Post: #26

(12-13-2011 03:42 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  BTW if you want to be invited to bang some dudes wife :

http://www.cuckoldplace.com/

Now why am I not surprised that there's a site dedicated to this kind of thing? I'd be tempted, but I'd always be worried about a dude flipping out and attacking me if I was giving it to his wife too good. These dudes aren't quite right, and you never know if a switch is going to flip in their heads. I still might join if its free...HA HA! They have international forums, so you could maybe pipeline some chicks that want to get fucked. I will investigate this site further.

Post: #27

(12-13-2011 03:19 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I try not to be too critical of how another man handles his business, but bottom line, any man that gets something positive from seeing another man fuck his wife/girlfriend has issues. In a word, he's a BITCH in one form or another - maybe he's a latent or full out homo, or he's straight but so lacking in dignity and self-respect that he's THAT form of bitch. Yeah, she's got issues too, but they should be another man's issues to deal with, not yours.

lol but that's super critical. What if its a dude that's open minded and its just something he wants to do very occasionally as a novelty? Or even if they do it on a regular bases what if he also gets girls to fuck him cause his wife likes to watch as well?

Just saying I don't know bad this really is. People used to think there was something wrong with gay people and now its seen as normal. Maybe this thing isn't that messed up after all.

Post: #28

(12-13-2011 05:05 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 03:19 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I try not to be too critical of how another man handles his business, but bottom line, any man that gets something positive from seeing another man fuck his wife/girlfriend has issues. In a word, he's a BITCH in one form or another - maybe he's a latent or full out homo, or he's straight but so lacking in dignity and self-respect that he's THAT form of bitch. Yeah, she's got issues too, but they should be another man's issues to deal with, not yours.

lol but that's super critical. What if its a dude that's open minded and its just something he wants to do very occasionally as a novelty? Or even if they do it on a regular bases what if he also gets girls to fuck him cause his wife likes to watch as well?

Just saying I don't know bad this really is. People used to think there was something wrong with gay people and now its seen as normal. Maybe this thing isn't that messed up after all.

Yeah, I have to admit there's something admirable about someone who acts out there fantasies and doesn't give a shit what other people think abut them. That does take a certain kind of courage, and more power to them, in that aspect. Just not for me....lol

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #29

(12-13-2011 04:29 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I will investigate this site further.

Let us know what you find out.

Post: #30

(12-13-2011 10:09 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 04:29 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I will investigate this site further.

Let us know what you find out.

As I thought, it's a pay site, so that's the end of that.

Post: #31

(12-13-2011 06:28 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 05:05 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 03:19 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I try not to be too critical of how another man handles his business, but bottom line, any man that gets something positive from seeing another man fuck his wife/girlfriend has issues. In a word, he's a BITCH in one form or another - maybe he's a latent or full out homo, or he's straight but so lacking in dignity and self-respect that he's THAT form of bitch. Yeah, she's got issues too, but they should be another man's issues to deal with, not yours.

lol but that's super critical. What if its a dude that's open minded and its just something he wants to do very occasionally as a novelty? Or even if they do it on a regular bases what if he also gets girls to fuck him cause his wife likes to watch as well?

Just saying I don't know bad this really is. People used to think there was something wrong with gay people and now its seen as normal. Maybe this thing isn't that messed up after all.

Yeah, I have to admit there's something admirable about someone who acts out there fantasies and doesn't give a shit what other people think abut them. That does take a certain kind of courage, and more power to them, in that aspect. Just not for me....lol

People STILL think there's something "wrong" with gay people. Greater tolerance/acceptance doesn't change that. It's not a matter of it being "bad." But in my opinion, it's hard for a man to say he's a man and watch another man fuck his wife or girl in front of him. I think it's weak. I'm not the least bit intolerant of people living their lives in a way that doesn't negatively affect others, but I can still say I don't respect another man for living the way he lives.

