Does anyone know of any guides to Tinder game?

This latest update has completely ruined Tinder. I've gotten several bangs from re-engaging with moments, not to mention you cant even see when the girl was last online anymore. Pathetic.

The good thing is the can no longer see when I'm online , the bad thing is I can no longer longer see when they are online. I'm thinking it is a better thing to us an older version so I still can see when the girls are online but they cannot see when I am. However I think that might put me in a lower rating if I'm using an old version of tender. The moments I dont really care about.

This udpate must not have hit Android yet because I can still see and post moments. Also my occupation isn't showing up and nor is others.

(11-16-2015 01:23 PM)Satoshi Wrote:  The good thing is the can no longer see when I'm online , the bad thing is I can no longer longer see when they are online. I'm thinking it is a better thing to us an older version so I still can see when the girls are online but they cannot see when I am. However I think that might put me in a lower rating if I'm using an old version of tender. The moments I dont really care about.

does it really? because i'm using a super old version haha.

I don't know. Just speculating. Actually I like to know when I'm being ignored. I'm using android.

It's safe to say Tinder is dead where I'm from shame....

(11-16-2015 09:17 PM)Roardog Wrote:  This udpate must not have hit Android yet because I can still see and post moments. Also my occupation isn't showing up and nor is others.

It is on android. I had to manually select to update tinder on my phone, i think it usually updates automatically over wifi but not on mobile data.

It doesn't really make sense to me why they removed moments. Anyone got a good explanation?

This new update is bad. I never message girls unless she has been active less than 20 minutes ago. If she is already on hibernation for 2 to 4 hours, you will get bumped down her matches list so quick. And I still remember asking two average cutes how many matches they had...both confirmed over 2000. So you can imagine.

Sidenote: How do you proceed if a girl is ready to meet you but doesn't wanna give out her phone # till after she meets me. The logistics for a bang are also bad.

(11-16-2015 01:01 PM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  Does anyone know of any guides to Tinder game?

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-19115.html

(11-18-2015 04:31 PM)Savage Wrote:  

(11-16-2015 09:17 PM)Roardog Wrote:  This udpate must not have hit Android yet because I can still see and post moments. Also my occupation isn't showing up and nor is others.

It is on android. I had to manually select to update tinder on my phone, i think it usually updates automatically over wifi but not on mobile data.

It doesn't really make sense to me why they removed moments. Anyone got a good explanation?

I read somewhere because they linked with instagram the moments because useless, don't agree with that.

SOS somewhat urgent:

I'm new to tinder as of a couple days ago - i message this chick one of my go-to openers "whats one thing i should know about you", and she responds "what are you doing tonight". I tell her something and say wanna hang. She says like "haha nice and yeah". I say she's far (she's on a local college campus), and she asks where I am and says she can come to me.

Now, what are best practices for this? Are there instances of fake people coming and like robbing dudes from tinder?

SOSOS

(11-18-2015 08:49 PM)VforVlad Wrote:  Sidenote: How do you proceed if a girl is ready to meet you but doesn't wanna give out her phone # till after she meets me. The logistics for a bang are also bad.

Just meet with them. Met plenty of chicks(3) who simply message me over tinder until after we meet and I get the digits. I think in their hamster it's "safer."

Good luck

-CD

(11-18-2015 09:25 PM)keegs Wrote:  SOS somewhat urgent:

I'm new to tinder as of a couple days ago - i message this chick one of my go-to openers "whats one thing i should know about you", and she responds "what are you doing tonight". I tell her something and say wanna hang. She says like "haha nice and yeah". I say she's far (she's on a local college campus), and she asks where I am and says she can come to me.

Now, what are best practices for this? Are there instances of fake people coming and like robbing dudes from tinder?

SOSOS

Once you have a match the ball is in your court. It is your time to show that you are a man of action who isn't easily swayed.

You can say anything you like., it's just text/online game once you have a match.

Stop caring what they think, you are just one of over 100 matches they have. Act like they are just one of 500 matches you have.

As soon as you start worrying about the outcome of these online interactions, you have lost.

Throw yourself in to the depths, and stop caring about outcome. Eventually your text/online game will become smoother and more adaptable.

