangzhou there that made my stride slow down like I was in the Matrix. Only one had the face to match though, the rest were buttery to average in the face.

Along the East Coast, thick legs are the norm even up North like Anhui or sometimes even Harbin, although Harbin women in general are just taller.

Technically Chongqing women are the most sought after, although Chengdu is next to it. There is a dude on the forum that is living there and told others he hopes others from here don't come there because it's apparently a Pussy Paradise for him.

As for Drake video quality, the half Portuguese and half Chinese from Guangzhou that got away from me would fit that bill easily. She might have been a unicorn though, who knows.

EDIT: Thicker legs are still more prevalent in the South. Forgot to confirm that.

For video vixen thickness, I say Japan is more likely your best bet, but good luck grabbing her from others.
the high 路 2016-08-01 17:51:00 路 #2852
(08-01-2016 05:15 PM)Fortis Wrote:  Typical entitled uggo who thinks a dude like me is even looking at her. I sure as fuck wasn't low-key trying to touch her ass. I literally looked away in terror when she said that. not because I was afraid of her, but because the idea of touching her ass made my balls shrink up into my chest cavity.

Figures, it's always the also-rans that can't wait to hit you with these dramatic rejections (whether you were hollering at them or not) or want to throw salt in the game when you're trying to get at their better looking friend/s.
coverdoc 路 2016-08-01 18:43:00 路 #2853
(07-31-2016 09:45 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  
(07-31-2016 09:30 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  I've been on two dates with two separate black chicks in the last two weeks. Both college grads. I can say that both dates were exhausting and they had the same ignorant rhetoric: You talk white, you dress white, you sure you're not gay, then why are your pants so fitting. I can't even say I was shocked. Just had the first one suck me off in the car, blocked her number after and the other one send me the money for her half of dinner. Funny thing is, it's only sistas that spit that same b.s. out. I don't blame some guys for actively avoiding them.

-CD

How'd you meet these broads?

WIA

One I met from tinder a while back and randomly texted one night when i left campus. She was down to meet for sushi around 8 but flaked. So i was heading to bed and she called me around 11 to meet for drinks instead. She sounded civilized enough on the phone, but in person had the same i'm a successful bad bitch so ain't no nigga good enough demeanor even though she hasn't accomplished shit. I will be honest and say she paid for her drinks without "much" complaint, but i'm not about to put up with some worthless bitch calling me white and gay. Instead of telling her off, I caught the mouth in the front seat of my car. After I dropped her off, her number was blocked before I turned the corner.

The other I saw around campus. She was/is fine and had almost every brother and half the white guys looking her down. We made eye contact a few times so I knew I was good to go in the approach. I saw a few red flags which I thought were in my mind at the time: Ghetto body language, said I don't talk like i'm from a black neighborhood, ghetto first name. Sure enough I prolonged my dinner invite, but my boys said I was being paranoid. Finally invited her out and all my suspicions were confirmed. She was just like the chick above, but even worse because she is about to finish grad school and had all these expectations for brothers while holding herself to none.

(08-01-2016 12:08 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Le Sigh & lol @ the sweeping generalizations about black women. On one hand, you can clearly see the vast diverseness of the brothers, but chalk two or three similar experiences with black women as a monolithic group. Maybe its age, experience or location, but I have not met very many sisters that share strikingly similar personality characteristics and/or values.
Yes, you will get shit tested, but honestly, that's with any woman and of course it will vary depending on a myriad of factors. To me, it's just banter, and an opportunity to exude your wittiness and dominance. Some black women are strong, they have to be, if they're coffee, you have to be espresso.

Bro, I'm usually rocking with what you are saying, but this is just wrong here. I'm sure i've approached and interacted with more american black women than 95% of men of any race. Every now and then I hear this rhetoric of "you can't handle a strong black women or they take more to handle" and that's just some bull shit. Back in my younger dumber days, I took that as truth so I gamed on. But after finding my self worth and improving my life, I realized how flawed that reasoning was. Once I finally got to a real university and gamed black chicks who grew up in two parent households, in a civilized neighborhood from educated backgrounds i realized how rare these types of black women are indeed.

