Post: #1126

(07-05-2015 01:29 PM)Deepdiver Wrote:  

(07-02-2015 09:15 AM)swuglyfe Wrote:  My targeting regime:

Almost strictly second tier cities: Seattle, Denver, Portland (which has an inordinate amount of talent for some bizarre reason), Atlanta, Austin, St. Louis.

I skip the big cities where there is much more money sloshing around that would easily distract these ADD girls: Miami, LA, SF, NYC, Boston, Chicago.

18-20 only. Maybe 21 every so often. I try and catch them when they're newest to the game, but more importantly, can't drink. This means that I don't have to buy them expensive drinks and I can bounce them to my room and provide them stuff.

I log on every day and go through my entire list real quick, I've got all these cities on saved searches with my exact preferences. Filter by newest profile, then check unviewed, this will allow me to skim and favorite the hot one or two new profiles each day from each city. Takes 10 minutes AT MOST.

I don't ignore girls that have entitled profiles that Aenigmarius mentioned above, but I double book them with someone who has a nicer profile as well. If you're dominant enough, most of them will fall in line, not all.

If they have been on the site for more than 6 months, that is a red flag for me. They are probably used to pump and dump and will probably end up wasting my time. Better to focus on the constant inflow of new talent. I don't favorite any girl who's been inactive more than a month either.

Returned a like and +1 rep - still have not figured out how to leave a rep comment - too busy with my mentor protege game - our SA gamer SWUG brought some interesting innovation here to find and sort the sweet kernels from the hard abrasive old cobs.

The idea of looking only for fresh sweet wide eyed 18 to 20 females by searching by 2nd tier cities and then check unviewed and only game the new bangable ladies 7+8+9+s was a new time saver that I am absolutely going to copy +1 Brother SWUG!

Appreciate the pending rep Deep! It's just the rate button in the profile that brings up a dialog box.

Your favorites list should be a convenient shortlist of the top talent that you are most interested in. If I can't get to a girl and she is inactive for a month, she's off the list unless her profiles and pics are veritable 9.5s. Otherwise there's just too much good talent rolling in to care.

Saved searches are the best. I have height, age, body type, race, and #kids filtered, cross applied to each city.

Post: #1127

Hey I'm new to this site, a friend told me about it when he heard what I have been doing for a while now. I haven't read everything in this thread yet, but I can say this site (SA) is a gold mine for sleeping with hot chicks. I prefer the fake tits/high heel minidress type woman, and pof/match/etc really sucks ass for those types.

Anyway, I have never handed over a single $ to these women for an "arrangement." I do however take them out to dinner, a concert/etc and expect to pick up the tab (usually would anyway on a "real" date). The funny part is a lot of times, you can get these women to pay for a lot of the night because they think they are investing in something much larger. My profile has just regular pics of me, I put some BS up about selling an internet company or houses at the right time with a net worth of around $2M and they come flocking in. The first girl I actually felt "bad" about lying to, but when she cussed me out after finding out I'm not really a multimillionaire, even though everything else went awesome for 2 days, I got over that real quick and just decided to make a game of it for some side ass when I'm bored.

I do fake the part by wearing nice clothes, getting front row tickets to events (which I already do for myself anyway), nicer restaurants (depending on the girl I might set it up at Ruth's Chris/Mortons, but usually something like Yardhouse will do the trick). I also usually end up staying at their house instead of mine. I'm actually amazed at how much stuff these women accrue by doing this. The last chick I spent the night with had a 3 story house covered wall-to-wall with original artwork in a very nice neighborhood, a BMW and a Benz SUV in the driveway AND NO JOB WHATSOEVER. It does help that I do drive a nice car that looks really expensive to a girl who doesn't really know too much about cars, and of course I always say it's my "fun" car.

I also keep my profile about fun, and not about $. I simply put I recently got out of a costly divorce and am not looking for anything serious at the moment as I am trying to finally "live a little." That way there is no pressure. I explicitly say that I am not looking for a hookup whatsoever (which usually leads to sex on the first date when they ask about it in person, all part of the game). The "pros" on there sniff it out and usually send me strange messages about how this site is not meant for what i'm using it for and want a hard number of $ they expect to receive, but you just ignore those messages and move on.

