I was running out of people to swipe so I decided to reset my account. Maybe I shouldn't have because now I haven't gotten a single match and i've been swiping every day for a week. Before resetting, I was getting a few matches a day. This is getting really frustrating.

Just read this on a girls bio.

"My gag reflex is as absent as my father figure"

(05-19-2016 02:03 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Have any of you been solicited by hookers on Tinder? Happened to me recently. I matched with a really hot 8.5 mid twenties blonde. The profile seemed real- not the typical bot pics and copy. After an opening exchange she said that she was visiting for the weekend nearby, mentioning a local nightclub, and said her company was available for compensation. I didn't respond and she unmatched me within a few hours. Pretty sure she was real.

Another data point. About three years ago I met a chick through a dating site and we got together for a drink. Although she was quite bangable, she gave off strong crazy/BPD vibes and I didn't go for a second meeting. But she has continued to text me occasionally, sometimes to regale me with stories of her latest boyfriend or local gossip, or her claim to be sugarbaby for a local businessman, or to send me nudes and descriptions and pics of her masturbation sessions.

I had not heard from her for months until recently. She texted to say she had lost her job (again), and did I want to meet up because she is now "hustling men for money." I asked her what she meant and she made plain she is now in the sexual entertainment business. I gave her a flat no thanks but she kept texting me to brag about all the easy money she is making, including a pic of her with a wad of $100 bills. I asked how she was meeting her customers and to my surprise she said she meets them all through Tinder. She just swipes on a lot of guys and at some point in the conversation asks if they want to be her sugardaddy. If they say yes she proposes a quid pro quo.

I have also noticed a fair number of under 25 girls with profiles saying that they are open to meeting a sugardaddy. Seems like a good opportunity to play SA game on Tinder.

I haven't seen this in Australia but during trips to Asia, particularly China and the Philippines, I have been hit up by prostitutes on Tinder.
Even before they ask for money it's a pretty dead giveaway when all their pics are touched up ones of them in suggestive poses and sexy clothing.

In the Philippines a lot of them are just normal girls, usually claiming to be studying, who are hooking on the side to pay the bills.

My normal banter game is way too passive for the girls I pull off tinder.

It is really upsetting because I want to go faster but I don't know how.

(05-31-2016 08:24 PM)Poker Wrote:  Just read this on a girls bio.

"My gag reflex is as absent as my father figure"

I just matched with a chick with the exact same bio. Is this a bot or some new inside joke?

It sounds like a rvfer fucking with the guys out there haha

(06-02-2016 08:30 PM)AFC Wrote:  

(05-31-2016 08:24 PM)Poker Wrote:  Just read this on a girls bio.

"My gag reflex is as absent as my father figure"

I just matched with a chick with the exact same bio. Is this a bot or some new inside joke?

I want to believe it's just a joke limited to a few girls and not a widespread thing symbolising the mentality of the majority, I really do.

I have had Tinder for almost a year now and I've met about 130 girls off of the app so far. It's literally too easy and it kills my motivation to go approach girls for numbers. I used to have about 1200 matches but then I moved to another city about an hour and a half away so I created a new account and have been getting contact info and then unmatching. Also putting yourself in non-discoverable mode is good so you can better manage the stream of matches. Total current matches on my Tinder account: 22.

Bottom line is that I've met a TON of girls of Tinder in a short period of time and the lesson I've learned is that I have met some girls that could be dateable and some girls have deleted Tinder because of me but they can always go right back to it so I have decided to game more and use Tinder as more of a supplement because a lot of the girls you approach will not have Tinder and you will instantly shoot up to the top of their list.

How not to play Don't Fuck Up Game on Tinder:





Shit. Did I reply the right way here?

(06-07-2016 10:55 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  How not to play Don't Fuck Up Game on Tinder:





Shit. Did I reply the right way here?

This is what I would've said.

First girl: "yeah, i need more bodies for my hollywood cult"
or: "i want 15. you look like a decent candidate"
or: "yeah, but you're raising them. i'll be in malibu sipping margaritas"

Second girl: "don't project your insecurities on me bully"
or: "don't be mad he broke up with you its ok"
or: "im a level 60 pusscake verified by my mom. fuck with me weaksauce"

Then spin it however the conversation goes. Don't try to have meaningful, logical conversations with girls on tinder. Say a bunch of crazy shit that entertains you to spur her interest and then get her number.

Also for the second girl, don't agree with her insult. Throw it back into her face. With her you agreed, but didn't amplify enough so there was no reaction. Don't hold out on these goofy hoes. Go for the kill.