Post: #32

(12-14-2011 01:00 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 06:28 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 05:05 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(12-13-2011 03:19 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I try not to be too critical of how another man handles his business, but bottom line, any man that gets something positive from seeing another man fuck his wife/girlfriend has issues. In a word, he's a BITCH in one form or another - maybe he's a latent or full out homo, or he's straight but so lacking in dignity and self-respect that he's THAT form of bitch. Yeah, she's got issues too, but they should be another man's issues to deal with, not yours.

lol but that's super critical. What if its a dude that's open minded and its just something he wants to do very occasionally as a novelty? Or even if they do it on a regular bases what if he also gets girls to fuck him cause his wife likes to watch as well?

Just saying I don't know bad this really is. People used to think there was something wrong with gay people and now its seen as normal. Maybe this thing isn't that messed up after all.

Yeah, I have to admit there's something admirable about someone who acts out there fantasies and doesn't give a shit what other people think abut them. That does take a certain kind of courage, and more power to them, in that aspect. Just not for me....lol

People STILL think there's something "wrong" with gay people. Greater tolerance/acceptance doesn't change that. It's not a matter of it being "bad." But in my opinion, it's hard for a man to say he's a man and watch another man fuck his wife or girl in front of him. I think it's weak. I'm not the least bit intolerant of people living their lives in a way that doesn't negatively affect others, but I can still say I don't respect another man for living the way he lives.

Well yea but now there's more people that don't think there is anything wrong with gays. Why do you think its weak? You think these people don't want to do it but they are so insecure or dominated by their wives that they give in?

Post: #33

Just reading wikipedia about cuckolding. lol http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckolding

It appears the woman not only gets nailed by more guys but harder by her husband, not to mention she actually gets kind of high off this shit:

"Meanwhile, the wife enjoys greater sexual stimulation, first by her other lover and second by her cuckolded husband. In addition, the wife enjoys the neurochemical "highs" triggered by entering into a romantic or physical relationship with another lover. These highs include the effects of oxytocin..."

Some interesting insights into the whole thing here though. The fetish is a form of escapism for guys.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #34

(12-12-2011 03:52 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Just food for thought, I guess...

Maybe I'm just stumbling onto the wrong forums and websites (or right ones depending how you look at it lol) but a lot of married people out there seem to get into some freaky shit. I'm down with getting freaky but this is where I draw the line.

I really can't wrap my head around this. I'm not a jealous guy, but no way i could allow some guy to have sex with my wife or girlfriend, especially in front of me.

I'm not knocking what other people are into cause I say live and let live, but I really just can't wrap my head around why guys would be down with something like that. Let alone like it.

Any of the freakier players out there been there done that or just have an opinion?

I'm pretty boring myself - I like my doggy and my bj's lol. But this is something I could never do.

I don't question what other folks do with their time tho - there's people out there that get turned on by being pooped on lmao...

Post: #35

(12-12-2011 11:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I would never do it but I have fantasized about it. Maybe its the fact that its so wrong, or the thought about my girl being such a slut she needs to fuck more than one guy. Just a fantasy though I would never want it to happen and would have been devastated had an ex of mine cheated.

I wouldn't do it with any of my girls but I have fantasized about it from time to time.

I think it has to do with watching porn as a kid where the women are dirty sluts and taking allot of cock. You are watching (porn) where another guy is banging a girl you are jerking off too! This might be the reason why guys let their wives get banged by another bloke.

I also like the feeling knowing the girl I'm banging is a dirty slut. Thinking she has taken allot of cock in her pussy while I'm pounding her, and that she is just a piece of meat, turns me on. I believe this is once again due to watching porn as a kid!

Nofap all the way these days!

Post: #36

5 years ago I was getting pretty wasted at a long time childhood friend's house. There were 2 couples (my friend and his wife, at their house) and another couple (my friend and his gf), and me alone. It was open knowledge, and the joke at the card table, that the girl with the unmarried guy wanted me bad. It caused many fights when I was around that group, after I'd left.

Since he was a clown who acted like he didn't care when I was present, he didn't put her at bay, but she'd make moves all over me and I'd refuse them all night. Fucking annoying. He seemed to get a kick out of it because he knew I'd never do shit with her, but would then accost her after I left. Drama addicts I guess. She was a 5.5 I'd estimate and I wasn't attracted to her at all, plus I'm not a swinger and don't want the drama of banging a buddy's gf.

