I just watched These Hoes Ain't Loyal on YouTube. Always cheers me up because how ridiculous the video is, but yeah the lyrics make me let go of any frustration and just see the game for what it is.

Can never depend on women to provide you with happiness has to come from within.

Exactly man, it's all about inner game first. Make yourself happy first.

Women are just an addition to your life, they are to compliment your life.

Some men think that they need to constantly fuck women, that's fine, but it takes it's toll.

I'm one of those guys and I'm beginning to realized that. At one point I felt like I had a sex addiction, or maybe it was just the rush of banging a new girl.

I have stability with my LTR, but instability with banging girls on the side, from time to time it gets frustrating. I've been in a 2 month drought (of new notches), this is the longest I've ever been.

Then I realized I've got so much more shit than to worry about some hoe. Like almost dying in accident, what my new whip is going to be, how it effects my plans to travel, etc.

Girls are a dime a dozen, always replaceable, and aren't a worry in my life.

^^^Kaotic, once I hit triple digit notches 4 years back, due partially to applying the collective knowledge of this forum, I've basically arrived at the same conclusion.

Women are transactional in nature, so I treat dealing with them as such. What I've got in return?>> less notches per year and a LOT more time back to myself.

The difference now is not reverting back to blue pill crutches when the pussy stream dries up. I figure every way I spend my time has the potential to evolve or scar my soul.

I've pushed the deep lust part far enough to know that aspect of soul evolution is within 10% of my life's peak. The final 10% will be obtained on less vested terms.

In fact, when the value of a girl I'm banging now doesn't meet my value standards, I let them know a move elsewhere instead of keeping them around like a trading card.

Call it alpha or what not, but it just feels like the right thing to do. It's not so much that you bang loads of chicks at free will, but WHAT you have to do to get them and keep them around.

Came out of the bathroom the other night and this girl I've been banging recently told me she took some selfies on my phone and to text her a copy if they were any good. Tired and drunk so didn't think at the time but scrolling back just now I realized that my phone is always locked, what are these pics even doing here?

On a G3 holding volume down, right by the power button, leaves phone in locked mode but loads the camera where tapping the screen takes a pic. She has an iPhone, wouldn't know this at all. Hmm... Sure enough first pic was a random shot of corner of the room. 10:1 odds she was playing with the phone to go through it and accidentally put it in camera mode, took a pic by accident, realized what she did, and took some selfies to cover her tracks. Sneaky sneaky, and without batting an eye. I wonder how many other times my phone has been handled while I was brushing my teeth and I didn't even get a selfie out of it. Lock screen, a player's best friend.

A girl I was trying to get to hangout with tonight told me she was going to a Janet Jackson concert.

I texted back "Oh alright. Hoping for another nipple slip. I knew you went both ways"

She said "ummm. Fuck you lol"

Then right after "If I come back into town tonight we can hangout"

I'm hoping she gets drunk and hits me up but most likely not. On to the next one.

Solipsism Chronicles: Episode 12

Well this should have been a legitimate flake, but instead I got "sick'ed."

Set up a date with this girl I've seen once, yet to bang, was likely happening tonight.

I call her 5 minutes away from her place, she answers the phone with the hoarsest voice I've heard. Like she has every sickness known to mankind.

I tell her no way, she sounds way to fuckin sick. She begs me to come see her. Since I as close I wanted to see what the hell was really up.

Christ, she looked decent, but Damn, she was so sick with upper respiratory nasal shit I kept my distance and told her maybe some other time.

Funny how she was entirely willing to get me sick as fuck, with no regard to me very likely getting it. Plus it was surely in the contagious stage as yesterday she sounded fine on the phone.

And of course, now she's texting shit tests like:"Oh you must not be that attracted to me to want to call it off," -and- "I'll just make plans with someone else if it's going to be like this." Dropped.

Last night was one of those nights. I did almost everything right and still didn't get the fuck.

Admittedly, the failures teach me more than the successes.

Turned my phone off all week for a bit of peace and quiet. My mate text me this morning with a pic of this cute 18 yo readhead saying he's on a boat trip with this girl and she's single and I should have come... cockblocked myself.

I am having my weekly carb refeed at Chik-fil-A.

There is a cute girl in a dress sitting with a guy. As I walk by I look at her, hold eye contact, and she *blatantly* smiles at me.

