(09-27-2015 06:58 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(09-26-2015 08:26 PM)easternwomenrule Wrote:  I was banging this girl early this year where I'm now back in the same country as her. She just hit me with a shit test...

Me: we will catch up tonight!?
Her: why you want to see me again?
Me: if you don't want to see me, that's ok
Me: I'm now busy tonight? How about tomorrow night?
Her: if you think you want me only for fun, I don't want like before. And I will not do like before.

I was thinking a drink and live music. I'm sure there's a place you know that can provide that for me.

Depends on how well you put it down and what you're interactions were like with her before, but you could go one of two ways.

Ignore/direct - Say "k" and follow with a location/time.

Address it later on your date - "why don't you explain in person, I'd like to catch up" then follow with the location/time.

Okay players, send this restart text I just read on forum today to a hot 8.

Me: Ashley, I just don’t think our relationship is working out. In fact, I think that we should break up before I get hurt. You keep the house and the dog and I’ll keep the car. Love Coverdoc
Her:Lol well I wouldn't want you to get hurt

Any ideas?

-CD

(10-01-2015 10:07 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  Okay players, send this restart text I just read on forum today to a hot 8.

Me: Ashley, I just don’t think our relationship is working out. In fact, I think that we should break up before I get hurt. You keep the house and the dog and I’ll keep the car. Love Coverdoc
Her:Lol well I wouldn't want you to get hurt

Any ideas?

-CD

Backstory? Did you bang her? Go on a date? How many times (of either)?

Guys, context matters a ton, please try to give more so people have a chance at giving you good advice instead of just passing over your post like I almost just did.

I tried the "Lost contacts - who is this?" move on a dead number, and it conjured up a response. Stunning dancer chick from a class who posts quite a wealth of provocative shit on FB and instagram, to the tune of a about a billion "likes". After just a dash of back and forth, once she figured out who it was, the line went back to dead.

I dig how the idea is to get back into her memory somehow, but if she ain't havin' it, she ain't havin' it.

Interesting though, how the initial response was how she supposedly lost her contacts too. Must've been a sprawling list. Psh.

(10-01-2015 10:07 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  Okay players, send this restart text I just read on forum today to a hot 8.

Me: Ashley, I just don’t think our relationship is working out. In fact, I think that we should break up before I get hurt. You keep the house and the dog and I’ll keep the car. Love Coverdoc
Her:Lol well I wouldn't want you to get hurt

Any ideas?

-CD

If she didn't like the joke, she wouldn't have responded. One possibility:

"No good. I told the dog he'd be living with you now. He said he didn't asked to be born and locked himself in his kennel"

*beat*

"This is your side of the family, not mine."

If she responds positively to the game, extend it however you want...

"He's blaring 'Wrecking Ball' and won't answer the door. This sort of thing needs a woman's touch."

...but, before it goes stale, swerve back around to some kind of "I think we should give it another go, for the sake of the Pup" statement, then suggest logistics.

If she wavers:

"C'mon, this is serious. He just asked for a new collar from Hot Topic".

I get ignored

Me: OK ignore me then lmao

Her: sorry

What should I say

(10-04-2015 12:06 PM)AK-47 Wrote:  I get ignored

Me: OK ignore me then lmao

Her: sorry

What should I say

First and foremost, it is more helpful when you post more of your conversation or provide us with some context.

If your text is any indication for us it's not surprising you were being ignored. You are screaming insecurity, thirst and neediness when you text shit like that.

Text game 101: You need to keep it short, sweet and to the point and sparingly use emoji and text language. You are showing way too much interest in her when you text like that and that will leave you dead in the water.

Sounds like you need to do a bit of reading:
Roosh's Text Messaging Guide
Be That Guy
Why Can’t I Leave A Smiley Face?

Thanks man

Me: So you want to hang out soon?

Her: Will you be nice?


What's the appropriate response here? I'm not sure whether to go "actually I was planning on being a jerk" or some variation thereof, or something more "innocent". Already been sexual in the messaging so far.