Most and it is most, are on some wanting you to jump through hoops, simply based on the color of your skin. It's not just coincidence, all my boys who graduated from top ivy league programs complain about the black women in their programs acting like they are god's gift to man, when their white/hispanic female counterparts are trying to get with them since the first day. Any guy who chalks up that negative behavior as part of the game is sadly lost. I've gamed women from all over the world, from all backgrounds and have never met any more entitled than the american black women. I'm all for getting with sistas, but only some of the alternative hipster types or non american black women. In my personal experience, they are the only ones that appreciate a well spoken polished brother and won't make you jump through hoops like boffo the clown. If no other race/culture of women make me do that idiotic shit, there is no way in hell i'm doing it for some weave wearing entitled "black princess."

-CD
Iso 路 2016-08-01 19:22:00 路 #2854
(08-01-2016 05:22 AM)Sumanguru Wrote:  
(08-01-2016 01:06 AM)Iso Wrote:  I have to give props to the confidence/balls that some brothers have.

I was talking to a girl at a bar in DC recently. About a 10 minute conversation. I was sitting down with her at a table next to the bar. Next thing I know, an older black man (mid 30's) walks by and reaches out across the table to grab the girls hands and drags her to the dance floor. They dance for a few minutes then the girls give him her number. Of course I was frustrated, but I was in awe that he had the balls to do that. There is no chance a white guy would have grabbed a girl I was talking to like that. The level of game and confidence required to do that is insane. I just assumed that the guy had a high level of game. It could have been WIA for all I know.

Not the first time I've heard of that happening in the DC/Prince Georges County area.

Seeing a dude talking with a girl, and you just go up and pull her away? I guess some people would call that alpha. He keeps doing that in this area, eventually he'll get his ass beat/shot.

It wasn't my girlfriend so I wasn't going to fight for her. I see a lot of super disrespectful stuff at the bar, but it would take a miracle for me to fight in a bar. I don't see the point in it.
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-08-01 21:25:00 路 #2855
(08-01-2016 01:06 AM)Iso Wrote:  I have to give props to the confidence/balls that some brothers have.

I was talking to a girl at a bar in DC recently. About a 10 minute conversation. I was sitting down with her at a table next to the bar. Next thing I know, an older black man (mid 30's) walks by and reaches out across the table to grab the girls hands and drags her to the dance floor. They dance for a few minutes then the girls give him her number. Of course I was frustrated, but I was in awe that he had the balls to do that. There is no chance a white guy would have grabbed a girl I was talking to like that. The level of game and confidence required to do that is insane. I just assumed that the guy had a high level of game. It could have been WIA for all I know.

Set the stage
- DC - lots of savages in suits and what not
- Bar with I guess a popping dance floor - basically the high energy area of the venue
- Black environment

Young Player Iso is rapping to a chick.

1) Is she locked in?

Before he can evaluate her, smooth pimp daddy metaphysically mushes Iso in the face, and takes the girl to the dance floor.

So from his perspective
- Iso didn't look like a threat
- The chick was not really feeling Iso and the conversation
- high probability that moving her to the dance floor would be a good move.

On the sub-communication level
- Iso wasn't hitting her in the feels
- It's not clear from the facts whether he boxed her in, or she boxed him in. It sounds like two tables him at one, her at the other. A conversation was being had, but no territory was claimed hard. Battle wise, he could get hit in the exposed flank.

Now if he had her back to the crowd (him leaning back, arms around her, her leaning forward talking to him), because he cut the space on the approach - Ol Boy would have to be extra bold because if she's leaning into him - clearly she's in to him.

If it was the reverse, He's all up on her, ol boy would be physically blocked.