If you're playing cocky/funny game, prepare for woman to act cunty hidden behind their screens.

(05-31-2016 12:23 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Man I cant get shit recently, anyone have experience with very small towns?

Yes, I live in a small town, I'm older, and to top it off there are very few good looking women 27+ here. The competition for them is insane. Tinder is OK for 6 and 7s.

I don't think I've ever hooked up with someone higher than that on Tinder. Even then they all thought they were hot shit. So amusing. I wonder how many men do them like I did until they finally figure out they are trying to hook a guy way above their pay grade.

Tinder is fast turning into a dumping ground a la OkCupid for SIF's. As Easy Mode said above, the competition is insane for women across the board, and they have an inflated sense of self-worth with countless men swiping right. At this point, I've uninstalled the app and am just going to find a girl via social circle game. Tinder, especially in smaller areas, is just an attention whoring device with lots of bots now.

Mr. Kane is right. Even in the last 9 months, big drop off right now

It might not mean anything, but I will say that bumble has better looking girls across the board, but still a dating app and social circle is the way to go

(06-07-2016 12:16 PM)Cronus Wrote:  Then spin it however the conversation goes. Don't try to have meaningful, logical conversations with girls on tinder. Say a bunch of crazy shit that entertains you to spur her interest and then get her number.

Also for the second girl, don't agree with her insult. Throw it back into her face. With her you agreed, but didn't amplify enough so there was no reaction. Don't hold out on these goofy hoes. Go for the kill.

Cronus, I'm trying to amp my Tinder style towards the emotional and illogical. Here's an example of my Tinder game:










I don't think there is enough of the comedian element to it. With someone younger (she's 29), I can see it switching them off.

Not sure what I was expecting, but I've been on Tinder for two days and the only matches I have are bots. In general I am very bad with women but I've followed the forum's instructions on how to create a profile (although I think my profile is more appropriate for OKC than Tinder, judging on the stuff girls say in their profiles).

I'm short but not ugly, my entire life people have said I look just like Michael J. Fox, even had an older lady open me at the mall to say it about a week ago. Although I think his look was better in the 80s than it is today.

I'm shaving eight years off my age and am still a bit old for the college town perhaps, but I may have made a mistake by using a teaching picture as even though lots of girls have teacher fantasies, actively choosing to date someone they think might be a professor at their school is something different entirely. They aren't hooked to random professors they aren't learning from and would be worried about that.

Anybody have a sense of how many of the girls you see on Tinder are active? I assume a lot of them still have the app and just never check anything, but you don't know this like on OKC?

I'm moving back to Los Angeles in a week and tried in a three-mile radius around a relatively poor and heavily Latina area where I'll be staying with a friend until I find my own place. I pulled a couple of matches there but I've swiped lots, and the two matches I got are probably the two least attractive chicks I swiped. So it may just be that Tinder is a harsh reminder of my SMV.

(06-08-2016 11:18 PM)egionesco Wrote:  Not sure what I was expecting, but I've been on Tinder for two days and the only matches I have are bots. In general I am very bad with women but I've followed the forum's instructions on how to create a profile (although I think my profile is more appropriate for OKC than Tinder, judging on the stuff girls say in their profiles).

I'm short but not ugly, my entire life people have said I look just like Michael J. Fox, even had an older lady open me at the mall to say it about a week ago. Although I think his look was better in the 80s than it is today.

I'm shaving eight years off my age and am still a bit old for the college town perhaps, but I may have made a mistake by using a teaching picture as even though lots of girls have teacher fantasies, actively choosing to date someone they think might be a professor at their school is something different entirely. They aren't hooked to random professors they aren't learning from and would be worried about that.

Anybody have a sense of how many of the girls you see on Tinder are active? I assume a lot of them still have the app and just never check anything, but you don't know this like on OKC?

I'm moving back to Los Angeles in a week and tried in a three-mile radius around a relatively poor and heavily Latina area where I'll be staying with a friend until I find my own place. I pulled a couple of matches there but I've swiped lots, and the two matches I got are probably the two least attractive chicks I swiped. So it may just be that Tinder is a harsh reminder of my SMV.

Do you like every girl? Just mass swipe right.Thats the best method.

(06-08-2016 11:19 PM)Gpx90210 Wrote:  

(06-08-2016 11:18 PM)egionesco Wrote:  Not sure what I was expecting, but I've been on Tinder for two days and the only matches I have are bots. In general I am very bad with women but I've followed the forum's instructions on how to create a profile (although I think my profile is more appropriate for OKC than Tinder, judging on the stuff girls say in their profiles).

