Post: #1

Fellas, a little backround..I have been in regular contact with this chick
(seeing each other once a week, txting/calling everyday-every other day etc.)

We meet up for dinner on Saturday, hungout, etc etc...

I go with her to Whole Foods to buy some stuff and on the way there she blurts out:

"Lets be clear here, I dont do the whole dating co-workers blah blah blah"

I brush it off and give her the "Whatever" vibe..

Later on in the she says something along the lines of "You should date blah blah blah"

I then say "Lets be clear here, I dont date asian girls" (shes asian)

She then responds with "Whats wrong with Asian girls etc" I then respond with "Same thing thats wrong with dating co-workers hahaha"

Some additional tidbits:
-She does not want to add me on FB because she does not want anyone at the company we work for to think anything (when she has alot of other folks from work on there as friends.
-When we hangout she is very cautious to be seen in public with me (I guess I am more high profile than her at the company we work for)
-We work for the same company, different boss, different division, different offices.
-I asked her to hang on Friday and she was open to it


What I am trying to find out is:
1. What would cause her to say the whole "I dont date co-workers" thing
2. Should I just be done with it and charge it to the game?

Input would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance!

Post: #2

Well it could have just been a shit test, but maybe she really doesn't want to date a co-worker, in that case, fuck buddies or friends with benefits is better anyways. I'm assuming your hitting that, and it sounds like she's still down to hang out and continue to smash, so keep the ball rolling. She might be one of these polyamorous chicks who dates/fucks multiple guys at the same time, normally chicks don't outright come out and tell you that, so that might be another element at play.