These dates are actually pretty fun as I get to put on a new persona and basically be anything I want, and they believe it. The quality is awesome, and you don't really need any game as long as you keep selling your story. The only downside is they never last beyond maybe a week or so, so not too many repeat performances. One time I actually fell for one of the women and she played the role so well she even had me convinced she was so into me and the money didn't even matter anymore. My stupid ass started falling for my own fantasy and was pretty much crushed when only part of the truth came out and she did a complete 180 in about 5 seconds flat after being "with" me for a few weeks. But after that I learned it's all just a game and they are getting what they "deserve," as they aren't truly going to be happy anyway hooking up with a guy just because he has a large bank account.

But all in all the quality has been phenomenal (I don't know if it's against the rules but I could upload pics, pics of conversations they're pure gold some of them). I have my own proven methods of quick easy ass on CL/pof/match and this one by far is the best and worth every penny of the membership fee. Oh, and just today some super hot chick I've been checking out all semester in my class happened to favorite my profile on there (she can't see my pics) and i'm trying to figure out a way to get her without feeling stupid or like a creep for being on the site. It was almost like fate because I've been checking her out for a while now, but been too much of a pussy to actually talk to her in class for some reason.

Oh, and these women are used to meeting up with ugly creepy ass 50+ year old men so when they see someone younger (i'm 30), it just makes it that much more exciting for them (and easy for you to get some)

Post: #1128

(07-10-2015 01:55 AM)SA916 Wrote:  I also usually end up staying at their house instead of mine.

Excellent info SA916!

What's the script / game plan for bouncing the girl back to her place? It seems like it would be incongruent with the wealthy image we are selling if we don't take her to a nice hotel or your sweet pad.

Maybe if you pick the girl up from her place to start and drive her home, but in my experience so far on the site, the girls are reluctant to give up personal info (like a home address) until meeting and making sure you are cool.

Also, I live in London which has excellent public transportation, so its standard for dates to meet at the venue.

I'm 1 for 2 so far, both dates at hotels, with 3 more dates lined up this weekend. Bouncing to their place would save a bundle on hotels in the long run.

Post: #1129

(07-04-2015 10:41 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  Nah. I am actually very in favor of this thread getting locked and sinking down the forum in terms of activity and search engine rankings. If a new player needs to learn about it, it's here for him to find. But really, everything that needs to be said has been said at this point. It's all super minor iterations now to tailor your individual personality. PMs to and between the guys who run SA game successfully is all that is really needed or warranted now, in my opinion. Anything else attracts trolls and flame wars.

When you google Rooshvforum the first suggested result is "rooshvforum seeking arrangement".

I'm curious how popular this thread is pulled up in Google search results.

Post: #1130

I live in a medium-sized city in CA. The public transportation sucks, everyone drives or takes uber.

The key I found to getting back to her house is the 2nd date. You're right about them giving up their info (most wont even tell you their real first name), so i set up a quick (because a wealthy man doesn't have a lot of time) lunch date on say a thursday, then if that goes well I set up something real for Friday or Saturday night.

I also try to keep it close to her house and stress how far away i live. By the end of the night they sometimes suggest you "just stay there" because you've had a few drinks or whatnot. If that fails, you could use the hotel as a backup.

Now when i have to take them back to my house, i've set the tone for my place already too. I dont say im a freaking billionaire or anything. I make it a believable guy who just got a little lucky and has a nice nest egg that will make life easier. I usually tell some story about how my ex wife got half (maybe now they think they cam get half too) and im living modestly as i focus on my new endeavor. Ive even sold it by when they text me what i'm doing, ill say out with a realtor. Then they ask why and i say because im finally ready to look for a decent sized house now that the divorce is final or something like that. The shit works. I have a modest 3 bed 3 bath house and no one has ever really questioned it.

Ive pretty much gotten every detail down to a science now that ive been on enough of these, and it works pretty often i even amaze myself sometimes. Sometimes when i see their houses i need to hold back how in awe (and jealous) i really am lol.

Ps this only works with the older (30 plus) ones. The young ones are broke as hell and usually living with mom and dad still or a roommate in some 2 bedroom apartment in the ghetto.

Post: #1131

I've gone out with some of the younger ones, 19-22 year olds. Kissed two of them last weekend. Got them both to my place but wouldn't bang. Surprise, surprise never heard from either again. It is a bit frustrating to end every first date with a kiss and touching her arse and never hearing anything. The older ones still have the attentions of flies but not as bad.

One girl I went out with last weekend told me she regularly meets transexuals on that website and gets fucked by them. She also had an "arrangement" (I suppose this means he paid her to stick his erect penis in her orifice which has seen a 100 cocks already) with a visiting professor. Some real potential in those girls. Another one today wouldn't meet me unless I pay her cash, this is despite telling her several times I'm not looking for a prostitute, she said she'd do "anything" for 200 dollars. She could have just said the word anal, she's a prostitute after all. I told her to go away.

