Post: #3751

My experience with Filipinas sexually is they don't have enough sexual guilt to enjoy really harsh kinkiness. Some like a little pain but when it comes to humiliation like calling her a whore while you fuck her, I don't think they really get the point.

Obviously, some snobby while girls from USA are going to subconsciously know they need to be abused for their sins, but most Filipinas are just too close to nature to want or like it.

Post: #3752

(07-20-2016 12:06 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  My experience with Filipinas sexually is they don't have enough sexual guilt to enjoy really harsh kinkiness. Some like a little pain but when it comes to humiliation like calling her a whore while you fuck her, I don't think they really get the point.

Obviously, some snobby while girls from USA are going to subconsciously know they need to be abused for their sins, but most Filipinas are just too close to nature to want or like it.

Fine with me. Not my preferred style either. This place is sounding better and better.

Post: #3753

Filipinas like rough sex and lots of sex in general if they are comfortable with you but they really don't like humiliation games. You'll find yourself with a pouty silent filipina very quickly if you overstep those bounds.

The only exception are mostly westernized filipinas.

You have to put yourself in their mindset to understand this. They know deep down they are viewed as inferior (often as maids, low rent models, and prostitutes) and the philippines is not a leader even amongst developing nations.

They may never voice this insecurity but it's definitely there despite all the pinoy pride stuff.

Post: #3754

(07-20-2016 07:54 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  Filipinas like rough sex and lots of sex in general if they are comfortable with you but they really don't like humiliation games. You'll find yourself with a pouty silent filipina very quickly if you overstep those bounds.

The only exception are mostly westernized filipinas.

You have to put yourself in their mindset to understand this. They know deep down they are viewed as inferior (often as maids, low rent models, and prostitutes) and the philippines is not a leader even amongst developing nations.

They may never voice this insecurity but it's definitely there despite all the pinoy pride stuff.

I can't "like" this enough times.

The ease of Pinoys to become "butthurt" in general is quite high.

It's probably one of the most sensitive places in Asia.

Good luck to you all who plan to call a pinay a dirty whore while you're banging her.

However true it may or may not be, you won't be treated well to remind them.

Post: #3755

It makes zero sense to humiliate the downtrodden to begin with.

This includes the middle class filipinas who don't have much status anyhow.

Why would you run humiliation sex with a woman who already has low self esteem?

This type of kink is best reserved for women who think they are special and are extraordinary.

This is the sweet spot.

The snotty wealthy princess, career women, hi-so whatever.. they like the dirty when put upon them the right way.

Post: #3756

(06-18-2016 09:32 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  How did the fat guy end up like this?

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say food,alcohol and a few divorces.

Post: #3757

I have been here several days now (2nd visit). Here's some quick observations from the ground.

-Tinder here is full of Ladyboys, hookers and time wasters both in Manila and Cebu. Other online platforms still work really well though.

-Day game is good but I have had to deal with a few girls who won't even acknowledge my presence. Shy? Boyfriends? Otherwise, finding approachable, stationary targets will be the main challenge.

-More women this time want to meet out in a bar/ party setting. I still have not had a coffee date. This is cool with me as I like bar scenes.

-There are some very hot women but you are unlikely to meet the really hot ones online. Daygame is where its at for 8s.

-At night there are a lot of hookers. They don't seem like the benign semi-pro type you meet in Bangkok who are normal girls by day. These girls seem like hardcore prostitutes who have lost the sparkle in their eyes. Sad.

-Being older can actually help you here. My age is set lower this year than last and it seems to have made things slightly harder.

-I have seen semi-stylish old western guys with 30 somethings and the 30 somethings seemed happy. The same can't be said for the girlfriends of all the old western slobs you see around.

-I am aware there are some scammers etc, but overall the women here are sweet and strait forward. If you were looking for a wife though, I would establish early on that you will not support the extended family.

-You still need a little game here and you need to put in approaches and online openers. I can see why certain guys come here and are disappointed, you will not hook up just by showing up.

Post: #3758

Does anyone know if the onward ticket rule is strictly followed? Does the onward ticket have to be within 30 days after your arrival? I'll be coming from the US (30 day visa exempt in the phils), I'd like to buy a round trip ticket with a three month stay, with flights out to other SEA countries in between. I'm just trying to determine if I will run into any issues.

Post: #3759

^ They'll almost certainly ask you about it but it's a gamble if they'll ask to see it. It needs to be within your allowed length of stay.

Post: #3760

My last trip here, I bought a one-way ticket and was never questioned. Maybe I just got lucky?

