Post: #26

I don't need fancy science to tell me young women are batshit insane whores.

Post: #27

(12-06-2011 11:24 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(12-06-2011 09:30 PM)P Dog Wrote:  Question for everyone: Would you knowingly sleep with a girl you knew to be borderline if she was super hot and a freak in bed?

Yeah...and I'd use a fake name, fuck at HER crib, and disappear immediately after fucking her again in the morning.

Yep. That is the fucked up part. With all of my talk about avoiding these chicks. if the chick was hot enough (like an 11), my dumb ass might still go for it. It would be reckless behavior on my part, and I hope that I could resist the temptation, but I can't guarantee that I would be strong enough in every case.

It is like the businessman heroin addict who drives into the ghetto to score dope. He knows it is dangerous, but he will do what he has to to get his fix.

Post: #28

(12-05-2011 12:05 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Here's a really well written article about sex and women with BPD:

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...d-sex.html

I've read most online that most women in porn have this disorder, and that a high percentage of women with this disorder were molested as children. I've also read that 25% of people with BPD also have narcissitic personality disorder, which I believe my ex gf did, narcisitic and borderline personality disorders together is a nasty combo.

Found this document with info on the situation in porn.

It says that most strippers also have BPD and/or major depressive episodes. Anywhere from 60-80% of strippers/pornstars/prostitutes have been abused at some time during their childhood.

Not that surprising, really.

Post: #29

Make sure you focus on you. It's the only way to defeat a BPD chick and her manipulative ways.

Post: #30

I met a girl who i think was probably histrionic, another similar personality disorder. The thing with these personality disorders is that they are basically not curable or even effectively treatable. These girls tend to even F with their psychologist. Both histrionics and BPD's do similar stuff like mirroring which is one of the most creepy. After my experience i read a bit about it and many times the guys who got mixed up with them sought therapy. These are the guys who had no idea what they were getting into.

Post: #31

Ex-wife #2 was across the border with her BPD.

She was a couple of STDEV to the right in bed. Lots of great sex.

She also tried to commit suicide the day after we married.

It took me a year to accept that she was bat-shit crazy and that I needed to save myself.

Not worth it under any circumstance, IMHO.

Post: #32

Pretty sure that I had a BPD chick in my living room yesterday. We started out in Wudaokou, the student bar hangout district of Beijing. We worked our way back to my place, but not before she announced out of nowhere at one point "I want to f*** you."

I would have escalated much faster, if it hadn't been for her fluctuating mood through the ordeal. She went happy, sad, happy, sad three or four times.

Finally, we are at my place, I kiss her, she kisses back unenthusiastically and wants to ask more questions to clarify for my interest in her.

I answer the question the usual way, but since she's back in "sad mood" phase, I focus building comfort.

She gets on top of me on the couch and asks if I have condoms. I tell her yes and then she tells me that she doesn't like using guys, she she's a good girl.

I tell her not to worry, that I know that she's not using me. She suddenly freaks out, jumps off me and starts putting her jacket and shoes on and demands that I take her to the closest subway station.

I try to reason with her, telling her that if she's not feeling well, she should rest a bit, that I don't want her going home right away.

It doesn't work at all. On the way to the subway station, she starts talking about her ex-boyfriends for no reason. Then she sees a couple arguing loudly outside a restaurant and she wants to watch. I grab her hand and keep her going. She starts bitching about how all men are s*** and finally I get pissed off.

I tell her that she is scared of being happy and she's the type of girl that just runs away when she meets a nice guy.



It probably didn't help that she was on heavy meds for a severed inner ear nerve, but I get the sense that this one is grade A crazy.



The stupid thing is that I still want to bang her once and then get the hell out. She was pretty damn hot and I really want to see her naked at a minimum.

I'm an idiot.

Post: #33

Other relevant thread on borderline personality disorder:
/thread-33757.html

Post: #34

(12-05-2011 06:09 AM)Deluge Wrote:  joeya what you said sounds similar to my experiences, though with my ex her mum was emotionally neglectful due to her own mental issues. I strongly suspect my ex girlfriend of having it. Her psychologist hasn't diagnosed her with anything yet in the month or two she's been seeing him.

Damn this post bring back some memories, 3 fucking years. I never found out if she got diagnosed or anything but I heard through the grapevine she stayed fucking nuts for another couple years and his since calmed down a bit. Once a nutcase always a nutcase in my opinion though.

Post: #35

I have for 3 years now girlfriend with strong Borderline Mental Disorder - Impulsive type.

The sex is indeed very good, she wants to have sex everywhere and she is very good looking
(a 8.5)

The problem is that I found out that 1 month ago, all of a sudden,
she posted online ads that she wants to have sex for money and fulfill
any stranger fantasy. Prostitution is legal in my country.

How can I find out if she went on with her "fantasy" of having sex with random strangers?

She had in her phone few messages about set up meetings, I do not know
if she really followed up and went to the meetings, because at that time I was not near her,
I was at a conference for 1 week.