Anyway got a Polish girl coming over in 5 minutes from OKCupid.

Post: #1132

You probably needed more comfort game with a younger girl.

Post: #1133

(07-10-2015 11:07 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

(07-04-2015 10:41 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  Nah. I am actually very in favor of this thread getting locked and sinking down the forum in terms of activity and search engine rankings. If a new player needs to learn about it, it's here for him to find. But really, everything that needs to be said has been said at this point. It's all super minor iterations now to tailor your individual personality. PMs to and between the guys who run SA game successfully is all that is really needed or warranted now, in my opinion. Anything else attracts trolls and flame wars.

When you google Rooshvforum the first suggested result is "rooshvforum seeking arrangement".

I'm curious how popular this thread is pulled up in Google search results.

Exactly - you can be sure the wannabe-prostitutes on SA are catching on and Google analytics could probably show related trend lines. Should shut this thread down and re-arrange whatever metadata possible to replace it in the search results, but the way Google tinkers with their algorithm there's no guarantee that would even work.

Post: #1134

(07-10-2015 11:07 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  When you google Rooshvforum the first suggested result is "rooshvforum seeking arrangement".

Google search results are account-dependent. I don't get the same results, for instance. Try searching after logging out of your Google account.

Post: #1135

The search box indicates first what is most popular, before you actually hit enter and start searching. If people look for two terms commonly together, it is typical for the third term to show in suggested searches.

France tried to hold Google accountable for antisemitic behavior because when anyone typed in "Is Rupert Murdoch..." one of the next suggested words was "Jewish." It wasn't Google's fault people often asked that question, it just showed up. Not sure what Google ever did, if anything.

Post: #1136

I've read several pages from the beginning and the end of this thread and have a question:

Is it safe to run this game in your home town and bring the girls to your pad? I mean without the after-drama. I think I should aim for the 10% that cosworth was mentioning. But how to screen the other 90%? I mean even if she does not talk about arrangement on the first encounter, she may bring it up after sex.

Several years ago I did an attempt like this on a different website. Managed to bring a girl home even though she was talking about arrangement and other offers she had got (6K/month). Before going home with me she asked my address and sent it to a friend for "security reasons". I think if a girl does this now I shouldn't comply and say something like "Who do you think I am? A human trafficker?"

(If you are curious, I managed to tackle the girl's LMR and did a lot of foreplay but I wasn't getting hard. Also the beta in me kicked in and when she mentioned arrangement again I told her I didn't want to use her, which turned her totally off in an instant. That was a bad turning point for me; I had read The Game and were hopeful but this showed me becoming alpha was not anything trivial. But I'm back again. )

Post: #1137

(06-17-2015 03:54 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  Don't ever send a dick pic to a SA broad.

What in the fuck...

That's all I'm sending . Just had a girl thank me after sending her a video of me jerking to a nude she sent .. I'm pretty sure I can bang and make these girls think I want a relationship without handing money over . I'm doing it from a Dom/Sub power exchange angle . Have two dates set up for the coming weekend and one in two weeks . I go for there kik right away and build rapport , moneys only came up with two girls . Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

Post: #1138

(07-20-2015 03:51 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

what??

Post: #1139

(07-20-2015 05:43 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 03:51 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

what??

Debating if I should pay for these two 9's that want money for sex. Both are very good looking but I'm too poor to be buying sex but fucckkk .

Post: #1140

(07-20-2015 12:11 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 05:43 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 03:51 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

what??

Debating if I should pay for these two 9's that want money for sex. Both are very good looking but I'm too poor to be buying sex but fucckkk .

If you're debating to fuck whores (as in actual prostitutes) who have had hundreds of cocks inside them there are probably better places to do it.

Post: #1141

(07-20-2015 12:11 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 05:43 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 03:51 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

what??

Debating if I should pay for these two 9's that want money for sex. Both are very good looking but I'm too poor to be buying sex but fucckkk .

Ahhh...I thought you meant fucking them with game.

Come on man...never pay these whores a dime.

Post: #1142

(07-20-2015 01:13 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 12:11 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 05:43 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 03:51 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

what??

Debating if I should pay for these two 9's that want money for sex. Both are very good looking but I'm too poor to be buying sex but fucckkk .

Ahhh...I thought you meant fucking them with game.

Come on man...never pay these whores a dime.

