Post: #26

3 dates 2 months with a girl on SA? Bro you gotta move the fuck on - this bitch is time raping you.

Plenty of other SA Thots out there you could've banged out with those 3 other meetings you had with this bitch.

You really believe a bitch "deleted" her account? You didn't think she may have another account or will jump back on at any minute?

These bitches are straight up tricks, NEVER forget where you met these hoes from. ALWAYS treat em like any other girl on that site.

Shit I've never used that site but I could've seen this scenario from a mile away on the first date.

Noir, PT, and ROR gave some absolute killer advice.


Player's take notice, SA ain't for the faint of heart, and dudes need airtight killer game, it's a cold world with those bitches on there.

Post: #27

Yeah, I know I fucked this up by falling into her frame from the start... maybe not a complete chode but my game has been uncharacteristically weak of late. Unfortunately it’s been a bit of a dry spell for the last couple of weeks, I’ve been focusing more on long term growth (working out, social circle development, photography) without much time for the grind of online dating.

I’m going on vacation for a week starting Sunday so I’ll put her on ice until I get back and then figure out what to do... time to shit or get off the pot. Tell her the truth; that I feel like I’m getting played and that she needs to show she’s serious by taking some D before any dinner invitations are forthcoming.

Post: #28

Dry spell = lowered expectations and weakening of frame - all to get some pussy.

Question is, why isn't your wife helping you with your sexual needs?


Keep working on yourself, that's awesome you're staying on that.

Enjoy your vacation and try to reset your mindset.

Fucking around on the side of your marriage is your business, I'm sure you keep your shit airtight.


I've read through alot of the SA posts on here and you need to have your killer instincts running at all times with these girls.

Like was written if you're seen as a run of the middle nice guy with perks - they just see a schmuck with resources they want to access.

Don't ever be that guy.

Post: #29

(10-30-2018 12:47 PM)goodington Wrote:  Yeah, I know I fucked this up by falling into her frame from the start... maybe not a complete chode but my game has been uncharacteristically weak of late. Unfortunately it’s been a bit of a dry spell for the last couple of weeks, I’ve been focusing more on long term growth (working out, social circle development, photography) without much time for the grind of online dating.

I’m going on vacation for a week

You stepped up to bat in the major leagues and faced a major league pitcher. At least you had the wherewithal to question your results.

(10-30-2018 11:57 AM)kaotic Wrote:  Player's take notice, SA ain't for the faint of heart, and dudes need airtight killer game, it's a cold world with those bitches on there.

If you plan to continue in this arena id suggest reading through the original SA thread from the beginning. There's a lot of "best practices' info there

Post: #30

(10-29-2018 09:44 PM)goodington Wrote:  Probably a 9 [...] We met through SA [...]

she came straight over to my place for a glass of wine [...] a week later: we went out for a casual dinner and some drinks [...] Third “date”: she brings a few outfits, sort of sexy but classy vibe. We do the shoot and eat a charcuterie plate I made up quickly [...]

What the hell is going on and how to do I get out of this purgatory?

glass of wine = $4
dinner/drinks = $40
cheese/ham = $6

Grand total = $50. Man, you're cheap.

If I were a 9 on SA I wouldn't let you hold my Lanvin Trapeze Calf Hair Small Tote bag, price tagged at $3,450 when I'm going to the loo, for fear you'd miraculously evaporate with it. Add two zeros to the $50, then we're talking. By definition, SA is a sponsor serchee's site. No true 9 will spread her legs for a $50, then she wouldn't be a true 9.

Post: #31

(10-30-2018 01:27 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(10-29-2018 09:44 PM)goodington Wrote:  Probably a 9 [...] We met through SA [...]

she came straight over to my place for a glass of wine [...] a week later: we went out for a casual dinner and some drinks [...] Third “date”: she brings a few outfits, sort of sexy but classy vibe. We do the shoot and eat a charcuterie plate I made up quickly [...]

What the hell is going on and how to do I get out of this purgatory?

glass of wine = $4
dinner/drinks = $40
cheese/ham = $6

Grand total = $50. Man, you're cheap.