Do you approach? How?

Maybe my chest pump is that good today or something. I didn't say anything as I was on my way out.

Flaked on a plate to go out with friends Friday night and looking to meet up with this black chick I've been on a couple of dates with but yet to bang. Plate was not happy about it but she'll get over it.
Out with my friends I get blatantly hit on by this 6 at the bar who invites me to come hang with her and her friends. I decline saying that I'm with my friends but really because I'm hanging to bang this black chick.
Black chick is pre drinking at her place with friends and texting me asking where I'm out. I tell her where I am and she says she's coming, then half an hour later I get picture from her showing one of her friends passed out on her couch, bucket beside her and bandage on her head. Apparently this drunk bitch who can't handle her grog smacked her head hard on something on the way out and so my black chick had to stay back and look after her. Got bloody cock blocked by her drunk friend. Triply pissed because I passed on my plate and on the DTF chick at the bar for her.

(09-11-2015 10:29 PM)Ingocnito Wrote:  Solipsism Chronicles: Episode 12

Well this should have been a legitimate flake, but instead I got "sick'ed."

Set up a date with this girl I've seen once, yet to bang, was likely happening tonight.

I call her 5 minutes away from her place, she answers the phone with the hoarsest voice I've heard. Like she has every sickness known to mankind.

I tell her no way, she sounds way to fuckin sick. She begs me to come see her. Since I as close I wanted to see what the hell was really up.

Christ, she looked decent, but Damn, she was so sick with upper respiratory nasal shit I kept my distance and told her maybe some other time.

Funny how she was entirely willing to get me sick as fuck, with no regard to me very likely getting it. Plus it was surely in the contagious stage as yesterday she sounded fine on the phone.

And of course, now she's texting shit tests like:"Oh you must not be that attracted to me to want to call it off," -and- "I'll just make plans with someone else if it's going to be like this." Dropped.

Yeah you did the right thing, just have to maintain frame at all times. If I was in one of my asshole moods I'd have responded to that last one with something like "I'd really like to meet the guy who's so desperate he wants to go out with a girl who sounds like a zombie" lol.

By the way, any special reason for the carbonic acid molecule as your picture? I'm currently in an organic chemistry class in college so I was able to recognize it.

Update: went and met them post boat trip, banged the red head.

(09-12-2015 05:18 PM)redbeard Wrote:  I am having my weekly carb refeed at Chik-fil-A.

There is a cute girl in a dress sitting with a guy. As I walk by I look at her, hold eye contact, and she *blatantly* smiles at me.

Do you approach? How?

Maybe my chest pump is that good today or something. I didn't say anything as I was on my way out.

That depends. Could the guy kick your ass? haha.

I'm starting to learn my niche as a newbie 103 approaches in. Surprisingly, white girls seem to appear less worth my time. The combination of shit tests, flakiness, attitude etc is not worth it. When I approach latinas/blacks I get the number half the time and this is the second time this semester I'll be at a black girls dorm room (knock on wood so she won't flake). I guess white girls are in high demand, combine this with living in the bible belt, as a mixed man, it puts me as disadvantage. Its funny. If you would asked me before I learned game which girls like me the most it would be white. I guess that bubbly personality is just a front.Combine all this with the fact that every time you hear about a false rape accusation, who's making the claims? White Girls

(09-13-2015 06:33 AM)Phil Jackson Wrote:  Combine all this with the fact that every time you hear about a false rape accusation, who's making the claims? White Girls

Duke Lacrosse, Tawana Brawley, every other "victim" I'm forgetting whom Al Sharpton has backed up... Crazy don't see color.

(09-12-2015 10:32 PM)The Truth Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 05:18 PM)redbeard Wrote:  I am having my weekly carb refeed at Chik-fil-A.

There is a cute girl in a dress sitting with a guy. As I walk by I look at her, hold eye contact, and she *blatantly* smiles at me.

Do you approach? How?

Maybe my chest pump is that good today or something. I didn't say anything as I was on my way out.

That depends. Could the guy kick your ass? haha.

No way.

Even then, would she be receptive?

She was young...I live in a conservative area, what kinda game?

If the timing was different I would have trolled around and tried to slip her my number while he went to refill their drinks or something. But considering I was on my way out I couldn't think of something to do besides go and say "hey" or something like "hey where do I know you from?"

