Post: #1

So long story short, I met this girl out in a bar a couple weeks ago. We talked for an hour or so and seemed to hit it off. I invited girl to see my play guitar the next night where I live in Nicaragua. She drove down from where she lives about an hour away to see me perform with a group of her friends. We talk for a good hour or so in between and after sets. No real chance to isolate, so we say goodnight and I thank her for coming.

The following week the girl initiates almost all of our communications. Texts me right away the next day and first thing the following day. We set up a get together for last weekend. We met up and she brings along a friend which is pretty standard for young girls in Nicaragua. She's 25, I'm 37.

So the day went great, we basically drank, talked and danced all day. Started making out a few hours into the day which would continue off and on for the next several hours, while her friend patiently sat by.

Anyway, the whole day seemed to go great, again no real chance to isolate due to circumstances. So at the end of the night we took a taxi to my place, I made out with girl all the way back to my place then said our goodbyes and she and her friend went back to their place about an hour away.

Since then I've texted this chica a couple times and called once, no reply at all. Seems really strange because she seemed so enthusiastic and into me.

Any thoughts? I'm pretty past trying to analyze situations like this because it seems like it could be a thousand different things, but if anyone has insight that I'm missing, bring it on. Seems like the ball is in her court.....

Post: #2

by the way, our date was on Sunday, it's now Thursday.....

Post: #3

That's girls for you.
Don't waste too much time trying to figure it out...there is no answer to the female conundrum!
You'll drive yourself crazy otherwise!

If she wants to get in touch she will....only other explanation is she lost her phone .

Post: #4

yeah i'm really not wasting too much time on it, but it's still sort of in the back of my mind, she seemed so eager so it's just really weird to me. Maybe she was so into me she's scared!

Post: #5

(10-27-2011 10:35 AM)urbrock Wrote:  I'm pretty past trying to analyze situations like this because it seems like it could be a thousand different things, but if anyone has insight that I'm missing, bring it on. Seems like the ball is in her court.....

Who knows? Like you said it could be a thousand different things. Call her next week and try to restart it. In the mean time, find another one.

Post: #6

(10-27-2011 12:10 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(10-27-2011 10:35 AM)urbrock Wrote:  I'm pretty past trying to analyze situations like this because it seems like it could be a thousand different things, but if anyone has insight that I'm missing, bring it on. Seems like the ball is in her court.....

Who knows? Like you said it could be a thousand different things. Call her next week and try to restart it. In the mean time, find another one.

That's my plan!

Post: #7

she just called, said she didn't have credit on her phone, which is probably true considering we are in Nicaragua. It's back on. I never once doubted myself!