Well, I finally signed up. I think I made a pretty solid profile. Made it pretty cocky and hints that I'm not looking for anything serious. Hopefully it's fruitful and I'm a breath of fresh air to the winter thirst the birds have been dealing with.

I've always used Okcupid and PoF. So it will be awesome if Tinder lives up to its reputation.

(02-16-2016 07:24 PM)Indy Wrote:  I then follow Tuthmosis's "First-Date Bang Strategy." I move from no more than two venue's to my place. Throughout the date, I "seed" that I don't do first kisses in public.

Me (after some touching): I can't stand those guys/girls that have their first kiss in some lame bar (she's now thinking that if she wants a kiss, it's not happening in public).
Me (at end of first/second round): Let's go back to my roof and open a bottle of [wine name here]. It's been breathing/chilling all day (I've already found it what wine she likes during texting).
Her: I'm not going back to your place. If I do that, there's bound to be penetration.
Me: Please, I'm not in to hooking up (its in my profile). Besides, we haven't even kissed yet (her mind is focused on that roof and kissing).
Her: Okay. What kind of wine was it again?

I've used the "let's drink some wine at my place" tactic a lot. I hadn't thought of asking girls about their wine preferences while texting before the date but I will now so thanks for sharing that. I'll probably start with something like "what kind of girl are you.. red or white wine?"

What do other guys think about the rest of this conversation? No offense to Indy but I think this could come off as talking too much and trying too hard. Most of the time I wait until taking the girl back to my place before kissing (as Tuthmosis suggests in his first date bang recipe) but I think it would be better to never mention kissing and only say "let's go back to my roof and drink some wine". I might mention the type of wine if I already know what she likes.

I think the "less is more" method creates more mystery and anticipation in the girl while all the talking about kissing can't do much to help your chances but could hurt your chances. Thoughts?

So what does it mean if I got "super liked"? Is it some scam on the app?

(02-19-2016 12:13 AM)Snowplow Wrote:  So what does it mean if I got "super liked"? Is it some scam on the app?

No, you get one super like per day in addition to all your regular swipes. The girl either accidentally swiped up on you or she has significant interest. (swipe up to super like someone)

(02-19-2016 12:32 AM)MiscBrah Wrote:  

(02-19-2016 12:13 AM)Snowplow Wrote:  So what does it mean if I got "super liked"? Is it some scam on the app?

No, you get one super like per day in addition to all your regular swipes. The girl either accidentally swiped up on you or she has significant interest. (swipe up to super like someone)

Ok. Here's to hoping it's the latter.
I thought it was some ploy to get me to sign up for premium.

@Miscbrah - That opener is hilariousss man. Kills me.

@snowplow - That superlike thing for me never worked. Personally for a bio I always have something playful/cocky as it kind of has an opener effect for them to chirp at you. Even something like 'I only date hot girls/under 5'7 works' pretty damn good mang. Its tinder, everyone knows it ain't serious and you're just there to snowPLOW them into oblivion.

(02-19-2016 03:26 AM)spygoat Wrote:  @snowplow - That superlike thing for me never worked. Personally for a bio I always have something playful/cocky as it kind of has an opener effect for them to chirp at you. Even something like 'I only date hot girls/under 5'7 works' pretty damn good mang. Its tinder, everyone knows it ain't serious and you're just there to snowPLOW them into oblivion.

Ha! I have my bio to read more confident than cocky. Kaotic helped me out with my profile. I don't know how well it will do, I have pretty high standards and find myself swiping left more than right.

Does anyone else use premium? Running out of likes kinda sucks.

(02-19-2016 03:50 AM)Snowplow Wrote:  Does anyone else use premium? Running out of likes kinda sucks.

I bit the bullet and got Premium last month. I think it's great, even though it's retarded that they removed unlimited likes from the basic version - I'd be alright with Super Likes and geolocate being Premium only.

I changed my location to Gdansk, Poland yesterday. 56 new matches in 12 hours and a Super Like. Makes me question what the hell I'm still doing in Sweden. Plane tickets from where I'm at are like 20 $ (not including bagage), AirBnB prices are very affordable as well.

I'm thinking spring break in Poland.

Matched on a girl from Tinder last Sunday (pre valentine weekend) and arranged to meet tomorrow. WhatsApp messages have been like a day response. Messaged her " will meet her at xyz station at 8pm" on wednesday. No response so far.

Chance of being flaked?

Best quality of Tinder girls I've seen (also the best matches and notches) are in Chicago.

(02-19-2016 06:15 PM)MarkNordic Wrote:  Best quality of Tinder girls I've seen (also the best matches and notches) are in Chicago.

I don't know man. I just signed up and finding myself having a ton of left swipes. Less that 3 days on and I have only had 6 matches so far.

Lots of fatties, progressives, feminists and freaks.

How do you guys handle questions like,

"What's your deal?" and "What are you looking for?"

I just say I'm just seeing who I can find here, I don't look for anything in particular. Not a very creative answer but it's ok I think.

(02-21-2016 08:16 PM)Ensam Wrote:  How do you guys handle questions like,

"What's your deal?" and "What are you looking for?"

"Nothing, I've got 0 expectations till I actually meet someone."

"My next ex wife"

"I'm looking for good vibes and good people"

Better yet, qualify the girls in why you should be looking for them.

(02-21-2016 08:16 PM)Ensam Wrote:  How do you guys handle questions like,

"What's your deal?" and "What are you looking for?"

I'm usually the one asking that question.

You want her to respond with fun, fwb, see what happens, or sex.

