I've been trying to meet this chick midweek cause I'm usually busy during the weekends.

Convo goes :
Me: so u really don't do anything during the week
Her: nah
Me: what keeps u so busy
Her: being lazy
Me: lol too bad
Her: why not. try being a sloth sometime. it's fun
Me: I send her a pic of a sloth drinking a beer and say even sloths like midweek drinks
Her: they do if it's served at home

At this point this feels like a shit test. Should I just directly tell her to come to my place for drinks (which she might reject)? What do you guys suggest?

(08-18-2015 07:54 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  I've been trying to meet this chick midweek cause I'm usually busy during the weekends.

Convo goes :
Me: so u really don't do anything during the week
Her: nah
Me: what keeps u so busy
Her: being lazy
Me: lol too bad
Her: why not. try being a sloth sometime. it's fun
Me: I send her a pic of a sloth drinking a beer and say even sloths like midweek drinks
Her: they do if it's served at home

At this point this feels like a shit test. Should I just directly tell her to come to my place for drinks (which she might reject)? What do you guys suggest?

Text her, if you don't care, this:

"how about 8=====D?"

Otherwise, push for meet up (drinks, late evening) so you'll know where you stand.

Text her, if you care, this:

"I'm free on day1 and day2. There's this nice bar called a-bar-which-is-close-to-your-flat I want to check out. Are you in?"

If she meanders, she's getting a dick and/or not interested in what you're selling.
If she accepts, she may not be getting a dick and may or may not be DTF.
If she she counteroffers, she may not be getting a dick and may or may not be DTF.

The only way to find out is to push the envelope.

had a good date, no bang, with 22 yo kind of crazy girl....a 7 to 7.5 a few months ago. been going back and forth with texts as I've been out of town a long while. She's sent quite a number of pics of her (clothed) boobs and her in bikini. I did meet her on SA.

she may be interested in Sugar daddy angle though never outright asked about that.

Last night...we were texting back and forth now that I'm finally back in town...she's back in her college town now about 2 hours away.

Me: hum when you're in town doll.
Her: you just want to fuck me that's all really want

(08-19-2015 08:13 AM)robreke Wrote:  Me: hum when you're in town doll.
Her: you just want to fuck me that's all really want

If you say no, she'll say you're lying. If you say yes, she'll say you're a pervert. Ah, women...

She had previously texted me she was already in bed for the night. So I texted her this morning:

"So that's what you think about when you're in bed alone at night. I kinda figured"

This is probably a weird one, but what would be an 'alpha' response to being FB tagged by a girl in an article regarding a horse being sexually violated by a man and them making a light hearted suggestion of you being the 'culprit'? I'd appreciate some creative/imaginative input, folks.

Her: hey
Her: you never talk to me
Me:lol
Her: it's not funny. Pay attention to me lol

Got the number from a hostess at a busy restaurant last night. See this thread:
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130-...pid1096436

Have had the following text exchange:

Me: Thought you were sexy but couldn't talk with family. What time do you get off? (8:59pm)

Her: Its ok no worries. I actually got off a couple minutes ago. Going to my friends bday party. (10:19pm)

Me: Here in (town)? (10:42pm)

Her: city (11:58pm)

Now, I have my daughter with me this weekend so I could not have gone to meet up with her even if I she offered. I was planning on texting her this afternoon (Sunday) and inquire about the party and the invite her to meet up tomorrow or Tuesday. I am trying not to over think this. Recommendations?

(08-23-2015 10:53 AM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  Got the number from a hostess at a busy restaurant last night. See this thread:
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130-...pid1096436

Have had the following text exchange:

Me: Thought you were sexy but couldn't talk with family. What time do you get off? (8:59pm)

Her: Its ok no worries. I actually got off a couple minutes ago. Going to my friends bday party. (10:19pm)

Me: Here in (town)? (10:42pm)

Her: city (11:58pm)

Now, I have my daughter with me this weekend so I could not have gone to meet up with her even if I she offered. I was planning on texting her this afternoon (Sunday) and inquire about the party and the invite her to meet up tomorrow or Tuesday. I am trying not to over think this. Recommendations?

