(07-29-2016 03:52 PM)WalkingMan Wrote:  I've banged more Asian women than black. Never thought I would say that, but here I am.

You might be finding your niche (we all have one). One of my white buddies can't stop throwing Latin chicks off of his cock, but has to work overtime for a white girl. He actively complains about this too; he likes Latinas for a good fuck but wants to only seriously date white girls.

I've already banged one Asian girl and had a short LTR with another. Like you, I'm kinda am starting to think this is the way I should go. Also out of all my foreign travels (I have been to over 20 countries) I have gotten the most love in the Philippines. I have banged more white girls than anything but they don't seem interested for anything more than sex. I have the toughest time with Latin and Black girls (although my last LTR was a sista).

I have been on a few dates with this one black girl I met on POF. She wants to keep seeing me but isn't ready for a makeout yet (my last LTR it was a week before we kissed; I'm starting to sense this is becoming a thing with black girls). We'll see how it goes. I live in Detroit now so my options are basically White and Black girls for the most part (and Middle Eastern but they are largely tribal here).

(07-31-2016 10:08 PM)MdWanderer Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 03:52 PM)WalkingMan Wrote:  I've banged more Asian women than black. Never thought I would say that, but here I am.

You might be finding your niche (we all have one). One of my white buddies can't stop throwing Latin chicks off of his cock, but has to work overtime for a white girl. He actively complains about this too; he likes Latinas for a good fuck but wants to only seriously date white girls.

Also out of all my foreign travels (I have been to over 20 countries) I have gotten the most love in the Philippines. I have banged more white girls than anything but they don't seem interested for anything more than sex.

I'm fine with all of this. I'm having fun engaging all the various Asians I've been meeting in NYC.

I wouldn't mind getting this down pat and having a conveyor belt of FOB/non-American Asian girls leading straight to my room lol.

Looking forward to visiting the PH as well. I hope I remember to ask you for some tips when I'm ready.

It's interesting how diverse as black men everybody's experiences with different types of women has been. We are by no means monolithic and this thread is a testament to that. Some dudes haven't even been with a single AA female and I can understand why. I do feel evey brotha should try to be with a black woman once in his life, she doesn't have to be from the same country as him either.

Personally I've been with two African American females but I've been with many more Afro-latinas (PR, DR, Colombia,Haitians). I guess you could say that latinas are my niche but even among latinas I've been with way more white/mestiza types than anything.

I didn't grow up around Asian women so they were never on my radar although I was drawn to Japanese culture as a teen. I got to see a few Asian countries as an adult and got some flags over there but I dont go out of my way for them now and they aren't checking for me either. To me fine is fine, if she is fine and just happens to be Asian, cool.

My easiest lays have been white and latina chicks. AA chicks like my look but I have to dumb it down and/or come at them a particular way sort of what CoverDoc was alluding too and deal with a lot of dumbass questions. I don't got time to play that game. And no I'm not just talking about hood rats, a significant amount of attractive college educated sistas STILL want a thug. And a lot of the erykah badu natural sistas that might want an intelligent brotha are overweight or on that hipster feminist-ish with pig nose rings in, bald haircuts, can't dress and tattooed from neck to ankle.

I have to give props to the confidence/balls that some brothers have.

I was talking to a girl at a bar in DC recently. About a 10 minute conversation. I was sitting down with her at a table next to the bar. Next thing I know, an older black man (mid 30's) walks by and reaches out across the table to grab the girls hands and drags her to the dance floor. They dance for a few minutes then the girls give him her number. Of course I was frustrated, but I was in awe that he had the balls to do that. There is no chance a white guy would have grabbed a girl I was talking to like that. The level of game and confidence required to do that is insane. I just assumed that the guy had a high level of game. It could have been WIA for all I know.

^It was me, bro. My bad.

(08-01-2016 01:06 AM)Iso Wrote:  I have to give props to the confidence/balls that some brothers have.

