(02-22-2016 05:35 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(02-22-2016 05:28 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(02-22-2016 04:41 PM)kaotic Wrote:  The home early/coffee thing reads to me like a friend thing.

I agree. robreke you didn't play along with her and use comfort game, you fell into her frame.

You already set it up, might as well meet up with her and see what's what, but I wouldn't be expecting much. If you can't get it into flirty/fun vibe soon after you meet up, I'd tell her you have some things to do and you know she's gotta work on her project and bounce.

In the future, if a girl hits you with a line like that I'd reframe and tell her, "oh damn, so I should cancel the bouqets of roses carried in on horses?"

or something more to your choosing.

I was going to reply and say the same thing but you beat me to it! Like AO said, she set the expectations very clearly so if it were me I wouldn't go for the venue bounce or trying to get her back to my place on this meet as she will be expecting it. Instead, play the aloof game, do very little talking, make her carry the bulk of the conversation and then on a high note cut it off citing vague plans that you need to get to. Let her hamster spin wondering if you're off to meet another woman. Then let her reach out to you on her own time frame. When she does lock her down to a real date and accept nothing less.

I see that I fell into her frame. I'm still treating very hot women differently than 6's and 7's so my game needs work.

Come to think of it, even though lately this girl has been using some smiley faces, lol's and exclamation points here and there in her texts, her texts mostly come across rather blunt, as if she's used to getting her way with men. She probably is given her looks.

Maybe she wants to line me up as a 'beta orbiter' until she's ready to rebound off her last boyfriend, which of course, I won't do.

I'll try to set an initial flirty, yet relaxed vibe, which worked on our last date. If I sense attraction and she reciprocates, I'll game accordingly. If not, I'll follow the advice here, be a bit aloof and bail early, citing other plans.

I always hate going on a meet up with a girl and not going for the kiss though.

Having some trouble with a japanese girl in one of my classes. Foreign born, hasn't been in the states long. She's 19, has a boyfriend but I can tell she likes me. Gave me her phone number a few weeks back "for class" and has texted me a few pointless questions.

Sunday I text her " we need to hang out before you fly home" no reply til the next day. "Yea we should!, I'm staying for two years now so no need to rush schedule smiley face"

Idk what her deal is, haven't fucked with asians at all but this one impresses me. Dresses well, thin with big tits, side by side were looking like an east meets west gq spread. I'm 100 percent sure she likes me. Maybe waiting for her j boyfriend to fly home, guess I'll find out soon.

2016: I'd say it is about time we get male contraceptive means that don't involve putting awful things around your dick. I'm getting tired of girls telling me they still didn't get their period this month.

Dropping in to say spoofing Tinder is easy as fuck and I feel like an IDIOT for not previously pipelining.

I have MacBook.

1. Download Bluestacks, log in with existing google account
2. Download FakeGPS, set location
3. Download Tinder, log in with existing account
4. Profit

I'm looking for something different to do this weekend. Kiss closed chick on first date, looking to bang on second date.
Ideally I want to do something cool (gun range) then find a way to end up back at her place and bang. Not sure which direction to go. McDuff put it in her head that we should cook at her place. ...im willing to try anything this weekend I don't want to do the normal go out eat/drink. I've gotten bored a bit.

Has anyone done anything cool lately? Ill be in new jersey but can drive anywhere, and she's down to do whatever I want. She's pretty receptive, follows orders, etc but at the end of the day I need a bang!

I have a girl coming to my place soon, she will be here in like 1h, its going to be 9pm local time on a tuesday night. Surely it must be on? Weather is shitty too, she is 19 from Belarus, any quick tips on how to escalate to sex fast? She is from tinder and its our first meeting. I have had 2 girls back to my place over the weekend and could only kiss both, I think I waited too long with the 2nd one and she had to go shortly after.

(02-23-2016 02:06 PM)_Samo_ Wrote:  I have a girl coming to my place soon, she will be here in like 1h, its going to be 9pm local time on a tuesday night. Surely it must be on? Weather is shitty too, she is 19 from Belarus, any quick tips on how to escalate to sex fast? She is from tinder and its our first meeting. I have had 2 girls back to my place over the weekend and could only kiss both, I think I waited too long with the 2nd one and she had to go shortly after.