"drinks, 8pm @ xyz bar tomorrow night. wear something cute"

I sent that message. She responded:
I work tomorrow at my other place. might be off a little late.

I replied: No problem. Can meet up later.

No response yet.

(08-20-2015 06:43 PM)Fuzzywuzzy Wrote:  Her: hey
Her: you never talk to me
Me:lol
Her: it's not funny. Pay attention to me lol

Well, a little detail would be hugely helpful:

"why"

or

"drinks?"

or

"no"

(08-20-2015 11:52 AM)Bey Wrote:  This is probably a weird one, but what would be an 'alpha' response to being FB tagged by a girl in an article regarding a horse being sexually violated by a man and them making a light hearted suggestion of you being the 'culprit'? I'd appreciate some creative/imaginative input, folks.

This doesn't make sense. She really insinuated that you'd be sexually violated by a horse, or that you'd be sexually violated by a horse? I have a feeling that you meant she was supposedly alluding to your penis and you being "hung like a horse?"

If the last option, I'd just message her, she's obviously looking for some attention. Maybe "don't worry, I take it slow...at first" or "stalker, you've been peering in my bedroom window huh?" or something playful but sexual. The whole posts just seems like a humblebrag, but I'll chalk it up to a difference in culture/language?

(08-23-2015 12:39 PM)eradicator Wrote:  

(08-23-2015 10:53 AM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  Got the number from a hostess at a busy restaurant last night. See this thread:
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130-...pid1096436

Have had the following text exchange:

Me: Thought you were sexy but couldn't talk with family. What time do you get off? (8:59pm)

Her: Its ok no worries. I actually got off a couple minutes ago. Going to my friends bday party. (10:19pm)

Me: Here in (town)? (10:42pm)

Her: city (11:58pm)

Now, I have my daughter with me this weekend so I could not have gone to meet up with her even if I she offered. I was planning on texting her this afternoon (Sunday) and inquire about the party and the invite her to meet up tomorrow or Tuesday. I am trying not to over think this. Recommendations?

"drinks, 8pm @ xyz bar tomorrow night. wear something cute"

(08-23-2015 06:40 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  I sent that message. She responded:
I work tomorrow at my other place. might be off a little late.

I replied: No problem. Can meet up later.

No response yet.

I don't like your response. It's way too supplicating. A simple "too bad" or no response at all would've been better.

I'd drop it for a few days then reach out with a simple "working" or something really short that could be perceived as interest or disinterest.

I had an ordinary 1st date with a girl. No bang. While I'm trying to arrange the second one, I believe I slipped up.

She sends me a text, in the early morning on the day I suggested to meet up (27/08). She never confirmed to begin with though (I asked on the 25/08 at night):

Her (27/08 - 7:30am): Had a have a sick leave yesterday. Thought it would get better but it hasnt yet

Im going to try go to work today but not too sure if it will get better or worse!

*I never respond to her text thinking its a subtle flake. In the evening around 5:30 when she finished work, she texts me:

Her: Hey ...! I somehow made it through the day but i think I will go home early and rest

Did I tell you how I got sick??

Me (15mins later): No problem, get well

Why, what happened?

Her (45mins later): My neck disc slipped!! Had muscle spasming around it and so I couldnt move my neck at all

Gotten a little better tho

Me (1 hour later): Oh no So you probably have a neck cone right?

Let me know if you're need of a neck massage though

*I sent her this text at around 8pm. 4 hours and she hasn't responded. I can understand, it looks like I'm making fun of her. I couldn't help it though, I watched something really funny just before. It is a mistake, just a simple "That's a shame. I wish you a speedy recovery" would've sufficed.

How do I bounce back from this gents? Do I not respond or should I say something back while trying not to lose frame.

Out on my phone. Just sent a ping text to a girl I mentioned in the approach thread telling her I saw something cute that reminded me of her.

she replies along the lines that I dont know her well so she doubts thats true.

I normally have zero patience for this. it seemed quite cuntish especially as she didnt answer me before, but it could just be a shit test (though my instincts say its not). should I text something under tht assumption (suggestions welcome),go nuclear and tell her if shes giving me thr attitude I dont want to know her, or just ignore it ever happened?