Post: #3761

(07-28-2016 05:30 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  Does anyone know if the onward ticket rule is strictly followed? Does the onward ticket have to be within 30 days after your arrival? I'll be coming from the US (30 day visa exempt in the phils), I'd like to buy a round trip ticket with a three month stay, with flights out to other SEA countries in between. I'm just trying to determine if I will run into any issues.

Really just book a ticket with Orbitz a couple hours before your flight then call and cancel when you're on the ground. Took me around 20 minutes last time.

I've flown in quite a few times and every time I was asked to show an actual ticket.

Post: #3762

I'm in Manila, and my life here just got a hell of a lot harder in the past week. I fucked 20 girls in 3 weeks, and in the past week I only got two lays and am struggling to even set up a date. Like literally 1 in 30 or so numbers to get a meetup.

Anyone know what's up? Does the country get harder in August?

PS: Where the hell do I get Viagra here?

Post: #3763

(07-29-2016 06:01 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  I'm in Manila, and my life here just got a hell of a lot harder in the past week. I fucked 20 girls in 3 weeks, and in the past week I only got two lays and am struggling to even set up a date. Like literally 1 in 30 or so numbers to get a meetup.

Anyone know what's up? Does the country get harder in August?

PS: Where the hell do I get Viagra here?

There are only so many FC / DIA sluts out there. Once you exhaust through the crust, you'll have to work your game up on any decent looking girl on Tinder / OKC.

I've noticed my tinder matches are much less then they were a couple a months ago.

It's not layups if your trying to bang anything quality off online minus the FC money grabbers.

Post: #3764

(07-29-2016 07:12 AM)Putin Closes Wrote:  There are only so many FC / DIA sluts out there. Once you exhaust through the crust, you'll have to work your game up on any decent looking girl on Tinder / OKC.

I just did Tinder. Maybe I already waded through all the hardcore sluts there. Will try FilCupid and DateinAsia. If you get 20 off each until the well runs out, fucking awesome.

Post: #3765

(07-29-2016 07:22 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 07:12 AM)Putin Closes Wrote:  There are only so many FC / DIA sluts out there. Once you exhaust through the crust, you'll have to work your game up on any decent looking girl on Tinder / OKC.

I just did Tinder. Maybe I already waded through all the hardcore sluts there. Will try FilCupid and DateinAsia. If you get 20 off each until the well runs out, fucking awesome.

90% of the girls I've met off the dating sites have been 6s at best. It's best from my experience to go through social circles, but you should provide food, drinks etc. Most of the girls are usually looking for handouts. Hope I don't get banned for mentioning this, as I've never been with a pro nor do I advocate that, but this is just how things roll in Asia. I've also noticed a decrease in available girls in the year I've been here, as well as the quality, and the amount of foreigners with cars. Saw an early 30s white guy a few days ago in a black Ferrari and a girl I'd call a 10. Seems like everyone's trying to step up their game.

Post: #3766

You have to see opportunity where others see problems. Haven't been in Manila long, and I was having trouble finding guys to go clubbing with. The trannies on Tinder are desperate, and many of them are really hot and tall and you can't tell they are guys unless they speak.

So every time I go to a club, I take a tranny with me off Tinder. Usually the tranny will be one of the hottest "girls" in the club, and other people genuinely can't tell. While I'm getting drunk, I build preselection with the tranny, and use him to get into the right mood. Then I find some lone guy and make friends with him, dumping the tranny like an hour in. Then the guy becomes my home base and I start clubbing as usual.

PS - I fucking love the nightlife here. Guys inviting you to their tables, girls grabbing your cock as you walk through the dancefloor. I feel like a superstar here.

Post: #3767

(07-29-2016 03:30 AM)erikak Wrote:  My last trip here, I bought a one-way ticket and was never questioned. Maybe I just got lucky?

Same here. I completely forgot to buy a leaving ticket for my current visit and was never questioned either. They may have changed the rules.

Post: #3768

(07-30-2016 07:08 AM)dies irae Wrote:  

(07-29-2016 03:30 AM)erikak Wrote:  My last trip here, I bought a one-way ticket and was never questioned. Maybe I just got lucky?

Same here. I completely forgot to buy a leaving ticket for my current visit and was never questioned either. They may have changed the rules.

The rule hasn't changed. Just because they don't ask, doesn't mean they changed the rule.