If I were a 9 on SA I wouldn't let you hold my Lanvin Trapeze Calf Hair Small Tote bag, price tagged at $3,450 when I'm going to the loo, for fear you'd miraculously evaporate with it. Add two zeros to the $50, then we're talking. By definition, SA is a sponsor serchee's site. No true 9 will spread her legs for a $50, then she wouldn't be a true 9.

No disrespect but what you just wrote does absolutely JackShit for OP! I have absolutely no experience nor the desire to Game on SA, so I just read & learn on this thread.
I suggest all peeps without the experience do the same unless OP is clearly messing up on the Fundamentals. SA Game is a whole other Beast Man!

Post: #32

Btw this just crossed my mind! OP's married... and got 30 SA Flag... and still a bitch was able to get him off his Game a little! I can only imagine the damage some of these Hoes are doing to dudes who are All money No Game on the Site? Ouch!!

Post: #33

(10-30-2018 02:05 PM)Captain Gh Wrote:  Btw this just crossed my mind! OP's married... and got 30 SA Flag... and still a bitch was able to get him off his Game a little! I can only imagine the damage some of these Hoes are doing to dudes who are All money No Game on the Site? Ouch!!

A fool and his money are soon parted my friend.

Post: #34

(10-30-2018 10:57 AM)goodington Wrote:  

(10-30-2018 10:47 AM)BlastbeatCasanova Wrote:  Just curious, between being married and (I'm assuming) being employed, how do you have time for this shit? She's been over to your place twice, how have you coordinated this with your wife not being there? If I were you, my paranoia and fear of being caught would've killed my game.

Three interactions and no serious escalation doesn't sound good, sounds like she knows you're on the hook and is milking it. I'd say give her a freeze out for a couple of days and see how she responds.

When I say "my place" I don't actually mean my home, it's a condo in the city. These three interactions have been spread out over around 2 months... first time I think I said I had a client dinner, second time I was supposed to be at a pre party before the club, and last time I was getting the place ready for a real estate photoshoot. I don't want to reveal too much, but my life is set up so that it's pretty easy for me to coordinate this kind of thing.

Word. Well play on, player, I hope to see a post soon about how you invaded that sweet slime hole.

Post: #35

Damn right I’m cheap! This is why I wonder why this girl has stuck around this long, clearly I have money but I’m probably the tightest fuck she’s ever met. I do a lot of screening on SA so actual gold diggers usually don’t bother with me.

That being said, the dinner/drinks was more like $200 all-in for two of us (my chicken fingers were like $18.99 plus tax and tip, this city is expensive) and a couple of rounds of shots and drinks for 4 (her friends ordered these retarded novelty sized drinks that are like a huge Bellini with a small bottle of Prosecco dumped in upside down). Last night I made a smoked salmon plate which was probably 10-15 bucks for all the stuff, and she wasn’t drinking so I bought a bottle of sparkling juice for $5. A bottle of booze in a club costs over $300 here, which I never do.

After reviewing the photos I’m going to downgrade her to an 8.5, amazing body but kind of a weird face.

Post: #36

(10-30-2018 02:30 PM)goodington Wrote:  This is why I wonder why this girl has stuck around this long

That's the wrong kind of thinking.

It should be: "Why have I stuck around this long?"

Post: #37

(10-30-2018 02:30 PM)goodington Wrote:  This is why I wonder why this girl has stuck around this long

Why wouldn't she? She's getting attention, validation, and free shit.

Post: #38

^ There's the naked truth right there.

Like in any game when your fundamentals are wrong your results can be nothing but the same.

OP you say dont have oneitis but what you do have is her on a looks pedestal (hottest you ever had to bang) and an above average chick that's been leveraging her looks since she was pre-teen can smell male thirst like a shark smells a one part per billion drop of blood in the water.

Post: #39

Very true. I see these weird glimmers of a quality person from her sometimes... like last night she took all the dirty dishes and put them in my dishwasher when she had to go. Small things like that. But we’re not friends, so there has to be more than that.

Post: #40

(10-30-2018 02:39 PM)goodington Wrote:  Very true. I see these weird glimmers of a quality person from her sometimes... like last night she took all the dirty dishes and put them in my dishwasher when she had to go. Small things like that.