I'm short but not ugly, my entire life people have said I look just like Michael J. Fox, even had an older lady open me at the mall to say it about a week ago. Although I think his look was better in the 80s than it is today.

I'm shaving eight years off my age and am still a bit old for the college town perhaps, but I may have made a mistake by using a teaching picture as even though lots of girls have teacher fantasies, actively choosing to date someone they think might be a professor at their school is something different entirely. They aren't hooked to random professors they aren't learning from and would be worried about that.

Anybody have a sense of how many of the girls you see on Tinder are active? I assume a lot of them still have the app and just never check anything, but you don't know this like on OKC?

I'm moving back to Los Angeles in a week and tried in a three-mile radius around a relatively poor and heavily Latina area where I'll be staying with a friend until I find my own place. I pulled a couple of matches there but I've swiped lots, and the two matches I got are probably the two least attractive chicks I swiped. So it may just be that Tinder is a harsh reminder of my SMV.

Do you like every girl? Just mass swipe right.Thats the best method.

For what? For getting good at tinder messaging game? Because I'd rather watch nature videos about whales than bang them.

I have been fairly liberal with my swiping and have swiped yes on a fair number of them that I probably wouldn't be interested in. But there is a huge number of monstrosities.

Anyone see the new update to tinder today? Pretty good one for us travel. We can now hide our distance from other users. Not sure if it works on passport yet but that would be great for pipelining.

(06-08-2016 11:31 PM)egionesco Wrote:  

(06-08-2016 11:19 PM)Gpx90210 Wrote:  

(06-08-2016 11:18 PM)egionesco Wrote:  Not sure what I was expecting, but I've been on Tinder for two days and the only matches I have are bots. In general I am very bad with women but I've followed the forum's instructions on how to create a profile (although I think my profile is more appropriate for OKC than Tinder, judging on the stuff girls say in their profiles).

I'm short but not ugly, my entire life people have said I look just like Michael J. Fox, even had an older lady open me at the mall to say it about a week ago. Although I think his look was better in the 80s than it is today.

I'm shaving eight years off my age and am still a bit old for the college town perhaps, but I may have made a mistake by using a teaching picture as even though lots of girls have teacher fantasies, actively choosing to date someone they think might be a professor at their school is something different entirely. They aren't hooked to random professors they aren't learning from and would be worried about that.

Anybody have a sense of how many of the girls you see on Tinder are active? I assume a lot of them still have the app and just never check anything, but you don't know this like on OKC?

I'm moving back to Los Angeles in a week and tried in a three-mile radius around a relatively poor and heavily Latina area where I'll be staying with a friend until I find my own place. I pulled a couple of matches there but I've swiped lots, and the two matches I got are probably the two least attractive chicks I swiped. So it may just be that Tinder is a harsh reminder of my SMV.

Do you like every girl? Just mass swipe right.Thats the best method.

For what? For getting good at tinder messaging game? Because I'd rather watch nature videos about whales than bang them.

I have been fairly liberal with my swiping and have swiped yes on a fair number of them that I probably wouldn't be interested in. But there is a huge number of monstrosities.

Got Tinder Plus, set it to Bangkok and hid my distance, right-swiped a bunch of girls and don't have any matches yet. I feel like a solipsist in some kind of sick Ashley Madisonesque joke (of my own creation).

I think it's probably a software issue, for whatever reason I must not be showing up in their stacks. At least my ego would like to think so.

Will try a new method of restarting my Tinder and updating my profile and just letting it sit for a week without any swiping.

Then get back on it and swipe right on most of them and see what difference if any it makes. I paid for Tinder plus so I can unswipe the semi cute lagoon creatures if I find out that they didn't match with me.

Will report back in here in a week.

I've been doing this Tinder thing for a while now and here is a diagram I spent like 2 hours creating.



Here's an article I wrote on getting matches that don't flake also:

How to get Tinder matches that don’t flake

One day I got bored and started going through men on Tinder out of curiosity. What I found was hilarious:

Most guys just slap a bunch of pictures:

hanging out with friends at bars and clubs
with a previous girlfriend
going kayaking or some other adventurous activity

Listen, if you’re going online to find a skydiving buddy, that’s great. You can go make friends, while I get to bang all the girls. One particular girl I had hooked up with in NYC told me, after we had sex, that she had three other guys come over before me during that same week and neither of them got to fuck her. One of these guys, in particular, chilled on her sofa 5 feet away from her discussing life and smoking marijuana. As she was kicking him out an hour later out of boredom, he finally got the courage to tell her he wanted sex. Too late buddy! Kay Bye

Here is a text I have from her where she point-blank tells me why she fucked me over all the other guys:

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The Categories in Women’s Heads

Here are the cold hard facts:

Women have categories in their heads.