"maybe"

(10-05-2015 10:32 AM)UroboricForms Wrote:  Me: So you want to hang out soon?

Her: Will you be nice?


What's the appropriate response here? I'm not sure whether to go "actually I was planning on being a jerk" or some variation thereof, or something more "innocent". Already been sexual in the messaging so far.

'maybe. haven't decided about you yet'

"I'll try"

(10-05-2015 10:32 AM)UroboricForms Wrote:  Me: So you want to hang out soon?

Her: Will you be nice?


What's the appropriate response here? I'm not sure whether to go "actually I was planning on being a jerk" or some variation thereof, or something more "innocent". Already been sexual in the messaging so far.

This is a beta-trap. Where a girls asks you a leading question and doesn't really want the response she's leading you into. In this particular case, she wants to know if it's worth her while to meet you. Are you a trigger-puller or is it going to be one of those awkward, overly careful dates.

The two types of answer she is leading you into but does NOT want to hear are these:

Wet, nice guy answer: Yes, i'll be nice (and variants of these)

Goofy, corny, nice guy answer: i'll try (hehe), maybe (hehe), we'll see (hehe)

She really wants you to blow her question out of the water. There are two ways to prove to her that you won't be a limp-wristed faggot, and are able to push against resistance in a way that arouses her.

1) caricature the nice-guy and slip in a 'tell': "i'll be so nice, missy. Pull out chairs for you, 12 red roses, always keep my hands to myself, hold doors open, etc"

The 'tell' for her is 'keep my hands to myself'

2) totally be the opposite. not in a tepid 'hehe' way: Just flat out abuse her personal messaging space...in such an extreme way she knows you're joking but also that you're bold.

I'd go:

her: will you be nice.
Me: Nah, plan to punch you in the face repeatedly.

Not sure I 100% agree^

I think it's a sign of interest, and she wants to BANTER. <---also a great opportunity to get started on sexual innuendos

Her: "will you be nice?"
You: "what if I'm not?"
or
You: "why, do you plan on being naughty?"
Her: "maybe"
You: "then you'll find out what happens to naughty girls" (or something like that)

Attractive teenage girl (9ish) on SA. Her profile said she wanted a man to make her laugh so I cracked two joked based on her profile that she liked then told her to text me at [...] Here is how it went:

   

I guess I screwed it.

What do you guys think?

- Online dating, My 3rd message since she answerd to my opener.

Me: Blabla.
That makes me curious. We have to meet
1 on 1.

Girl: Blabla.
I will think about it...)
Which part of the town do you live?

Me:

(10-06-2015 04:37 PM)CameraXL Wrote:  What do you guys think?

- Online dating, My 3rd message since she answerd to my opener.

Me: Blabla.
That makes me curious. We have to meet
1 on 1.

Girl: Blabla.
I will think about it...)
Which part of the town do you live?

Me:

Guys, please post the whole message. Putting "blabla" in place of what you said makes it really hard to have any informed opinion/advice.

Ok.

Me: My weekend was great. Been watching a game at the stadium. Did some sport. Met some friends at an asian resto in Xxx. You have lots to do? ( She wrote she had lots to do in her last message) That makes me curious. Lets meet 1 on 1.

Her: Ah, there are some good asian restos at Xxx. I have some workt to do and some stress this week. I will think about it Which part of the town do you live at?

(10-06-2015 05:51 PM)CameraXL Wrote:  Ok.

Me: My weekend was great. Been watching a game at the stadium. Did some sport. Met some friends at an asian resto in Xxx. You have lots to do? ( She wrote she had lots to do in her last message) That makes me curious. Lets meet 1 on 1.

Her: Ah, there are some good asian restos at Xxx. I have some workt to do and some stress this week. I will think about it Which part of the town do you live at?

Your text was too wordy.

A girl with "lots to do" is boring, not interesting. You are qualifying to her in your first text. It should be the other way around. At worst you should be at least teasing her a bit.

She will "think about it?" That's not a good sign.

A possible response:

"work think stress no good. I unwind sitting with a chilled drink and the sunset. you?"