What we don't know is how long the chat was, and weather Iso would feel comfortable getting familiar with the chick from jump, and could hold his frame while she hemmed and hawed about it.

....

What we don't know... The two of them could have had a past.
We don't know what was on the chicks mind, but in that environment - Iso should have taken her to the dance floor soon after the chat commenced. Taking her from low energy and very verbal, to high energy and non-verbal.

Take heart in the fact that even though the guy had a good open, he still took a phone # like a lame. She's not going to feel that burst of excitement from him when he sends the "HRU" text.

That could have happened to me, all of us really. I've been stuck a few times and had to chalk it up to the game.

WIA
Excelsior 路 2016-08-01 21:43:00 路 #2856
(07-31-2016 07:53 PM)Fortis Wrote:  That makes 3 of us.

Honestly, I just don't find that I hit the "primal" buttons for american black chicks. This isn't me being down on myself, but I find that we'll interact but my default mode is intellectual and thoughtful. I can be a convincing fake extrovert, but I wanna talk about certain topics and this screens out 90% of black chicks. The impression I get from most black girls my age (25-27) is that they want a simple, fun dude to be seen with. That just isn't me.

A lot of this has to do with how I grew up. I grew up in a pretty white neighborhood so I am often accused of being an uncle tom since I don't have that certain 'swagger' that american black chicks expect. That has stopped as I've gotten older but the stigma still lingers to some extent and it does color my relationships with other american black people. It is what it is. I find that it's less of an issue with blacks from the Carribean, Europe and Africa but it is more of an issue with blacks in america.

I've always felt that black American women just demand a certain kind of masculinity (one that fits their vision of what a black man should be) I'm just not equipped to provide them with. Like you, I feel this comes down to who I am and how I was raised. I just can't give them what they want. For a while, I found this to be extremely frustrating and, frankly, I was bitter about it - I let it color my thoughts, fill me with anger, and turn me into something of a bitter hater. After that stage passed, I was just sad, beating myself up for my inability to connect with these women, blaming myself for all of my failures, and engaging in incredible amounts of self-loathing.

Now I accept it for what it is and, frankly, care less. That's an acceptance that naturally follows the realization that a) there are plenty of other women out there who will like the brand of masculinity you can offer, b) many of those women are black (only 4% of all Black women are American born/raised) and c) I'm under no obligation to deconstruct and rebuild my being just to get in line with the demands of black American women, just as they'd be under no obligation to change for me if I asked them to.
The anger and bitterness (which was followed by sadness and self-loathing) has given way to calm acceptance and understanding. People are who they are, and that's alright. I am who I am, and that's ok.

The answer is simple: move on and get in where you fit in. No need for anger, bitterness, depression, or thirsty and ill-fated efforts to reinvent yourself in the hopes of getting attention. Just continue to be who you are and find women who are okay with that. Allow the women who aren't okay with that to be who they are somewhere else with somebody else. Everybody wins this way.

(07-31-2016 10:08 PM)MdWanderer Wrote:  You might be finding your niche (we all have one). One of my white buddies can't stop throwing Latin chicks off of his cock, but has to work overtime for a white girl. He actively complains about this too; he likes Latinas for a good fuck but wants to only seriously date white girls.

I've already banged one Asian girl and had a short LTR with another. Like you, I'm kinda am starting to think this is the way I should go. Also out of all my foreign travels (I have been to over 20 countries) I have gotten the most love in the Philippines. I have banged more white girls than anything but they don't seem interested for anything more than sex. I have the toughest time with Latin and Black girls (although my last LTR was a sista).

Like I keep saying: get in where you fit in.

At the end of the day, I think it always helps to be open minded. I've never had hard racial preferences for a mate. So long as she is attractive to me physically (something a girl of any race can achieve) and we can vibe personally, I am good to go. Her background is largely irrelevant.