(08-27-2015 03:09 PM)Libertas Wrote:  Out on my phone. Just sent a ping text to a girl I mentioned in the approach thread telling her I saw something cute that reminded me of her.

she replies along the lines that I dont know her well so she doubts thats true.

I normally have zero patience for this. it seemed quite cuntish especially as she didnt answer me before, but it could just be a shit test (though my instincts say its not). should I text something under tht assumption (suggestions welcome),go nuclear and tell her if shes giving me thr attitude I dont want to know her, or just ignore it ever happened?

Wouldn't go nuclear. I know it's hard to not give a girl a piece of your mind when she's a cunt in her texts.....but as you know, she'll take whatever perfect logic you throw at her and let her hamster manipulate it into where she's not at fault for anything.

I say drop something like this and let the chips fall where they may:

"always been good at reading people...you're more an open book than you know"

or more heartisian "you kiddin me....you're an open book lol"

(08-16-2015 06:14 AM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  Went out, met some chick went back to hers, encountered lots of lmr, but she said she'd be up for doing something a few days later

I'm 26, shes 36, but looks around 30

The text convo after went like this:

me - "hey, you still up for doing something on thursday"

her - "hey frenchcorporation, i am sorry but I don't think I can make thursday, I think i am a bit too old for you. Sorry"

Im just curious to see if I can pull it around, even if choose to not reply, I'd like to know what I can do if something happens again

Me: "Are you into younger guys?"

her: [no reply]

Me: ME EITHER

her: "haha" (proceeds to over-qualify herself)

(08-27-2015 08:48 PM)robreke Wrote:  Wouldn't go nuclear. I know it's hard to not give a girl a piece of your mind when she's a cunt in her texts.....but as you know, she'll take whatever perfect logic you throw at her and let her hamster manipulate it into where she's not at fault for anything.

I say drop something like this and let the chips fall where they may:

"always been good at reading people...you're more an open book than you know"

or more heartisian "you kiddin me....you're an open book lol"

I'll use those next time. I just tried to use some callback humor but no response. Next.

Went on a first date earlier this week with this girl. I met her at a place I cowork at twice a month. I shot her a "this is Jagnum text" and she was the first to ask me to hang out that evening, "Hey it was cool meeting you today. We should get together to hang out soon!"

First date, I took her to a loungey place where we had drinks, kissed after about 45 minutes. When she made some comment about if "I take all my girls to this bar", I told her, "hey hey, you were the one that asked me out." Then bounced to a music spot for about 20 mins, but it was late and I had to get home.

She's just out of college, 22yo, said her prev bf's all from social circle. Had never had a guy ask her for her number.

Anyway hit her up yesterday to ask her out on a second date:

Me [9:04 pm]: "Hey how was [place we met] today?"
Her [9:11 pm]: "Pretty good. Got work done and some co-workers met me there."
Me [9:19 pm]: "Did you pick up any hot guys at [place we met] then? ;-)"
Her [9:41 pm]: "Hahaha nah not today. What are you up to?"
Me [9:55 pm]: "Just back from a workshop for my job, made connections. Now I'm getting into bed."
Her [9:56 pm]: "Bed is nice. Sounds like a productive evening."
Me [10:01 pm]: "Mmm it is. Drinks tmrw... 8 pm."
Her [10:10 pm]: "Do you ever ask or do you just tell?"

Before reading this forum, I would have played dumb and said:

"Huh? I forgot a question mark, that's all."

I've learned not to apologize and play into their frame. Here's what I've come up with:

[shrug it off] "Sometimes I ask, sometimes not."
[teasing] "Playing hard to get? Nice. You really are a player."
[light flirting] "I only tell the cute ones."

Any thoughts?

^ wear something cute.

^^"don't read into it"

What I seem to be finding as my predominant problem is how, after a few cycles, once I try to get right down to business and set up a meet, the trail vanishes.

^seconded

Maybe you can try typing up a few of these conversations in full and putting them up. I'm by no means an expert, but I've learned a lot from guys here.

