Response to shit test

How would you respond to the shit test in the following dialogue:
Will I see you tonight?
Her: why dont you see me at work?

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Do you work with her?

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Yes,

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Well practically it is over, fail, she said she doesn't want me to see her that way. Tryed to reframe and escalate, fail

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What would you say?

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Interestly enough she replied back to have a chat tommorow at coffee, after work. My first guess is that she wants to friendzone me to avoid complications at the workplace or drop the I have a boyfriend. We work far away from our different home towns, I know absolutely nothing about her life there, only the Facebook profile where there is no boyfriend. I am completely buffled, any help would be greatly appreciated

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Do you think there still a chance, or it is dead case and I should not push it anymore especially in the coffee meeting? Any thoughts guys? It's rather remote here and there are not many options.

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Well, if you're so into her I'd recommend to take a final direct shot.
If she does not see you the same way then things are gonna become a little awkward between you at your work for a while (from my personal experience). And that's why people suggest to avoid 'gaming' at your workplace

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Thanks. Depends on what she says, if there is an opening I would, there are not many options here. For future reference how would you respond to the shit test in the beginning ? I said something along how many hours is your limit.

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Well like clockwork all women behave the same, as predicted by redpillers pua and Roosh. The obvious happened, she dropped the "I have a boyfriend". What I didn't expect was what happened to me. I had prepared a few answers for the "friend" route, but I completely broke down, lost all frame, could n't look her in the eyes, even asked sorry. Maybe the prospect of a few sexless months, also on nofap for 60+ days, freaked my out. It is more fucking over than over.

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Live and Learn, take it as an experience

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(05-08-2019 03:51 PM)ThisIs Wrote:  Live and Learn, take it as an experience

Thanks Bro

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Don't hit on girls you work with. It will serve you well now and into the future

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This entire thread is a train wreck. In response to your first question OP, if she replies with "why don't you see me at work" I wouldn't call that a shit test.. it means she's not interested in you.

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(05-08-2019 09:17 PM)travolta Wrote:  This entire thread is a train wreck. In response to your first question OP, if she replies with "why don't you see me at work" I wouldn't call that a shit test.. it means she's not interested in you.

My initial impression was that the girl's a stripper

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