Post: #26

(02-14-2019 02:46 AM)Broadband Wrote:  I think it's as much personal preference as it is societal conditioning. I'm very much a no hair guy personally and with women. I find having extra hair itchy, annoying and lastly a turnoff. Because I'm not a fan of it on myself you'd have to assume those preferences project to women I'm dating. Yes I prefer shaved completely below the neck, myself to a lesser extent included.

When I was 19 I met a girl from Japan and she was very much into me. She ended up naked on top of me so wet I could see her juices dripping down her pubic hair which was very much what you'd expect from a Japanese women through porn. I was so taken aback that I couldn't go through with it. Now at an older age I miss the lost flag and the eventual "what-ifs" however my preference has never waned.

Regardless I've found that unless my expectations match my own effort requiring it unfair. I want thin therefore I am thin. I want successful therefore I am successful. Same thing with body hair. If there is something in a mate I desire if I'm unwilling or unable to match that I need to change my expectations or myself.

While I'm not saying a hairy guy can't date a smoothly shaved woman, he can't expect her to have a higher or equal level of personal hygiene than himself without possible issues. You're a hypocrite otherwise and yes there is always middle ground but I prefer my starting point to be on a similar level.

She probably thought you were gay.

Post: #27

It's not an open and shut case.

The AMOUNT of pubic hair a woman will grow if left ungroomed varies widely.

IMHO, the kind of women whose pubic hair doesn't grow that thick or spread that far are hotter than women who are fully groomed but you can tell by the stubble pattern would be a hairy monster. So while I prefer shaved, the sparser/finer pubic hair is a much more effective feminine "tell".

The same is true of leg hair. You can tell from how rough the stubble is how thick their leg hair would be if they didn't shave. The ones that would naturally only grow light leg hair have the smoothest shaved legs (not that I would tolerate actual leg hair).

Post: #28

(02-12-2019 04:39 AM)Kieran Wrote:  I'm 35 so I didn't grow up with porn. I didn't even go on the internet until I was 16, and even then it was at college so I wasn't looking at porn. Therefore my standards for what I like developed more naturally and I grew up to prefer hairy pussies.

I come across plenty of 18-25 year olds that are unshaven, they often apologise for it though.

I also don't shave or trim my pubes. I always get head and have never had a girl complain. I reckon it's more of an American thing.

Your pubes hit her clit if you get it right. I dont mind either shaved or hairy to be honest on girls, the more important thing is that she has big pussy lips. I don't like girls with tiny lips and clits

Post: #29

I'm early 30s, about a decade ago I was on #teamshaven girls.
Now, I don't care. By the time i get the panties off I'm more concerned with smell and how wet she is than whether she shaved this morning.
I'm not big on going down on girls, so no concerns there.

I do think a girl having some pubic hair is more intimate when you are in a relationship, not crazy jungle bush but a trimmed patch.