I spent the afternoon with a girl from Tinder today.

Chubby boobs, WB.

Picked her up at her job, went to the supermarket to get some food, fired up the grill, cooked some steaks.

I had a pleasant time.

But then I realized it would have been as good for me if I had done it by myself. She contributed NOTHING to the evening.

And this chick wonder why they cant keep a mans interest.

For a while there it felt like wasted time to me, but then I realized that theres nothing that I could gain from girls like this one. So, I lost nothing.

Holly Christ just realized my last notch was 5 months ago. I haven't been gaming ever since. Had a very stressful time. Haven't been focusing on girls nor this forum which is very bad. I need to get back. I love this place. Also need to get a job and I'll be good to go. April is coming up and it is getting warmer here. Great time to go out.

^ Im assuming that you meant "new" notch. 5 months without a bang makes a man go mad.

(03-24-2016 01:32 AM)kaotic Wrote:  OTSC that girl just rubs me the wrong way with just that one line.

At least you didn't pay her tab - which is where I think you lost her. She agreed to going with you - assuming you were going to pay the bill but split it.

Some bitches that rubs them the wrong way.

I also would've told her to just get into my car, make her think as less as possible.

Your retort went on the defensive, that was definitely a shit test, the response failed it.

"You assume alot"

-Only what I observe
-Nah, not really.
-And what's that ? (calling her on it)
-Better than too little (smirk)

Those are a few off the top of my head.

Sounds like a next, I guess you can follow up on her.


If a woman ever is passive aggressive with me, and tries talking shit.

I immediately call that out and slap that shit down. I don't have the time or patience to put up with it.

Shit tests...ignore, pivot and redirect to my agenda. That's been my mo lately and has been very effective lately

(03-26-2016 01:21 AM)Ensam Wrote:  Pull up to my local spot, sit down at the bar. Chick, legit blonde 9, comes back from the bathroom and sits down next to me. She's there with a dude so I chill and shoot the shit with the bartender. Chick gives me an opinion opener, I respond, pretty soon she's touching my arm, then my leg. Tells me the dude she's with is a guy she knows from high school, so I figure, shit it's on. I drop some bait, evening is wrapping up, she starts telling me where she works, says I should stop by sometime. I say, hey, you should just give me your number. She goes, I don't usually give out my number. I say, do I seem like a usual guy? She demurs and I ask if she's just flirting with guys to drum up business for her bar. She denies it but keeps telling me I should come in and check it out.

A few thoughts:
a) She really is just trying to get more regulars are her bar
b) She didn't want to seem slutty in from of the guy, I might get further if I go game her at her bar
c) I should have asked her more about herself, been more interested in her in general. Most girls haven't met a guy like me, when I tell them about what I do and who I am they usually get interested but I always forget to ask them about themselves and make them feel like I actually give a shit about who they are.
d) She's got a guy and is trying to line up the B-team.

The bar is one I've been meaning to check out so I might pop in on a night when I've got nothing else going on and see what's up.

[This is all just very frustrating because I feel like I'm so close to making a major breakthrough and slaying it with 8s and 9s on the reg. but I'm not quite there yet]

If there was that much kino going on and you seemed to be vibing but she wouldn't give up the digits then she was wasting your time.

This isn't "back in the day" where Sally tells Johnny "Hey I'll see you at the town fair Friday night" and they meet up by the cotton candy stand then drive up to makeout point to get busy in the back of Johnny's dad's '58 packard.

If she gave a shit about seeing you again then she would have given you her number.

If the night was coming to an end and she said she wasn't giving you the digits then you say "Too bad. Nice chatting with ya Sally."

You think you are going to game a "9" while she is working at at her bar? She was likely just trying to get clients.

Pardon the typos, I was a little drunk when I wrote that.

In the clear light of day, yes of course she was just wasting my time. I think she also might have been bored with her high school friend and just looking for entertainment. What really bums me out is I chose to spend time with her instead of a 7 I know from around town who was having a going away party I should have nexted her as soon as she didn't hand out the digits and gone back to gaming the 7.

What's the current consensus on posting pics of girls? The hottest girl I ever banged just got pregnant (not mine), and to commiserate, I want to boast to the guys.

Now, this isn't actually a private pic. As it happens, she's a suicide girl, so her work is in the public domain. Something from that catalogue should be fair game?

Fourth date with the Korean Friday - still no bang - yet she does capture my interest and not for just the Asian goal I have.

Shot some pool drank a few beers, then bounced.

She's leaving for Korea for 2 weeks - doesn't phase me - she has to come over next time otherwise adios.

