Post: #1

The other day at work I entered a room looking for something. There were 3 girls talking. One of them I had asked her out in the past, but she flaked on me.
Anyway I didn't pay them any attention. I suddenly notice that the flaky girl tossed the paper towel, that she had dried her hands with (after washing her hands), at me to catch my attention. It didn't look dirty, but I consider that trash. After that she was all smiling and didn't look passive aggressive, she also started talking to her friends about me (how she has to put up with me etc., just to tease me). We don't work in the same dept, so we rarely see each other, so her "putting up with me" was bs comments

What do you guys think my answer should have been when she tossed the paper towel? You guys think it was a shit test?
I am not sure if I will pursue this girl because of work situation, but I want to learn the answers for these kind of situations in general.

Maybe Roosh should create a sticky for answers to shit tests.

Post: #2

Stuff it down her shirt. If you don't top her, you'll come off as weak.

Post: #3

Sounds like something a fucking 12 year old would do. If it were me, I would have been annoyed and just walked away without even acknowledging her presence. Personally, I've got no time for little girls who play stupid games like that, ESPECIALLY if she flaked on you already.

Post: #4

It would help to know more about these girls (especially age) and the setting. Why are you running into a girl who flaked on you? How did she flake?

Post: #5

Their age early to mid 20s, the flake girl mid 20s. They were taking a break in the break room, all standing and chatting.
I run into them because I work with them, but in different departments.

She gave a bullshit reason for flake at that time, she offered to get together for drinks the next day with me and one of her male friends (?beta orbiter), I declined and did not contact her again.

Post: #6

(10-05-2011 02:12 AM)Gilgamesh Wrote:  Their age early to mid 20s, the flake girl mid 20s. They were taking a break in the break room, all standing and chatting.
I run into them because I work with them, but in different departments.

She gave a bullshit reason for flake at that time, she offered to get together for drinks the next day with me and one of her male friends (?beta orbiter), I declined and did not contact her again.

Good man.

Post: #7

(10-04-2011 11:12 AM)Gilgamesh Wrote:  The other day at work I entered a room looking for something. There were 3 girls talking. One of them I had asked her out in the past, but she flaked on me.
Anyway I didn't pay them any attention. I suddenly notice that the flaky girl tossed the paper towel, that she had dried her hands with (after washing her hands), at me to catch my attention. It didn't look dirty, but I consider that trash. After that she was all smiling and didn't look passive aggressive, she also started talking to her friends about me (how she has to put up with me etc., just to tease me). We don't work in the same dept, so we rarely see each other, so her "putting up with me" was bs comments

What do you guys think my answer should have been when she tossed the paper towel? You guys think it was a shit test?
I am not sure if I will pursue this girl because of work situation, but I want to learn the answers for these kind of situations in general.

Maybe Roosh should create a sticky for answers to shit tests.

She was giving you attention and even though she was teasing she wanted attention from you. So she was baiting you to hit on her or tease her more. If you think it will be a waste of time u did the right thing by ignoring.

Post: #8

Flirt fail, nothing more.

I do think "shit test" is overused. There's no point in labeling every stupid thing a woman does a test.