I was talking to a girl at a bar in DC recently. About a 10 minute conversation. I was sitting down with her at a table next to the bar. Next thing I know, an older black man (mid 30's) walks by and reaches out across the table to grab the girls hands and drags her to the dance floor. They dance for a few minutes then the girls give him her number. Of course I was frustrated, but I was in awe that he had the balls to do that. There is no chance a white guy would have grabbed a girl I was talking to like that. The level of game and confidence required to do that is insane. I just assumed that the guy had a high level of game. It could have been WIA for all I know.

Not the first time I've heard of that happening in the DC/Prince Georges County area.

Seeing a dude talking with a girl, and you just go up and pull her away? I guess some people would call that alpha. He keeps doing that in this area, eventually he'll get his ass beat/shot.

I'll get to the Iso situation later today, but how are you guys meeting Asian women?

We talking during your travels, online, day game, night game, social circle?

Of the five, my two strongest are night and social - by and large Thuy is nowhere to be found

WIA

(07-29-2016 09:45 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 05:57 PM)vinman Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 10:53 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Am I the only brother who has never been with a black woman before?

Wow! I encountered brothers like you in the military and it blew my mind. I was a city kid, but these brothers were from areas where they were the only black family or blacks were few and far between. It still makes me do a mental double take when I hear this

I can blow it even more... I grew up in the city in a predominant black neighborhood and still never managed to be with a black girl hahahaha.

Theres a long story behind this that will all make sense once I tell it.

Ah..... I bet we have a similar story. Once I left Chicago my number of bangs soared. When I came back my numbers among black women dropped. But they've always stayed consistent among Latinas.

(08-01-2016 07:12 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I'll get to the Iso situation later today, but how are you guys meeting Asian women?

We talking during your travels, online, day game, night game, social circle?

Of the five, my two strongest are night and social - by and large Thuy is nowhere to be found

WIA

During my single year of being a different area of the world, and currently through day gaming in NYC.

Pokemon Go should be renamed to "Pokemon Goldmine" due to the amount of decent looking Asian girls I chat with when I see them playing on it.

(08-01-2016 07:12 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I'll get to the Iso situation later today, but how are you guys meeting Asian women?

We talking during your travels, online, day game, night game, social circle?

Of the five, my two strongest are night and social - by and large Thuy is nowhere to be found

WIA

In China online game and day game (gym game) are the strongest for me. I don't speak much Chinese, so online game lets me screen out girls who don't speak English. Gym game speaks for itself. I am not that muscular but I tend to be a lot stronger than your average Chinese dude at my gym so it makes me stand out more. I get a lot of looks and even get cold approached at the gym sometimes.

Chinese American girls are a whole different ball game. On the whole, I find them to on the whole be a lot less attractive than their mainland sisters. The reason for that is they're mostly Cantonese girls. Cantonese girls are the short, thin, boyishly built chicks you see running all around NYC.

Not to mention, in NYC/NJ I find that chinese girls are super-entitled. Since I've been back I've seen a lot of these girls for what they are: 4s-5s who act like 8s. It's pretty astounding to realize this now that I've been to China.

Anyway, to get at those girls I'd run standard game, but be ready for a lot of shit testing and LMR.

I have a few rough stories involving Asian American girls so I am wary of them. In USa my main diet is nerdy/hipster white chicks. I also have some skill with girls involved in the metal/punk scene but that's quite infrequent.

You guys would be SUPER surprised how receptive girls are at metal/punk shows (if you like that sort of thing.)

I do agree with Azulombra and that I should eventually bang a black chick, but I'm really in no rush. That might change if I hit up Africa or the Carribean but I really don't care to bang black American girls at the moment. The amount of work I'm putting in to bang a black American chick seems silly when I could put in the same amount of work to bang a slightly hotter white girl or a much hotter Chinese girl.

^I met this dude a few weeks ago who has an UN affiliated organization and does business in Africa. He's also game aware and throws in jokes about cute girls every now and then. He wants me to work with him with the goal of sending me there to do business and make some cash.

I've wanted to visit for a long time and it's great that this guy bumped into me. Let's see what happens.

I think it was Traveler Kai that said the Southern Chinese chicks were darker and muscular legs, ass, and titties. But up north, they were taller, lighter skin, and skinny.

I've also read that Chengdu chicks were the most sought after.

I'm looking for a straight from China chick that could be in a Drake video. Most video vixens of Asian descent all seem to be from Cali.

