Post: #101

16 with my first (and only girlfriend)

Post: #102

1st week of college right after turning 18. Could have lost it sooner but was waiting for marriage up until I was 16 lol. We had a 2 week rule at my school.(don't do any new shit like sex or drugs for the 1st 2 weeks of school) Made it a point to break it. Chinese girl 7.5/10 Couldn't cum with condom fucked for like 3 CDs worth of music. Still couldn't cum during bj. My dick was in that numb zone by then. She didn't know I was a virgin. I was happy that I didn't cum quick like the stereotypical virgin. Even before losing my virginity I felt like my sex had value and not cumming quick just validated my feelings. So I've always had a low tolerance for shit tests,bitcheness and ugly chicks.

Post: #103

15. I was a sophomore in high school, she was a senior

Post: #104

18 years old with a girl who was my girlfriend at the time.

It was one of the best experiences in my life with someone who I actually cared for.

Good times.

Post: #105

14 years old back in 1989. She was a slut who gave it up on the first date, because of her I always try to fuck chicks as soon as I meet them- it works out like that more often than not.

Post: #106

29, but in my defence
(a) I'd worked on edging so I lasted a lot longer than her previous boyfriends did
(b) I was the first one to give her screaming orgasms without her having to finger herself while fucking,
© She never used a dildo again.

God save us from people who mean well. -storm

Post: #107

(12-28-2017 03:13 AM)Paracelsus Wrote:  29, but in my defence
(a) I'd worked on edging so I lasted a lot longer than her previous boyfriends did
(b) I was the first one to give her screaming orgasms without her having to finger herself while fucking,
© She never used a dildo again.

Impressive, would recommend any material on that? Serious question.

I lost at 22 with a prostitute. I don't regret it one bit.

Post: #108

15, new years eve, with my first serious girlfriend.

Post: #109

(12-28-2017 06:43 AM)lionel Wrote:  

(12-28-2017 03:13 AM)Paracelsus Wrote:  29, but in my defence
(a) I'd worked on edging so I lasted a lot longer than her previous boyfriends did
(b) I was the first one to give her screaming orgasms without her having to finger herself while fucking,
© She never used a dildo again.

Impressive, would recommend any material on that? Serious question.

Okay, then, in seriousness:

I was an autodidact. The only materials I really had were magazine porn, that was back before the days of xhamster or pornhub really (also why I like the vintage erotica forums, they have scans of all the old magazines I thought were long gone). As you can probably guess I masturbated a lot. I think my "record" is about 5 times in one day more or less consecutively, but I gather from some of the surveys I've read that's an insane amount of jerking, well above the normal. I still go off at least once a day which, again, is a bit fucking weird.

I was also a bit odd physically because I've never had a wet dream; not once. Whether that has much to do with control or whether it just means I'm screwed up I don't know.

Lots of masturbation desensitises your dick, at least that's what I found, which in turn helps to keep from blowing your load early. When jerking off, you can't just go for the 100 metre dash every time, you have to jerk yourself a bit, feel when you're starting to get to the point of no return, then let yourself cool off a bit. Then go again. I also occasionally tried to get hard-ons without touching myself, since that involves some concentration as well. Also holding hard-ons with no touching is handy: if you're young and you do this a lot, it's not impossible to stay semi-hard inside after you've blown a load, long enough for her to come. It put a massive smile on her face when she first found I could pull that trick.

New age-y as it sounds, it's about knowing your body and your dick and knowing when you're hitting the point of no return. In its way it's not that much different to serious exercise: if you don't learn to pace yourself or know your body's signals for when you're about to blow, you're fucked and you're going to hurt yourself.

At least for me, getting the girl to lose her shit in bed in part is in large part just learning to last more than 30 seconds or so. I also found letting her go on top was easier for getting her off, generally chicks with a bit of experience will have a good idea how to smash their clit against your waist to get themselves going. That said, sometimes you have to intervene a bit, and you can still exert a bit of control on her even if she's riding you: this is a bit difficult to describe, but I'd sometimes gently get hold of her hips and push her in such a way she was hitting my dick in a slightly different way, which helped grind her in the right way and get her off a little faster. Working your core, doing squats and so on helps with this, because it allows you to tighten up all your waist area, and let her feel like she's hitting something hard. Beyond that, it's her body, she knows it better than you do, so be sneaky and see what makes her go. There's a nice feeling of domination you get when you know you're in control of a girl's orgasm - not that she has them, that you can decide whether or not she gets one.

The rest of you fuckers can now post "Too Much Information" memes

God save us from people who mean well. -storm

Post: #110

(12-28-2017 02:18 AM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  14 years old back in 1989. She was a slut who gave it up on the first date, because of her I always try to fuck chicks as soon as I meet them- it works out like that more often than not.

I've lost notches by hesitating, but almost never by pushing too hard.

16.

To a girl a year and change younger I had met on one of our family trips who was from more or less the same place - we didn't have sex on the trip though. We made out and 'fooled around' - she was a legitimate 8 with a very protective dad. I had to 'instant message' close her and keep the line up, and basically coached her to tell her family she was visiting a friend in my town and she came out to see me. For all I deride my parents, who were going through a bad time and divorced 3 years later, they definitely knew 'he's fucking that girl who's out to visit under our roof'.