I'm working on this fitness babe right now she said she gets $1000 a night from some guy from NYC ( I'm in Vancouver) . She loves muscular guys so I just been sending her non stop selfies and telling her how I'm going to fuck her . Already told her I'm poor , and shouldn't be on the site. She's still texting me non stop and sending me nudes like a regular hook up would. Couple more weeks of building rapport and I should be good .

Have a hot 19 year old blonde who hasn't once bought up money and wants to hook up on Saturday . Told me she never had an orgasm from a guy before and is another 50 shades of grey victim for me to slaughter This shit's easier to find a hot sub from then Fetlife which i have over 30 bangs from .

Post: #1143

(07-20-2015 03:01 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 01:13 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 12:11 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 05:43 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 03:51 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Still debating if I should fuck them or pass . Solid 9's .

what??

Debating if I should pay for these two 9's that want money for sex. Both are very good looking but I'm too poor to be buying sex but fucckkk .

Ahhh...I thought you meant fucking them with game.

Come on man...never pay these whores a dime.

I'm working on this fitness babe right now she said she gets $1000 a night from some guy from NYC ( I'm in Vancouver) . She loves muscular guys so I just been sending her non stop selfies and telling her how I'm going to fuck her . Already told her I'm poor , and shouldn't be on the site. She's still texting me non stop and sending me nudes like a regular hook up would. Couple more weeks of building rapport and I should be good .

Have a hot 19 year old blonde who hasn't once bought up money and wants to hook up on Saturday . Told me she never had an orgasm from a guy before and is another 50 shades of grey victim for me to slaughter This shit's easier to find a hot sub from then Fetlife which i have over 30 bangs from .

There are too many women on this website who won't bring up money until you're literally there with your cock in your hand. Even ones who send you the nude pics. Trust me I've been there, I had to pay one girl to get the fuck out of my house after she used the standard prostitute line of "what arrangement are you looking for?" after 2 hours in a bar with her and bringing her back to my place, a seemingly normal date with kissing and everything until she suddenly remembered she's a prostitute when sex was on the agenda. I had to pay her a taxi just so she could fuck off and never be seen again, she wouldn't leave.
Think many have been bitten, it's one reason why hotels are better. I make it clear I'm not looking for escorts or allowances from the off. If you don't you're risking it on this website but you never know. Don't get too excited until you're actually banging them, and in fact don't get too excited then either.

Post: #1144

(07-20-2015 05:23 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 03:01 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 01:13 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 12:11 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 05:43 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  what??

Debating if I should pay for these two 9's that want money for sex. Both are very good looking but I'm too poor to be buying sex but fucckkk .

Ahhh...I thought you meant fucking them with game.

Come on man...never pay these whores a dime.

I'm working on this fitness babe right now she said she gets $1000 a night from some guy from NYC ( I'm in Vancouver) . She loves muscular guys so I just been sending her non stop selfies and telling her how I'm going to fuck her . Already told her I'm poor , and shouldn't be on the site. She's still texting me non stop and sending me nudes like a regular hook up would. Couple more weeks of building rapport and I should be good .

Have a hot 19 year old blonde who hasn't once bought up money and wants to hook up on Saturday . Told me she never had an orgasm from a guy before and is another 50 shades of grey victim for me to slaughter This shit's easier to find a hot sub from then Fetlife which i have over 30 bangs from .

There are too many women on this website who won't bring up money until you're literally there with your cock in your hand. Even ones who send you the nude pics. Trust me I've been there, I had to pay one girl to get the fuck out of my house after she used the standard prostitute line of "what arrangement are you looking for?" after 2 hours in a bar with her and bringing her back to my place, a seemingly normal date with kissing and everything until she suddenly remembered she's a prostitute when sex was on the agenda. I had to pay her a taxi just so she could fuck off and never be seen again, she wouldn't leave.
Think many have been bitten, it's one reason why hotels are better. I make it clear I'm not looking for escorts or allowances from the off. If you don't you're risking it on this website but you never know. Don't get too excited until you're actually banging them, and in fact don't get too excited then either.

I'm done with the girls older then 22 who have been in the game too long . I'm picking up this hot 19 year old Saturday night after her friends B-Day party. I just picked out her dress,heels , hair style and panties . She wants to hook up sooner but it's better for my long term game to lay the ground work of making her feel little to me and building a trust system. I just sent her a pic of my toys and shes freaking out

This site is full of submissive girls who want a Dom in there life . If any of you guys have been in the fetlife game for a while , this place is easy pickings .