(08-01-2016 08:18 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I think it was Traveler Kai that said the Southern Chinese chicks were darker and muscular legs, ass, and titties. But up north, they were taller, lighter skin, and skinny.

The North/South body differences are very similar to Thailand. Interesting.

(08-01-2016 08:18 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I think it was Traveler Kai that said the Southern Chinese chicks were darker and muscular legs, ass, and titties. But up north, they were taller, lighter skin, and skinny.

I've also read that Chengdu chicks were the most sought after.

I'm looking for a straight from China chick that could be in a Drake video. Most video vixens of Asian descent all seem to be from Cali.

Just go to Chengdu and you'll find what you need.

What you have to remember is that a place like Guangdong (cantonese land) is as big as France, so you get a lot of different looks there. Also, the Guangdong pool has been diluted since Guangdong is one of the biggest migrant destinations in China, so the look there is all over the place. Generally, southern girls are smaller than northern girls.

Now, thicker legs (in china) doesn't always correlate with bigger asses. The genetics just aren't always there.

Shandong and Chengdu come to mind when I think of curvy chicks with asses.

The problem is that so many Chinese girls try to hide their asses so you might go on a date with a chick, get her to your apartment and then realize she has an ass she's been hiding.

You may actually prefer Asian-American if you're looking for chicks who look like they're out of a drake video. That hip hop video vixen look hasn't really caught on here. Girls go to the gym to get smaller than they already are, not to hit them squats and get a bubble butt.

I have heard that Vietnamese girls have bubble butts, but I can't confirm that one for you--yet.

(08-01-2016 07:21 AM)vinman Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 09:45 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 05:57 PM)vinman Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 10:53 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Am I the only brother who has never been with a black woman before?

Wow! I encountered brothers like you in the military and it blew my mind. I was a city kid, but these brothers were from areas where they were the only black family or blacks were few and far between. It still makes me do a mental double take when I hear this

I can blow it even more... I grew up in the city in a predominant black neighborhood and still never managed to be with a black girl hahahaha.

Theres a long story behind this that will all make sense once I tell it.

Ah..... I bet we have a similar story. Once I left Chicago my number of bangs soared. When I came back my numbers among black women dropped. But they've always stayed consistent among Latinas.

Long story short:

Grew up in a black neighborhood with a strict single mom who always made schoolwork and education the biggest priority in my life. I took it to heart and ended up being seen as a nerd (and picked on heavily) just about up to high school. Due to my grades I got into a private Catholic high school on the other side of the town which was overwhelmingly white. When I started there the nerdy part subsided a bit and I started becoming interested in women and dating.... They introduced me to things they were interested in... their fashion, style, manner of talking, mannerisms... I guess I just picked everything up.

I guess overtime I became "whitewashed" according to other black people... Walking around with a white girl on the arm i noticed hate from black women and alot of "sellout" insults. This pushed me even further away from black women/culture and ive never looked back since. Went on to college with again barely any blacks but by then it was just too late.

Ended up dating a blond girl from Ukraine during my time there haha.

(08-01-2016 07:38 AM)Fortis Wrote:  I do agree with Azulombra and that I should eventually bang a black chick, but I'm really in no rush. That might change if I hit up Africa or the Carribean but I really don't care to bang black American girls at the moment. The amount of work I'm putting in to bang a black American chick seems silly when I could put in the same amount of work to bang a slightly hotter white girl or a much hotter Chinese girl.

I have the same opinion.... Meeting women takes effort either way you look at it.. and if im gonna "work" im gonna work towards a girl I prefer. I guess if I end up in the Caribbean or in a situation where theres plenty of single eligible black women around me ill give it a crack but I'm not gonna MAKE it happen.

(08-01-2016 07:12 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I'll get to the Iso situation later today, but how are you guys meeting Asian women?

We talking during your travels, online, day game, night game, social circle?

Of the five, my two strongest are night and social - by and large Thuy is nowhere to be found

WIA

I met a lot of Asian girls through school. Once I was in their circle I was able to spread my wings and recruit more girls.

Pickup style I find California to be much easier when it comes to day game and night game then the Midwest.