This gives her a visual to imagine, follows the statement/statement/question masterful way of speaking, and doesn't invite her to join you but intrigues her to what kind of things you do.

But I don't think she deserves an amazing response or great effort. She's already being lame with her "I'll think about it" statement.

(10-06-2015 08:24 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(10-06-2015 05:51 PM)CameraXL Wrote:  Ok.

Me: My weekend was great. Been watching a game at the stadium. Did some sport. Met some friends at an asian resto in Xxx. You have lots to do? ( She wrote she had lots to do in her last message) That makes me curious. Lets meet 1 on 1.

Her: Ah, there are some good asian restos at Xxx. I have some workt to do and some stress this week. I will think about it Which part of the town do you live at?

Your text was too wordy.

A girl with "lots to do" is boring, not interesting. You are qualifying to her in your first text. It should be the other way around. At worst you should be at least teasing her a bit.

She will "think about it?" That's not a good sign.

A possible response:

"work think stress no good. I unwind sitting with a chilled drink and the sunset. you?"

This gives her a visual to imagine, follows the statement/statement/question masterful way of speaking, and doesn't invite her to join you but intrigues her to what kind of things you do.

But I don't think she deserves an amazing response or great effort. She's already being lame with her "I'll think about it" statement.

"aight. <part of town you live in>".

Let her do the probing. If she doesnt, next.

Again, when you havent fucked a girl, keep it short.
Brevity is the soul of wit. Its easy to be verbiose occasionally when you get proficient at communicating in short bursts. The reverse is usually not true.

(10-06-2015 08:31 PM)Sharkie Wrote:  "aight. <part of town you live in>".

Let her do the probing. If she doesnt, next.

Again, when you havent fucked a girl, keep it short.
Brevity is the soul of wit. Its easy to be verbiose occasionally when you get proficient at communicating in short bursts. The reverse is usually not true.

Yes brevity is key. Though I often like to drop some DHV by highlighting I live in x (part of town) next to or near y (interesting/cool place) without saying anything more than that just to pique her interest and possibly use as a prop for a meetup.

No advice or analysis for me?

(10-06-2015 09:15 PM)duedue Wrote:  No advice or analysis for me?

Sorry dude, your Lena comment wasn't funny (maybe thats just me though).

2: youre sucking up to her.

3. look at the text length and frequency ratio. Her longest text is 3 words long.

4. lost cause.

5. "psycho major girl from XXX" followed by "hows your day been"....incongruence. If you're negging her by assuming higher moral authority, dont follow it up by expressing concern about her well being (usually its better to keep the "hows your day been" texts to later. Also, try avoid the I see youre the XX type of person kinda texts...too many dudes are using those type of messages these days. Usually, "psycho major?" should suffice.


This analysis seems excessively nerdy though. One would suppose it is important to follow the basic texting thumb rules for a while till you get comfortable with texting patterns while improving your inner game. It is easier to improvise and ping off of the other person's texts, sense of humor, state of mind and SMV relative to yours as you get more experience.

(10-06-2015 09:25 PM)Sharkie Wrote:  

(10-06-2015 09:15 PM)duedue Wrote:  No advice or analysis for me?

Sorry dude, your Lena comment wasn't funny (maybe thats just me though).

2: youre sucking up to her.

3. look at the text length and frequency ratio. Her longest text is 3 words long.

4. lost cause.

5. "psycho major girl from XXX" followed by "hows your day been"....incongruence. If you're negging her by assuming higher moral authority, dont follow it up by expressing concern about her well being (usually its better to keep the "hows your day been" texts to later. Also, try avoid the I see youre the XX type of person kinda texts...too many dudes are using those type of messages these days. Usually, "psycho major?" should suffice.


This analysis seems excessively nerdy though. One would suppose it is important to follow the basic texting thumb rules for a while till you get comfortable with texting patterns while improving your inner game. It is easier to improvise and ping off of the other person's texts, sense of humor, state of mind and SMV relative to yours as you get more experience.

Are they written anywhere?

~never mind, PMed~