Once you've gotten to that stage, it's simply a matter of picking the girls who are most interested in you and just focusing on them to maximize your ROI. Life is too short to waste time hunting in markets that don't want to buy what you're selling.

(08-01-2016 12:08 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Le Sigh & lol @ the sweeping generalizations about black women. On one hand, you can clearly see the vast diverseness of the brothers, but chalk two or three similar experiences with black women as a monolithic group.

We're not making sweeping generalizations about black women.

We're making generalizations about black AMERICAN women, who account for 1 out of every 20+ black women (circa 3-4%) in existence.
Nobody here has said anything about the other 500+ Million black women on Earth.

Quote:Maybe its age, experience or location, but I have not met very many sisters that share strikingly similar personality characteristics and/or values.

I have. Some of us have experience with black women as well, you know.

Quote:Yes, you will get shit tested, but honestly, that's with any woman and of course it will vary depending on a myriad of factors. To me, it's just banter, and an opportunity to exude your wittiness and dominance. Some black women are strong, they have to be, if they're coffee, you have to be espresso.

1. No, it is not with "any woman". Black American women test men harder and more directly than most.

2. You equate these tests with mere "banter" and "opportunity". I equate them with a massive waste of my time and energy.
I'm a quarter-century old. That's about a third of my life gone already. I'm not keen to waste the other two-thirds I've got left on BS. Life is too short for that.

I get enough of these tests in my professional every day life. I don't need extra crap from the women in my personal life as well. She's supposed to make my life more, not less, enjoyable. If she's going to create extra barriers for me to knock down every other day, then what the hell do I need her for?

If you personally enjoy these tests, good on you - keep dealing with them and have fun doing it. I just can't say I'll do the same.

3. There is a fine line between a "strong" woman and a "needlessly difficult, ball-busting, overly-defensive" woman. I know which side of that line I'd like to be on.

4. I hate coffee.
Iso 路 2016-08-01 21:50:00 路 #2857
(08-01-2016 09:25 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  
(08-01-2016 01:06 AM)Iso Wrote:  I have to give props to the confidence/balls that some brothers have.

I was talking to a girl at a bar in DC recently. About a 10 minute conversation. I was sitting down with her at a table next to the bar. Next thing I know, an older black man (mid 30's) walks by and reaches out across the table to grab the girls hands and drags her to the dance floor. They dance for a few minutes then the girls give him her number. Of course I was frustrated, but I was in awe that he had the balls to do that. There is no chance a white guy would have grabbed a girl I was talking to like that. The level of game and confidence required to do that is insane. I just assumed that the guy had a high level of game. It could have been WIA for all I know.

Set the stage
- DC - lots of savages in suits and what not
- Bar with I guess a popping dance floor - basically the high energy area of the venue
- Black environment

Young Player Iso is rapping to a chick.

1) Is she locked in?

Before he can evaluate her, smooth pimp daddy metaphysically mushes Iso in the face, and takes the girl to the dance floor.

So from his perspective
- Iso didn't look like a threat
- The chick was not really feeling Iso and the conversation
- high probability that moving her to the dance floor would be a good move.

On the sub-communication level
- Iso wasn't hitting her in the feels
- It's not clear from the facts whether he boxed her in, or she boxed him in. It sounds like two tables him at one, her at the other. A conversation was being had, but no territory was claimed hard. Battle wise, he could get hit in the exposed flank.

Now if he had her back to the crowd (him leaning back, arms around her, her leaning forward talking to him), because he cut the space on the approach - Ol Boy would have to be extra bold because if she's leaning into him - clearly she's in to him.

If it was the reverse, He's all up on her, ol boy would be physically blocked.

What we don't know is how long the chat was, and weather Iso would feel comfortable getting familiar with the chick from jump, and could hold his frame while she hemmed and hawed about it.

....

What we don't know... The two of them could have had a past.
We don't know what was on the chicks mind, but in that environment - Iso should have taken her to the dance floor soon after the chat commenced. Taking her from low energy and very verbal, to high energy and non-verbal.