She came out once more, and then suddenly one day, it just stopped and she wouldn't reply to my messages...oh well. She was pretty hot (epic D tits even at 15), but kinda boring and in hindsight a crappy lay.

What's funny is that this was after almost 2 years of pulling out the stops trying to 'get laid' (I got my first HJ at a party a year earlier) and seeing my friends doing it and all the dick measuring that comes, no one but the friend that met her believed me. Less than a month later I smashed and ended up on the low dating a fairly popular cute girl one grade younger, who a few years later I learned was a big time heaux, glad I wrapped it every time with her.

And as some have said - looking back, at least a handful other chances to bang girls before this but either too oblivious or she was ugly/fat, hell even in uni when I was smashing new girls fairly regular this happened.

Post: #111

I haven't.

Post: #112

18, senior trip on Crete. Didn't get another bang until 2 years later.

(12-30-2017 12:21 AM)MKDAWUSS Wrote:  I haven't.

You'll get there, man.

G

Post: #113

(12-28-2017 06:43 AM)lionel Wrote:  

(12-28-2017 03:13 AM)Paracelsus Wrote:  29, but in my defence
(a) I'd worked on edging so I lasted a lot longer than her previous boyfriends did
(b) I was the first one to give her screaming orgasms without her having to finger herself while fucking,
© She never used a dildo again.

Impressive, would recommend any material on that? Serious question.

I lost at 22 with a prostitute. I don't regret it one bit.

Same here, but I was 19 at the time. At the moment I regretted it, because I had that mentality that your first time must not be P4P, but in hindsight it was one of the best decisions of my life. I stopped being a virgin at 19 instead of a later age.

Post: #114

18, freshman year of college.

Post: #115

18, it was most nervous and depressing 28 seconds of my life.

Post: #116

(12-30-2017 02:43 PM)Killer Joe Wrote:  

(12-28-2017 06:43 AM)lionel Wrote:  

(12-28-2017 03:13 AM)Paracelsus Wrote:  29, but in my defence
(a) I'd worked on edging so I lasted a lot longer than her previous boyfriends did
(b) I was the first one to give her screaming orgasms without her having to finger herself while fucking,
© She never used a dildo again.

Impressive, would recommend any material on that? Serious question.

I lost at 22 with a prostitute. I don't regret it one bit.

Same here, but I was 19 at the time. At the moment I regretted it, because I had that mentality that your first time must not be P4P, but in hindsight it was one of the best decisions of my life. I stopped being a virgin at 19 instead of a later age.

Wow I'm glad other men have the balls to admit this. As a matter of fact, I was also 19 when I lost mine to a prostitute. I was getting impatient and honestly, wanted to get losing my virginity over with. I was nervous as fuck at the time and tried to smoke to enhance my experience (I used to do that at strip clubs too). It backfired in that particular moment and my nerves got the best of me. So, my first time ended up being pretty bad.

However, I do not regret the way I lost it one bit. Had I been nervous like that in front of a normal girl that may have been my social peer, I don't think I would've lived that down. It was about a year and a half before I had sex again, but when I did, I was a lot more prepared for the girl and felt like I did a lot better that time. She seemed to agree since we had a short-term FWB deal going on a little after that.

Post: #117

17, with my first serious girlfriend.

I had the opportunity at 14, when I snuck this chick into my grandparent's basement. She slept next to me, and that morning we had some fun. Same age, really big tits for her age. Played with them, and stuck a few fingers in her, but really didn't know what to do after that. Snuck her out shortly afterwards. I remember smelling my fingers and thinking "wow, so this is what pussy smells like".

When I lost it at 17, I couldn't keep it up because I was so nervous, plus I could hear my mom walking around upstairs (I was in the basement, can you see the trend?).
Ended up dating this girl until I was 20, but cheated on her with 9 different women over the next 3 years in varying capacities at college, including sex. Our breakup, and my beta behavior with it all was how I ended up here way back when.

Post: #118

19, with a fat chick. Do I regret it? Of course. Was it a great learning experience? Absolutely. I also couldn't finish, it's been almost four years since then and I've continued to have this problem, but I suppose it's not the worst problem in the world to have.

Post: #119

24, club pull, didn't know what i was doing, had a smile on my face for the entire following week.

Post: #120

16 with a girl I texted for some months. When she came to my place, initially she didn't want to fuck but over the course of a couple hours I pushed and pulled and finally got it in. When I look back I had some skills at breaking LMR without knowing what it was. I guess I was pretty determined to lose my virginity

Post: #121

14. She did literally all the work. Said I was cute at a party, demanded we exchange numbers, invited me over, took me in bedroom, took of my shirt, poured strawberry syrup on me and licked it off, sucked my dick and rode me. Turned me out basically. (Short way of explaining I'm not a natural, she raped me [sarcasm.])

Girl was a notorious slut. Ugly face ok body.