I was excited and a little anxious before this post. Well an update on this one, she was here 3 hours and again I couldn't get the bang. Just kiss again and some light groping, though she did say about coming to my place again soon. She was a really weird girl.

Think I've got another date for tomorrow, getting a bit frustrated with this getting girls to my place and not getting nothing but kiss and groping.

(02-22-2016 07:58 PM)rottenapple Wrote:  2016: I'd say it is about time we get male contraceptive means that don't involve putting awful things around your dick. I'm getting tired of girls telling me they still didn't get their period this month.

snip snip. March Madness is coming up, get it done the first week!

(02-22-2016 04:26 PM)robreke Wrote:  A Girl I had a one night stand with last year texted me last week: "Hey!" It was out of the blue and unexpected

I told her last week that I'd contact her today, on Monday to set the date. Before I could text her today, she texetd me this morning asking how my weekend was, so she's the one initiating these texts now.

I've arranged a date with her tomorrow night.

she's the most beautiful ( or one of the two) most beautiful girls I've ever been with. We had an amazing date last spring, great fun and the sex was so good, it was almost scary. She concurred with this. I dropped her off at her car that night afterwards, sure there was no way I wouldn't see her again.

After that, she was hard to peg down. A few times she committed to a date, then canceled the day of. I was disappointed because, like I said, this is a quality girl ( 8.5 - 9). I suspect there may have been an ex in the mix trying to peg her down.

I kept in touch with text over the past 9 months, I'd hit her up every now and then. She would always immediately text back but say things like she's in a serious relationship. The last time I texted her in January this year, she repeated this and I just texted "good luck krystal, i wish you the best. if things don't work out, it'd be great to catch up over coffee'

So, last week, which is a bit over a month since our last text exchange, she texts out of the blue like I mentioned above. Her third or fourth text says "before I meet you, I'm not looking for anything, just two ppl having coffee catching up"

I agree with her, just playing comfort game: " Sure, that sounds good to me."

Today I was setting final details and she requests: " Can we do 6? I have a project I'm working on and want to get home kinda early."

So, she's definitely setting me up in her texts that she really just does want to be meet for coffee unless she's taking plausible deniability to another level. She did mention working on her project last week too.

My plan is just to go in, play don't fuck it up game, and see if I can suggest a venue bounce or to my place but I'm not sure how to play this. I sense she just broke up with that 'serious boyfriend' and is wanting to feel me out again and literally take things slow. Also, we'll really be drinking coffee as we're not drinking at a bar.

Usually under circumstances like this, I'd be full bore try to get her home and bang her again, especially considering our first date, but this girl is setting a different (cautious, let's just meet for coffee/ I have to be home early ) frame.

Update - she flaked 45 minutes before the meet up : "So sorry, something came up can we reschedule?, I may be free Sunday"

Breaking all game convention, I called her 40 minutes later. She was acting all sweet, telling me everything she'd been doing. I played nice on the phone talking for 7 or 8 minutes. I know this is the kind of girl who usually walks all over men and has daddy issues so I gave it to her a bit like a dad would. I've already banged her and at this point didn't have anything to lose.

I tried to come across in a laid back way, kind of mocking her: "you tell me you're not the type to plan at the last minute but you cancelled on me at the last minute. I don't have time for it. I'm a very busy person and you saying you 'may' be free Sunday doesn't work, I'll already have something planned by then. If you want to see me, give me a definite time and day and stick to it. Otherwise, there's other things I could be doing."

Silence on her end for about 5 seconds and she said. Okay, I'll look at my calendar and let you know. I told her it was good to talk to her again and bye, ending on a non-dick note.

She texts this morning "Let's do coffee saturday?" I text her the time and place. She texts back "Sounds good. You can keep texting me if you like!"

Haha, she may be trying to make a beta orbiter out of me or she's fishing for comfort or something. I texted "I like hearing from you. I've got some meetings so let's chat later."

In the meantime, I've got at least 2 dates set before Saturday morning.

What you laid down the law on a flaky chick?
But the game gurus says you aren't supposed to do that.

You're supposed to reply
Gay or K

Omg, the sky is falling

Good work.

WIA

@robreke - Atta boy. I'm a fan of being blunt and laying down the law sometimes. You may end up losing the girl but really in the long run who cares. If she's going to waste your time and try to make an orbiter out of you then why would you waste your time with her anyway. Nice work fella - my guess is Saturday coffee will turn into 'Saturday back door coffeehouse smash'.