Take heart in the fact that even though the guy had a good open, he still took a phone # like a lame. She's not going to feel that burst of excitement from him when he sends the "HRU" text.

That could have happened to me, all of us really. I've been stuck a few times and had to chalk it up to the game.

WIA

Some context:

-In Adams Morgan (mostly white bar. Black guys there usually hang outside the bar)
-White girl
-Around 2-2:30 AM
-She was definitely drunk
-There was a dance floor. On the wall, there was booth style seats. Right next to the seats, there was a table placed there. I was sitting next to her while facing the dance floor. He reached across the table.
-My wingman was talking to her friend and making out with her.
-After she gave the dude her number. the bar was starting to close so She huddled with her friend and they decided they were going to get pizza.
-She took my phone number unprompted which surprised me because I didn't game her enough.
-She told me she would text after they ate pizza. Of course she didn't text (I never expected to her text).
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-08-01 23:14:00 路 #2858
(08-01-2016 09:50 PM)Iso Wrote:  Some context:

-In Adams Morgan (mostly white bar. Black guys there usually hang outside the bar)
-White girl
-Around 2-2:30 AM
-She was definitely drunk
-There was a dance floor. On the wall, there was booth style seats. Right next to the seats, there was a table placed there. I was sitting next to her while facing the dance floor. He reached across the table.
-My wingman was talking to her friend and making out with her.
-After she gave the dude her number. the bar was starting to close so She huddled with her friend and they decided they were going to get pizza.
-She took my phone number unprompted which surprised me because I didn't game her enough.
-She told me she would text after they ate pizza. Of course she didn't text (I never expected to her text).

Knowing what you know now, how would you have done this differently.

Seems like your boy had the right idea.

WIA
Iso 路 2016-08-02 00:08:00 路 #2859
(08-01-2016 11:14 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  
(08-01-2016 09:50 PM)Iso Wrote:  Some context:

-In Adams Morgan (mostly white bar. Black guys there usually hang outside the bar)
-White girl
-Around 2-2:30 AM
-She was definitely drunk
-There was a dance floor. On the wall, there was booth style seats. Right next to the seats, there was a table placed there. I was sitting next to her while facing the dance floor. He reached across the table.
-My wingman was talking to her friend and making out with her.
-After she gave the dude her number. the bar was starting to close so She huddled with her friend and they decided they were going to get pizza.
-She took my phone number unprompted which surprised me because I didn't game her enough.
-She told me she would text after they ate pizza. Of course she didn't text (I never expected to her text).

Knowing what you know now, how would you have done this differently.

Seems like your boy had the right idea.

WIA

I would have tried to change up the vibe. She asked me about my job a few times and questions like that. I should have cavemanned it because she was drunk. Lots of touching and jokes. As far as the guy reaching across the table, there's not much I could do about that. It's not like you go to a bar expecting something like that to happen. Maybe I need to plan for every crazy scenario just in case they happen.
Moma 路 2016-08-02 02:12:00 路 #2860
You lot that moan about Black American lizards, do you actually approach lizards of other cultures? Do you screen for them? Do you look out for Bajans, Jamaicans, Africans?
When I was in London, I was meeting resistance with a certain type of black London lizard. I lived in the ends (hood) and the black lizards there were more into Avirex jacket wearing, spliff toting roadmans dem. I didn't want to fake that lifestyle to get some fanny.

I used to holla at a lot of different lizards in different areas anyway and my ease of success was with black lizards from out of London, particularly Birmingham who loved the London accent. I also had joy with a lizard of African parentage from Southhampton. She was tonguing me down on the dance floor on the first meet much to the aghast of my London female friends.
I also had joy with a lizard of African parentage from Norwich who again allowed me to suck her face on the floor in a club in central London called Moonlighting, I think.

I also met a Ugandan lizard in another club in Central that sat down at the table where I was resting and practically begged me to leave with her after only 20 mins. She had a sick bottom which is customary with Ugandan lizards.