I just don't have the patience anymore to wait this long just to fuck a girl - then again it does show her qualities. Fucking Catch 22.

And old girl I flirted with showed up as my buddies new GF - honestly - I was like fuck I wish I would've known game and banged her.

A guess what my boy is - a jacked bad boy whose succesful - stoked for him.


I reconnected with a few of my texts last week sent them a funny meme of how easter eggs are made - got a few back that were pretty funny.

Lining up dates next week.

Maybe I'm hitting a serious fatigue phase because I really could give a shit less they flake, matter of fact, I was hoping one would flake last week.

(03-28-2016 01:31 AM)kaotic Wrote:  Maybe I'm hitting a serious fatigue phase because I really could give a shit less they flake, matter of fact, I was hoping one would flake last week.

That will happen more often. The idea of going out and having to play the game with another broad will seem more cumbersome than it's worth.

Some will tell you take a break from the game for a bit to get the buzz back. Others will say you have reached a personal point of diminishing returns (at least for quality).

A sign it may be time to seek out more personal self improvement, or seek out better quality.

I for one have been going into monk mode a bit. I don't hit up girls on dating apps and only respond to maybe 25%-50% of the girls that cold message me. I don't bother chatting up girls when I'm out an about unless they approach or make it irresistibly easy.

Its all phases of the evolution of your manhood.

(03-28-2016 01:40 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(03-28-2016 01:31 AM)kaotic Wrote:  Maybe I'm hitting a serious fatigue phase because I really could give a shit less they flake, matter of fact, I was hoping one would flake last week.

That will happen more often. The idea of going out and having to play the game with another broad will seem more cumbersome than it's worth.

Some will tell you take a break from the game for a bit to get the buzz back. Others will say you have reached a personal point of diminishing returns (at least for quality).

A sign it may be time to seek out more personal self improvement, or seek out better quality.

I for one have been going into monk mode a bit. I don't hit up girls on dating apps and only respond to maybe 25%-50% of the girls that cold message me. I don't bother chatting up girls when I'm out an about unless they approach or make it irresistibly easy.

Its all phases of the evolution of your manhood.

If you don't mind me asking GS, your age?

It sounds like kaotic is having growing pains.

When you're tired of a situation - it's time for a change.

Many guys hit this stage once they get to the intermediate stage of game. "What's next? Is this it?"

Keep going, the dating pool has expanded for you, so now you have to be choosier. The same cute 5's and 6's will still make your dick hard, but will not provide the same pleasure.

Go for higher quality girls (quality is not a function only of looks). In kaotic's case, maybe he has reached a ceiling of internet dating??

(03-28-2016 07:04 AM)redbeard Wrote:  It sounds like kaotic is having growing pains.

When you're tired of a situation - it's time for a change.

Many guys hit this stage once they get to the intermediate stage of game. "What's next? Is this it?"

Frankly I've been amazed by his energy. Constantly banging new girls without any apparent drain on his desire to get more. And all whilst holding the RVF title of "Top Postman" at 7 posts per day. The guy is a machine. Trump should pick him for VP.

Hah thanks Phoenix and yeah maybe this is a new stage, I find myself not caring for mediocre or boring girls.

That Armenian girl I gave another chance to text me Friday since I ignored her last text asking if I was mad.

I said, "Nah, just rather spend my time with girls who are actually interested in hanging out and make an effort"

She basically said "oh i'm sorry, good luck" - she knew her place. I'll expect her to reach out to me again.

I still have that drive to fuck new girls, matter of fact, there was this cute black girl I matched with a few months ago, turns out she was really 17. I stopped texting her, her 18th bday was just this week and I hit her up, planning on meeting her this evening.


The notch count is still there, I'm just getting more and more picky. Which comes naturally.

(03-28-2016 02:07 AM)Prof. Ligate Wrote:  If you don't mind me asking GS, your age?

29

Random babble:
My 21 y/o rock-girl plate just revived (got an SMS from her) after two days of not answering the phone. She drinks a lot and in general likes to party. I love fucking her petite body and make her swallow (she gives the best BJs I ever had). But I think I seemed needy for calling her so many times.

In a past occasion she disappeared for two days, because her phone died (it fell to the ground and turned to pieces). I felt the need to call her work (she waits tables at a bar), she disappeared from there as well. I was worried she was run over by a car or in the hospital. In the end drove to her neighborhood and found her through a friend. She had fell ill with the flu.

In general, she is a good lay but it is clear I am shooting below my potential. We fuck each 10 days or so, I like her to spend the night so we can fuck before grabbing a bite for breakfast.

To enjoy it while it lasts.

2 days and you call multiple times?