We have a good relation, and she is probably the best looking girlfriend I ever had,
so I don't want to be in a position of weakness, and her to realize that
I don't want to lose her or something like this.

I know BPD and her impulsive behaviour can lead her to having unprotected sex
with strangers, when we discussed about something similar she told me that she wants to fulfill this as a fantasy, and that having sex with a stranger is like "eating a cupcake"

What are my options, how can I find out more about what she did or didnt ?

Post: #36

There is confusion regarding BPD and bipolar disorder. Both disorders include problems with mood regulation. The distinguishing difference is that the symptoms with borderline have been present since teenage years or younger. Their emotional difficulties is a baseline and have always been present.

Those with bipolar have emotional regulation difficulties that are different from their baseline. For example, a manic phase represents a change in their baseline functioning when they are not symptomatic.

The differences between the two are subtle and often misunderstood.

Post: #37

I'm starting to think that a guy with BPD would be killing it with his game.

Post: #38

Sociopaths (Antisocial personality disorder ) do better.

Post: #39

(09-22-2014 09:59 AM)Dantes Wrote:  Sociopaths (Antisocial personality disorder ) do better.

I want to put this nicely, but I really can't. No shit Sherlock. Of course sociopaths would do well. They even do well at conning out other males. I'm talking about an unstable emotionally charged male might also create the kind of drama that women crave, this causing them to do well as well. Sociopaths are much more well known for their nihilistic and apathetic behavior that can also mirror into what a female wants.

Post: #40

(09-22-2014 01:21 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  

(09-22-2014 09:59 AM)Dantes Wrote:  Sociopaths (Antisocial personality disorder ) do better.

I want to put this nicely, but I really can't. No shit Sherlock. Of course sociopaths would do well. They even do well at conning out other males. I'm talking about an unstable emotionally charged male might also create the kind of drama that women crave, this causing them to do well as well. Sociopaths are much more well known for their nihilistic and apathetic behavior that can also mirror into what a female wants.

I guess you are an expert on psychopathology.

Males represent a minority of the diagnoses of Borderline Personality Disorder. It is much more common in females. Men with this diagnosis come across as needy and I am not sure how you come to the conclusion that an emotional needy male would kill it with women. They perceive a lack of control in their relationships which causes them to overcompensate through actions based on their insecurity. These are not qualities that a high quality woman desires as these men lack the ability for control, reason, and non-emotionally based judgement within the context of a relationship.

Post: #41

(09-22-2014 02:51 PM)Dantes Wrote:  

(09-22-2014 01:21 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  

(09-22-2014 09:59 AM)Dantes Wrote:  Sociopaths (Antisocial personality disorder ) do better.

I want to put this nicely, but I really can't. No shit Sherlock. Of course sociopaths would do well. They even do well at conning out other males. I'm talking about an unstable emotionally charged male might also create the kind of drama that women crave, this causing them to do well as well. Sociopaths are much more well known for their nihilistic and apathetic behavior that can also mirror into what a female wants.

I guess you are an expert on psychopathology.

Males represent a minority of the diagnoses of Borderline Personality Disorder. It is much more common in females. Men with this diagnosis would come across as needy and I am not sure how you come to the conclusion that an emotional needy male would kill it with women. They perceive a lack of control in their relationships which cause them to overcompensate through, demonstrated through insecurity. I don't think these are qualities that a high quality woman desires as they lack the ability for control, reason, and non-emotionally based judgement within the context of a relationship.

The ability to flip their emotions on a dime and with the constant ability to mirror what the woman in question would want would cause this male to be extremely successful in this day and age. The key way a BPD girl reels in men is mirroring their desires and so would the BPD male. The difference between this and the sociopath is that the male would become more controlling and/or domineering. He may be needy but he would also be prone to be more dominant in the relationship, and as we can see in these kind of men(the types whom would resort to domestic violence) the woman would keep coming back regardless.

Post: #42

This is not an ability. It is referred to a Disorder for a reason. Men with Borderline Personality Disorder don't have control over the regulation of their emotions. Their actions are predicated on their insecurity and vulnerability in relationships.

Post: #43

Yes, run. She will not get better!

Post: #44

There is another thread on BPD which may be helpful for you guys who encounter someone who seems a little "off".

/thread-33757.html

(09-21-2014 11:48 PM)Suits Wrote:  The stupid thing is that I still want to bang her once and then get the hell out. She was pretty damn hot and I really want to see her naked at a minimum.

I'm an idiot.

If you must, then just hit it once then run. Be very careful though! These girls are known to make false rape allegations.

BPD chicks are almost always the hot side of the spectrum. Common jobs include attention-seeking ones such as models, strippers, porn stars...

They are hot but tend to put out with ease - a deadly combination if you ask me! Many of you have probably slept with one without knowing it.

Post: #45

Ex wife was probably BPD, but I just called her a psycho bitch. Jeez was she over the top.

When we broke up she threw all my stuff out of the 8th floor window onto the street below, typewriter made a hell of a crash landing on the roof of a car.