Post: #1145

So this is Fetlife (below Google comment) ... when I googled it - about fetishes - Nothing wrong with it if that is what you are into - but I would suggest it should have its own thread - yeah you could run fetish game against the SA Banglers but that is really not the focus of SA or Seeking Arrangement whereas Seeking Fetish Arrangement should probably be its own thread and web site.

The main attraction of SA and its related sites is true 7/8/9 talent and how to sort the sweet kernels from the hard crusty cobs. Do a 1,000 Mile range search with the keyword "model" any where in the USA on Match.com, SA.com and WYP and look at the results - almost NO real models on Match whereas plenty on SA and WYP.

Google "Fetlife" Search...

I no longer do online game but if you lived in a large metro area and were sufficiently freaky (or just plain dominant) you could easily pick up some women here.

http://www.fetlife.com

It's not set up like a dating site, but at least you know what you're getting sexually before you get it.

Oh yeah, I recommend going easy on the C&F stuff especially initially. Simply control the frame and get their pussies wet before you pitch the meet. That's it.

Post: #1146

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/calen..._2016_vote

Who picks these women only two I would consider reaching out to would be July (Slim Kardashian look alike) and December (Girl Next Door type), the two blondes look a bit rough to me... I like women with much more feminine faces ...

But to each his own - SB of the year - what is this SA now Playboy the feminist version?

Post: #1147

(07-20-2015 08:09 PM)Deepdiver Wrote:  So this is Fetlife (below Google comment) ... when I googled it - about fetishes - Nothing wrong with it if that is what you are into - but I would suggest it should have its own thread - yeah you could run fetish game against the SA Banglers but that is really not the focus of SA or Seeking Arrangement whereas Seeking Fetish Arrangement should probably be its own thread and web site.

The main attraction of SA and its related sites is true 7/8/9 talent and how to sort the sweet kernels from the hard crusty cobs. Do a 1,000 Mile range search with the keyword "model" any where in the USA on Match.com, SA.com and WYP and look at the results - almost NO real models on Match whereas plenty on SA and WYP.

Google "Fetlife" Search...

I no longer do online game but if you lived in a large metro area and were sufficiently freaky (or just plain dominant) you could easily pick up some women here.

http://www.fetlife.com

It's not set up like a dating site, but at least you know what you're getting sexually before you get it.

Oh yeah, I recommend going easy on the C&F stuff especially initially. Simply control the frame and get their pussies wet before you pitch the meet. That's it.

A hot 19 year old new submissive will get 100 messages in a day from horny guys saying there Dom on fetlife and will mostly get scared off or figure out 98% of the guys are bullshitting and want an easy lay after the first encounter. This SA is a totally different beast meeting naive girls who want to have that sexual experience . This 19 year old girl would never find fet on her own , my profile write up on SA , made her interested in me . Now from my text game and looks , I have her hooked .

Post: #1148

Are any guys drinking with under 21s? I had a 20yo the other week, came straight over to "meet up" and we were "going to go out from there" but I managed to keep it in the house, had some drinks and food and banged. Another 19yo in the works, but for a fallback plan in case she or others don't want to come straight over, or do come over but get antsy hanging out, I was thinking an ethnic BYOB restaurant and bringing a bottle of wine to lower inhibitions. Too risky?

Post: #1149

(07-27-2015 02:35 AM)Gorgiass Wrote:  Are any guys drinking with under 21s? I had a 20yo the other week, came straight over to "meet up" and we were "going to go out from there" but I managed to keep it in the house, had some drinks and food and banged. Another 19yo in the works, but for a fallback plan in case she or others don't want to come straight over, or do come over but get antsy hanging out, I was thinking an ethnic BYOB restaurant and bringing a bottle of wine to lower inhibitions. Too risky?

Sneaking a bottle of wine into the restaurant? Doesn't sound worth it to me. Let her have a sip of your drink to give her the cheap thrill of drinking under the radar.

To answer the original question, yes. I run only under-21 because it gives me an additional point of leverage. Unless she's got a fake, I control her access to alcohol.

There's nothing fundamentally wrong with starting at a restaurant, but I prefer a wine bar or lounge so that food is not the primary expectation, and I don't have to buy her food or an expensive drink.

Post: #1150

Not sneaking a bottle in, going to a restaurant where they don't have a full liquor license and allow you to bring your own bottle in legally. Most of the time the food is pretty cheap at these joints too. I've never been carded at a BYOB place but maybe it would be better to get one on lock first.