2 days?

Maybe 2 texts or calls over 2 weeks.

@Travesty: She's broke as fuck, got no credit on her phone so I call her and she picks up.
But yeah... Gotta step down the calls. Mea culpa.

Called her work? Drove to her neighborhood??

LOL, maybe I do care for her.

"Was that beta?"

I had to break the dry spell, it's been a week and a half since I bust a nut. So I banged the last notch I got, the 18 year old.

Ever just wanna nut, then not fuck a girl ever again ? This was one of those times.

She was interested in me whipping her, which I obliged.

Some girls you want to constantly get a boner for and fuck, some girls you just want to smash and dash.

Plus I had to swoop this bitch up, which took forever. I'm never doing that drive again.

Plus she tried shit testing me with the "oh wrong person sorry" text.

I'm bored of her. Next.


Another bitch flaked on me, I even called her about 2 hours before, she claimed she had a family thing come up.

This other girl, latina 19, give her a 7, matched on tinder, we've been texting, dropped that she had a FWB but "he caught feelings" - I qualified her with if she moves past fwb, we talk about it, no games - some girls can't handle that and act sketch so I drop them.

She agrees and asked how many do you have at a time, of course i said about 1000 at a time. I know she's trying to dig info out of me, I ain't giving her shit. At least she's funny and playful about it.

The 35 year old asian who looks like she's 21, I think is trying to bait me, sent me pics of her and "friend" - she's sitting in his lap in a very sexual way. Like I'm a fucking idiot, I didn't respond, then she hits me up after. I pretend I never saw it and we start talking about ropes and cuffs, she's very scared about being helpless tied up. So we'll start with cuffs.

Then she sends me some stupid ass pic of her grabbing herself in a black dress all seductively - with the guy cropped out of course.

Obviously she's nothing more than a plate, but I won't deal with baiting. I absolutely like fucking her, the sex is off the charts, but she's retarded sometimes lol.

Alot of the numbers I collected the last week are dead leads or no response, I have no hesitation deleting numbers. It's time to get better quality - I just need more fucking time out in the field and the ability to day game - when I'm not stuck in a goddamn office.

Game truly is feast or famine.

A brace of lays 2 weekends past.

To a hat trick of loses this past weekend.
My game felt blunt & murky.
Found myself lost & looking for something at times...
Damn my ex.


Social circle steeze, it was good to interact with girls I didn't scoop off some thirsty app.


Thursday I couldn't even kiss close some young bird who was at my place. (3 girls & my homie).
Ended up sleeping at 5 AM when it became obvious she wouldn't budge.
Kicked those bitches out in the morning. They were dancing & drinking in the garden @ 7 fucking AM.
Didn't sleep cos' they were so guarded.
Never fucking with em again.


Saturday, another group of 3 girls came through. Perfect 3 v 3 setup, till my housemate invited a gang of ninjas with only 1 girl.
From there it was a battle royale. I won out, got physical with the best looking girl of the bunch. But nada, couldn't lead her back to my room.
She crashed in the visitor's room with her drunk homie.
I slept solo & defeated yet again.
Real shame, she's a hoe on a rebound & I couldn't close. I'll hit her up only to see her, but it's unlikely I'll get another shot.


Threw the mother of all Hail Mary's on Sunday. A girl needed money for a ride home. I swooped her up & took her back to my place. Had only an hour to close. (my boy's mother was returning).
No close. She put in just enough resistance to survive.
Got her down to her panties, when the mother came through the gate.
Game over, time ran out on a 4th down & inches play
She promised to come back in 2weeks - but we all know what that means...
Just a note though, she was surprisingly turned on by my aggressive approach, basically trying to fuck her in 10 minutes for cab fare.
Lol, I remember leading her to my bedroom 'to change', as she was trying to put on her yoga pants, I stepped on them around her ankles & threw her on the bed.
Good times.


P.S both these hoes have pictures of their unsuspecting boyfriends on their WhatsApp after a long weekend of hoeing.

I need to find my groove again, this weekend is another opportunity.

I recently moved and there's a hot girl whose bedroom window is straight across from mine, about 20m and a couple of tree branches apart.

How would you find a way to approach?

She lives on a different building on the other side of the block, so I can't really try to run into her going in or out.

Bang all your chicks by the window so she can see you in action

Thought I had found a girl worth it. Was wrong. Sent down a nuclear dick move from orbit, now I'm back on the prowl.

(03-31-2016 07:06 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Bang all your chicks by the window so she can see you in action

WIA is the voice in the back of my head saying. "You aren't getting laid? It's simple. Just bang all the bitches."