(02-24-2016 05:57 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  What you laid down the law on a flaky chick?
But the game gurus says you aren't supposed to do that.

You're supposed to reply
Gay or K

Omg, the sky is falling

Good work.

WIA

Funny you bring this up, that 45 year old cougar I banged, flaked last minute, the first time.

I straight told her I'm not wasting my time, or have time for BS, you either commit or deleting your number.

Sometimes you've gotta lay down a proverbial smackdown on bitches.

20-something girl who was hanging on me at the hipster bar a couple weeks ago and kept pinging me via text. I asked for the meet once but she deflected. Then I just hung back and we texted back and forth a few times since then.

Eventually she started hitting me up through iMessage, and it wasn't long after that that she found my Facebook account and sent me a friend request. I didn't know if I should accept or not, but I grudgingly decided to.

Scoped out her page and it's stuffed full of couples selfies with the Big Beta Boyfriend and lots of wall posts with loving messages to each other.

He has her together with him in his profile photo. She, naturally...does not.

(02-24-2016 06:17 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-24-2016 05:57 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  What you laid down the law on a flaky chick?
But the game gurus says you aren't supposed to do that.

You're supposed to reply
Gay or K

Omg, the sky is falling

Good work.

WIA

Funny you bring this up, that 45 year old cougar I banged, flaked last minute, the first time.

I straight told her I'm not wasting my time, or have time for BS, you either commit or deleting your number.

Sometimes you've gotta lay down a proverbial smackdown on bitches.

There's always been a split in approaches.

The Player Way really is to try and throw a "Text Hail Mary", but when you move from thirst and quantity of notches, to quality of women and quality of life...you have to reassess the procedures.

Is this action getting my closer to my own personal goals of who I want to be?

Not sticking to the textbook means you will lose lays, no doubt about it.

Sometimes you have to live YOUR LIFE.

WIA


WIA

That's the secret society text.

You can judge her, or fuck her, or fuck her (and judge her on the low).

What you can't do is fix her, fix him, or fix society.

WIA

(02-24-2016 06:49 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  20-something girl who was hanging on me at the hipster bar a couple weeks ago and kept pinging me via text. I asked for the meet once but she deflected. Then I just hung back and we texted back and forth a few times since then.

Eventually she started hitting me up through iMessage, and it wasn't long after that that she found my Facebook account and sent me a friend request. I didn't know if I should accept or not, but I grudgingly decided to.

Scoped out her page and it's stuffed full of couples selfies with the Big Beta Boyfriend and lots of wall posts with loving messages to each other.

He has her together with him in his profile photo. She, naturally...does not.

I've got a few adds from social media sites from bitches who flirted or I fucked, I don't add any of them.

Fuck that shit, I ain't giving them any attention, let alone a friend add.

Hoes get no love.

(02-24-2016 07:21 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Is this action getting my closer to my own personal goals of who I want to be?

Not sticking to the textbook means you will lose lays, no doubt about it.

Sometimes you have to live YOUR LIFE.

WIA


WIA

Wisdom so solid, he had to sign it twice.

(02-24-2016 07:55 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

(02-24-2016 07:21 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Is this action getting my closer to my own personal goals of who I want to be?

Not sticking to the textbook means you will lose lays, no doubt about it.

Sometimes you have to live YOUR LIFE.

WIA


WIA

Wisdom so solid, he had to sign it twice.

Lulz.

I been quite the Chatty Chiekh today.

WIA

(02-24-2016 07:22 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  That's the secret society text.

You can judge her, or fuck her, or fuck her (and judge her on the low).

What you can't do is fix her, fix him, or fix society.

WIA

If she's down I don't mind, and I'm not going to judge (except here.) But I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do if she deflects the "so what are you up to this weekend?" pitch and just wants to keep bullshitting with me.

I don't yet know the secret to pulling them out of their city apartment cat holes on the DL...

(02-24-2016 07:31 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I've got a few adds from social media sites from bitches who flirted or I fucked, I don't add any of them.

Fuck that shit, I ain't giving them any attention, let alone a friend add.

Hoes get no love.

I was curious as to the BF situation but she had her shit on lock. I guess I wasn't surprised with what I found.

Probably had me as "Samantha" in her phone and was pinging me when the BF wasn't looking.

Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure that when she sent me a friend request and I accepted, it cast me forever into orbiter-ville with the rest of her 837 "friends." Oh well. I think that once she pulled the trigger on that she had lost interest anyway, and figured she'd like to try to get one more.

As I've been on mission to gain more experience with asian girls - had a decent date tonight

26 year old foreign born but completely American Korean girl (first korean) - in the medical field.

East coast transplant.

Tiny and short, but cute, rate her a 7. She drove 30 minutes to see me.

Grabbed a drink at the standard dive bar, she grabbed a beer, i grabbed my usual vodka/water, I could tell she was bit shy, wasn't much of a talker, was super nice and polite.

Good signs were she got more comfortable in her chair, was interest and laughed alot.

Bounced her to the second venue, she drove solo, as did I.

I knew in my gut this wasn't going to be a first date bang, she was only having one drink, she even got a soda at the second venue, it was weird drinking by myself, she of course told me after I had ordered.

We chat some more, talk about travels, she wants to shoot a gun, she was a tomboy growing up, but girly still.

Drop some "men are acting like women" talking points.

Usually I don't talk about thinks we'll do when we meet up next time, but I did.

Finish up our drinks, we head head outside.

She talks about how someone hit her car, scope it out, a few laughs. I cut it off and tell her I'll let her go, give her a hug.

Then pull her back in the for the kiss, she giggles, I keep kissing her and say "what's so funny" she gigles and says:

"I've never kissed a guy with a beard" I pull back, smirk and say "Now you have" kiss her a bit more, she's into it.

I cut if off and tell her to text me when she gets home.


She was pretty chill, reserved but sweet, it's 50/50 that we meet up again. If I do cool, if I don't it was a good learning experience.

EDIT: She just texted me she got home, said it was good to finally meet me, wants to meet again soon. Also dropped part of a joke I told her which made me laugh. Things look good for next week then.



Stoked for the show tomorrow night with my boy and I've got multiple options for Friday night bangs. Unfortunately none would will be new.

Been using bumble a bit, got a few matches, pulled a number already, 3 convos went dead, one was either a troll or retarded.

(02-24-2016 05:27 PM)robreke Wrote:  She texts this morning "Let's do coffee saturday?" I text her the time and place. She texts back "Sounds good. You can keep texting me if you like!"

Maybe it's just me, or out of context, but isn't this a massive shit test?

(02-25-2016 10:13 AM)glugger Wrote:  

(02-24-2016 05:27 PM)robreke Wrote:  She texts this morning "Let's do coffee saturday?" I text her the time and place. She texts back "Sounds good. You can keep texting me if you like!"

Maybe it's just me, or out of context, but isn't this a massive shit test?

I don't think so. Probably just wants to keep in touch until the day of so she knows you're still hip

I swear negativity attracts negativity.

Got a call from my shop boss, wasn't happy with my performance last weekend, wants to talk to me. Even kicked me off this weekend, and wants to talk to me end of the weekend. Basically sounds like I'm getting reprimanded and not fired. To be fair I don't put much into my weekend job.

My regular job VP said I wont be getting credit for certain things I sold for the company, which bummed me out since I did all the work and get no credit. I even tried selling him on why, but "it's not in the contract".

VP is stoked we're doing this and is giving us more opportunity EOY.

That 35 year old asian girl I had a fuck fest with basically accused me of wanting only sex with her this Saturday evening.

She didn't realize she had plans that night - wants to hangout during the day (which I can now) but she even told me, she's looking for a relationship, if we're not on the same page, we should move along, she's also talking to other guys.

Huge shit test incoming.

All I said was "I'm a little insulted by this"

She back pedals says she's not insulting me, just a thought and a straight up question. She wants a better understanding.

I tell her meeting in the evening was because of my work schedule, not because of sex.

If I just wanted sex, i wouldn't of hit her her up after we banged, I wouldn't of texted her back to plan our next meet.

Then I call her out, "You say you're looking for a relationship, interested in me, but talking to other guys. You also told me you've got a 3 some set up later next month" - "so you tell me what I should believe"

Re-frame and check mate bitch. At this point I don't care about her response - if she's cool alright we'll hangout and bang and I won't hit her back up after.

She was never a contender for LTR material anyways and I won already.

^Chicks hate when their words come back to bite them

Yeah, I was listening b*tch