Once again you need to remind yourself of WHERE you met this time rapist.

Secondly, don't ever be fooled, she's selling you a fantasy. That way you open up to her, it's part of her hoe camouflage - that "she's not like all those others on SA"

Does that line sound familiar?

A player with glimmers of hope (feelz) of finding a quality woman on SA is fooling himself.

I banged a few girls who I found out after admitted they were/on on SA, in particular there was this young 21 year old little freak of a milf who would always stop off at my place and get fucked by me, drop a hot load down her throat (only 1 drink on the first date)....and then go meet her SA dates.

Post: #41

(10-30-2018 02:39 PM)goodington Wrote:  Very true. I see these weird glimmers of a quality person from her sometimes... like last night she took all the dirty dishes and put them in my dishwasher when she had to go. Small things like that. But we’re not friends, so there has to be more than that.

Oh for fuck's sake...

Girl game on point!

Post: #42

Rents coming up soon...bet she offers to cook for you this week OP

Post: #43

God damn... Chad probably doesn’t even have a dishwasher.

I have no delusions, I’m sure she’s done her fair share of slutty behavior in the past, and have no desire to find a quality woman. I love depraved sluts. My problem is that I seem to give off this weird vibe - not a provider, but not a fuckboy either. LTR material. How can I fix this?

Post: #44

PT I’m probably a way better cook than she is. Girls can’t cook for shit these days, and my personal insta is mostly cooking related. Like I said, I’m the perfect LTR guy who happens to be married to someone else.

Post: #45

(10-30-2018 02:56 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  

(10-30-2018 02:39 PM)goodington Wrote:  Very true. I see these weird glimmers of a quality person from her sometimes... like last night she took all the dirty dishes and put them in my dishwasher when she had to go. Small things like that. But we’re not friends, so there has to be more than that.

Oh for fuck's sake...

Girl game on point!

Dude I consider myself beginner and I had girls cook for me and even put my clothes in the closet for me.
The moment they do this, I know they are hunting for LTR or whatever

Post: #46

Oh and she’s living with a friend right now while trying to find a new place, so I’m assuming she’s not even paying rent. Not a peep yet about me helping out, she said she’s looking but it’s a tight market (true) and she just got laid off (also true) so who knows. We hardly text so I don’t really know what’s going on.

Post: #47

(10-30-2018 03:17 PM)goodington Wrote:  Oh and she’s living with a friend right now while trying to find a new place, so I’m assuming she’s not even paying rent. Not a peep yet about me helping out, she said she’s looking but it’s a tight market (true) and she just got laid off (also true) so who knows. We hardly text so I don’t really know what’s going on.

You've got oneitis for this chick dude - it's obvious because you made a thread about it and you've responded quite a bit with updates on here.

I really hope you're pursuing other leads....

Post: #48

What can I say, slow day at work and I don’t like being told no. I have about a half dozen other leads so I’ll be fine either way.

Post: #49

I just noticed this in the OP

Quote:Just shy of 20k instagram followers

Lol.

Post: #50

(10-30-2018 03:35 PM)goodington Wrote:  What can I say, slow day at work and I don’t like being told no. I have about a half dozen other leads so I’ll be fine either way.

She hasn't said "no". You just dont know how to make her say "Yes Please fuck me daddy"

I alluded to it before but your thirst / oneitis / pussy pedestal-ization is undoubtedly leaking into your "game".

Her real "Daddy" who up until recently was paying for her apt and was actually getting a regular slice of that IG pussy. He probably moved on to a new bang for his bucks

She almost certainly has some second tier chodes that pay for cell ph, gym membership, etc. (bet she has designer bags, shoes, sunglasses... right?)

She's playing you for perks.

You and a handful of other low level orbiters are "Aflacs"...supplemental insurance that cover drinks, appetizers, Uber rides etc. All part of the farm system that might generate the next real daddy

Meanwhile dudes like Noir , Cattle Rustler, DonnyGately or DeepDiver (to mention a few) are shooting loads down her willing throat on the first date and discarding her like a used jizz rag