Post: #1

is there such a thing?

Post: #2

Which way? You fucking her out of pity, or her fucking you out of pity? What's the frame?

Women will do some bizzare shit, and dudes will fuck some hairy beasts if the stars align at the wrong time.

Post: #3

You getting one or giving one?

Post: #4

A girl I used to keep around as a friend told me about guys that she would pity fuck from time to time. She's probably a 6, and I think she just used it to excuse her slutty behavior with a less attractive guy. Women love to rationalize their poor decisions.

Post: #5

im talking about pity fuck where the girl takes pity and fucks the guy.

hard to imagine it the other way around speaking as a guy. it either passes the boner test or doesnt.

GMAC's explanation sounds right though. its probably just an excuse for slutty behavior.

Post: #6

The only girls I can see giving the pity fuck are genuinely nice girls who just give in to a guy they feel sorry for... maybe a guy friend of a girl who knows he's having a dry spell? Who wants a pathetic pity fuck? That's the epitome of beta.

Post: #7

They definitely do happen, but do you really want to be on the receiving end of one?

It doesn't matter how hot the girl is, the answer is no. Pity fucks are to end dryspells and are basically a girl saying 'You're pathetic, but you're my friend so I'll throw you a bone...because you're so pathetic.'

Post: #8

(10-13-2011 04:35 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  They definitely do happen, but do you really want to be on the receiving end of one?

It doesn't matter how hot the girl is, the answer is no. Pity fucks are to end dryspells and are basically a girl saying 'You're pathetic, but you're my friend so I'll throw you a bone...because you're so pathetic.'

how do you distinguish if one is a pity fuck? do pity fucks straight up entail you asking her to fuck you because youre in a dry spell?

Post: #9

A long time ago, when I was sophomore in college, I was given a pity fuck. I was mess then. But after I fucked her -- for two hours -- she said to me, I can't believe you can't find a woman. She was a cutie.

Then one day, I stopped by her house, she was gone, but her roommate was there. Horn rimmed glasses, stringy hair, and really not all attractive. She made me some tea, sat on the couch next to me, put her hand on my knee while we were talking. We stopped talking, she looked at me, and said, "Kathy said you were phenomenal in bed." And so I fucked her too.

It was a two-fer pity fuck.

Post: #10

(10-13-2011 04:35 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  They definitely do happen, but do you really want to be on the receiving end of one?

It doesn't matter how hot the girl is, the answer is no. Pity fucks are to end dryspells and are basically a girl saying 'You're pathetic, but you're my friend so I'll throw you a bone...because you're so pathetic.'

Interesting question. Let's re-frame it. Do I care why a chick I want to bang is spreading her legs for me? That falls into the category of trying to understand women. Fuck that.

How would you know it's a pity fuck? She would pretty much have to say so outright. I don't see that happening. Plow on. YMMV.