Post: #1

how to initiate sexuallity wen you are being friends with a girl.?..by being direct or what?..please give some proffesional advice as iam having this friend and sex is not coming into play.

Post: #2

Next time, don't befriend girls you want sex with. Once she sees you as a platonic friend, for you to make a move sexually will be as jarring as her brother suddenly doing the same.

Just make a move quickly on women you are interested in, and if you have established she isn't interested, move on.

Post: #3

(06-29-2009 01:21 AM)charmer Wrote:  how to initiate sexuallity wen you are being friends with a girl.?..by being direct or what?..please give some proffesional advice as iam having this friend and sex is not coming into play.

Last night I was hanging out with a girl who I have been friends with since about September. She has always been a bit of a flirt but most girls are when you are somewhat friends with them. You can warm it up with an arm around, or a hand on the back, which I did, but eventually you just have to go for it. Interesting I was in the same situation with her cousin, who was also her roommate, and had been at this "warm up" stage as well. The difference, I went for it, without thinking of the concequences, and generally not caring, because I knew I just befriended her to have sex with her, which is generally my motto with women-friends. Last night she leaned against a wall and was just sitting there, so I just went for it. I put my hands on her shoulders and, heres the line:

"Todays lesson... (look into her eyes) is to be bold"

And I kissed her for a while and am now hoping to bang her before the weekend.