Quote:Philippine Bureau of Immigration that pursuant to Section 29(a)(17) of the Philippine Immigration Act of 1940, as amended, foreign nationals arriving to the Philippines who are admissible under Section 9(a) (temporary visitor’s visa) or under Executive Order 408 with the exception of Balikbayans, but do not have valid return or onward tickets, shall be automatically excluded or will not be allowed entry into the country.

Furthermore, the airline company which allowed the boarding of an excluded passenger shall be subjected to administrative fines pursuant to Section 44© of the Philippine Immigration Act.

If you do get stopped, the worst that will probably happen, is making you buy a onward ticket on the spot.

Philippines Consulate Scandanavia

Philippines Immigration Act 1940

Philippines Consulate Los Angeles

Department of Foreign Affairs

Quote:Guidelines on the Entry of Temporary
Visitors to the Philippines
Nationals from countries listed below who are traveling to the Philippines for business and
tourism purposes are allowed to enter the Philippines without visas for a stay not exceeding
thirty (30) days, provided they hold valid tickets for their return journey to port of origin or next
port of destination and their passports valid for a period of at least six (6) months beyond the
contemplated period of stay.

Post: #3769

(07-30-2016 04:35 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  You have to see opportunity where others see problems. Haven't been in Manila long, and I was having trouble finding guys to go clubbing with. The trannies on Tinder are desperate, and many of them are really hot and tall and you can't tell they are guys unless they speak.

So every time I go to a club, I take a tranny with me off Tinder. Usually the tranny will be one of the hottest "girls" in the club, and other people genuinely can't tell. While I'm getting drunk, I build preselection with the tranny, and use him to get into the right mood. Then I find some lone guy and make friends with him, dumping the tranny like an hour in. Then the guy becomes my home base and I start clubbing as usual.

PS - I fucking love the nightlife here. Guys inviting you to their tables, girls grabbing your cock as you walk through the dancefloor. I feel like a superstar here.

lol how many times have you done this? They didn't throw a fit or anything? I wouldn't be so mean. I'd at least pay them for their time. Interesting idea though.

Post: #3770

(07-30-2016 04:35 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  You have to see opportunity where others see problems. Haven't been in Manila long, and I was having trouble finding guys to go clubbing with. The trannies on Tinder are desperate, and many of them are really hot and tall and you can't tell they are guys unless they speak.

So every time I go to a club, I take a tranny with me off Tinder. Usually the tranny will be one of the hottest "girls" in the club, and other people genuinely can't tell. While I'm getting drunk, I build preselection with the tranny, and use him to get into the right mood. Then I find some lone guy and make friends with him, dumping the tranny like an hour in. Then the guy becomes my home base and I start clubbing as usual.

PS - I fucking love the nightlife here. Guys inviting you to their tables, girls grabbing your cock as you walk through the dancefloor. I feel like a superstar here.

Other guys in the club don't notice you're with a tranny?

Maybe if it's a club full of western tourists and hard up expats and you're bringing the "hot" tranny date.


Otherwise you're high if you think regular filipinos don't notice this. A lot are just too polite to say anything or don't give a fuck what you're into.

Just about every SEA male I know has an innate sense about ladyboys. It's honed from growing up with these freakshows.

Post: #3771

(07-31-2016 11:13 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(07-30-2016 04:35 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  You have to see opportunity where others see problems. Haven't been in Manila long, and I was having trouble finding guys to go clubbing with. The trannies on Tinder are desperate, and many of them are really hot and tall and you can't tell they are guys unless they speak.

So every time I go to a club, I take a tranny with me off Tinder. Usually the tranny will be one of the hottest "girls" in the club, and other people genuinely can't tell. While I'm getting drunk, I build preselection with the tranny, and use him to get into the right mood. Then I find some lone guy and make friends with him, dumping the tranny like an hour in. Then the guy becomes my home base and I start clubbing as usual.

PS - I fucking love the nightlife here. Guys inviting you to their tables, girls grabbing your cock as you walk through the dancefloor. I feel like a superstar here.

Other guys in the club don't notice you're with a tranny?

Maybe if it's a club full of western tourists and hard up expats and you're bringing the "hot" tranny date.


Otherwise you're high if you think regular filipinos don't notice this. A lot are just too polite to say anything or don't give a fuck what you're into.

Just about every SEA male I know has an innate sense about ladyboys. It's honed from growing up with these freakshows.

Sure there are people who notice, but who cares? It certainly hasn't cockblocked me.

Post: #3772

(07-31-2016 12:04 PM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  

(07-31-2016 11:13 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(07-30-2016 04:35 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  You have to see opportunity where others see problems. Haven't been in Manila long, and I was having trouble finding guys to go clubbing with. The trannies on Tinder are desperate, and many of them are really hot and tall and you can't tell they are guys unless they speak.