Now here's where it gets fucked up. We were all pretty tanked but the unmarried couple left. RAther than risk a DUI, I was offered a fouton to crash on on their back enclosed patio where we were playing cards. I wake up after about 30 minutes passed out, to my buddy's wife butt naked sucking my half hard dick, and him coming up behind her starting to fuck her from behind standing as she kneeled down to suck my cock.

The put a fucked up dynamic in everything, because basically I just got suck raped by his wife. It was just too fucking weird, and as soon as I had my marbles I stopped it immediately. Got up, shook my head at my buddy in disgust, while his wife was clawing at my shit begging me to stay, offering her ass to me as well.

1) I didn't know they were into that shit. If I'm gonna chose a 3-some, it's totally gonna be FFM, not MMF. Not to say in wasted party scenes there weren't women the boys "passed around," years ago in my early 20s, but this was like a wasted sexually perverted Twilight Zone episode.

2) I basically got raped. IDK where that slut's mouth has been.. and it's his WIFE !

I had just started seeing a bitch just weeks before this incident, who I eventually got into an LTR with who knew his wife. The only thing that was said to them after the fact was by me;"I'll trust we can pretend that little "accident never occurred." They agreed. 6 months down the road the fact this occurred came out to my LTR bitch, and shit hit the fan.

For the first time in 5 years, I finally talked with him yesterday sayin how fucked up that was. At this point it's water under the bridge, but to find out one of my old school good friends is into his wife being cuckolded permanently changed my view of him.

Post: #37

Another story. My friend Travis went to meet some lady off POF, she agrees to get a hotel room and he'll meet her there. He opens the door, they immediately start going at it, mid pounding, this guy sneaks out from behind the coat closet bi-fold doors jackin off, staring and grunting at them. Travis freaks the fuck out and is ready to beat this dude senseless (Travis was a state champ wrestler), and before he gets around the bed to jack him in the face, the bitch jumps on him screaming "No NO. that's my husband, he likes to watch..."

He got the fuck outta dodge, after being suckered into a cuckold he had no clue was going to happen.

Post: #38

What the fuck did I just read? Jesus....[/u]

Post: #39

(10-09-2015 03:28 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  Another story. My friend Travis went to meet some lady off POF, she agrees to get a hotel room and he'll meet her there. He opens the door, they immediately start going at it, mid pounding, this guy sneaks out from behind the coat closet bi-fold doors jackin off, staring and grunting at them. Travis freaks the fuck out and is ready to beat this dude senseless (Travis was a state champ wrestler), and before he gets around the bed to jack him in the face, the bitch jumps on him screaming "No NO. that's my husband, he likes to watch..."

He got the fuck outta dodge, after being suckered into a cuckold he had no clue was going to happen.

That scenario has been a concern of mine for years, since I occasionally meet women off Craigslist and also from regular online sites who want to get right to the sex. I always get the hotel room so that can't happen. A few times she has invited me straight to her house and I was nervous as a cat wondering if some dude was in the closet.

Post: #40

This chick Im banging has brought up a couple of times her fantasy of having her husband watch us.

Hell naw. But as it goes its just not a male fantasy. Perhaps the husbands want to reassure themselves that their wife is attractive? Perhaps their sexual imprinting got wired in a way where they get pleasure from watching the object of their desires getting pleasured? (As, lets say, some sort of live porn) In her case, I know the dude is an über beta chump. I assume she gets some satisfaction in humilliating him by showing him that she calls the shots. (Even though as far as I know nobody knows of our little rendezvous, he cant be that much of a fool not to realize somethings going on when his wife comes home at 3 am all freshly showered)

Or perhaps:

Quote:but she'd make moves all over me and I'd refuse them all night. Fucking annoying. He seemed to get a kick out of it because he knew I'd never do shit with her

They get excited over the idea that in spite of their wives getting multiple dickings, they are the ones they come home to. Some guys are indoctrinated to believe that marriage is the alpha thing to do,and if you cant nail down a wife, then you must be the beta. They must think that since the other guys only get to fuck her and then shown the door, THEY must be the alpha superior ones. And to them that feeling of superiority over other males must be greater than sex. Beta fucks, alpha bucks

Post: #41

There's a few different variations of this, one would be swinging where people swap partners, however I think what your referring to is dudes who just want to sit in the corner and watch their wife get pounded. This is referred to as cucholds, basically dudes who like to be humiliated, oftentimes it's guys with small dicks and they and their wives want a big dude to pound them.