(09-13-2015 11:50 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 10:32 PM)The Truth Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 05:18 PM)redbeard Wrote:  I am having my weekly carb refeed at Chik-fil-A.

There is a cute girl in a dress sitting with a guy. As I walk by I look at her, hold eye contact, and she *blatantly* smiles at me.

Do you approach? How?

Maybe my chest pump is that good today or something. I didn't say anything as I was on my way out.

That depends. Could the guy kick your ass? haha.

No way.

Even then, would she be receptive?

She was young...I live in a conservative area, what kinda game?

If the timing was different I would have trolled around and tried to slip her my number while he went to refill their drinks or something. But considering I was on my way out I couldn't think of something to do besides go and say "hey" or something like "hey where do I know you from?"

You'd be surprised with the stuff I have gotten away with down South.

Most of these southern belles are scandelous IME. They just hide it extremely well.

(09-13-2015 09:44 AM)Gorgiass Wrote:  

(09-13-2015 06:33 AM)Phil Jackson Wrote:  Combine all this with the fact that every time you hear about a false rape accusation, who's making the claims? White Girls

Duke Lacrosse, Tawana Brawley, every other "victim" I'm forgetting whom Al Sharpton has backed up... Crazy don't see color.

There's always the exception, but for the most part (roughly 90%) it will be white girls.

(09-13-2015 11:50 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 10:32 PM)The Truth Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 05:18 PM)redbeard Wrote:  I am having my weekly carb refeed at Chik-fil-A.

There is a cute girl in a dress sitting with a guy. As I walk by I look at her, hold eye contact, and she *blatantly* smiles at me.

Do you approach? How?

Maybe my chest pump is that good today or something. I didn't say anything as I was on my way out.

That depends. Could the guy kick your ass? haha.

No way.

Even then, would she be receptive?

She was young...I live in a conservative area, what kinda game?

If the timing was different I would have trolled around and tried to slip her my number while he went to refill their drinks or something. But considering I was on my way out I couldn't think of something to do besides go and say "hey" or something like "hey where do I know you from?"

This is a tougher nut to crack than if the girl is by herself or, even with a girlfriend but it can be done. It's almost called for since she smiled at you.

I recommend indirect game, feigning ignorance about something ( asking for help/ directions ) and then gauging receptivity/logistics while you're talking to them to see if you can take it to the next level. If she's receptive after your opener and it turns out they're only friends or just 'beginning to date' you can go for her number.

If the logistics and receptivity aren't there after you open, you can eject without getting too forward.

Example:

You notice her eye contact and smile.

So, you smirk back look down at your phone or something and slowly walk over looking at her/them;

You: "Excuse me"
they look up.
You: "Hi, sorry to get y'all in the middle of lunch, but I'm not familiar with this area and I'm supposed to meet my buddy at ( some place in the general area that they would probably know about like a starbucks or something )

You can throw in " you guys look like you might be from around here"
"Do y'all happen to know where it is? " ( something along these lines. Some people think it's 'beta' to apologize for interrupting but I don't think so.

Sometimes I make a joke if I interrupt a girl by herself as I'll kind of sarcastically amplify "I know it's SO rude of me to interrupt you while you're eating. SO rude." and they're like "no it's okay"

When opening for directions, I'll often also throw in "google on my phone isn't working today too good."

Then, banter about the location of the starbucks or whatever venue you asked about a bit as if you're making sure you know how to get there. Ask follow up questions about the location. eg. is it close to here? Can I walk or should I drive? etc etc. Feign just a little bit of ignorance to keep the 'opener' going a minute or more.

Then once they tell you, transition a bit:

You: I appreciate it. You guys sound like you know the area well, You must be from around here?

Try to get them talking about themselves. You can even add that you live there but have been traveling so much 'with business' that you're not as familiar with the town as you should be. Try to get a little repoire going.

Eventually, you want to get to something along the lines of "so how do you guys know each other?" or " have you guys been friends long?"

Hopefully they'll say that they ARE friends and not gf/bf. The guy, regardless of their relationship will be protective of you, the interloper, a bit. Just politely plough through, gauging the girl's looks at you and actions to make sure she's attracted.