Try inviting her out to things you'd be doing anyway. A food festival, a happy hour after work. Maybe even consider stuff you're already planning to do with friends, then after hanging as a group for 30 minutes, change to a bar with just her. It's less than ideal, but not getting face time is costing you pussy. I'm less averse to meeting her in a group these days.

It's probably the approach more than the texting. One idea might be to audio record your approaches. I did this a while ago and put it up on the forum—I received much needed advice on improving my voice and ways I could be more flirtatious in conversation. You may also choose to jot down as much of the approach as you can remember immediately afterwards. Be really clear in your write-ups, as WIA taught me, so guys on this forum can step fully into your shoes.

Any thoughts on how to work this one...

I'm 42. Been texting with a hot 23 year old I met online. She seems really into me. Sending a few naughty pictures. Vibing well with her, etc with plans to meet up later in the week. Last night this exchange happens.

Her: For the record, you need to suprise me with something at work to make my Monday more bearable

Me: <I ignore and re-direct the conversation to a different topic>

Later she sends this...

Her: But for the record, you'd be rewarded if you surprised me Monday by sending me something at work. Even if it's just a note.
Me: Imagine the look on your co-workers face when they see yo opening up a box filled with whips, handcuffs, and other assorted toys.
Her: AhhHaa! Can't wait! Hopefully there's something. I'm serious, even a note!

Any thoughts on how I should play this? Don't want to supplicate and send something to the office Monday but could potentially work in my favor if done right. My initially thought was to go pick her up some sexy lingerie and drop it off at her office. Hmm

(08-29-2015 11:39 AM)LandonR Wrote:  Any thoughts on how to work this one...

I'm 42. Been texting with a hot 23 year old I met online. She seems really into me. Sending a few naughty pictures. Vibing well with her, etc with plans to meet up later in the week. Last night this exchange happens.

Her: For the record, you need to suprise me with something at work to make my Monday more bearable

Me: <I ignore and re-direct the conversation to a different topic>

Later she sends this...

Her: But for the record, you'd be rewarded if you surprised me Monday by sending me something at work. Even if it's just a note.
Me: Imagine the look on your co-workers face when they see yo opening up a box filled with whips, handcuffs, and other assorted toys.
Her: AhhHaa! Can't wait! Hopefully there's something. I'm serious, even a note!

Any thoughts on how I should play this? Don't want to supplicate and send something to the office Monday but could potentially work in my favor if done right. My initially thought was to go pick her up some sexy lingerie and drop it off at her office. Hmm

She's going too hard for social proof with her friends. She mentions twice this request. It's no mistake this is what she wants. Weather she'll reward you is dubious at best.

I would call this a tosser or see what I could do with it for fun. Maybe send her a card in an envelope that says "I'm right behind you"

Met a chick at a nightclub and we made out. Got the number close too and now we swapping text before she goes out to club again tonight.

.......
Me: "So lucky. Wish i was back in uni"
Her: "Why? So you can join me partying? ? "
Her: "I kid. But really why tho?"
Me: "You wish you could party with me ;-)"
Her: "We both know deep down that it's the other way around "
Her: "Just admit it"
Her: "It's cool ? I know I can be irresistible"
Me: "Pretty sure you were all over me that night."
Me: "behave tonight"
Her: "definition of behave?"

Can't thinkof anything good to text back.

(08-30-2015 03:09 AM)studmuffin52 Wrote:  Met a chick at a nightclub and we made out. Got the number close too and now we swapping text before she goes out to club again tonight.

.......
Me: "So lucky. Wish i was back in uni"
Her: "Why? So you can join me partying? ? "
Her: "I kid. But really why tho?"
Me: "You wish you could party with me ;-)"
Her: "We both know deep down that it's the other way around "
Her: "Just admit it"
Her: "It's cool ? I know I can be irresistible"
Me: "Pretty sure you were all over me that night."
Me: "behave tonight"
Her: "definition of behave?"

Can't thinkof anything good to text back.

"I'm sure you know how to behave, and if you don't I'll have to give you 3 spankings"