I've met a few girls from tinder and Okcupid here in the states.

Finally, traveling to Asian countries like the Philippines, Japan, and South Korea.

I've spent a couple of days in Korea and one day in Tokyo so most of my experience gaming in Asia comes from the Philippines.

Personally, I get along with Thai girls really well. I just 'get' them I suppose. Next would be Filipinas but I suppose every guy could put them their first or second as well

Le Sigh & lol @ the sweeping generalizations about black women. On one hand, you can clearly see the vast diverseness of the brothers, but chalk two or three similar experiences with black women as a monolithic group. Maybe its age, experience or location, but I have not met very many sisters that share strikingly similar personality characteristics and/or values.
Yes, you will get shit tested, but honestly, that's with any woman and of course it will vary depending on a myriad of factors. To me, it's just banter, and an opportunity to exude your wittiness and dominance. Some black women are strong, they have to be, if they're coffee, you have to be espresso.

(08-01-2016 12:08 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Le Sigh & lol @ the sweeping generalizations about black women. On one hand, you can clearly see the vast diverseness of the brothers, but chalk two or three similar experiences with black women as a monolithic group. Maybe its age, experience or location, but I have not met very many sisters that share strikingly similar personality characteristics and/or values.
Yes, you will get shit tested, but honestly, that's with any woman and of course it will vary depending on a myriad of factors. To me, it's just banter, and an opportunity to exude your wittiness and dominance. Some black women are strong, they have to be, if they're coffee, you have to be espresso.

I've had black women say to my face, "There aren't any good black guys" or, "They never meet any good black guys."

After I finish laughing, I ask them, "How many black guys do you actually meet?" and the answer is usually very few.

I know the guys here put more effort into meeting people than the average chick does, so I wouldn't ask that here, but I would suggest that we avoid the mindset of, "There are no good (insert race of women here)." It's one thing to have preferences; or no interest; or just lack of experience. But it seems like some brothers here have already made up their mind regarding all black women. And while that's their right, I don't think that's productive to new experiences or having options with lizards.

(08-01-2016 12:08 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Some black women are strong, they have to be, if they're coffee, you have to be espresso.

That is some shakespeare shit right there.

Your dropping fire as of late, I am watching your posts bro.

The same way some of you guys are generalizing black women, is the same way other people generalize black men.

I will go into this further on the next podcast, I think some "truths" need to be dropped.

The black girl episode, lol

WIA

Sure, some are strong, but why would I want a strong woman is really the question? I don't need my strength bolstered. I think it's unfair of you guys to pretend like me and the others have only met a few black chicks and are now pretending they're all bad. We are black men as well, after all.

This isn't to even say that I think they're all bad, but given the amount of effort I have to put into finding and smashing a quality American black chick I don't see the value in pursuing them at this stage in my life. After 3 years in China, I may be singing a different tune, but my interactions with random American black girls at home tend to be pretty annoying.

Just today I was walking through NYC and I dipped into a Duane Reade to grab a water. I walked past this black chick and my backpack must have brushed her because she turned and screamed: "don't you touch my ass again, nigga!"



It was funny as hell because that bitch was not even on my radar.

I hope I don't sound like I'm channeling my inner uncle ruckus or anything.

Black girls can be tough but that's just make victory that much sweeter.

EDIT: @Fortis: how did she look?

Typical entitled uggo who thinks a dude like me is even looking at her. I sure as fuck wasn't low-key trying to touch her ass. I literally looked away in terror when she said that. not because I was afraid of her, but because the idea of touching her ass made my balls shrink up into my chest cavity.

I don't think the point was to discount anyone's personal experiences, and my apologies if I came across that way. I know Sumanguru further emphasized that.

However, the overarching point is that, through years of experience, many have found that rarely were our individual personal experiences indicative of any one group of people. This is true with just about anything from pizza to bitches, lol.

*ETA* I once had chick get loud, yelling "don't touch me" loudly at the bar because I touched her arm to get her attention. It was during my drinking days and I don't recall what I said, but I matched her unreasonableness and raised her some. I absolutely cannot stand women like that and will not hesitate to upstage her ass no matter how unreasonable it may be. (lol, I need to work on that)