Haha yeah I'm not worried about the game aspect- I'm worried because this chick is seemingly so DTF right now I'm worried it's an elaborate scheme to come rob me or something. Does that type of shit ever happen from tinder? Everything seems to be legit with her...

(11-18-2015 10:34 PM)keegs Wrote:  Haha yeah I'm not worried about the game aspect- I'm worried because this chick is seemingly so DTF right now I'm worried it's an elaborate scheme to come rob me or something. Does that type of shit ever happen from tinder? Everything seems to be legit with her...

Frame. Is paramount in any interaction.



Also, if you're wary about this kind of interaction, use your 'street smarts' that I hope you have already. If you don't, get someone to check up on you if you are genuinely in fear, I dunno never been scared

Meet her in a public place near your place- a bar, restaurant lounge or coffee house. You will be safe and can see if she is bangable and if she gives off a sketchy vibe or not. If something is weird you can easily bail out; if all seems well you can invite her to your place.

I have had similar concerns with chicks who invited me to their place straight from online. I have wondered if I was walking into an ambush. In every case though, they just wanted to fuck. Still, a reasonable amount of caution is warranted.

I downloaded the previous 4.3.5 version. I just want to know if they've seen my message or not. Hope it doesn't fuck with the algorithm and put my rating lower. There has to be some system to decide who's to be seen first doesn't it.

Yeah dude meet the chick at starbucks if you are afraid. Every chick loves starbucks.

For the time being I don't see any penalty for having the older version of tinder. It seems that decreases in ratings come from detrimental things that abuse the system: Too many swipes right, jumping from city to city with gps spoof, too many chicks swiping left to you etc. Not downloading an update won't harm you for the next month or so.

-CD

(11-19-2015 11:40 AM)coverdoc Wrote:  Yeah dude meet the chick at starbucks if you are afraid. Every chick loves starbucks.

For the time being I don't see any penalty for having the older version of tinder. It seems that decreases in ratings come from detrimental things that abuse the system: Too many swipes right, jumping from city to city with gps spoof, too many chicks swiping left to you etc. Not downloading an update won't harm you for the next month or so.

-CD

Yeah you are probably right. In my opinion it's an edge to know when the girl was last online.

I've been using Tinder For like 3 weeks now and i've upgraded to the tinder plus so i can search in other cities which is vital for the reconnaissance purpose of the quality of talent in your potential destinations like my case and I'm doing fine even i think i can still do better and manage to get a 9

anyway the latest update completely sucks and I'm pretty sure if even the developers intended to ruin the app wouldn't have done rolled that update

i mean the moments are gone and most importantly last online feature which is vital , are u fuckin kidding me ?

regarding the app in general it's cool and handy for online game and like Ive said earlier it reveals the amount of talent in different cities so u be ready for what u gonna run into

Anyway I'll be careful if a girl specially good looking made it clear that she's dtf as there's some scams outhere so u better use common sense and u 'll be fine .

I've been using 2.2.2 for the last year or so and haven't had a meetup in well over a year. The elimination of the moments feature somehow has given me more new matches in a week after a drought of a new match maybe once every month or so. If they went back to what they had set up before early 2014 I might get laid off this thing again. I've had a few lays and meetups off Happn in the last few months, but it's nothing spectacular. Just something you can do on your offtime when you are smoking a cigarette or taking a shit. The one thing I have learned in all of this useless texting with these girls on this app, OKC and Happn is that if they don't ask you questions other than "And you?" is that they ain't meeting up with you. Field them quickly and move on with your day.

(11-20-2015 02:16 AM)slothpiece Wrote:  The one thing I have learned in all of this useless texting with these girls on this app, OKC and Happn is that if they don't ask you questions other than "And you?" is that they ain't meeting up with you. Field them quickly and move on with your day.

You make a really good point. I'm beginning to realize these last few months, that it sort of doesn't matter what you say. If a girl's going to bite she will bite regardless. All the others are looking for attention, validation or online excitement. Every girl I met and fucked off tinder or okc made it really easy to keep a conversation. Now that I think about it, i've never had any action with one of those "and you" or taciturn response chicks.

-CD

How long do y'all usually wait to engage after matching?

Over 300 matches in Lima in a week's time.

I'd be lucky to get a third of that in a month back in the States.

Location, Location, Location.