Post: #1

Sometimes people make statements like "All women are sluts" or "All women cheat" or really any "All women X" type statement.

This can partially be part of a mindframe that is helpful. If you think, and truly believe, "All women are sluts, all women will sleep with me, I just need to apply the right game and any woman is attainable!" then you will see increased results as you continue to give it a shot with any woman. Having the belief that some women are too prude to sleep with you or won't be interested in you will limit your interactions and success, even if such a belief is factually true. You can't 100% know which girls will be slutty or which girls will be interested in you without trying. So even if only 10% of girls are interested in you, believing they all are and trying with 2x as many girls will get you 2x as many bangs.

However, with most human traits, behaviors and phenotypes are distributed on a bell curve. Height, for instance:



You see most people are in the middle, close to average. At either end you have very short and very tall people, who are increasingly rarer and rarer the farther from the norm you stray.

Sexuality is very likely distributed this way too. Let's think of sluttiness. Many guys try to screen for "slut tells", trying to figure out which girls are most open to quick casual sex. Obviously this is because there are certain girls, deviant from the norm, who will have casual sex frequently and quickly. However, whatever defines "sluttiness" in terms of ease and speed of sex is necessarily an outlier. The average girl will not fuck you in 30 minutes. Girls who are particularly slutty will. On the other end of the curve, there are particularly prude girls who will take way too long to fuck.

A lot of game is learning to select for girls who enjoy/want/are open to quick sex, to make your life easier. You get a bunch of numbers, and if girls are being problematic, you drop them and pursue girls who are more down to meet and not put up roadblocks. If a girl holds out on sex too long, you drop her and go try to find another.

All of this shows, plainly, obviously, that some girls have quicker sex than others. Some have extremely quick sex, some wait extremely long, and then there is the norm, around which most girls fall.

I am not writing this as some sort of defense of saintly girls or anything, just trying to recognize and point out the fact that not all women are equally slutty, equally easy, equally likely to cheat, or anything. Some are way off in one direction, some in the other, and the majority are somewhere in the middle.

Post: #2

(09-11-2014 10:44 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  Sometimes people make statements like "All women are sluts" or "All women cheat" or really any "All women X" type statement.

A lot of guys say stuff like that, then wonder why they're not getting laid. I think they get angry that it's other guys having all the fun. Only a guy with little experience would ever say something like that, they haven't gone on dates with enough girls or experienced enough LMR to figure out the obvious truth.

Most girls will fuck 10 or so guys over their lifetime. Most girls will usually make a guy wait a couple dates to bang. The further you go from these numbers in either direction the rarer the girls get, but the easier it is to spot their deviancy from the norm.

Post: #3

Is it also possible, that because sexuality and the propensity to have sex are largely learned and patterned based on media, role models (if any), and peer pressure, that the curve really could be skewed towards the right end of the spectrum? Even if you include the fatties, of which America is growing more and more of, they still need and want to get laid so they seek out people on their level to lay them. The attractive girls get laid more often because they can and because society has said that's fine, which then trickles down to the average girls because the hottest girls are fucking the best guys, the average guys want some pussy too and go for them. So in the end, the skewed curve tail is really encompassing religious girls (sometimes), and enclaves/communities with strict rules on how one behaves.

Post: #4

Fair, but almost every Western girl will have at least one ONS in her lifetime.

Make of that what you will.