If she asked me that, I would simply say I'm looking for a fwb.

I don't want to meetup with a girl from Tinder unless it is absolutely clear whats going down.

If she's unusually hot, sometimes I will take a chance and throw her the "Look I like you. I don't know what you want from this but all I can promise are good memories and lots of fun"

(02-09-2016 12:40 AM)MiscBrah Wrote:  

(02-08-2016 10:20 PM)Ensam Wrote:  I wonder if adding new pics gets you further up in the queue. You could try deleting your professional pics and re-adding them.

You mind sharing that dog pic bro

Gotta love the gif function on tinder. Here's what you do:


Click on gif
In the search bar type "penis"
Click on the one of the rapey looking dog walking on two legs
Send
Profit



Let us know how it works out. LMAO

(02-18-2016 12:09 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  

(02-16-2016 07:24 PM)Indy Wrote:  I then follow Tuthmosis's "First-Date Bang Strategy." I move from no more than two venue's to my place. Throughout the date, I "seed" that I don't do first kisses in public.

Me (after some touching): I can't stand those guys/girls that have their first kiss in some lame bar (she's now thinking that if she wants a kiss, it's not happening in public).
Me (at end of first/second round): Let's go back to my roof and open a bottle of [wine name here]. It's been breathing/chilling all day (I've already found it what wine she likes during texting).
Her: I'm not going back to your place. If I do that, there's bound to be penetration.
Me: Please, I'm not in to hooking up (its in my profile). Besides, we haven't even kissed yet (her mind is focused on that roof and kissing).
Her: Okay. What kind of wine was it again?

I've used the "let's drink some wine at my place" tactic a lot. I hadn't thought of asking girls about their wine preferences while texting before the date but I will now so thanks for sharing that. I'll probably start with something like "what kind of girl are you.. red or white wine?"

What do other guys think about the rest of this conversation? No offense to Indy but I think this could come off as talking too much and trying too hard. Most of the time I wait until taking the girl back to my place before kissing (as Tuthmosis suggests in his first date bang recipe) but I think it would be better to never mention kissing and only say "let's go back to my roof and drink some wine". I might mention the type of wine if I already know what she likes.

I think the "less is more" method creates more mystery and anticipation in the girl while all the talking about kissing can't do much to help your chances but could hurt your chances. Thoughts?

No offense taken.

It's usually just a statement I make when I see others kissing in public. That, or I bring up a story of how a girl once raped my mouth on a first date and it turned me off. It's not something I bring up if there isn't already kino and clear attraction. I just say it and move on; not dwelling on it or saying it in a way as to generate debate.

I got back onto Tinder yesterday and as a sort of experiment I ponied up the $20 for the premium membership with unlimited likes.

Before I was pretty judicious in my swiping since the like limit was always looming, resulting in me keeping the age range fairly close to mine (40s). But now with unlimited likes I've taken it all the way down to 18. I've already gotten 4 matches from women in their early 20's. We'll see if I can get any of them out on dates. The premium membership also includes 5 super likes per day which I think may be useful. I know a lot of guys here say they're worthless but if your photos are on point a super like will get their attention and it registers as a match that appears first in their swipe queue.

Will report back with more results as they come in.

Tinder plus is only $10 here for a month, I kinda want to do it just to see how many matches I get in other states countries.

I wonder how you can find out where you would would be most successful based on your personal looks.

It's been said MANY times. In order to check out other locations, just use a gps spoofer and keep your money in your pocket.

When using Tinder Plus and changing location, women also get notified by some banner that say's you are using that function, which may have them swipe left bacause they might think nothings' going to happen anyway.

I believe that option is only on Android as the OS is more accessible unlike iOS.

I have looked into that method on iPhone and you need to be jailbroken.

My phone indeed is jailbroken. Aren't there any (paid) apps for non JB devices? 3 bucks for an app is still better than 10 USD/EURO every month.

And there is bluestacks so you can run in on your PC.

I tried Tinder..

I used this pic:

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I got a bunch of matches but I didn't do any dates.

Most of my matches didn't respond.

One 19yo old girl said she wanted to fuck but then she disappeared.

I texted with a few girls but nothing serious came of it.

I didn't feel like getting into long text conversations with girls Ive never met.

I told a few girls that they were idiots for the way they communicate.

--

At this point, I prefer day game to Tinder.

With day game, I can make a strong impression -- in real life. With day game, they can see me, touch me, FEEL MY VIBE, ENERGY, AND PASSION.

With day game, they can get a taste of personality, wit, and charm.

Day game is more personal and intimate.

--

I live in San Francisco where everybody is on Tinder. I'm sure decent looking girls have hundreds, if not thousands of matches. The competition is fierce.

I still need to get better pics. I have good pics of my body but I still need some good pics of me dressed sharp, in cool locations, with a fun scene around me.

--

In the future, I will try the other dating apps (happn, bumblr, okc, pof, etc.)

This was a fun experiment.

I prefer real life but I must admit, its a lot of fun to lay in bed and still be able to flirt with girls.

I like Tinder and all the other apps.

I just life real life even better.

That said, once I am single again, I will be back on Tinder in full force.

Hey brotha, we all got our niche's, time constraints destroys any chance of day approaching, I don't club.

So I diversify with dating apps online, that's my niche.

I still warm myself up socially and talk to randoms, recently moved gym locations and saw other locals from the old one, I'd strike up convos, give nods, feel confident.

Talked to a few girls about gym equipment. Obviously I'd love to game girls on the street of course.