I did something simlar some years back was contacted by a lady on craigslist I think I had an ad up looking for a chick. Wound up meeting her and her husband at a bar. It was kind of awkward she went to the restroom and he basically told me start messing with her under the table when the time seems right tell her I told you she's an interior desiner and you want to see her house.

Went back to their place, dude sat in a chair in the corner while his wife blew me and then fucked me. When I was done I was ready to get out of there so I dipped out, you could tell they they wanted me and him to double team her but I already nutted and was feeling awkward after that so dipped out. They contacted me a few times wanting to get together again but never did.

I know not everyone is probably comfortable railing some chick in front of her husband or boyfriend but sometimes the women will play alone and just wants pics or a video to show her husband later. If your open to this you can really clean up.

As far as why people are into this. I think some are into the whole humiliation thing but I notice a lot of couples in their 40's and 50's are into this. They refer to their wives as "hot wives". For many I think maybe they are bored with their wife but the idea that other men want her makes her appealing again.

I could wrap my head around the idea of swapping partners if it's just a FWB or something but for whatever reason can't wrap my head around sharing a gf or wife.

Post: #42

(12-12-2011 04:41 AM)joehoya Wrote:  BTDT, not as the hubby, but as one of the dudes.

I while ago, I was involved in the local cuckold/gangbang scene and would show up at parties and events where husbands would watch their wives get pounded buy one or (more often) a bunch of other dudes. It was a weird scene, but I was basically fucking anything that moved and was female at the time, so I went for it.

One of the things that I noticed is that the women were, on average, SIGNIFICANTLY lower in quality than the average woman, or even the average housewife in the area. Tons of fatties (I don't mean 150lbs fat, I mean 200-300lbs+ FAT), and naturally plain/fugly chicks. There were some hot ones, but they were MUCH rarer and MUCH MUCH more selective with whom they "played" with.

In terms of the husbands, they generally fell into two categories. The first were guys that used other guys fucking their wife as some kind of validation that their wife was attractive. It was like "Look at all of these guys that want to fuck my wife. That means that she is hot, therefore I am a stud for having a hot wife." The irony is that, as I mentioned before, the girls were usually way below average. In truth, I think this that was also the reason for the majority of the wives who were into this. I guarantee you that those gangbangs are the ONLY places that this woman would EVER EVER have a bunch of guys showering attention on her. The only thing she has to give up for that attention is two or more of her holes to every guy in the room.

The second type of husband are the ones that are closet gays/bisexuals. These guys were focused WAY too much on the other guys' cocks. I think they use their wives as bait to lure the guys to the room to get naked, and as a surrogate for their own fantasies. IMHO, many of the husbands are imagining it is THEM, not their wives, getting filled by that big black cock. These are the dudes that lick the other guys' nut off of their wives. Also, a lot of the supposed studs that show up to these things are closet gays/bisexuals. I saw way too many instances of naked guys "accidentally" bumping into other naked dudes, or worse, "accidentally" cumming on another dude. The gay advances and ugly women are what pushed me out of the scene.

Do a Google search of 15th Avenue Bookstore in Melrose Park. Anyone on the forum from Chicago will probably have heard about this place. Basically it's an adult bookstore with a "spa" and movie theatre inside, it's BYOB, etc.

It was a big controversey a few years back as the community wanted to shut it down but it was mobbed up and I believe the owner was the former police chief or something like that.

Anyhow, craigslist in Chicago is full of these types of dudes brining their wives their to get gangbanbed and like you described typically it's fatties or nasty chicks who will fuck basically anyone and everyone there who wants to fuck.