So every time I go to a club, I take a tranny with me off Tinder. Usually the tranny will be one of the hottest "girls" in the club, and other people genuinely can't tell. While I'm getting drunk, I build preselection with the tranny, and use him to get into the right mood. Then I find some lone guy and make friends with him, dumping the tranny like an hour in. Then the guy becomes my home base and I start clubbing as usual.

PS - I fucking love the nightlife here. Guys inviting you to their tables, girls grabbing your cock as you walk through the dancefloor. I feel like a superstar here.

Other guys in the club don't notice you're with a tranny?

Maybe if it's a club full of western tourists and hard up expats and you're bringing the "hot" tranny date.


Otherwise you're high if you think regular filipinos don't notice this. A lot are just too polite to say anything or don't give a fuck what you're into.

Just about every SEA male I know has an innate sense about ladyboys. It's honed from growing up with these freakshows.

Sure there are people who notice, but who cares? It certainly hasn't cockblocked me.

Yeah ok.

Post: #3773

Some observations about many Filipinas I have been around. This should be nothing new to veterans.

1- Acts of Kindness by foreigners are looked at as a weakness.
Giving a girl money to buy a bag of rice to help feed her family sounds like a kind gesture. Unfortunately, most Filipinas will look at the guy like a fool for doing this. I have heard Filipinas call foreigners foolish for being kind. Giving $10-20 for food is nothing to a foreigner. Maybe it is a lot to a Filipina.

2- While kicking it online with a Filipina and preparing to meet her face to face, she will completely disappear. All calls and messages to her are ignored. Chalk this up to her juggling multiple men.

3- While in the Philippines, many girls will disappear when you have a date already set up.

4- Filipinas are notorious for being late to everything. I once set up a date at Mall of Asia for 2 PM. The girl did not show up until exactly 3 PM. She didn't apologize or acknowledge that she was late. I didn't have a plan B or I would've bailed. Lesson learned.

5- Barrio boys
Anyone who has spent considerable time there has seen or bumped into them. They loiter on the streets(especially in the provinces), eyeball you and your girl as you walk pass them and are generally lazy. These guys have no money, no education and no hope. If they are employed, it is as a gopher making about 200 pesos a day.

These guys don't make a lot of money but you better believe that they are fucking a lot of girls. These guys do have some good qualities like their machismo and aggressiveness towards getting pussy. I have known a lot of girls that got pumped and dumped by these guys. In other words, they lost their virginity to a low seeded dude. Even college educated Filipinas will still have a barrio boy as her bf.

I highly suspect that many of the girls that we chat with online or meet in person are the sloppy leftovers of these guys. If you meet a single mother, there is a good chance that the child's father is a barrio boy.

6- The Philippines is as close to Poon paradise as you can get. Filipinas love to have sex. There is a term that I heard Filipinas use called "sport fucking". This means that they have sex with guys they have no feelings for just because there is nothing else to do.
With that being said, why should a foreigner pay for things that the local guys get for free?
See item #5.

7- I would not consider a serious relationship with a Filipina unless she was a virgin. If she is not a virgin, you MUST be aggressive and get the pussy on the first night you meet. No excuses. No chaperones.
See item #5.

Post: #3774

BigTony,

I'd say your post is accurate especially regarding 'barrio boys'. They are getting laid just as much as any foreigner if not more, and their leftovers are what we get. An under 30 Filipino with a modest income of say 60,000 pesos and a car is like a fucking king here and could score so much pussy you wouldn't believe.

Re: guy with tranny:
Lol? While it's an interesting strat, every girl I've been with has pointed out ladyboys I didn't spot. Filipinas can spot them a mile away and it's kind of embarassing being seen with one.

Post: #3775

@ Big T

I agree with most of your statements. Especially about not getting into an LTR with one. I just made that mistake and things didn't end to well. Acts of kindness. I have to disagree with you on this one. On my last trip to Cebu. I had a pile of peso coins on my kitchen table. Before Imy girl left for the evening. I grabbed the pile of coins and put them into her purse for her. She started to cry and when I asked her why. She said she was embarrassed. It was only about 175 peso.

About them disappearing on you. Yes, I have had the same thing happen many times. But, remember some of these girls go home on the weekends to visit family.

Also, sometimes we all have different experiences with the women on our trips. I have been to the phils on two occasions for a total of 6 weeks. People always talk about how horny they are and about the sex being great. Those were not my observations at all on my trips. Just the opposite.