The impression you make in the first few seconds lands you in one of those categories.

Here are a few examples of categories:

Stranger
Mailman
Platonic friend
The sex guy
Friend with benefits
Boyfriend material
Adventurous activity partner
Rich guy / provider

Which one do you want her to categorize you as if you want to sleep with her quickly?

Answer: The sex guy

There is no other guy in the above list that gets laid more than the sex guy.

That brings us to……………………

How to be placed into the sex category:

The girls you are targeting are attracted to your:

• bold dominant sexualized profile pics
• dominant and sexual profile description (tinder bio)
  

Technique I: Use highly sexual and revealing pictures

You need to take sexually provocative pics. This means pics with your chest and stomach showing (you can go further and take an entirely nude pic with your crotch blacked out). You can experiment with this on a scale of 1 to 10. But in general the more upfront with your sexual intentions you are, the more girls you’re going to attract who are explicitly sexually interested in you.

The reasons for such an aggressive high risk strategy:

Girls like to play games, especially when it comes to online dating. They will give you fake interest, lead you on, make you think that they actually like you. Why do they do this? Validation.

You basically want to filter out any girls who are not interested or who merely have slight interest but want to play long, drawn out courtship games (sex after third date, buy me a drink first, etc). Admittedly, you will repel a large amount of girls who are using tinder to seek male validation and will save yourself from the pains of having to deal with prudish women.

By putting yourself out there unapologetically and dominantly with provocative photos, you are essentially only going to be matched with the girls who are really down to fuck (DTF). 100% DTF, no questions asked.

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Here’s a pic I took after many, many iterations and tens of different positions. My first pose looked goofy. My second one looked a little better, until eventually I had this. All it takes is one really good pic like this one to 100x your results, so make sure to spend a huge amount of time perfecting your pics.



Technique II: Use sexual imagery and visualization in your profile bio

What has 50 Shades of Grey taught us?

Women get extremely aroused by anticipation leading up to sex. You don’t have to do much research into romance novels to figure this out. Go read an excerpt from Nancy Friday’s “My Secret Garden” and you will find some of the most perverted, depraved imagery, some even alluding to a feeling of wanting to be possessed. Now, you don’t have to take it that far and assume that every female has a rape fantasy. What you need to understand is that the female mind responds to dominance, aggression, and a sense of being “taken” and corrupted.

Here is a quote some girl wrote on whisper.sh, a site where people convey their deepest desires and thoughts:

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This picture is worth a thousand words and let’s you understand the female mind better than anything I could type up.

Your Tinder Bio:

The bio, or profile description, in Tinder is an amazing tool that almost all men fail to use properly—for the purposes of hooking up, I mean.

Most guys write some silly entertaining jokes or philosophical quotes. A lot of them use funny emoji. All of these things communicate to a woman that you are supplicating (seeking validation) and trying to entertain her. You’re not a dancing monkey, you’re a sexual being. So, let’s create a profile that conveys that, and thereby puts you into the sex category.

3 STEPS TO A SEXUAL BIO

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Command her to visualize using suspenseful dialogue:

“Picture this…”
“Imagine this…”
“A tall dark stranger knocks at your door…”
“How I plan to ravish you: ”

Prepare her for the fact that you’re about to briefly tell her a story about how you guys hooked up before it actually happens.

Foreshadowing:
Bring your innermost dirty thoughts about women and what you want to do to them to the front of your mind and let it all out.

Use dominant action oriented language. Ex: I pin you against the wall and XYZ you until you scream with pleasure.

Describe how she responds to your advances in a positive way. Ex: As my tongue swirls up and down your body, you feel XYZ.

Use a disqualification statement at the end to weed out time-wasters:
Ex: Don’t bother matching with me if you can’t handle it.

With the above framework of revealing pics and a sexual bio, you should be getting hyper responsive girls who are virtually guaranteed not to flake.

Comment below and tell me how this advice helped you! I’d love to hear back from you guys

(06-09-2016 08:34 PM)affliktion Wrote:  <picture is on my blog Hookups on Autopilot, but I don't wanna spam so I will refrain from linking unless people ask me>

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Damn bro, your marketing is on point. You should apply to RSD I hear they're always hiring talented individuals. I'd send you a free how-to guide, but I don't want to spam so I will refrain from linking unless you ask me.

very funny young grasshopper

The theoretics are there, affliktion, sounds good

What kind of match rate do you get and do you swipe right on all? Then filter?