The point I am making is, the London lizard yield wasn't that rewarding for me but I still very much liked black. So my adjustments were, I began to feast on foreigners to London.

Most Americanised lizards are spoilt and this is across the table. The whites, Asians are hardly better.

My question to you lot is this, how many non black American lizards do you actually go for?

I've asked this of another group and usually what I hear is some stereotypical reason why one doesn't go for African lizards (of which is a large black group). African lizards usually like intelligent men and don't go for that super thug bullshyt. Thugs in Africa get executed by anyone so no African lizards wants to shortchange herself by investing in a man with suicidal tendencies.

West Indian lizards are also more grounded when fresh from the islands. I like hood lizards for the ass, tats and guilt free pump and dumpability about them but many of them may think I'm a square or undercover police.

Glossary:

Sick bottom: Extremely well rounded, gravity defying buttocks. Not misshapen fatty arse.
kirdiesel 路 2016-08-02 03:16:00 路 #2861
I have to honestly say I have not really given any African lizards here in Germany a chance. Well not a chance.. I haven't tried approaching any of them.

There are many I think but they aren't in the main spots (clubs) around here for whatever reason.

Another issue thats come about through years of dating white is that Ive now developed a preference for lighter skin lizards (im light skinned myself) and alot of African lizards seem to be dark skinned.
Soundbyte 路 2016-08-02 03:58:00 路 #2862
African chicks are so chill. Ill probably write something about it later. They love banter, it is so refreshing.

As long as you are on their good side, you cannot do wrong.
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-08-02 05:53:00 路 #2863
CD in here flowing from the survival scrolls.

It's interesting how disagreeable a lot of sistas are, and how agreeable others are.

When I come across Miss I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T it is usually a mask she puts on. Usually anything but. Focused on appearance, social standing with people that don't matter, head full of pop culture. Living her life like she was Beyonce...

@Moma

I'd say in recent years, about half. Only professional chicks because that's the circles I run in. My experience has not been as traumatic as others. I will say that professional white chicks can make it a lot easier.

But in these times, with everything that's going on, it's way easier to talk to a slightly unrefined black chick than a super liberal Bernie Sanders supporter.

WIA
rudebwoy 路 2016-08-02 08:58:00 路 #2864
How are black lizards in the Northeast compared to black lizards on the West Coast?

Texas Lizards compared to the Midwest?

My question is are they ALL the same, what about these southern belle's I have been hearing about? Or does that term only apply to white women.

I have watched a few videos from this guy Charles Tyler, he preaches forget black american women and move to Brazil. My problem with Brazil is that it seems more racist than America or on par.

I have an old account on Blackplanet, I get these daily posts from random people.
The black american women always preaching that I am special crap, even some funny posts about how couples should share the duties of running a home 50/50 (cooking including).
I also see a sad trend, some chick may post a cleavage shot or a bootie pic and will always get 100 likes, yet I can see she is overweight, thick, big boned or whatever you want to call it. One particular girl, I believe I mentioned before had noticeable cellulite on her ass and still got over 400 likes.

How bad is the thirst out there for Black american guys?
Fortis 路 2016-08-02 09:02:00 路 #2865
(08-02-2016 02:12 AM)Moma Wrote:  You lot that moan about Black American lizards, do you actually approach lizards of other cultures? Do you screen for them? Do you look out for Bajans, Jamaicans, Africans?

I've been on dates with non-American black chicks and they're WAY better. I am not condemning all chicks who are black, but the black American ones aren't worth it to me. Recently I've been fucking Asians exclusively but I'd love to hit up Barbados (got family there) or some other spot in the Carribean or Africa and sample the local fare. I was once in Barbados 5 years ago and saw this black chick who had every dude on the beach like "DAMNNNNNN."

This was from the old dudes to the young white tourists. We were all like........Banana

Trust me, I have not discounted all of my race, but only the problematic 3%.