This, is pretty much just 'directions game' as that what you opened with but when a girl is with a guy, even if she's more attracted to you than him, her sense of social convention and anti slut defenses won't let her respond positively ( usually ) to a direct opener. So, you have to run this stealth game to figure out their relationship to each other.

Assuming they're not bf/gf ( or even if they are bf/gf if you're feeling particularly ballsy) you can say: " ok cool. You guys are helpful. what's your name btw?" shake hands introduce.

You need to , obviously, go for the number at this point. A decent way to do this to girls in a "set" is maybe ask their help on one last thing like cool places to go out in town as you and your friend are going out later and don't know the area well.

Ask them what they do for fun. Do they go out on the weekends like you and your buddy are planning to do?

Suggest that if y'all (you and your buddy ) run into something cool while you're out at night, you can text them and let them know in case they want to join you or say "cool, we may try that later tonight or tomorrow. Maybe I could message you guys if we run into something fun?" Hopefully the girl will be receptive and if she was giving you IOIs she probably will be.

If they agree to give your number just hand your phone to the girl, get her number and eject.

I've used this similar routine successfully before on an attractive girl with a girlfriend but never tried it on a girl with a guy. I don't see why it couldn't work in that situation too though, especially since she was giving you approach signals.

I missed an opportunity.

I was checking out some girl in another checkout line in the grocery store. Young, tight black pants, pink gym shirt.

I finished paying for my food, put my cart away, and picked up the bags. Then I saw her looking at me, with a shy smile, as she was passing by. I said "Hi".

But then I walked the other way.

Now I'm kicking myself for not going for it.

(09-13-2015 08:29 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  I missed an opportunity.

I was checking out some girl in another checkout line in the grocery store. Young, tight black pants, pink gym shirt.

I finished paying for my food, put my cart away, and picked up the bags. Then I saw her looking at me, with a shy smile, as she was passing by. I said "Hi".

But then I walked the other way.

Now I'm kicking myself for not going for it.

Me too man. Other day I was decked to nines and I was walking past a girl who I've seen around lately but never bothered talking too. I gave her a good 5 second long stare wondering in my head if we've met before.

She gave me this wide toothy smile as we walked past each other, and I didn't follow up. Been kicking myself over that as well .

(09-13-2015 11:50 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 10:32 PM)The Truth Wrote:  

(09-12-2015 05:18 PM)redbeard Wrote:  I am having my weekly carb refeed at Chik-fil-A.

There is a cute girl in a dress sitting with a guy. As I walk by I look at her, hold eye contact, and she *blatantly* smiles at me.

Do you approach? How?

Maybe my chest pump is that good today or something. I didn't say anything as I was on my way out.

That depends. Could the guy kick your ass? haha.

No way.

Even then, would she be receptive?

She was young...I live in a conservative area, what kinda game?

If the timing was different I would have trolled around and tried to slip her my number while he went to refill their drinks or something. But considering I was on my way out I couldn't think of something to do besides go and say "hey" or something like "hey where do I know you from?"

Red you cheeky bastard. I've seen you AMOG girls with boyfriends before in real life. Do what you usually do and go for it. Night game and day game aren't really that different, and most guys are pussy enough to let you flirt with girls that are with them.

Not to mention if they were out for Chik-Fila-A odds are he was friendzoned. No guy goes out alone with a girl for Chik-Fila-A of all things.

Do you guys ever hold a girl's hand while walking somewhere on a date?

It seems pretty beta to me but the last date I went on while we were walking back to my place I grabbed and held her hand as a way to keep consistent kino going. Didn't end up hurting my chances but she was pretty into me already.

What do you guys think?

^^^^^^^

I always do this. It's a good and easy way to initiate physical contact with them. It works even better if you lead the girl by her hand. Just grab it without asking or hesitating and it should work fine if she thinks you are attractive at all.

(09-14-2015 05:02 PM)realologist Wrote:  ^^^^^^^

I always do this. It's a good and easy way to initiate physical contact with them. It works even better if you lead the girl by her hand. Just grab it without asking or hesitating and it should work fine if she thinks you are attractive at all.

Better yet on a night out I grab them by the hand and take them to the dancefloor. I've always done this to isolate girls, get kino going, and get the sexual tension through the roof.

If you have no better option taking the hand and running your fingers on her veins can be sexual as it gets in terms of small time kino.