Post: #1

Lived in houston for a couple years and had a girlfriend, we broke up right before i moved away. Since then I've visited and banged girls that i had no idea had a thing for me but always had, so that is nice. Anyway this parcitular hb that i always thought was cute and half ass gamed when i was in a relationship, i accidentally texted her one day thinking it was someone else, but lo and behold it was yet another one that always had a thing for me and she started hitting me up real hard, but at the same time any time i tried make plans she was iffy. so i stopped talking to her for a good week and a half and restarted it with a different approach, she accepted but i have a feeling there may be a 60/40 flake probability in my favor, which is whatever ive got other things to hit up there, but, any particular tips you guys have for sealing this date. and if it is sealed any tips you have to lay this girl in the 24 hour period im there? she also lives with a beta who i know, which im not quite sure if thats going to cause problems or not. he also doesnt know we are talking to eachother since i think hes one of those who thinks if they move in with a girl theyll eventually bang her. also i have no reliable place to take her on my own.

tell me whats up

jboy

Post: #2

.... ok then no help haha, but went there thursday and ended up banging one of her good friends whos roomate she works with. went out with her on saturday (original target), it went well but no kiss but we do have another date planned this weekend. but saturday night i went out to the bars and she went and partied with her friends and ended up at a house of 4 girls (where i banged thursday girl at), one of which is my best friends girlfriend so she knows what im up to, 2 more roomates who i have banged within the last month, and another one which i want to bang just to complete the circle but really isnt feeling me, maybe ill make another post some time to see what you guys think about that one.

THANKS FOR ALL THE HELP

Post: #3

oh yea, and the reason i mentioned she ended up at that house is because im pretty sure i was a topic of conversation due to my endeavors thrursday night, yet she still accepted a second date.

Post: #4

what's the consensus if you find out she lives out of town a ways after chatting her up? I was talking to this really young looking girl today at the bookstore...I thought she was in high school until I found out it was jr. college. She was pretty cute...but she lives like 90 minutes away and goes to jr. college there. As she put it she was just "passing through"

So....I just had a good convo with her....she was quite friendly....but I didn't go for the number because of the out of town logistics. Ejected after talking 7 or 8 minutes. ( I think the fact that she was so young subconsciously effected me too as I'm a bit older ) Is it worth it going for these numbers or are they usually dead ends?

Post: #5

(11-21-2014 03:55 PM)robreke Wrote:  what's the consensus if you find out she lives out of town a ways after chatting her up? I was talking to this really young looking girl today at the bookstore...I thought she was in high school until I found out it was jr. college. She was pretty cute...but she lives like 90 minutes away and goes to jr. college there. As she put it she was just "passing through"

So....I just had a good convo with her....she was quite friendly....but I didn't go for the number because of the out of town logistics. Ejected after talking 7 or 8 minutes. ( I think the fact that she was so young subconsciously effected me too as I'm a bit older ) Is it worth it going for these numbers or are they usually dead ends?

In general, strike when the iron is hot.

Depending on your connection when you met her, you can always long game her.

So if you had a good instadate or a really awesome conversation long game is an option.

Krauser has a whole chapter in his book about it, cause it's a common situation in Europe/for travelers.

But long game, seduction, is text/phone heavy. But it's a different sort of texting than local texting.

Local chicks - the push is to meet up
Long Distance chicks - the push is to get them to invest. Conversations, Pics,

After she invests and wants the D, then you make a trip.

And you can still get burned.

I'm sure i've told this one a bunch. A chick i'd already banged multiple times, she had a thing for me, got me to buy an airplane ticket. And a couple weeks before our weekend fuck fest, SHE FOUND GOD.

Sonuvabitch. Cockblocked by Jesus. I tried everything to get back that loving feeling, but to no avail.

We're still cool, but I'll never forget how she fucked me over by not fucking me.

WIA

Post: #6

Quote:We're still cool, but I'll never forget how she fucked me over by not fucking me.

Spit out my coffee reading this line lol

Post: #7

(11-21-2014 04:11 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 03:55 PM)robreke Wrote:  what's the consensus if you find out she lives out of town a ways after chatting her up? I was talking to this really young looking girl today at the bookstore...I thought she was in high school until I found out it was jr. college. She was pretty cute...but she lives like 90 minutes away and goes to jr. college there. As she put it she was just "passing through"

So....I just had a good convo with her....she was quite friendly....but I didn't go for the number because of the out of town logistics. Ejected after talking 7 or 8 minutes. ( I think the fact that she was so young subconsciously effected me too as I'm a bit older ) Is it worth it going for these numbers or are they usually dead ends?

In general, strike when the iron is hot.

Depending on your connection when you met her, you can always long game her.

So if you had a good instadate or a really awesome conversation long game is an option.

Krauser has a whole chapter in his book about it, cause it's a common situation in Europe/for travelers.

But long game, seduction, is text/phone heavy. But it's a different sort of texting than local texting.

Local chicks - the push is to meet up
Long Distance chicks - the push is to get them to invest. Conversations, Pics,

After she invests and wants the D, then you make a trip.

And you can still get burned.

I'm sure i've told this one a bunch. A chick i'd already banged multiple times, she had a thing for me, got me to buy an airplane ticket. And a couple weeks before our weekend fuck fest, SHE FOUND GOD.

Sonuvabitch. Cockblocked by Jesus. I tried everything to get back that loving feeling, but to no avail.

We're still cool, but I'll never forget how she fucked me over by not fucking me.

WIA

Solid^ In retrospect...I probably could have lead this girl into an instadate and who knows....gauged if she was DTF. She seemed so young and open.

With these kinds of interactions, I honestly believe the girl may just be so naïve and inexperienced....she thinks I'm just a totally friendly stranger who is really interested in the book I asked her about. Of course...that's where attraction comes in. I probably could have gotten an insta coffee date and perhaps done something from there.

And the 'strike while the iron is hot' is great advice. Case in point; not 10 minutes later in the same bookstore, I chatted up a tall 26 year old red head school teacher who's a local: ON paper a much better match for me. Only problem: While talking in an optimistic animated tone of voice...She was seemed to offer short answers offering nothing in return to the conversation....offering short answers...and , I felt disrespected me by sitting down on the floor and puling a book out and reading it as I was trying to talk to her. I just don't appreciate that kind of dismissiveness so I bailed.

the out of town college student on the other hand...a delight to talk to. Lesson learned.

Post: #8

Red head was talking, but not necessarily open.

Professional talkers are like Hired Guns in that they give you false positives, but expect you to take not-so-obvious social clues that they aren't interested.

In some respects, the RSD mindset of 'burn it to the ground" is ideal for these kinds of chicks.

Most guys who don't get traction slink off with their heads held high but tail between their legs.

Since you're already losing, throw that hail mary.

"Yeah, so that's how I rescued those kittens from the Checnyan Army...so lemme get your # so I can take you out sometime"

Make her so No to you, rather than the let it go unsaid. Force her answer.

1) you'll get #'s - so you can practice the getting the # sequence.
2) you'll sometimes get good #'s because you underestimate your own game/effect
3) you'll get used to pushing a conversation where it doesn't want to go.
4) you'll get over your fear of rejection faster

You can precede the # question/instadate request with a yes ladder, but the whole point of pushing the interaction is to push YOURSELF.

WIA

Post: #9

"Yeah , so that's how I rescued those kittens from the Chechnyan Army" : Ha Ha...... F'ing Love it!

What is "RSD" ?

I like the scorched earth policy you're endorsing. Will do. Maybe over come the girl's "playing hard to get game" with "bulldozing testosterone-fueled hail mary game"

Gonna do it. Might as well in these situations. WTF?