I've been on dates with well put together African chicks and enjoyed it. There were a few of them at my college who were low-key crushing on me but I had Mariana Trench-level game back then and didn't know how to even move things forward.

I've been STRONGLY considering hitting up Ghana, Ethiopia or some other spot in Africa to see how it is.
WalkingMan 路 2016-08-02 09:17:00 路 #2866
^You're speaking my language, dude!! Lets get our plane tickets!!
Mentavious 路 2016-08-02 11:12:00 路 #2867
Funny you guys mention a trip to Africa. I plan on spending the first half of next year traveling Asia, Europe and Africa. Right now flights are set for Asia and Europe but it would be cool to have some dudes out in Africa in June/July as well.
Moma 路 2016-08-02 11:27:00 路 #2868
Walking man, Mentavious and Fortis, now you are speaking my language. Keep me the loop, those countries you mentioned are absolutely in my sights.
WalkingMan 路 2016-08-02 11:38:00 路 #2869
(08-02-2016 11:12 AM)Mentavious Wrote:  Funny you guys mention a trip to Africa. I plan on spending the first half of next year traveling Asia, Europe and Africa. Right now flights are set for Asia and Europe but it would be cool to have some dudes out in Africa in June/July as well.

What do you do for a living, Mentavious? Where I'm currently at the most I can hope for is asking to change my position to working from home, and then chilling somewhere in the same time zone. Like Brazil for example. And that's if they allow me, which I kind of doubt. I work with programmers, but I'm not a programmer.
jayesco 路 2016-08-02 15:01:00 路 #2870
I tend to find black girls some of the easiest people to talk to. One thing I noticed is that some of you are taking girls you deem ghetto on dates...why? I don't know about you guys but most young girls always hit me with "I've never had a relationship before or I've never been on a date before" well I'm definitely not going to be the first to do those things. I usually just say hey I'm going to be at this club at such and such time so meet me there. I like doing that type meetup instead something formal.
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-08-02 15:40:00 路 #2871
We need to work on quick verbal/text screens.

A chick that follows any of the VH-1 shows is a no go for me.

I can establish that well before I make move

WIA
coverdoc 路 2016-08-02 16:03:00 路 #2872
@Moma What's funny is that the grad school chick I approached on campus I thought she was African. Once she told me she wasn't the dream started to fade and fast lol.

I didn't intentionally take out a ghetto girl. I gave her the benefit because she was in grad school. Jokes on me, but every experience is a lessoned learned. I'm studying in a small area so we don't have lots of choices for international black chicks. Plus my area is over ran with pseudo African chicks. Meaning their parents are straight from the motherland but they are more into black american culture than some black people.

On another note since I'm tired of whining, how do you guys go about dealing with chicks actively hitting on you? I weirdly have a lot of respect for chicks in a sober environment who have the balls to come over and open me directly. Happened yesterday while I was stuffing my face with fast food. She had no chance in hell, but was still nice to see.

Also Ghana is on my radar for next year. My dad did that trace your background that localized to Ghana. Also I have never ever met a Ghana dude who wasn't an instant bro.

-CD
kirdiesel 路 2016-08-02 16:53:00 路 #2873
Usually the lizards that hit on me are ones im not interested so whenever it happens I politely blow them out and say "sorry I'm not interested but thanks!"
rudebwoy 路 2016-08-02 18:04:00 路 #2874
+1 for China

http://www.foxsports.com/nba/story/steph...ina-030916

Stephon Marbury introduced a shoe that lights up at the bottom, you can change the colour using an app from your cellphone.

Judging by the video I saw, he is a big hit in China.

Dude even looking younger.
Moma 路 2016-08-02 18:57:00 路 #2875
coverdoc, I just smile and put her in a friend zone or something. I've never had a lizard that was overly pushy that I couldn't get rid off. What happens when you smile and just give her generic convo?
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