I've never been there myself a couple weekends ago was at a party in the area and driving home at like 2am, tried getting the chick I was with to stop by there, we drove by but she didn't want to go in. I didn't want to partake or anything just wanted to check it out and people watch and see what kind of crazy shit went down in there. We drove by and there were like giant greyhounds that brought big groups there as well as an overflowing parking lot.

Seems like a strange place lol

Post: #43

I know someone very well who is into this...seeing some other dude bang his chic. Let's just say the guy isn't in my family anymore, but back in the day we were pretty close (before his life took a weird turn).

Fucked up wiring I think, really dominant mom sorta thing, pussy dad, victim mentality. It's funny because the guy is alpha in many other ways, hands down the smartest person I know, incredibly articulate, runs his own business.

Basically he has this facade that's all man, pure logic no emotion, cold hearted businessman dude, but deep down he's just a little kid, scared shitless. I think this is one of the ways he maintains a wildly variable homeostasis or something.

It took him until his 30s for all this shit to hit the fan.

Post: #44

Firstly, I think that a certain group of guys have some kind of weird fascination that those who don't have it will never understand.

My guess is that it probably, ironically, comes from a sense of confidence....

For a certain chunk of guys, I think that the problem is they get bored and start to simply start to experiment with various kinks.

I think for another group of men, there's some kind of specific turn on that comes from watching some guy desire their woman. Or some who draw sexual arousal from being cuckolded. (Usually something happened that was weird when they were a young kid.)

Or they really don't care if their girl leaves them....

Post: #45

One of my MLTRs is married, and I have had countless threesomes with her and her husband over the past year (no I don't touch the guy, we just bang her together).

I don't really understand it from his perspective, but it's a good time for everyone and I'm pretty sure that on some level I'm actually keeping their marriage together. I also brought another MLTR into the mix, twice, so he got to fuck a much younger woman than his wife too. Kind of a balance.

I have been the "other guy" with a few different couples. If I were married, I would never let my wife do this shit, but if other guys want me to bang their wives, who am I to deprive the masses?

Post: #46

(10-09-2015 03:17 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  ... basically I just got suck raped by his wife.

Post: #47

(10-09-2015 11:21 PM)Drexel Scott Wrote:  One of my MLTRs is married, and I have had countless threesomes with her and her husband over the past year (no I don't touch the guy, we just bang her together).

I don't really understand it from his perspective, but it's a good time for everyone and I'm pretty sure that on some level I'm actually keeping their marriage together. I also brought another MLTR into the mix, twice, so he got to fuck a much younger woman than his wife too. Kind of a balance.

I have been the "other guy" with a few different couples. If I were married, I would never let my wife do this shit, but if other guys want me to bang their wives, who am I to deprive the masses?

It sounds like you're not hurting anyone and you're being a friend to your buddy. (In a very unconventional way, but hey....)

Post: #48

What's an MLTR? It reminds me of the term mPUA.

Post: #49

This thread:

Post: #50

(10-09-2015 03:10 PM)heavy Wrote:  I know someone very well who is into this...seeing some other dude bang his chic. Let's just say the guy isn't in my family anymore, but back in the day we were pretty close (before his life took a weird turn).

Fucked up wiring I think, really dominant mom sorta thing, pussy dad, victim mentality. It's funny because the guy is alpha in many other ways, hands down the smartest person I know, incredibly articulate, runs his own business.

Basically he has this facade that's all man, pure logic no emotion, cold hearted businessman dude, but deep down he's just a little kid, scared shitless. I think this is one of the ways he maintains a wildly variable homeostasis or something.

It took him until his 30s for all this shit to hit the fan.

My married buddy's dad was very passive, beta-ish, and his mom was into Martial Arts, kind of manly in ways. So there's some similarities. My buddy I always thought was semi-alpha in demeanor around women, he used to bag some hot college sluts back in the day, but in most other areas of his life he's your average schmuck.

He always carried an attitude that he was more of a badass than he really was. While I found the machismo admirable, this incident basically helped me discover it was likely an overcompensatory cover up for an underlying insecurity.